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Since: Oct 12

Kannapolis, NC

#1 Oct 4, 2012
Im 22 a single mom. I have noticed I am obsessed about sex if im not thinking about it im having it and I've had crazy fantasies about having sex with 2 guys at once and here lately even a guy and a girl..im all about crazy hot rough sex but want something new ..just curious ..always wanting to try new things...how do u actually go by saying hey wanna have sex with me plus one? And how do u find a plus one without it being odd? Or is this whole fantasy just odd lol
Sgt suspended disbelief

Jasper, AL

#3 Oct 4, 2012
quiet-ones wrote:
Im 22 a single mom. I have noticed I am obsessed about sex if im not thinking about it im having it and I've had crazy fantasies about having sex with 2 guys at once and here lately even a guy and a girl..im all about crazy hot rough sex but want something new ..just curious ..always wanting to try new things...how do u actually go by saying hey wanna have sex with me plus one? And how do u find a plus one without it being odd? Or is this whole fantasy just odd lol
it is way easier than you'd think. It is normal to want to explore. My wife and I have never really had trouble. If your really curious about how to go about it I will give our methods. Bc you don't really want to come out and just ask that out right. While your with your bf or guy and foreplay is in swing ask him his fantasies and then tell him yours. If he is down and wants to assist you just be flirty when you are with someone else. Male or female. I'll tell you from experience it is better with friends. We don't like "dating" sites. Truth or dare is an excellent mood setter. Just start daring more and more sexual dares. We have had 3 ways with more people than I can count that way. People I'd never expected to be into it. One girl we both thought would be totally against the idea said afterwards "I really hoped this would happen". People love sex, most just conceal their feelings.why? Idk!
Sgt suspended disbelief

Jasper, AL

#5 Oct 4, 2012
Another fully successful method we have discovered is when you and your partner are looking for a 3rd and you have found someone who is receptive to your flirts, rent a movie get a blanket and snuggle on a couch with them both. During the movie place your hand on their legs, move your hand slowly up their thighs to their "wink wink" then progress from there bc if the 3rd hasn't stopped you by then he is ready to go all the way. My wife's favorite time is a time like this. We did the movie couch blanket thing and she got cold feet. After the movie we were chatting still covered and I slowly unbuttoned her shirt and then also slowly pulled down the cover exposing her to him. We kind of just dove in at that point and he has been one we have been with for years.

Since: Oct 12

Kannapolis, NC

#6 Oct 4, 2012
You make it sound so easy I could see him willing for another girl..guy I doubt it..but getting the third person is what I believe will be a challenge. Do you think this has improved your marrige or would you say it put a strain on it?
Sgt suspended disbelief

Jasper, AL

#7 Oct 4, 2012
Well we married at 17, my wife is in fact celebrating her 30th today. After 3 straight days together, no work to do just being together, we were sad and teary eyed as she left for work. We do everything together. It is as if we are still teens in love. We have been having kinky sex since day one. The key is communication. I know, cliche, but not regular communication. It's important to soul search together. No walls built up over shame or guilt for what you want. In A real marriage or relationship you should be able to go to your partner and say anything and they react with only curiosity. No judgement. But that all comes from the most pure of honesty. It's easy to want this bit really hard to do it. I can almost guarantee he would want it. your real concern would be his feelings of jealousy, or inadequacy. They're kinda the same but they do affect the outcome. You have to assure him how much you love him and how special he is. Also let him know why you want it. Talk it out, on the deepest level. Explore multiple possible outcomes and be sure it won't hurt him for you to be with someone else. I would suggest bringing it up during foreplay and playing with a vibrator and have him tell you what he'd like it to be like. Remember also this is just for shi ts and giggles bc the real thing almost never goes with the fantasy. Our philosophy is to try anything once and resign to not be angry with other no matter the outcome. Then if we don't like it we don't do that again.
Sgt suspended disbelief

