How bad does sex hurt the first time?

How bad does sex hurt the first time?

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jkhkajhdufsn

Fairfax, VA

#834 Mar 2, 2010
will i bleed the first time? my bf says that if i do its ok with him... but idk wont any normal dude think thats grogg?
Kristen

Mckinney, TX

#835 Mar 6, 2010
I just had sex for the first time yesterday, it didnt hurt at all, it was great. the hype is right, sex is awesome!haha
Meghan D

Binghamton, NY

#836 Mar 7, 2010
Hi i lost my virginity today it hurt at first but then it got pleasurable and it was great my advise is to always wear a condom cause they make it wet for you other wise your as dry as as the road in Owosso, Michigan
a friend

Mandeville, LA

#837 Mar 7, 2010
Meghan D wrote:
Hi i lost my virginity today it hurt at first but then it got pleasurable and it was great my advise is to always wear a condom cause they make it wet for you other wise your as dry as as the road in Owosso, Michigan
Honey, take this from an older guy, if the man your with is
not getting you completely ready you might be dry.
If he knows how to do it right the road to wherever will
be sloppy wet!!! but still use the protection!!!

Enjoy: Dr. Oz lol
Dont Wait

Burlington, NC

#838 Mar 7, 2010
Is it going to hurt will depend on both girl and guy, just like some Guys have thick or long dicks and some guys have a short or thin penis. You're going to have girls that have looser vagina's even though they never had sex and others who have smaller ones. Also what ones response is to pain differs some will find it as pure pain while others will find it raising the pleasure bar.
Alyisa

Randolph, NJ

#839 Mar 7, 2010
The first time I had sex it hurt. I was not prepared. I was raped and forced to have intercourse and oral sex. He and I were friends from school and were working nightly almost a month straight on a school project. The last night we proof read our paperwork (even though we used the spell checker) and wanted to celebrate our blood sweat and tears. We were at his house and I was using the bathroom. He charged in and caught me with my pants and undies down. He came from behind and grabbed my tits in one hand and covered my mouth with his other. He threw me to the ground and with his one knee pinned me down as he struggled to pull off and eventually remove my pants and undies. With his one hand he was unbuttoning my blouse and the other he was stroking his big black *ock. My bra buckled from the front so he unhooked it to expose to him my 38C tits with my rock hard nipples. He pushed aside my bra and started to suck really hard on one and he demanded I spread my legs and being in shock I obeyed (I wouldn't say I concented) and he started towards my mouth and forced me to suck his *ock but I wouldn't open my mouth so he slapped my face hard and I sligtly opened my mouth as a started to cry and he pushed his *ock in my mouth and demanded me to "Suck my *ock bitch. After I sucked it for a bit and I have to admit I enjoyed it, he put his head between my legs and tongued my *lit and I started to feel like I was going to explode and eventually I did. He then forced his *ock into my *ussy and told me, "Don't make a sound bitch. You will take this and like it. I just laid their and started to shake and he called me "a *ucking white virgin". I no longer resisted and let him do his thing and then he flipped me on my stomach and openned up the medicine cabinet to get out the vasoline petroleum jelly and lubed up my round large white *ss. Then *uked me in the *ss and I did bleed and started to cry. He pumped into me really hard and with such force. After turning me back around he forced himself into my *ssy and dumped part of his seed inside me and then squirted all over my face and tits. He hurt me badly. That was the night my son was conceived. I graduated 4 months pregnant and he told the guys that "She's easy". He has never seen his son and I will never let him near him. I ran away from home after graduation and had the baby. I have be raising him alone for 4 years now and taking night classes and working to support us. I met a gut at my job and we hit it off. I told him everything and he says he wants to marry me and adopt my son as "our son". This man is black too and I think I am falling for him. I never thought I would ever let a man get close to me because of the rape but Gary is incredible. My son loves him and I think we can make it as a go as a family. Gary and I have even talked about giving James and baby brother or sister soon.
shehzad

Rawalpindi, Pakistan

#841 Mar 17, 2010
Janet wrote:
My first time was great my man was so gentle breaking my hymen.
where u from can we talk at 00923335842411
hello

Malvern, UK

#842 Mar 21, 2010
It did'nt hurt me at all, I was only 14.. and i guess my boyfriend werent that bigg. But still i had alot of fingering before that so i guess thats why.
yeah right haha

