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Steve

Cleckheaton, UK

#1 Jun 20, 2013
I'm a 43 year old guy who has never had sex. Sad I know, it's just never happened- I like to think I've just been unlucky!

In my youth I had chances but I was just too shy to 'convert' the talking with female friends to any action! I realise now I was also too fussy.

I have thought recently about joining up with some 'swingers' but I think that they wouldn't like a guy like me because I'm so inexperienced.

I could do with someone patient to make love to and show me the ropes.

Pathetic isnt it- Is there any chance for me or will I die a virgin!?
Steve

Bradford, UK

#2 Jun 20, 2013
Looks like I have my answer lol. Well they say you never miss what you've never had!

Since: Apr 12

Birmingham, AL

#3 Jun 20, 2013
You poor guy! I'm sure there's someone out there who would be happy to fu ck you. Join an online dating site or a hookup app or something. You can be proactive with this situation.

Since: Feb 13

UK

#4 Jun 20, 2013
Get onine dude, plenty of ladies out there looking for a shag
Steve

Bradford, UK

#5 Jun 20, 2013
slimpaul wrote:
Get onine dude, plenty of ladies out there looking for a shag
Problem is that they're all looking for someone who is good at it- not someone with no experience.

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#6 Jun 20, 2013
Steve wrote:
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Problem is that they're all looking for someone who is good at it- not someone with no experience.
I agree with the comments above.
Guess you not the only one in this situation,there will be women as well.
Join one be honest and see what happens.
Good luck
Steve

Bradford, UK

#7 Jun 20, 2013
I guess I'm not the only one in this situation- but I bet it's pretty rare!

If I find a girl I will just have to ' knock one out' before we have sex so that it won't be over too quick :-)

I will have to give it a go. Thanks everybody for your advice.
Steve

Bradford, UK

#8 Jun 20, 2013
I would be interested to know if anyone else on here is in the same boat male of female?
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jon870

Montréal, Canada

#9 Jun 20, 2013
I have a good friend male that is a 49 yr old virgin... and I also know a 43 yr woman a virgin... I believe it's more common than you might think.
Steve

Bradford, UK

#10 Jun 20, 2013
Good to know I'm not on my own. How do they feel about it- is it a choice thing or has it just not happened for them?
Steve

Bradford, UK

#11 Jun 20, 2013
Just been online and a girl is interested in seeing me! She says she's a bbw - don't know what that means -she sounds like a nice girl.
23yrMale

Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

#12 Jun 20, 2013
I am a virgin too.. am 23 yr old guy..:(
would like to have sex but never took much effort..:/
any advice to us virgins from non virgins?:)
Steve

Leeds, UK

#13 Jun 24, 2013
Okay. Met a girl online- we are meeting tonight for a few drinks- any advice??
achyfi

Arlington, MA

#14 Jun 24, 2013
Steve wrote:
Okay. Met a girl online- we are meeting tonight for a few drinks- any advice??
My advice is this: If you have waited 43 years for your first time, make sure it's a good one. That means picking someone you are attracted to and that you can feel some affection for, and who seems to genuinely like and care about you in return. That's unlikely to happen on a first date, needless to say.

Conversely, I wouldn't worry so much about being inexperienced. Every woman is different, so the most important thing is paying attention to what she likes, and being willing to make the effort to satisfy her. If you're concerned about coming too quickly, use your fingers and/or mouth to give her an orgasm before having intercourse - then she's unlikely to complain if you finish quickly once inside her.
achyfi

Arlington, MA

#15 Jun 24, 2013
23yrMale wrote:
I am a virgin too.. am 23 yr old guy..:(
would like to have sex but never took much effort..:/
any advice to us virgins from non virgins?:)
Your first time isn't always a mind-blowing experience from a purely physical perspective. That's why I recommend it should be with someone you feel at least a little mutual affection for. The pleasure of being initimate with someone you like can more than make up for any physical awkwardness.
Steve

Bradford, UK

#16 Jun 26, 2013
Well she didn't turn up. I'm thinking of going to a prostitute as its more about losing my cherry than finding a girlfriend really. Any on here?
Steve

Bradford, UK

#17 Jun 26, 2013
Anyone give me a sympathy shag?:-(
Dpool77

United States

#18 Jun 26, 2013
I was a virgin until I was 24(I'm 36 now). I know your pain. The best thing you can do is let it be known that you're a virgin. Women love it. It means you're disease free, and have no baby mama drama. Once it gets around that you're a virgin, women will line up to be the first to have you.
Steve

Bradford, UK

#20 Jun 26, 2013
I try keep it a secret because its soooo embarrassing!

Since: Nov 12

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#21 Jun 26, 2013
Steve wrote:
I try keep it a secret because its soooo embarrassing!
Come have a chat hun x

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