girl on top!

[racy_lacey]

someone teach me! haha i need new moves! whats your best?! how can i be really really great on top?? i feel like i suck really bad, hes never told me i do but i feel like i just suck. teaaach meeee.

[Wozz]

greeny wrote:

be my wife!

Mine too!

oh u live too far away :(

[racy_lacey]

Wozz wrote:

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Mine too!
oh u live too far away :(

awh, too bad. haha. no but seriously, that doesnt help me at allllll. lol.

[Battletoad]

Ask him while doing it I'd say, whether you should move here there, up down, left right, slow, fast, or whatever. The best technique is suiting your partner, I don't really think there's a, "Universal" way of being good at it.

[racy_lacey]

Battletoad wrote:

Ask him while doing it I'd say, whether you should move here there, up down, left right, slow, fast, or whatever. The best technique is suiting your partner, I don't really think there's a, "Universal" way of being good at it.

i dont think so either. i hate being on top though, i feel like im awful at it and it doesnt feel that good to me, i'd rather he lay me down and bang the shit outta me, haha. no, seriously.

[Battletoad]

racy_lacey wrote:

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i dont think so either. i hate being on top though, i feel like im awful at it and it doesnt feel that good to me, i'd rather he lay me down and bang the shit outta me, haha. no, seriously.

You're probably not bad, if you feel so, ask him if you should change it a little or something or other. Of course, I think you just think you're bad because it's not your preferable opinion, so you're probably assuming since you don't like it it's not doing him to good either, when you're probably satisfying him, but looking for more bottom action.

[racy_lacey]

Battletoad wrote:

<quoted text>You're probably not bad, if you feel so, ask him if you should change it a little or something or other. Of course, I think you just think you're bad because it's not your preferable opinion, so you're probably assuming since you don't like it it's not doing him to good either, when you're probably satisfying him, but looking for more bottom action.

you may just be right! i dont know though. how do you like it when a girls on top?

[racy_lacey]

greeny wrote:

titty boink you all night long sista

hellz ya! haha

[genevieve]

Being on top is sensational as you an control the speed, depth and rhythm...straddle his hip, knnes on either side and this will give you the stability that you need to start going. I have found placing my hands on my guy's chest to be the best because he loved the feeling and the increased view of my breasts as I am bent towards him. Then start slowly, lower yourself on top and use your legs to set the pace for how fast, go faster and faster while you clench around him tightening...then lean your body way back leaning your arms back while you are on an angle...this is usually great as when you lean your body back, your guy will have a full view of the action as he watches himself disappearing into you over and over ago and watching you bouncing away on it. Never fails to satisfy...

If it is a confident thing, go reverse so that you are doing the same thing but facing away. This is just as sexy as he will get a view of your nive bottom moving up and down....just be careful of a stray finger or two...

;)

[Battletoad]

racy_lacey wrote:

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you may just be right! i dont know though. how do you like it when a girls on top?

It's pretty much just as good anyway really, I mean, guys masturbate as if someone is on top, you could say. It's the same thing either way in my opinion, up and down goes a males sex organ, women have it differently though, it's all about in and out, so they have to find the right position, I can see why you like it laying down, more control of the penetration for extra pleasure.

The thing with us is, we're not about moving really(To an extent yes), because our penis does, where as with a women, since it's about GOING IN, she has to move her body to get it done right. I guess we have it easy. You probably like it laying down because you don't have to bounce up and down while he lays down like a comatose patient, since when laying down he gets to move his body and you can relax a little. Being on top does sound a little inconvenient for a girl, it's the visual guys like I think. Since a woman bouncing up and down just can't give the same penetration of a man handling his own stuff, you probably enjoy him putting some movement into it more. Of course, this is just me, anyone can be different really. Let's say you're 5' 4" with a normal body width, that's a lot to move around, a guy who has to move around a 10" at most(That's pretty huge.... So I'm going far up there) still has a lot less to maneuver, it's just a linear thing really, not an entire body. Think about it this way, if you had a sex toy(Dildo/vibrator) and you bounced up and down on it while it was standing with a pedestal like thing or something, it wouldn't be that penetrating, but if you layed down and used your hand with ultimate control, you'd feel it much more.

[Wozz]

hah well I love it when a girl is ontop and just takes control, goes all the way up and back down on my shaft. Don't just like it when she sits there and hardly moves or slides back and forth, I mean I know its tiring but if im ontop I do work, I dont just slide back and forth!
Well yeah thats my help for you

[WildStacy]

Battletoad wrote:

<quoted text>You're probably not bad, if you feel so, ask him if you should change it a little or something or other. Of course, I think you just think you're bad because it's not your preferable opinion, so you're probably assuming since you don't like it it's not doing him to good either, when you're probably satisfying him, but looking for more bottom action.

Very valid observation. I have a friend who hates to be on top because she is self concious of how she looks up there. SO she doesn't like it. It's usually just in your mind

[Battletoad]

"Of course, this is just me, anyone can be different really.".

By that I meant from the perspective of the man, for a woman, you'd have to judge, of course. In case that confused you on what sex I was.

