JON55

Irving, TX

#24 Aug 22, 2011
lol,,,I think ALL men are visual,,,,just looking can get me going,,,lol...are you shaved or trimed,,,I like a good trim,,,,but do like some hair down there,,,hehe
James

Austin, TX

#25 Aug 22, 2011
Joyce Oh wrote:
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I am a married woman now but my husband introduced me to nude beach going.
I usually do see a few guys down there, who are hanging long. I was a little surprised at how long some guys are soft. I mean some are like 5 and 6 inches soft!! Most guys are regular and some are pimple dicks. I will admit I do like seeing long ones. Its exciting to imagine how long hard and how fun to play with a big long one would be. No girl is going to notice a small one. I still enjoy seeing normal ones like my husbands too. I am surprised my husband dont mind me seeing and staring at some of these well hung guys. I dont like it if he looks too much at busty women. He seems to like it when I admire another guys penis. He will ask me what I think of that one or other. I try not to let my thoughts get too dirty.
Well, I'm sure you've had some dirty thoughts about those guys at the nude beach? Have you ever told him what kind of thoughts you've had? Also, if your husband was willing, would you like doing a spit-roasting threesome with him and a well-hung guy, where your husband does you from behind doggy-style and suck off the other guy at the same time? If he likes seeing you admiring those nude guys penises, he would probably enjoy watching you suck off one of them while he does you doggy style at the same time. It might be hot for him to watch you sucking off the other guy.
Joyce Oh

Yonkers, NY

#26 Aug 22, 2011
JON55 wrote:
lol,,,I think ALL men are visual,,,,just looking can get me going,,,lol...are you shaved or trimed,,,I like a good trim,,,,but do like some hair down there,,,hehe
I do both. I shave all of it sometimes and other times I keep a strip but its always clean. He likes itn better than full hair.
Joyce Oh

Yonkers, NY

#27 Aug 22, 2011
James wrote:
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Well, I'm sure you've had some dirty thoughts about those guys at the nude beach? Have you ever told him what kind of thoughts you've had? Also, if your husband was willing, would you like doing a spit-roasting threesome with him and a well-hung guy, where your husband does you from behind doggy-style and suck off the other guy at the same time? If he likes seeing you admiring those nude guys penises, he would probably enjoy watching you suck off one of them while he does you doggy style at the same time. It might be hot for him to watch you sucking off the other guy.
Im not into 3 somes or screwing other men. I dont know why he gets off on having me admire other naked men. I didnt used to say a word about it if a well hung guy walked past but he pushes me for comments. He will say what do you think about that guy? He must have a huge erection. Once I knew he like me to comment I do. I dont go too far but Ill say wow he has got a long c0ck or something. It gets himm hot for some reason when i say it. If he is thinking of getting into 3 somes its not gonna happen!
pablo

Peru

#28 Aug 22, 2011
Joyce Oh wrote:
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No I wasnt a virgin. I had 4 boy friends I got sexually active with before I met him. 2 had approximately 6 inches plus or minus like his. I never measured them but I did measure my husbands. Those 2 guys were about the same as his or close. My third BF had a big one. I can only guess at something over 7 inches. My BF before my husband had a small one. I think under 5 inches. He knew it was small and needed me to keep telling him it was big enough. So sad that he had no confdence. Actually it was less exciting to look at and stuff, but he wasnt a bad lover at all. It was big enough to feel good. So yes I had one bigger. That inch and a half diference is more eye candy than it is better for sex. I have great sex with my husbands normal sized c0ck.
were they cut or uncut? Which do you prefer?
Ben

Loudonville, OH

#29 Aug 22, 2011
Joyce Oh wrote:
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I do both. I shave all of it sometimes and other times I keep a strip but its always clean. He likes itn better than full hair.
I have no problem with a nice trimmed bush.
Joyce Oh

Yonkers, NY

#30 Aug 23, 2011
pablo wrote:
<quoted text>were they cut or uncut? Which do you prefer?
I think most guys are cut around here. I do see several guys with foreskins at the beach but most by far are cut. I prefer cut probably because I am used to seeing them. My fathers and my brother are both cut and my past BFs were all cut and my husbands is cut. I am only expressing a preference and not wanting to hurt any guys feelings. I see many nice c0cks that are uncut too, but just like cut better.
Ben