United States

#843 Mar 22, 2010
Alyisa wrote:
The first time I had sex it hurt. I was not prepared. I was raped and forced to have intercourse and oral sex. He and I were friends from school and were working nightly almost a month straight on a school project. The last night we proof read our paperwork (even though we used the spell checker) and wanted to celebrate our blood sweat and tears. We were at his house and I was using the bathroom. He charged in and caught me with my pants and undies down. He came from behind and grabbed my tits in one hand and covered my mouth with his other. He threw me to the ground and with his one knee pinned me down as he struggled to pull off and eventually remove my pants and undies. With his one hand he was unbuttoning my blouse and the other he was stroking his big black *ock. My bra buckled from the front so he unhooked it to expose to him my 38C tits with my rock hard nipples. He pushed aside my bra and started to suck really hard on one and he demanded I spread my legs and being in shock I obeyed (I wouldn't say I concented) and he started towards my mouth and forced me to suck his *ock but I wouldn't open my mouth so he slapped my face hard and I sligtly opened my mouth as a started to cry and he pushed his *ock in my mouth and demanded me to "Suck my *ock bitch. After I sucked it for a bit and I have to admit I enjoyed it, he put his head between my legs and tongued my *lit and I started to feel like I was going to explode and eventually I did. He then forced his *ock into my *ussy and told me, "Don't make a sound bitch. You will take this and like it. I just laid their and started to shake and he called me "a *ucking white virgin". I no longer resisted and let him do his thing and then he flipped me on my stomach and openned up the medicine cabinet to get out the vasoline petroleum jelly and lubed up my round large white *ss. Then *uked me in the *ss and I did bleed and started to cry. He pumped into me really hard and with such force. After turning me back around he forced himself into my *ssy and dumped part of his seed inside me and then squirted all over my face and tits. He hurt me badly. That was the night my son was conceived. I graduated 4 months pregnant and he told the guys that "She's easy". He has never seen his son and I will never let him near him. I ran away from home after graduation and had the baby. I have be raising him alone for 4 years now and taking night classes and working to support us. I met a gut at my job and we hit it off. I told him everything and he says he wants to marry me and adopt my son as "our son". This man is black too and I think I am falling for him. I never thought I would ever let a man get close to me because of the rape but Gary is incredible. My son loves him and I think we can make it as a go as a family. Gary and I have even talked about giving James and baby brother or sister soon.
...and from what fu*kbook did you copy that story from blackboy? LMAO!!!
Tinker

New York, NY

#845 Mar 22, 2010
My hubby was very friendly & gentle with me after our wedding , I would say it did hurt but not that much . I enjoyed it we had sex twice , but bleeding wouldn't stop so we went to the doctor and told her what went wrong that bitch doc said u gays must be having sex like hell u should give it rest I felt like hitting her...bitch
Alyisa

Randolph, NJ

#846 Mar 22, 2010
yeah right haha wrote:
<quoted text>...and from what fu*kbook did you copy that story from blackboy? LMAO!!!
I didn't it happened to me an d I am not a boy. I don't have a *ock you dirtbag.

Just wish it happened to you - you are a jealous no good person and how would you know if it was copied from a book - you can't read!!

Go *uck yourself

Since: Mar 09

Location hidden

#847 Mar 23, 2010
Alyisa wrote:
The first time I had sex it hurt. I was not prepared. I was raped and forced to have intercourse and oral sex. He and I were friends from school and were working nightly almost a month straight on a school project. The last night we proof read our paperwork (even though we used the spell checker) and wanted to celebrate our blood sweat and tears. We were at his house and I was using the bathroom. He charged in and caught me with my pants and undies down. He came from behind and grabbed my tits in one hand and covered my mouth with his other. He threw me to the ground and with his one knee pinned me down as he struggled to pull off and eventually remove my pants and undies. With his one hand he was unbuttoning my blouse and the other he was stroking his big black *ock. My bra buckled from the front so he unhooked it to expose to him my 38C tits with my rock hard nipples. He pushed aside my bra and started to suck really hard on one and he demanded I spread my legs and being in shock I obeyed (I wouldn't say I concented) and he started towards my mouth and forced me to suck his *ock but I wouldn't open my mouth so he slapped my face hard and I sligtly opened my mouth as a started to cry and he pushed his *ock in my mouth and demanded me to "Suck my *ock bitch. After I sucked it for a bit and I have to admit I enjoyed it, he put his head between my legs and tongued my *lit and I started to feel like I was going to explode and eventually I did. He then forced his *ock into my *ussy and told me, "Don't make a sound bitch. You will take this and like it. I just laid their and started to shake and he called me "a *ucking white virgin". I no longer resisted and let him do his thing and then he flipped me on my stomach and openned up the medicine cabinet to get out the vasoline petroleum jelly and lubed up my round large white *ss. Then *uked me in the *ss and I did bleed and started to cry. He pumped into me really hard and with such force. After turning me back around he forced himself into my *ssy and dumped part of his seed inside me and then squirted all over my face and tits. He hurt me badly. That was the night my son was conceived. I graduated 4 months pregnant and he told the guys that "She's easy". He has never seen his son and I will never let him near him. I ran away from home after graduation and had the baby. I have be raising him alone for 4 years now and taking night classes and working to support us. I met a gut at my job and we hit it off. I told him everything and he says he wants to marry me and adopt my son as "our son". This man is black too and I think I am falling for him. I never thought I would ever let a man get close to me because of the rape but Gary is incredible. My son loves him and I think we can make it as a go as a family. Gary and I have even talked about giving James and baby brother or sister soon.
Hmm, sounds abit far fetched.
The whole story sounds more like an erotic novel more than a sexual attack recount...
Kenyan Stooge

