“You Can Call Me Queenie”

Since: Jul 09

Any Town U.S.A.

#23 Feb 6, 2010
_Zoey_ wrote:
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Could you imagine? "Honey, I'm attracted to the woman next door. Would you arrange a tryst for us a couple of nights a week? I promise, it will be NSA. It's only for the sex." Yeah right. I'd kick his ass to the curb. lol
No...I can't imagine!LOL!
Like you,his ass would be moving in with his new NSA lover,or something!

“You Can Call Me Queenie”

Since: Jul 09

Any Town U.S.A.

#24 Feb 6, 2010
_Zoey_ wrote:
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No really. Unless it's an open marriage, what man in his right mind would ask his wife to arrange sex for him? He would definitely be taking his life in his own hands or....he has a death wish.
:o)
Actually what woman in her right mind would make such an arrangement,and then be whining because she is worried about it becoming a more serious relationship?
HARDON

Quakers Hill, Australia

#25 Feb 6, 2010
Julie wrote:
Just a little background. I'm currently deployed overseas with the Air Force and my husband is at home. Before I left I made arrangements to have my best friend come over twice a week and have sex with my Husband since I am not there to do it myself
This is all fine, but what worries me is that they are meeting up every evening to have sex, not twice a week. And from what she has told me She invited her friend to join in a few times for a 3-some.
I'm scheduled to return home in 3 weeks and am worried that they might have grown a little close to each other and things will be difficult when I get back. I dont mind if He continues to see Her, or her friend for sex when I'm not around. But I dont want to fight for his attention when I get back.
From what I hear from friends they still cannot stand to be around each other (one of the reasons I chose her) they hate each others personality. So that strongly rules out a relationship, and by talked to both of them, it seemed nothing has changed.
Why would you think they are going at it every day now instead of twice a week like I asked?
WELL JUST DRIVE YOUR BOAT PAST AUSTRALIA AND I WILL FILL YOUR NEEDS.
Shorty

Tarboro, NC

#26 Feb 6, 2010
_Zoey_ wrote:
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No really. Unless it's an open marriage, what man in his right mind would ask his wife to arrange sex for him? He would definitely be taking his life in his own hands or....he has a death wish.
:o)
...The man didn't ask for the arrangement, she did it because she wanted him to have alittle nookie while she is away. I agree with you though and frankly, I think this story is nothing more than a bunch of bull shit.

Since: May 09

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#27 Feb 6, 2010
The Queen Of Your Heart wrote:
<quoted text>Actually what woman in her right mind would make such an arrangement,and then be whining because she is worried about it becoming a more serious relationship?
Good question. Perhaps she thought by choosing his partner she could be more in control of the situation. Unfortunately it may have backfired on her.

Since: May 09

Location hidden

#28 Feb 6, 2010
Shorty wrote:
<quoted text>...The man didn't ask for the arrangement, she did it because she wanted him to have alittle nookie while she is away. I agree with you though and frankly, I think this story is nothing more than a bunch of bull shit.
That's true and according to her posts they have an open marriage. I really think he would have slept around if she hadn't made the arrangements with her friend. I tend to agree with you. I think it's highly likely the story could be BS.
Jake

Nedrow, NY

#29 Feb 6, 2010
_Zoey_ wrote:
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You should have put more thought into this arrangement. You gave him permission to sleep with your friend and now you're worried they've developed a relationship. You may have just possibly lost your husband and you only have yourself to blame. It would be a cold day in hell before I would give my husband permission to sleep with another woman.
I couldn't agree more, I can't even imagine this mindset.

Since: May 09

Location hidden

#30 Feb 6, 2010
Jake wrote:
<quoted text> I couldn't agree more, I can't even imagine this mindset.
I had to read the OP twice. I couldn't believe what I was reading. I know many people will disagree with me but why marry if you're going to screw around. They just as well stay single.
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Jake

Nedrow, NY

#31 Feb 6, 2010
_Zoey_ wrote:
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I had to read the OP twice. I couldn't believe what I was reading. I know many people will disagree with me but why marry if you're going to screw around. They just as well stay single.
Ya know I agree, its one thing to play around online, and have a lil fantasy, but to really act is another. My wife would turn into Loretta Bobbit. LOL

“Lost in these dreams”