Loudonville, OH

#31 Aug 23, 2011
Joyce Oh wrote:
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I think most guys are cut around here. I do see several guys with foreskins at the beach but most by far are cut. I prefer cut probably because I am used to seeing them. My fathers and my brother are both cut and my past BFs were all cut and my husbands is cut. I am only expressing a preference and not wanting to hurt any guys feelings. I see many nice c0cks that are uncut too, but just like cut better.
U know what u like, don't u?
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Ben

Loudonville, OH

#32 Aug 24, 2011
Joyce Oh wrote:
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My husband got me to go to the nude or C/O beach with him. I see naked men all over the place. I do not play around with other men. I dont mind looking and do enjoy it. My husband is odd that way too. He seems to get hot over me seeing other guys especially if they are very well hung. I found that he likes me to say stuff like that guy has a big one, for whatever reason. But I dont fool around with others.
I'd bet you'd still like to be able to play with one of those big guys.....just to see what you could make it do and to see how big it would get.
Joyce Oh

Yonkers, NY

#33 Aug 24, 2011
Ben wrote:
<quoted text>U know what u like, don't u?
I am sure most girls enjoy seeing a well hung guy. Thats no surpise to anyione. I like most sizes really. I dont like the pokey ones that dont even hang. Its so cute how they wiggle and move from side to side when guys walk.
Joyce Oh

Yonkers, NY

#34 Aug 24, 2011
Ben wrote:
<quoted text>I'd bet you'd still like to be able to play with one of those big guys.....just to see what you could make it do and to see how big it would get.
I do have thoughts of course. Men get erections at the beach too. Ive seen it often. My husband gets them. Its just a thing with men thet they cant control. Ive seen men with wives and kids doing nothing sexual at all and gaetting erections. Their daughters notice it too but just out of curiosity. Your a man. Maybe you could tell me why my husband or any man would get off on his wife to look at other maen and comment on seeing a bigger penis? Is it that men like a little dirty talk? I used be shy to even say the word "c0ck" but he insisted its sexy to hear me call it that. He dont want me to say Penis. Is he diferent or are men all like this?
Katie

Williston, FL

#35 Aug 24, 2011
Mostly I just want to play with it, and then get it to shoot! ;)
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#36 Aug 24, 2011
Joyce Oh wrote:
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I am sure most girls enjoy seeing a well hung guy. Thats no surpise to anyione. I like most sizes really. I dont like the pokey ones that dont even hang. Its so cute how they wiggle and move from side to side when guys walk.
Since you are very observant of flaccid size, do you find you look for signs when guys' pants are on and if so do you find that you are sometimes able to tell his flaccid size even then? I'm a guy and hang about 5.5" flaccid, varying a half inch one way or the other from day to day, and when I have on pants that fit (not tight or loose I tend to fill them out. In jeans it depends on the brand though, some wear differently than others. In slacks it's always telling even though I have to try for it not to be. Even though I'm a straight guy I've noticed that I can at times see when guys have a what you called "pokey" 1 or 2 inch flaccid. I want to tell them to wear something a bit looser or change brands or something, but of course can't say something like that. Btw, I've seen 7 doctor charts before that showed flaccid and erect sizes and you are correct, there is a correlation between flaccid size and erect size. It's not an absolute, it doesn't always apply, but in general the longer flaccids 'tend' to be longer when erect. The smaller ones do grow more, generally speaking, they gain some ground, but usually they do not catch up.
Joyce Oh

