created by: Tigg | Jun 25, 2009

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Nude camping with a cute gal who's just a friend?

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  • Sure, what's wrong with that?
  • I'd get too excited.
  • I'd think she really wanted me
  • I wouldn't go with a lover
  • I wouldn't go nude, ever
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Tigg

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Jun 25, 2009
 
The poll guestions should actually be longer. Anyhow, I have a female friend (I'm a guy) who invited me to go to a nude campground for three days as long as I promise I won't read anything more into it.(That is: no sex.)

We've both been nude in public before and we both love it, so that's no big deal. But we've never been nude together. And I have to admit, I find her extremely attractive for more than just her mind.

She seems to think this is perfectly normal, just two very good friends enjoying each other's company in a natural state. So do I... at least intellectually.

Still,the problem is,can I really spend three days completely nude with her, sleeping together in a tent on a double air mattress, and not get some ideas I couldn't keep to myself? I want to do it, but I'm still worried about making an ass out of myself.

On the other hand, could it be she's trying to tell me something? That's a problem... I'm old enough that if I make a promise not to touch her, I fully intend to stick to that promise. Besides, I sort of have a girlfriend, and I'm not planning to tell her about it.(Is that cheating if we don't cheat?)

What do the rest of you think? Could you? Would you?

Thanks for any input. Sorry about the crappy poll.
wife watcher

Jacksonville, FL

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Jun 25, 2009
 
Tigg wrote:
The poll guestions should actually be longer. Anyhow, I have a female friend (I'm a guy) who invited me to go to a nude campground for three days as long as I promise I won't read anything more into it.(That is: no sex.)
We've both been nude in public before and we both love it, so that's no big deal. But we've never been nude together. And I have to admit, I find her extremely attractive for more than just her mind.
She seems to think this is perfectly normal, just two very good friends enjoying each other's company in a natural state. So do I... at least intellectually.
Still,the problem is,can I really spend three days completely nude with her, sleeping together in a tent on a double air mattress, and not get some ideas I couldn't keep to myself? I want to do it, but I'm still worried about making an ass out of myself.
On the other hand, could it be she's trying to tell me something? That's a problem... I'm old enough that if I make a promise not to touch her, I fully intend to stick to that promise. Besides, I sort of have a girlfriend, and I'm not planning to tell her about it.(Is that cheating if we don't cheat?)
What do the rest of you think? Could you? Would you?
Thanks for any input. Sorry about the crappy poll.
Just invite your girlfriend to come along. Oh i see, she would not approve... wonder why, maybe cuz its that like you say you hope that maybe she will want to give you some.
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Saint Louis, MO

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#3
Jun 25, 2009
 
could be she is a teaser and enjoys knowing you want to do her but cant? course she could be being straight and sees having you there as companion and protector? does she have a sex life at all, that would have some bearing on it.

i think if it is something that you feel you cannot explain to your g/f partner, then no you should not go, simple as that. your nude friend should understand. for me you are not being straight with the nude friend by not saying that you are attracted to her, that is dishonest too. So really if you do go with her, you are being dishonest to your gal for not telling her and dishonest with your nude friend because you want to bone her.
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#5
Jun 25, 2009
 
sHE COULDA WELL be teasing you by trying to get you along cos she may have an inkling you like her and may want something to devolelop. 3 days nude together may be a huge test and the likely hood you will become aroused is aLMOST CERTAIN and if she sees that ne thing could lead to another,best to be sure of doing the right thing,talk to your friend.
Tigg

Manahawkin, NJ

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Jun 25, 2009
 
Thanks for the responses. Just to clear up a few things, when I say "I sort of have a girlfriend," I meant that we date, but have a non-exclusive relationship. But you're right, I should tell her about this.

The nude friend already knows I'm attracted to her, mind and body, but also knows I'm nudist enough to get past the body part.

As far as the three of us going... it's a possibilty. The two of us who are nudists think it's fine. I still hesitate to bring that option up to the non-nudist woman -- don't want her to think this is my little way of suggesting a threesome. Not everyone feels the same comfort with nudity that me and my friend do.

At any rate, my nude friend and I are going on a day trip next week to a very prudish camp... we're thinking of inviting my "girlfriend," so she can see the scene without feeling too threatened by it. I've got a feeling she'll surprised at how sexless it really is.

We'll see. Thanks again.

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#7
Jun 25, 2009
 
Y would U want to torture yourself? I would'nt,and I could'nt. I would have to have her,simple as that!! And she should no that?
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#8
Jun 25, 2009
 
If this is true I refuse to beleive she doesn't know what she is doing.

Woman can tell when someone is interested - they always claim a 6th sense about other woman but act dumb when it comes to themselves. Woman are much more manipulative than men.

I would go and try to pick up other woman - you will find out quickly if she is messing with you or really not interested.
Tigg

Manahawkin, NJ

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#9
Jun 25, 2009
 
Just for the record, the woman I'm dating and I had a talk today, and she's okay with me going nude camping with another woman. The fact that we're going out on a date tomorrow tells me she's serious.(Although, to be honest, I'm not sure she's serious about me.)

The friend I'm going nude camping with (actually, it's a festival at a nudist resort) had a long talk tonight. We decided we really, really want to go on this trip, and that we can handle it.