Jasper, AL

#8 Oct 4, 2012
Sgt suspended disbelief wrote:
Well we married at 17, my wife is in fact celebrating her 30th today. After 3 straight days together, no work to do just being together, we were sad and teary eyed as she left for work. We do everything together. It is as if we are still teens in love. We have been having kinky sex since day one. The key is communication. I know, cliche, but not regular communication. It's important to soul search together. No walls built up over shame or guilt for what you want. In A real marriage or relationship you should be able to go to your partner and say anything and they react with only curiosity. No judgement. But that all comes from the most pure of honesty. It's easy to want this bit really hard to do it. I can almost guarantee he would want it. your real concern would be his feelings of jealousy, or inadequacy. They're kinda the same but they do affect the outcome. You have to assure him how much you love him and how special he is. Also let him know why you want it. Talk it out, on the deepest level. Explore multiple possible outcomes and be sure it won't hurt him for you to be with someone else. I would suggest bringing it up during foreplay and playing with a vibrator and have him tell you what he'd like it to be like. Remember also this is just for shi ts and giggles bc the real thing almost never goes with the fantasy. Our philosophy is to try anything once and resign to not be angry with other no matter the outcome. Then if we don't like it we don't do that again.
you have to be honest with yourself as well. Really honest. It's a little like a chore but also a great bonding experience to talk about it while foreplay is going and then after ejaculation, bc people's "oh, I want to do that!" factOr drastically Change during those times. If he says no, don't be afraid to ask why. It may be that at the core of his answer is a fear that you will like another better or that you will develop feelings for the other. That is a natural reaction and. An fairly easily be talked through.

Since: Oct 12

Boiling Springs, SC

#9 Oct 4, 2012
So I let my guy read this and got a funny look and no comment ...what now
Sgt suspended disbelief

Jasper, AL

#10 Oct 5, 2012
quiet-ones wrote:
So I let my guy read this and got a funny look and no comment ...what now
he said nothing? Did you ask how he felt about it? If he wanted it? Hated it, and why? Open the lines of communication girl. You have the want, so it is appropriate that you open the dialog. What is the kinkiest thing you have done with this guy? Also how long you two been together? Do you often get really nervous to talk to him about things?
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Since: Oct 12

Kannapolis, NC

#11 Oct 5, 2012
We ended up talking about it but he is not for it at all lol

Since: Oct 12

Kannapolis, NC

#12 Oct 5, 2012
We don't talk often I try constantly but he wont open up..but I kinda figured out why..but it's ok :)
Sgt suspended disbelief

Jasper, AL

#13 Oct 5, 2012
quiet-ones wrote:
We don't talk often I try constantly but he wont open up..but I kinda figured out why..but it's ok :)
sorry sweetheart! If you lived closer I'd help you. It's weird to me that he doesn't even want a fmf. May I ask why?

Since: Oct 12

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#14 Oct 5, 2012
What was his reasoning for not being interested or at least talk further about it? He should take your needs and wants into account too.
Sgt suspended disbelief

Jasper, AL

#15 Oct 5, 2012
dwwashere wrote:
What was his reasoning for not being interested or at least talk further about it? He should take your needs and wants into account too.
Greed!

Since: Oct 12

Albemarle, NC

#16 Oct 5, 2012
He has been sleeping with other people and I guess not taking things as serious as I am....and as long as his pleasures and fantasies are filled he doesn't feel mine should lol..he said I was a freak I told him he was a freak fir being a guy that didn't wanna do any of that lol..so now im ona hunt to find someone to help me acomplish my fantasy..is that wrong..
lyons88

Exeter, UK

#17 Oct 5, 2012
quiet-ones wrote:
He has been sleeping with other people and I guess not taking things as serious as I am....and as long as his pleasures and fantasies are filled he doesn't feel mine should lol..he said I was a freak I told him he was a freak fir being a guy that didn't wanna do any of that lol..so now im ona hunt to find someone to help me acomplish my fantasy..is that wrong..
no of course thats not wrong.il help you fullfill all your fantasies skype? Lyons884

Since: Oct 12

Albemarle, NC

#18 Oct 5, 2012
lyons88 wrote:
<quoted text>no of course thats not wrong.il help you fullfill all your fantasies skype? Lyons884
I don't have skype but maybe when I get off work I can try to make one?
lyons88

Exeter, UK

#19 Oct 5, 2012
quiet-ones wrote:
<quoted text> I don't have skype but maybe when I get off work I can try to make one?
what tym you finsh my skype is lyons884

Since: Oct 12

Albemarle, NC

#23 Oct 5, 2012
Do u happen to have tango?
Billie

Nieuwpoort, Belgium

#24 Oct 5, 2012
quiet-ones wrote:
Do u happen to have tango?
What you mean? The music?

Since: Oct 12

Albemarle, NC

#25 Oct 5, 2012
Billie wrote:
<quoted text>
What you mean? The music?
lol no its a phone app like skype

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