Since: Jun 08

Finding all the missing pieces

#32 Feb 6, 2010
Julie wrote:
Just a little background. I'm currently deployed overseas with the Air Force and my husband is at home. Before I left I made arrangements to have my best friend come over twice a week and have sex with my Husband since I am not there to do it myself
This is all fine, but what worries me is that they are meeting up every evening to have sex, not twice a week. And from what she has told me She invited her friend to join in a few times for a 3-some.
I'm scheduled to return home in 3 weeks and am worried that they might have grown a little close to each other and things will be difficult when I get back. I dont mind if He continues to see Her, or her friend for sex when I'm not around. But I dont want to fight for his attention when I get back.
From what I hear from friends they still cannot stand to be around each other (one of the reasons I chose her) they hate each others personality. So that strongly rules out a relationship, and by talked to both of them, it seemed nothing has changed.
Why would you think they are going at it every day now instead of twice a week like I asked?
If you're going to arrange for your husband to have sex with your friend while you're deployed surely you would have thought beforehand of the possibility that them finding attraction could happen. You're married and he should understand being in the military that you'd be away. Most times they say opposites attract and you could very well be the odd leg out especially when it comes to activities in the bedroom. But that is something you wanted, so good luck.

“Lost in these dreams”

Since: Jun 08

Finding all the missing pieces

#33 Feb 6, 2010
_Zoey_ wrote:
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You should have put more thought into this arrangement. You gave him permission to sleep with your friend and now you're worried they've developed a relationship. You may have just possibly lost your husband and you only have yourself to blame. It would be a cold day in hell before I would give my husband permission to sleep with another woman.
Completely agree. I just have a different view on marriage and even a relationship. I couldn't imagine me telling or even him asking.

Since: May 09

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#34 Feb 6, 2010
Jake wrote:
<quoted text> Ya know I agree, its one thing to play around online, and have a lil fantasy, but to really act is another. My wife would turn into Loretta Bobbit. LOL
Uh oh...you better stay on the straight and narrow. You don't want to lose anything important.
:o)
Jake

Nedrow, NY

#35 Feb 6, 2010
_Zoey_ wrote:
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Uh oh...you better stay on the straight and narrow. You don't want to lose anything important.
:o)
Laughing,, like I said, nothing wrong with a good fantasy

Since: May 09

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#36 Feb 7, 2010
Impromptu wrote:
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Completely agree. I just have a different view on marriage and even a relationship. I couldn't imagine me telling or even him asking.
Your view on marriage and /or a committed relationship is the same as mine. Actually I think more people think like us than will admit it. Monogamy isn't the "in" thing right now.

Since: May 09

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#37 Feb 7, 2010
Jake wrote:
<quoted text> Laughing,, like I said, nothing wrong with a good fantasy
Of course not, but like the old saying goes, be careful what you wish for. I'm keeping my fantasies just that, fantasies. I don't want to be disappointed if it doesn't turn out as well as I thought it would.
:o)
Jake

Nedrow, NY

#38 Feb 7, 2010
_Zoey_ wrote:
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Of course not, but like the old saying goes, be careful what you wish for. I'm keeping my fantasies just that, fantasies. I don't want to be disappointed if it doesn't turn out as well as I thought it would.
:o)
ok then, you want top or bottom ?

“You Can Call Me Queenie”

Since: Jul 09

Any Town U.S.A.

#40 Feb 7, 2010
_Zoey_ wrote:
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Good question. Perhaps she thought by choosing his partner she could be more in control of the situation. Unfortunately it may have backfired on her.
An arranged relationship or not...when two people continually have a sexual relationship for a period of time,one should expect that emotions may come into focus.

One cannot control others emotions,and IMO she only succeeded in creating the perfect atmosphere for them to come into play!

“You Can Call Me Queenie”

Since: Jul 09

Any Town U.S.A.

#41 Feb 7, 2010
_Zoey_ wrote:
<quoted text>
I had to read the OP twice. I couldn't believe what I was reading. I know many people will disagree with me but why marry if you're going to screw around. They just as well stay single.
I agree!

“You Can Call Me Queenie”

Since: Jul 09

Any Town U.S.A.

#42 Feb 7, 2010
Impromptu wrote:
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Completely agree. I just have a different view on marriage and even a relationship. I couldn't imagine me telling or even him asking.
Actully there are still many people who think that a marriage is still one man one woman! Monogamy still lives strong in many marriages.IMO...many posters on this forum live in fantacy,and they play it all out for their audience!LOL!

Actually...there are couples who prefer being in open relationships,and the number is growing at a tremendous rate of speed.

Soon monogamy may become a thing of the past,as more couples are now more open minded to the option of having a poly relationship,which they feel is best!

Since: May 09

Location hidden

#43 Feb 7, 2010
Jake wrote:
<quoted text> ok then, you want top or bottom ?
You're such a smart ass! No, I'm not telling my fantasies.

:o)

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