Cold Spring Harbor, NY

#848 Mar 23, 2010
Alyisa wrote:
The first time I had sex it hurt. I was not prepared. I was raped and forced to have intercourse and oral sex. He and I were friends from school and were working nightly almost a month straight on a school project. The last night we proof read our paperwork (even though we used the spell checker) and wanted to celebrate our blood sweat and tears. We were at his house and I was using the bathroom. He charged in and caught me with my pants and undies down. He came from behind and grabbed my tits in one hand and covered my mouth with his other. He threw me to the ground and with his one knee pinned me down as he struggled to pull off and eventually remove my pants and undies. With his one hand he was unbuttoning my blouse and the other he was stroking his big black *ock. My bra buckled from the front so he unhooked it to expose to him my 38C tits with my rock hard nipples. He pushed aside my bra and started to suck really hard on one and he demanded I spread my legs and being in shock I obeyed (I wouldn't say I concented) and he started towards my mouth and forced me to suck his *ock but I wouldn't open my mouth so he slapped my face hard and I sligtly opened my mouth as a started to cry and he pushed his *ock in my mouth and demanded me to "Suck my *ock bitch. After I sucked it for a bit and I have to admit I enjoyed it, he put his head between my legs and tongued my *lit and I started to feel like I was going to explode and eventually I did. He then forced his *ock into my *ussy and told me, "Don't make a sound bitch. You will take this and like it. I just laid their and started to shake and he called me "a *ucking white virgin". I no longer resisted and let him do his thing and then he flipped me on my stomach and openned up the medicine cabinet to get out the vasoline petroleum jelly and lubed up my round large white *ss. Then *uked me in the *ss and I did bleed and started to cry. He pumped into me really hard and with such force. After turning me back around he forced himself into my *ssy and dumped part of his seed inside me and then squirted all over my face and tits. He hurt me badly. That was the night my son was conceived. I graduated 4 months pregnant and he told the guys that "She's easy". He has never seen his son and I will never let him near him. I ran away from home after graduation and had the baby. I have be raising him alone for 4 years now and taking night classes and working to support us. I met a gut at my job and we hit it off. I told him everything and he says he wants to marry me and adopt my son as "our son". This man is black too and I think I am falling for him. I never thought I would ever let a man get close to me because of the rape but Gary is incredible. My son loves him and I think we can make it as a go as a family. Gary and I have even talked about giving James and baby brother or sister soon.
You should do the world a favor and jump in a woodchipper with your mongrel offspring.
Alyisa

Lindenhurst, NY

#849 Mar 23, 2010
Kenyan Stooge wrote:
<quoted text>
You should do the world a favor and jump in a woodchipper with your mongrel offspring.
Thanks for kicking me in a real sore spot you inconsiderate no good *other*ucker

You *ucking suck.

I wouldn't trade my son for all the riches of the world. I did find a wood chipper - see idiot - 2 words Wood Chipper - that has your name written all over it.

Leave my son alone. How would you like if a friend of yours suffered the same fate as me, would you wont them to jump into a wood chipper??

Get off my back.
Juzz Raw

United States

#850 Mar 26, 2010
i think u shud ask ur mom how bad it hurts. then she will tell u how misserable being pregnant is, and all the diseass in the world, and even better, let her tell you how bad giving birth hurts. sorry lets be real here people.
lenee

Redmond, WA

#851 Mar 27, 2010
lols I just had sex yesterday n my bathroom 4 the 1st tyme it didn hurt at all! it was jus uncomfortable 4 lyke 6 thrust thn after that I dnt wanna say I went numb bu idkay it stop hurt n nd I jus felt him going n and out ..thn he sped up OMFG! it felt sooo good!so really it depends on your body I masterbate so it didn 4 me well it did hurt but i cood handle it .its not like everyone says you jus have to b into it bcus if your not you won't enjoy it at all so 4 play is a must!!
dotdot

Bluffton, SC

#852 Apr 2, 2010
my first time was painless it just felt a little wierd. the 2nd time OMG it hurt like crazy so we stopped after talking to him about it we've just decided next time we will go a lot slower.
nastygurl

Las Cruces, NM

#853 Apr 2, 2010
havent had sex yet but have done other stuff can you tell if your hyme is broken or not????
DusTin Aka PrettyBoy

Durham, NC

#854 Apr 2, 2010
It was alright,I was kinda nervous though,it felt so feakin good though.
james

Galway, Ireland

#855 Apr 3, 2010
dis is embaressin, but im dick is smallish and my foreskin is kinda tight, i hav a rotten feelin dat it will hurt so fucking much, my days are numbered ow and il have to do it soon, im terrified lol
sum1 plz just b honest bout how bad i cn expect it to be

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