Yonkers, NY

#37 Aug 24, 2011
Reality wrote:
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Since you are very observant of flaccid size, do you find you look for signs when guys' pants are on and if so do you find that you are sometimes able to tell his flaccid size even then? I'm a guy and hang about 5.5" flaccid, varying a half inch one way or the other from day to day, and when I have on pants that fit (not tight or loose I tend to fill them out. In jeans it depends on the brand though, some wear differently than others. In slacks it's always telling even though I have to try for it not to be. Even though I'm a straight guy I've noticed that I can at times see when guys have a what you called "pokey" 1 or 2 inch flaccid. I want to tell them to wear something a bit looser or change brands or something, but of course can't say something like that. Btw, I've seen 7 doctor charts before that showed flaccid and erect sizes and you are correct, there is a correlation between flaccid size and erect size. It's not an absolute, it doesn't always apply, but in general the longer flaccids 'tend' to be longer when erect. The smaller ones do grow more, generally speaking, they gain some ground, but usually they do not catch up.
To be honest ive looked to see if i could see an outline of all males penises, since i was a little girl. I probably noticed my dads from an early age and realized something was going on down there. My dad wears jeans a lot and his does show. I was sure i was right about flaccid size being bigger when hard. Yours is bigger than my husbands. His is about 4 inches soft but varies. Its very sexy to me. He is about the same as most guys I see when we go to the nude beach. I still wonder why he likes me to look at and comment on guys with longer ones? My GF said he probably likes me to talk more dirty. I used to be so shy about saying things I wouldnt even say c0ck but he makes me say it. He gets hot when I call it that. Penis dont turn him on,lol. As a man do you think he is unusual?
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#38 Aug 24, 2011
Joyce Oh wrote:
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To be honest ive looked to see if i could see an outline of all males penises, since i was a little girl. I probably noticed my dads from an early age and realized something was going on down there. My dad wears jeans a lot and his does show. I was sure i was right about flaccid size being bigger when hard. Yours is bigger than my husbands. His is about 4 inches soft but varies. Its very sexy to me. He is about the same as most guys I see when we go to the nude beach. I still wonder why he likes me to look at and comment on guys with longer ones? My GF said he probably likes me to talk more dirty. I used to be so shy about saying things I wouldnt even say c0ck but he makes me say it. He gets hot when I call it that. Penis dont turn him on,lol. As a man do you think he is unusual?
I don't suppose his preference for the word cock is unusual for a guy, I think I've noticed guys saying that word. The people I've ever been around in person though have usually used the word dick. Women I've heard say it and guys I've heard speak of it. Cock seems to be used more online than what I've been used to hearing in person. I haven't paid close attention, but I think perhaps women online tend to use the word cock more often than guys online do, but some guys do use it too. I tend to say penis online just to sound a bit more proper I giuess, but in person it's dick. I recall my dad and some of his friends saying peter. That always sounded a bit odd to me and it's rare I ever see anyone use the word peter but every once in a while I do. They wouldn't call it shit or do do or poop or number two, they would say "hockey". That always struck me as even more gross to say, sort of freaked me out lol. It's very rare I ever hear or see anyone call it hockey, but it does happen. I think peter and hockey have become pretty much outdated words.
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#39 Aug 24, 2011
To be clear I jumped off track and wasn't talking about penis/cock/dick/peter at the end of my post. I was talking about something else, obviously. It just got me to thinking how terms have changed nowadays in some ways when people describe various things and I jumped off track a bit.
JON55

Irving, TX

#40 Aug 24, 2011
the words "pecker" & "prick" were also used some time back also
Joe

Hadley, MA

#42 Aug 24, 2011
Joyce Oh wrote:
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I am married 13 years soon. I have fantacies like all women do but I wont ever cheat on my huisband.
would you get jealous if you knew your h/b was having fantacies of f cking other woman?
Joyce Oh

Yonkers, NY

#43 Aug 24, 2011
Joe wrote:
<quoted text> would you get jealous if you knew your h/b was having fantacies of f cking other woman?
I am sure I will. I really want him all to myself even to his desires. But I do know he has fantacies just like I do. I would be unfair to expect more of him than I do for me. He has a business doing heavy landscaping. Thats not just cutting lawns. He does huge jobs where nothing is there but dirt. He and his men do everything the home owners want done and design it for them. Thats grading the landscape and installing retaining walls and big trees and sod lawns and rock gardens etc. So he gets to see a lot women and girls sunbathing and swimming in their yards while he is working. He comes home and tells me if he saw a very hot womwn that day in shorts or a bikini. He has seen plenty topless babes as he calls them. So I know he gets a hardon looking but he comes home to me and I get the pleasure.lol.
Joe

Hadley, MA

#44 Aug 24, 2011
Joyce Oh wrote:
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I am sure I will. I really want him all to myself even to his desires. But I do know he has fantacies just like I do. I would be unfair to expect more of him than I do for me. He has a business doing heavy landscaping. Thats not just cutting lawns. He does huge jobs where nothing is there but dirt. He and his men do everything the home owners want done and design it for them. Thats grading the landscape and installing retaining walls and big trees and sod lawns and rock gardens etc. So he gets to see a lot women and girls sunbathing and swimming in their yards while he is working. He comes home and tells me if he saw a very hot womwn that day in shorts or a bikini. He has seen plenty topless babes as he calls them. So I know he gets a hardon looking but he comes home to me and I get the pleasure.lol.
Thats cool. Who do you think has more fantacies ? Men, or woman? I'm thinking men, only because of testosterone.

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