Are handcuffs still kinky?

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#1 Aug 16, 2012
i like some foreplay before i do it as much as anyone, but are handcuffs still kinky or just wrong? who knows whos into a little play or if its just weird?

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#3 Aug 16, 2012
I think they are still kinky! Just for a little bit of foreplay. I don't think they are weird at all, they feel sexy. It's the sense of being helpless.

It can go too far though. I was handcuffed for hours once and they were very tight, with my wrists up my back. There was a riding crop to make me "behave" and do as I was told, and that was a kinky game that went too far!
Intguy
#6 Aug 16, 2012
Rachel 1979 wrote:
I think they are still kinky! Just for a little bit of foreplay. I don't think they are weird at all, they feel sexy. It's the sense of being helpless.
It can go too far though. I was handcuffed for hours once and they were very tight, with my wrists up my back. There was a riding crop to make me "behave" and do as I was told, and that was a kinky game that went too far!
the cuffs n crop can be lots of fun, sounds like the idiot u were with was more concerned with what he wanted, and not at all in making the helpless feeling pleasureable for you ..... what a shame :(... just hope hasnt put u off (after all its not really the toys but the guy that was the problem)
The_Sundering

Phoenix, AZ

#7 Aug 16, 2012
I graduated from cuffs recently learning rope and actual binding. Its really an amazing art.
Intguy

New Milton, UK

#8 Aug 16, 2012
The_Sundering wrote:
I graduated from cuffs recently learning rope and actual binding. Its really an amazing art.
..... and your point is what?
Kitty Kat

Shoreham-by-sea, UK

#9 Aug 17, 2012
Rachel 1979 wrote:
I think they are still kinky! Just for a little bit of foreplay. I don't think they are weird at all, they feel sexy. It's the sense of being helpless.
It can go too far though. I was handcuffed for hours once and they were very tight, with my wrists up my back. There was a riding crop to make me "behave" and do as I was told, and that was a kinky game that went too far!
That sounds like it would be really difficult for you, even if you were enjoying it to start with. I hope that he didn't use the whip on you too much.

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#10 Aug 17, 2012
Intguy wrote:
<quoted text> the cuffs n crop can be lots of fun, sounds like the idiot u were with was more concerned with what he wanted, and not at all in making the helpless feeling pleasureable for you ..... what a shame :(... just hope hasnt put u off (after all its not really the toys but the guy that was the problem)
It hasn't put me off handcuffs, but I don't think I would want to play with a crop again. Yes, it was for his enjoyment more than mine. I didn't even know about the riding crop until after the handcuffs had been put on me! I did think that the crop might be quite an erotic toy at first, but its real purpose was to make me perform.

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#11 Aug 17, 2012
Kitty Kat wrote:
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That sounds like it would be really difficult for you, even if you were enjoying it to start with. I hope that he didn't use the whip on you too much.
Well the handcuffs were an ordeal, because of the way they were used. I had my wrists high up my back almost between my shoulder blades and the cuffs were as tight as they would go. The idea was that it made me arch my back and pulled my shoulders hard round and that forced my breasts permanently up and out, which it did. But after a while my wrists and my shoulders were aching like hell.
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interested

New Milton, UK

#12 Aug 18, 2012
Rachel 1979 wrote:
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It hasn't put me off handcuffs, but I don't think I would want to play with a crop again. Yes, it was for his enjoyment more than mine. I didn't even know about the riding crop until after the handcuffs had been put on me! I did think that the crop might be quite an erotic toy at first, but its real purpose was to make me perform.
do u think that if the cuffs had been adjusted and any other donding so that your tits were pushed out, but without it causing excessive aching, and if the crop had been used to encourage u to perform rather than make you perform that you would have enjoyed it more and still essentually given the guy what he wanted? Did he make any attempt to satify you during all this or was it all about him?
Julie

Utica, NY

#13 Aug 18, 2012
Rachel 1979 wrote:
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It hasn't put me off handcuffs, but I don't think I would want to play with a crop again. Yes, it was for his enjoyment more than mine. I didn't even know about the riding crop until after the handcuffs had been put on me! I did think that the crop might be quite an erotic toy at first, but its real purpose was to make me perform.
Perform for him, or for others as well?
Brandan4

Seneca Falls, NY

#14 Aug 18, 2012
Julie wrote:
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Perform for him, or for others as well?
I was handcuffed once and this girl tortured me sexually., She would bring me to orgasm then stop,it made me hump like a dog. I must say it was quite a load when she finally finished me off
anonymous

Cincinnati, OH

#15 Aug 18, 2012
Are handcuffs still kinky? all the way to jail, lol.

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#16 Aug 18, 2012
Rachel 1979 wrote:
I think they are still kinky! Just for a little bit of foreplay. I don't think they are weird at all, they feel sexy. It's the sense of being helpless.

It can go too far though. I was handcuffed for hours once and they were very tight, with my wrists up my back. There was a riding crop to make me "behave" and do as I was told, and that was a kinky game that went too far!
Ouch. When playing you need a secret word to use when playtime goes to far

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#17 Aug 18, 2012
Julie wrote:
<quoted text>Perform for him, or for others as well?
Julie wants to be cuffed. Then made to do things against her will.

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#18 Aug 18, 2012
interested wrote:
<quoted text>do u think that if the cuffs had been adjusted and any other donding so that your tits were pushed out, but without it causing excessive aching, and if the crop had been used to encourage u to perform rather than make you perform that you would have enjoyed it more and still essentually given the guy what he wanted? Did he make any attempt to satify you during all this or was it all about him?
Yes I would have enjoyed that a lot more. I'm not saying that it wasn't exciting at the start, but the longer it went on the more of an ordeal it became. I am sure he intended to satisfy me, but that changed when he started to enjoy it too much. I was fulfilling a lot of his fantasies in one go...the black g-string, high heels, handcuffs...he got carried away.

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#19 Aug 18, 2012
Intguy wrote:
<quoted text> ..... and your point is what?
Point is handcuffs are "cute" and can be picked up at yiur local mall and good for entry level bondage play but nowhere nearly as hot as shibari and kinbaku. True binding.
interested

New Milton, UK

#20 Aug 18, 2012
The_Sundering wrote:
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Point is handcuffs are "cute" and can be picked up at yiur local mall and good for entry level bondage play but nowhere nearly as hot as shibari and kinbaku. True binding.
thats a little more helpful, but just saying u graduated didnt really mean much, would be even more helpful if u had a story about how you used the more advanced binding? otherwise its a bit like say "hey i can tie fancy knots in string" which if someone wrote that u gotta agree would sound pretty lame

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#21 Aug 18, 2012
Rachel 1979 wrote:
<quoted text>Yes I would have enjoyed that a lot more. I'm not saying that it wasn't exciting at the start, but the longer it went on the more of an ordeal it became. I am sure he intended to satisfy me, but that changed when he started to enjoy it too much. I was fulfilling a lot of his fantasies in one go...the black g-string, high heels, handcuffs...he got carried away.
So all those things were for him?
Analia

Aurora, CO

#22 Aug 18, 2012
What does kinky mean?
anonymous

Cincinnati, OH

#23 Aug 18, 2012
Analia wrote:
What does kinky mean?
That you have sharp bends which cause the walls to collapse in thin wall tubing, closing off the lumen and thereby obstructing your flow.

I.E. rough translation : More than just a little warped, You are quite severely bent and obstructed. I would take obstructed to mean something like "you're constipated".... and therefore, you might have rather large accumulations.

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