First, though,we decided against a day trip to a resort (they're very expensive these days). Instead, she's house sitting the week after next at a place that's far enough out in the country that clothing would be optional, but close enough that I could go home (or get sent home) at any given moment.

None of which really answers the question of the moment: should I do this at all? I don't think it would be torture... and if it works out, it would bring us closer together as friends. That's a good thing. If it doesn't work out, who knows what it would do to our friendship?
The problem with that, of course, is we'd be alone and not surrounded by other nudists. That changes the dynamics, of course. If anything, it makes it more complicated.

So, bottom line is, we'll see what happens.
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Tigg

Manahawkin, NJ

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Jun 25, 2009
 
Oops... a paragraph got transposed, but you get the idea, right?
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#11
Jun 25, 2009
 
Tigg wrote:
The poll guestions should actually be longer. Anyhow, I have a female friend (I'm a guy) who invited me to go to a nude campground for three days as long as I promise I won't read anything more into it.(That is: no sex.)
We've both been nude in public before and we both love it, so that's no big deal. But we've never been nude together. And I have to admit, I find her extremely attractive for more than just her mind.
She seems to think this is perfectly normal, just two very good friends enjoying each other's company in a natural state. So do I... at least intellectually.
Still,the problem is,can I really spend three days completely nude with her, sleeping together in a tent on a double air mattress, and not get some ideas I couldn't keep to myself? I want to do it, but I'm still worried about making an ass out of myself.
On the other hand, could it be she's trying to tell me something? That's a problem... I'm old enough that if I make a promise not to touch her, I fully intend to stick to that promise. Besides, I sort of have a girlfriend, and I'm not planning to tell her about it.(Is that cheating if we don't cheat?)
What do the rest of you think? Could you? Would you?
Thanks for any input. Sorry about the crappy poll.
well maybe she kind of likes you and this is her chance to really get to kno you and she wants to see if anything is there. But i mean if you have been nude before and you've seen other nudes... i don't see a problem with it... are you living in a nudist town or somethin??? but i mean if your very normal on the trip and just get to kno her somethin might happen between you two... but hey i would say go for it and just keep yourself back and not do anytin unless she shows signs she likes you but don't push it and try not to do somethin stupid that will ruin the friendship
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#12
Jun 25, 2009
 
So I asked this guy to go nude camping with me. We have both been in nude places but not at the same time. I am pretty sure he finds me really attractive; not just intellectually. I think its perfectly normal that we do this. When we go there and he gets a hard on, I will cut his boner out and put it in the campfire.
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Jun 25, 2009
 
Tigg wrote:
The poll guestions should actually be longer. Anyhow, I have a female friend (I'm a guy) who invited me to go to a nude campground for three days as long as I promise I won't read anything more into it.(That is: no sex.)
We've both been nude in public before and we both love it, so that's no big deal. But we've never been nude together. And I have to admit, I find her extremely attractive for more than just her mind.
She seems to think this is perfectly normal, just two very good friends enjoying each other's company in a natural state. So do I... at least intellectually.
Still,the problem is,can I really spend three days completely nude with her, sleeping together in a tent on a double air mattress, and not get some ideas I couldn't keep to myself? I want to do it, but I'm still worried about making an ass out of myself.
On the other hand, could it be she's trying to tell me something? That's a problem... I'm old enough that if I make a promise not to touch her, I fully intend to stick to that promise. Besides, I sort of have a girlfriend, and I'm not planning to tell her about it.(Is that cheating if we don't cheat?)
What do the rest of you think? Could you? Would you?
Thanks for any input. Sorry about the crappy poll.
You can easily shoot a load on her from a few feet away without touching her!
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Jun 25, 2009
 
girl wrote:
So I asked this guy to go nude camping with me. We have both been in nude places but not at the same time. I am pretty sure he finds me really attractive; not just intellectually. I think its perfectly normal that we do this. When we go there and he gets a hard on, I will cut his boner out and put it in the campfire.
Can't you just be a good friend and yank it for him?

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Jun 26, 2009
 
I've done this twice with two different girls. I followed the girls lead both times. Both times they were jet friends. The first we tottelly behaved each other and it was completely platonic. The segind girl and I got it on like rabbits for two days.
Tigg

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Jun 26, 2009
 
Before I let my friend throw my boner in the campfire -- which she may well do -- I'll head for the swimming pool to cool off or go back to the tent and pop one off.
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Jun 26, 2009
 

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Before I let my friend throw my boner in the campfire -- which she may well do -- I'll head for the swimming pool to cool off or go back to the tent and pop one off.
The least she could do is jack you off. It's only fair.
Tigg

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Jun 26, 2009
 
CuteGrrl wrote:
<quoted text> The least she could do is jack you off. It's only fair.
Alas, we've agreed on a "no touching" (at least not private parts) policy.

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I'd go absolutely crazy. To be naked for three days with someone that I was mentally and pysically atracted to would be torture. I know I would end up trying something....
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#21
May 22, 2012
 
dude if your friend alredey nude and u have a boner the say the hole no tucking rule sucks i whona f##k you on the chare and tent or call your gf down and have her to f::k and f$&kboth of them

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