How long do men last in bed?

How long do men last in bed?

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Since: Mar 09

Campbell

#1 Mar 10, 2009
hey, wanna kno if all that one sees in porn movies where the guys go on humping the girl for hours on end, real?
How long do men last on an avg after penetration and before cumming?
My guys have usually lasted a max of about 10 mins - none of 'em were on drugs or any other medication - is it normal or am I missin something?
No fake bullshits pls...
No Fear

Rocky Hill, CT

#3 Mar 10, 2009
The older men get the longer we last. Just the natural process of life. Also it all depends on how much and what kind of foreplay, and how long since last ejaculation. Many variables play in.
nnemous

New Delhi, India

#4 Mar 10, 2009
No Fear wrote:
The older men get the longer we last. Just the natural process of life. Also it all depends on how much and what kind of foreplay, and how long since last ejaculation. Many variables play in.
I don't think previous ejaculation has any bearing on this. What I'm curious about is if after penetration (after foreplay etc is over) and constant thrusting, the man ejaculates in about 7-10 mins of penetration, is it normal or not? I know we can have foreplay, fingering, eating pussy etc for hours, but how long do men really last while humping hard, naturally?
RealityDealer

Columbus, OH

#6 Mar 11, 2009
nnemous wrote:
hey, wanna kno if all that one sees in porn movies where the guys go on humping the girl for hours on end, real?
How long do men last on an avg after penetration and before cumming?
My guys have usually lasted a max of about 10 mins - none of 'em were on drugs or any other medication - is it normal or am I missin something?
No fake bullshits pls...
EACH man is DIFFERENT.

How long a man can last, will be a large range.

Some men only 3 minutes, while there are men that can last 30 minutes or more.

Experience and penis muscle development (a test is the ability to stop urinating in the middle of the process) are factors too.

There are also a certain percentage of men that can ejaculate and orgasm, but NOT lose their erection.

A significant percentage of boys can do this, but many lose the ability once they start ejaculating sperm. However, it is estimated, that 5% or more of adult males retain this ability throughout life.
Crystal

Tuckahoe, NY

#7 Mar 11, 2009
My bf lasts about 10 minutes, but he stays hard, and we do it again and lasts longer, maybe 20 minutes.
Daves Not Here

Houston, TX

#9 Mar 11, 2009
I typically can last 20 minutes till I come, then stay hard another 10 more...

“Because you are... A puppet.”

Since: Sep 08

Long Island

#10 Mar 11, 2009
nnemous wrote:
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I don't think previous ejaculation has any bearing on this. What I'm curious about is if after penetration (after foreplay etc is over) and constant thrusting, the man ejaculates in about 7-10 mins of penetration, is it normal or not? I know we can have foreplay, fingering, eating pussy etc for hours, but how long do men really last while humping hard, naturally?
You would be incorrect. If a man ejaculates even only 30 minutes before penetration he will last much longer. Many doctors will tell men to ejaculate sometime before sex if they want to go longer. If I ejaculate on a regular basis, say for a few days before sex, then when it comes to the deed I can last much longer then ten minutes. There are other ways to increase time as well. Make sure the girl is not too tight for one. More friction means it is over quickly. Also do not let your man go into jackhammer mode until you are ready for him to finish. If he goes slowly for a while he will last much longer as well. Let him have a few seconds pause here and there and he will last longer as well.
nnemous

New Delhi, India

#11 Mar 12, 2009
Tzimisce wrote:
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You would be incorrect. If a man ejaculates even only 30 minutes before penetration he will last much longer. Many doctors will tell men to ejaculate sometime before sex if they want to go longer. If I ejaculate on a regular basis, say for a few days before sex, then when it comes to the deed I can last much longer then ten minutes. There are other ways to increase time as well. Make sure the girl is not too tight for one. More friction means it is over quickly. Also do not let your man go into jackhammer mode until you are ready for him to finish. If he goes slowly for a while he will last much longer as well. Let him have a few seconds pause here and there and he will last longer as well.
Hmmmm...interesting...next time will jerk my man off first n then start our love making session....btw does it then mean that the hour long jack-hammering they show on porn's all bull-sh*t? Can the guy train/practice to last longer?

“Because you are... A puppet.”

Since: Sep 08

Long Island

#12 Mar 12, 2009
nnemous wrote:
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Hmmmm...interesting...next time will jerk my man off first n then start our love making session....btw does it then mean that the hour long jack-hammering they show on porn's all bull-sh*t? Can the guy train/practice to last longer?
Absolutely. I suggest the Kama-Sutra for more information. There are many ways for a man to train himself to last longer. There are several breathing exorcises as well as mental exorcises a man can do.

