How do I become a BDSM slave?

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Hi,
so I just turned 18 and I've always really enjoyed being dominated. I fantasize about being hit and gagged and full of cock in all of my holes. I even will go out wearing short skirts and no panties just so I can trip in front of guys and they can see my ass. I really like being publicly humiliated. I've been really interested in becoming a slave since I was about 14, and now that I'm legal, I was wondering, how does it start? I don't exactly feel comfortable telling everyone that I know that I'd like to be their slut, so how do I find a dom that I can trust and make a name for myself in the BDSM lifestyle?
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emmy2 wrote:
Hi,
so I just turned 18 and I've always really enjoyed being dominated. I fantasize about being hit and gagged and full of cock in all of my holes. I even will go out wearing short skirts and no panties just so I can trip in front of guys and they can see my ass. I really like being publicly humiliated. I've been really interested in becoming a slave since I was about 14, and now that I'm legal, I was wondering, how does it start? I don't exactly feel comfortable telling everyone that I know that I'd like to be their slut, so how do I find a dom that I can trust and make a name for myself in the BDSM lifestyle?
Heyyyy(: would you like to be my personal slut/slave(:?

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Heyyyy(: would you like to be my personal slut/slave(:?
I would love to, but I really don't know how. You'd have to train me.
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Ill train u babe ;). U can be my little slave :p 2686a01d. Luv to see ur tight little ass :p

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I had a roomie that got me into it. We went to a pet store and she had me try on different collars. I was somewhat embarassed, but it exited me also. Find a friend, definitely someone you trust.

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emmy2 wrote:
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I would love to, but I really don't know how. You'd have to train me.
A warning to you; the vast majority of the guys in this forum should be avoided at all costs. A potential Dom must prove himself worthy of your submission; you should take plenty of time to learn all about who they are and be able to trust them fully with your life before you ever consider submitting to anyone. A Dom/sub relationship, even online ones should never be rushed into; it takes time... a lot of time. If they try to boss your around or rush you, drop them, they are unworthy.

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A warning to you; the vast majority of the guys in this forum should be avoided at all costs. A potential Dom must prove himself worthy of your submission; you should take plenty of time to learn all about who they are and be able to trust them fully with your life before you ever consider submitting to anyone. A Dom/sub relationship, even online ones should never be rushed into; it takes time... a lot of time. If they try to boss your around or rush you, drop them, they are unworthy.
Thank you. That's very smart advice. It kind of makes me uncomfortable when guys that I don't know offer to be my Dom, but I wasn't sure if that was just part of the lifestyle.
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Agrees with the post above Mine.

I am an experienced Dom. The entire concept of the BDSM relationship is trust. sure, you can 'play; the part with any guy who wants to be in charge but a true Dom/slave relationship that is fulfilling is going to take time, knowledge, trust and respect.

also, in truth; the slave is the one with the power; as the slave is giving herself to a Master, and if that Master can not do all He promises she can take the power away and walk; so you want to be able to really establish a foundation with a potential mate, who you want to become a slave too; and feel protected under His care... and then, only then, will you be able to truly enjoy everything knowing your soul is protected above all else.

If you would like to talk more in detail, reply and I'll message you privately.
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Lucky wrote:
Agrees with the post above Mine.
I am an experienced Dom. The entire concept of the BDSM relationship is trust. sure, you can 'play; the part with any guy who wants to be in charge but a true Dom/slave relationship that is fulfilling is going to take time, knowledge, trust and respect.
also, in truth; the slave is the one with the power; as the slave is giving herself to a Master, and if that Master can not do all He promises she can take the power away and walk; so you want to be able to really establish a foundation with a potential mate, who you want to become a slave too; and feel protected under His care... and then, only then, will you be able to truly enjoy everything knowing your soul is protected above all else.
If you would like to talk more in detail, reply and I'll message you privately.
This is the best advice anyone could give you! I'm very new to the bdsm lifestyle but my now wife is a experienced sub. We have been together as a regular couple for 2 years now and it's took the 2 years to really get to the point where I can be her master. Even tho over the 2 years we have been together we have loved each other and put our full trust in each other, when it comes to the bdsm life style, there needs to be more than just love and trust. As a sub u need to be able to put your life in your masters hands! And your master needs to hold and cherish the life you are giving him. Even as a sub, it's true, you do hold all the power. You will have your safe word, u will have the power to walk away at any moment. A good dome will respect your wishes and will put you, your life, and your safety above all else. Don't rush into anything with ANYONE! Get the know them! Maybe Look for exclusive forums/chat rooms online and properly educate yourself. Hope I have helped and that your first steps into the bdsm lifestyle will as joyous as mine have been

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Oct 19, 2012
 
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Thank you. That's very smart advice. It kind of makes me uncomfortable when guys that I don't know offer to be my Dom, but I wasn't sure if that was just part of the lifestyle.
If some man comes to you and asks to be your Dom he is of no use. I have never asked for a sub. A sub submits gradually when she learns of your skill as a Dom male. The best way is to find the people near you into bdsm and get to know them. That is the fastest way to find real worthy Doms that might interest your desires.
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I'm a 25 british male in the uk amd germany....looking for training, I want to be worthy of being owned by someone, to be broken mentally and re-built, boundries pushed and find out what my limits are, I obviously have a regular job that needs to be done, but the idea of being released knowing I have to come back to my mistress is what I need
I'm loyal, honest and obedient.
If not yourself, I would appreciate being pointed in the right direction as its being harder to get involved and find my mistress
Much appreciated miss
Loyally jay
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nice slave!!!!!

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I agree with Jolene, Lucky, can i help you ~ some good advice from them.
I'm a switch and first met my trainers online. An experienced couple which took a little while to find; found through personal advertisements for dating. We corresponded (privately) for a while, then I met them. It's a risk putting forward a personal ad, but I was lucky in they were advertising at the same time and we all read between the lines. Getting to know them I could establish they were experienced and not only after sex. This was 2/3 year ago now. Try an internet search of BDSM/dating or you might be lucky as I was and find somebody through regular personal date ads
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Nov 14, 2012
 
Can someone please give me advice on how to "enter" this world of bdsm.
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Olivia wrote:
Can someone please give me advice on how to "enter" this world of bdsm.
Are you looking to be submissive?
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Are you looking to be submissive?
Yes. Although the Dom role seems exciting. But of course one step at a time.
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ill be your slave, i will train you first if you would like to be? add my bbm 2772AD1E
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Olivia wrote:
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Yes. Although the Dom role seems exciting. But of course one step at a time.
Well you need a Dom to teach you. Its allot of fun. That sense of no control, does that turn you on?
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Well you need a Dom to teach you. Its allot of fun. That sense of no control, does that turn you on?
Well the complete loss of control is freighting and sexy at the same time. I guess the hard part is finding a Dom that I feel comfortable enough with to give myself to him completely. I've read some pretty scary experiences people have had. Sexy pain, yes! Brutal pain, NO!

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