[Battletoad]

genevieve wrote:

Being on top is sensational as you an control the speed, depth and rhythm...straddle his hip, knnes on either side and this will give you the stability that you need to start going. I have found placing my hands on my guy's chest to be the best because he loved the feeling and the increased view of my breasts as I am bent towards him. Then start slowly, lower yourself on top and use your legs to set the pace for how fast, go faster and faster while you clench around him tightening...then lean your body way back leaning your arms back while you are on an angle...this is usually great as when you lean your body back, your guy will have a full view of the action as he watches himself disappearing into you over and over ago and watching you bouncing away on it. Never fails to satisfy...
If it is a confident thing, go reverse so that you are doing the same thing but facing away. This is just as sexy as he will get a view of your nive bottom moving up and down....just be careful of a stray finger or two...
;)

Yeah, I agree, it's attractive for us guys to have that visual, but I can how having a more....eerrr....I don't know the word, but a correct position for ultimate control, I can understand the pleasure from a womans perspective. So I suggest switching around, everyone gets what they want. Just like oral sex... Of course, there's a pleasure(More so psychological) in giving just like receiving. But you still enjoy pleasuring someone, nothing wrong with switching positions.

[Battletoad]

Wozz wrote:

hah well I love it when a girl is ontop and just takes control, goes all the way up and back down on my shaft. Don't just like it when she sits there and hardly moves or slides back and forth, I mean I know its tiring but if im ontop I do work, I dont just slide back and forth!
Well yeah thats my help for you

Yeah, that's exactly how it is, for a guy it's nice for visual and just laying back and her having control, and the girl probably wants the same while laying down not having to work around and all that. Both are good, mutual satisfaction, everyone gets their fun.

[genevieve]

Battletoad wrote:

<quoted text>Yeah, I agree, it's attractive for us guys to have that visual, but I can how having a more....eerrr....I don't know the word, but a correct position for ultimate control, I can understand the pleasure from a womans perspective. So I suggest switching around, everyone gets what they want. Just like oral sex... Of course, there's a pleasure(More so psychological) in giving just like receiving. But you still enjoy pleasuring someone, nothing wrong with switching positions.

OHHHH I definably agree! Variety is what keep the anticipation high and the adrenaline coursing though my veins to my heart. For example from being girl on top, a nice transition is to reverse cowboy...this then leads fairly smoothly to being on all fours and taken from behind...this can then lead to so many other pleasurable positions...With the right fellow I can be reduced to putty in his hands....

[racy_lacey]

Battletoad wrote:

<quoted text>It's pretty much just as good anyway really, I mean, guys masturbate as if someone is on top, you could say. It's the same thing either way in my opinion, up and down goes a males sex organ, women have it differently though, it's all about in and out, so they have to find the right position, I can see why you like it laying down, more control of the penetration for extra pleasure.
The thing with us is, we're not about moving really(To an extent yes), because our penis does, where as with a women, since it's about GOING IN, she has to move her body to get it done right. I guess we have it easy. You probably like it laying down because you don't have to bounce up and down while he lays down like a comatose patient, since when laying down he gets to move his body and you can relax a little. Being on top does sound a little inconvenient for a girl, it's the visual guys like I think. Since a woman bouncing up and down just can't give the same penetration of a man handling his own stuff, you probably enjoy him putting some movement into it more. Of course, this is just me, anyone can be different really. Let's say you're 5' 4" with a normal body width, that's a lot to move around, a guy who has to move around a 10" at most(That's pretty huge.... So I'm going far up there) still has a lot less to maneuver, it's just a linear thing really, not an entire body. Think about it this way, if you had a sex toy(Dildo/vibrator) and you bounced up and down on it while it was standing with a pedestal like thing or something, it wouldn't be that penetrating, but if you layed down and used your hand with ultimate control, you'd feel it much more.

well, im 5'1 and about 94 pounds on a "fat" day haha and i dont really get tired when im on top. i do like it a little more when he helps out though, like when he holds my waist down and presses into me. the only thing is that since im really short i have to like squat on top of him my legs arent long enough to just straddle him, hes 6'3 and not thin by anymeans, lol. it makes it kinda awkward for me. the position i have to be in, that is.

[Battletoad]

genevieve wrote:

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OHHHH I definably agree! Variety is what keep the anticipation high and the adrenaline coursing though my veins to my heart. For example from being girl on top, a nice transition is to reverse cowboy...this then leads fairly smoothly to being on all fours and taken from behind...this can then lead to so many other pleasurable positions...With the right fellow I can be reduced to putty in his hands....

Yeah, there's no perfect way, there's pros and cons to everything. And everyone should get a fair share of their own pleasures(Except for those really weird things you just aren't into...), if there was a perfect way to do things life would be fairly boring.

[Battletoad]

racy_lacey wrote:

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well, im 5'1 and about 94 pounds on a "fat" day haha and i dont really get tired when im on top. i do like it a little more when he helps out though, like when he holds my waist down and presses into me. the only thing is that since im really short i have to like squat on top of him my legs arent long enough to just straddle him, hes 6'3 and not thin by anymeans, lol. it makes it kinda awkward for me. the position i have to be in, that is.

Oh, yeah, I see, well, if it's not your preference, that's fine, everybody has their own preferable way of doing things. See if he really likes it, if he does, do it for him, and you get some bottom action as you say you like, everybody wins. If he doesn't like it, then you can get 100 percent bottom action, but either way, both people coming out satisfied shouldn't be too hard.

[surferbum]

my girl used to dislike bein on top cause it didnt work for her but she found out that if she leaned back, like almost laying down she loved it.
maybe thatle help