As for porn remember it is film and edited. So yes it is mostly bull.
Jackson

AOL

#14 Mar 12, 2009
I am 49 and I usually need to thrust 20 to 40 minutes before I can have an orgasm, my gf actually comes in 10 minutes, so she has several orgasms usually, No I dont use ED drugs like Senator Dole. BTW my gf is very tight, she is Japanese American.

Since: Mar 09

Scottsbluff Live in Jamestown

#15 Mar 12, 2009
It seems that I may be the exception to the rule. My present GF like all the rest thought I was BSing when I said I can go for three hours, yes it has happened on more then one occasion Braveheart is a fairly lengthy movie and I have outlasted that movie on more then one occasion. It has to do a lot with self control. You ladies do know it is hard to not cum when you cum right? The spasms that your soft warm silky smooth walls do while trying to milk a guy dry is really hard to concentrate on not cumming.
Right now it is not so much anymore of the MARATHON sex as I have proved it, but we try to do that once a week. Oh by the way SATURDAY will be my 49th birthday she is 36 and I can still run circles around her.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#16 Mar 12, 2009
nnemous wrote:
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Hmmmm...interesting...next time will jerk my man off first n then start our love making session....btw does it then mean that the hour long jack-hammering they show on porn's all bull-sh*t? Can the guy train/practice to last longer?
yes, the porn is fake .. no one can go like a jackhammer for that long.

Most men can train themselves to last longer .. over an hour .. but they have to pace themselves and the hard jackhammer has to be done for only a few minutes then rest a bit ... THe best is for the man and woman to communicate and if she feels she is close to orgasms then he should go hard to make her orgasm ...

“On your knees”

Since: Nov 07

Location hidden

#17 Mar 12, 2009
Practicing edging techniques during masturbation helps men gain more control over their orgasms. I have seen men in their 40's through their 60's go hours - it is no BS. It takes practice. With younger men, changing positions more often can help them last longer - the stopping and starting over helps - plus it's fun.
wildone

Danbury, CT

#18 Mar 12, 2009
If im tried It will take me a long time to get off First thing in the morning it about 15 to 20 mins of penatration
Martha

Augusta, GA

#19 Mar 12, 2009
My man usually makes love for an hr and a half. he will penetrate me 4 or 5 times during this and go down on me and me on him, then right back in. lots of oral and penetration. he had 5 orgasms one night, but usually will have at least 2. and we make love this way about 3 x wk. And he is 58 and makes the young uns look pathetic. I have a hard time keeping up with him and i am only 42! and I'm in shape, a female body builder
REDMAN

United States

#20 Mar 12, 2009
Im 40, and I have no control. Even with my wife, which I know inside and out, I go within 2 minutes. If I would ever get a piece of strange, I would probably go before penetration. I've tried numming creams thinking of something else, blaaaa, blaaaaaaaa, blaaaaaa and nothing works. I've heard anti-depression drugs works wonders, but I don't know anyone I could get any from.

Since: Mar 09

Loveland, CO

#21 Mar 12, 2009
well see though if a guy sperms he can still stay hard as long as he still has contstant stimulation adn once the guy sperms he will last a lot longer but it has to have some constant stimulation

“PRETTY IN INK”

Since: Jan 09

Sac Town

#22 Mar 13, 2009
In my experiences, I prefer long foreplay and fairly quick "boinking" sessions. After about 15 to 20 minutes of boinking, I find myself getting real sore.

I actually got into anal out of necessity, to alleviate my soreness. My man, at the time, was like the energizer bunny. He would keep on going and going.

Wanting to ensure he was pleased, we experimented with anal, and I found he would cum quicker and I realized I liked it better too.

Silly as it may sound, I get less sore with anal than vaginal.
wildone

Danbury, CT

#23 Mar 13, 2009
Jennie27 wrote:
In my experiences, I prefer long foreplay and fairly quick "boinking" sessions. After about 15 to 20 minutes of boinking, I find myself getting real sore.
I actually got into anal out of necessity, to alleviate my soreness. My man, at the time, was like the energizer bunny. He would keep on going and going.
Wanting to ensure he was pleased, we experimented with anal, and I found he would cum quicker and I realized I liked it better too.
Silly as it may sound, I get less sore with anal than vaginal.
Most people use their butt muscles at least a few times a day so it might be more ready for extended play Where a Vagin@ does strech but ( in most people ) they dont strech it threw normal daily activities

Since: Jan 09

Round Lake, IL

#24 Mar 13, 2009
My beau goes anywhere from 10 mins on up. But he's lucky with me because I'm kind of like a guy in the sense that once I get mine, I'm generally good for the time being. Lol!
I prefer anywhere from 10-20 mins myself. I'm pretty easily satisfied. Ha ha!!!
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