Have you enjoyed been raped?

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Mar 27, 2012
 
Crazy it sounds. Five years ago, arm robbers came into our house and after collecting what they want. The leader started stroking his penis, pointing gun to my head. He had sex with me. Another member also took his turn. I felt degraded but a cool sensation. I ve always felt guilty

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Mar 27, 2012
 
I don't think any girl would like it,!!
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Mar 27, 2012
 
Well, rape is not consensual so, i would imagine most people do not enjoy it..

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Mar 27, 2012
 
Angel, it's fine to have more than one sensation over an event. Society will tell you that rape is bad and few people will disagree with that because for someone to force anything on another - let alone something as important as sex - is a violation.

However, that's society's correct reaction to the perpetrator, which is not correct when applied to a victim.

The victim can have a wide range of reactions. Some of them are immediate, some delayed for a few weeks and some don't kick in for years. Often, there is more than one overlapping reaction, which can often be confusing. Anything positive you feel about the experience can also be very hard to handle because people (as the above posters show) often confuse feelings about the perpetrator with feelings about the victim. Among everything else you feel, you have some positive impressions and although society tells you that's wrong, it really is wrong of society to deny your feelings, or to say that what anyone feels about anything is 'wrong' or 'bad'.

Women often enjoy knowing that they are sexually important enough for a man to risk something for. Whether it's a fight over her with another man, a break-up with a disapproving family, or a risk in forcing himself on her, there is the message that most women want to know: they are sexually desirable.

The image of a 'caveman' dragging a woman back to his 'cave' is a common female fantasy .. but it is rape, whichever way you look at it. The desire to be wanted is built so deep into women that no amount of social conditioning can remove it.

You have had it confirmed in no uncertain terms that you are desirable. Don't be ashamed of some positives coming from the experience. You are who you are and it doesn't mean that the only man who can satisfy you will be a rapist, though a wimp is probably out, too.

What it can mean is that you need a man who will reinforce the message in your mind that he finds you desirable. Not just by dating you and giving you valentine cards but in ways that make you feel powerless to resist his need and desire for you - without having to resort to raping you. Any long-term lover you have should be given the chance to understand this about you. In the meantime, don't sell yourself short and don't imagine that random sex will help: it will only make things worse.

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Mar 27, 2012
 
Two girls I know begged me to rape them,so I broke into their house one night and did it.left them ties up came back
In morning,still wet n horny.

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Mar 28, 2012
 
Interesdom wrote:
Angel, it's fine to have more than one sensation over an event. Society will tell you that rape is bad and few people will disagree with that because for someone to force anything on another - let alone something as important as sex - is a violation.
However, that's society's correct reaction to the perpetrator, which is not correct when applied to a victim.
The victim can have a wide range of reactions. Some of them are immediate, some delayed for a few weeks and some don't kick in for years. Often, there is more than one overlapping reaction, which can often be confusing. Anything positive you feel about the experience can also be very hard to handle because people (as the above posters show) often confuse feelings about the perpetrator with feelings about the victim. Among everything else you feel, you have some positive impressions and although society tells you that's wrong, it really is wrong of society to deny your feelings, or to say that what anyone feels about anything is 'wrong' or 'bad'.
Women often enjoy knowing that they are sexually important enough for a man to risk something for. Whether it's a fight over her with another man, a break-up with a disapproving family, or a risk in forcing himself on her, there is the message that most women want to know: they are sexually desirable.
The image of a 'caveman' dragging a woman back to his 'cave' is a common female fantasy .. but it is rape, whichever way you look at it. The desire to be wanted is built so deep into women that no amount of social conditioning can remove it.
You have had it confirmed in no uncertain terms that you are desirable. Don't be ashamed of some positives coming from the experience. You are who you are and it doesn't mean that the only man who can satisfy you will be a rapist, though a wimp is probably out, too.
What it can mean is that you need a man who will reinforce the message in your mind that he finds you desirable. Not just by dating you and giving you valentine cards but in ways that make you feel powerless to resist his need and desire for you - without having to resort to raping you. Any long-term lover you have should be given the chance to understand this about you. In the meantime, don't sell yourself short and don't imagine that random sex will help: it will only make things worse.
thank you so much for taking the time to explain. I ve always felt so gulty about out and find it difficult to tell anyone. My first time to ever express myself and i m glad that someone understand and believe me. Thank you. Such a big relief
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May 1, 2012
 
I was not happy that the guy went against my wishes when I told him no and he went ahead and pushed my shit in anyway. During though I loved it. Afterwards, I got the feeling of all the blood draining out my feet, my word didn't matter, I was just a fuck toy weather I like it or not.

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