Girls that have sex on the first date

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lohraw

Chicago, IL

#1 Nov 3, 2008
Are there any women out there that fairly consistently have sex when they are taken out for a pleasent evening and treated respectfully by a nice guy on a first date (even if they've never him prior to that night)?

I'm sure many women have done it at one time or another but I'm talking about women who usually have sex on the first date and just view it as part of a typical first date - not a big deal -- no unbelieveable sparks needed.

I have so much respect for women like that. I truely think it's great. I would never not date such a woman or look down apon her.

I went on a date with a real classy professional woman several years ago that I met on line. We talked once on the phone met for dinner and then had sex. Since that was a rarity for me, I just sort of assumed it wasn't the norm for her either. Afterwards I say to her wow! this was some date..... did you ever think we'd actually be doing this tonight? She just said yea I assumed we'd have sex provided you weren't a psycho or anything. I probed the issue further and she said without a hint of shame that she almost always has sex when she goes on a date. She said if she likes a guy she sees no reason to wait and if she wasn't really into a guy she didn't have an issue with sleeping with him just to be nice - provided he was polite and clean. She just viewed having sex with the guys she went out with as part of the dating process.

Lucky for me I was one of the ones she liked and we dated exclusively for 2 and a half years. The reasons we broke up are moot. I always respected her and loved the fact that she was so promiscuious.

“Walking Attitude”

Since: Aug 07

The Q continuum

#2 Nov 3, 2008
Girls who have sex on the first date are highly desired.
JeromeDePlume

United States

#3 Nov 3, 2008
All my girls have sex on the first date. Bidness iz bidness
Keva

Houston, TX

#4 Nov 3, 2008
The majority of my dates end in sex...if I enjoyed it then why wouldn't I?...if I had chem with the guy but didn't like his personality then I might sleep with him to see if he could end up a being a f-buddy.
not so lucky

Kissimmee, FL

#5 Nov 3, 2008
Ihave never been that lucky. I have always been MR. nice guy.

“Walking Attitude”

Since: Aug 07

The Q continuum

#7 Nov 4, 2008
not so lucky wrote:
Ihave never been that lucky. I have always been MR. nice guy.
I know what you mean. I used to be this way. Now I'm just old, jaded, and cynical with a bad attitude.
london boy

Russia

#8 Nov 4, 2008
i have no problem at all with girls that love sex (seriously, what guy would have a problem with that?!) lol.

but, the problem with sex on the first date is that you cant tell what they want outta it. impossible to tell if they just want a one night stand or something more serious. second date, hell yeah! at least you might know a few things about them by then and this might make it more likely that you can please them (find out about theit sexual interests etc).

and, if you have sex on the first date it suggests that you dont want to do anything else. and you'll probably end up having sex everytime you see them lol. look, im a horny teenager and me and my current gf waited like 2 weeks (ok thats not a huge amount but we were flirting for a few weeks before we officially started dating so i knew her really well by then). and we have lasted 6 months so far and going strong. lol.

well, if all you're after is a one night stand, go for it. all im saying is that if you sleep with a girl on the first date, a lot of the time you will lose respect for each other. and without respect, theres no honesty. and without honesty, youre screwed. lol

just to point out i aint a prude or anything. if rihanna came to london (yeah i have an obsessive thing about her goin on) i would happily have sex with her even if i never saw her again. like i do in my dreams or in those boring maths lessons. lol

“we are not the same ..”

Since: Oct 08

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#9 Nov 4, 2008
if i didnt know him then no, i woudlnt have sex on a first date.. but with my boyfriend b4 he was my bf the first ngiht i slept over his house i did..i thought it was a huge mistake but everything turned out good..iv never really "dated" as in going out on dates with new people
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Franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#10 Nov 4, 2008
I've only had one "one night stand" where I actually met the girl that same night, at a nightclub. Never saw her again.

I have had a couple of "dates" where it was pre-arranged (I had met them at their workplace and got their phone number) where we ended up in bed the first nite ... one of them was a first and last date, the other I ended up dating for about 2 months... discovered sex was the only thing we had in common. NOthing much to talk about otherwise.

For the most part, I think that while men wish for more women to have sex on teh first date, they also have less respect for a woman who "gives out" so easily, and less trust.

Men who want a longer term relatoinship want their woman to have more respect for herself and more discression as to who they sleep with and how often.

“Yeah, I'm A Guy”

Since: Sep 08

So What?

#11 Nov 4, 2008
lohraw wrote:
Are there any women out there that fairly consistently have sex when they are taken out for a pleasent evening and treated respectfully by a nice guy on a first date (even if they've never him prior to that night)?
I'm sure many women have done it at one time or another but I'm talking about women who usually have sex on the first date and just view it as part of a typical first date - not a big deal -- no unbelieveable sparks needed.
I have so much respect for women like that. I truely think it's great. I would never not date such a woman or look down apon her.
I went on a date with a real classy professional woman several years ago that I met on line. We talked once on the phone met for dinner and then had sex. Since that was a rarity for me, I just sort of assumed it wasn't the norm for her either. Afterwards I say to her wow! this was some date..... did you ever think we'd actually be doing this tonight? She just said yea I assumed we'd have sex provided you weren't a psycho or anything. I probed the issue further and she said without a hint of shame that she almost always has sex when she goes on a date. She said if she likes a guy she sees no reason to wait and if she wasn't really into a guy she didn't have an issue with sleeping with him just to be nice - provided he was polite and clean. She just viewed having sex with the guys she went out with as part of the dating process.
Lucky for me I was one of the ones she liked and we dated exclusively for 2 and a half years. The reasons we broke up are moot. I always respected her and loved the fact that she was so promiscuious.
Ugh! Women like that have NO respect for themselves. Seriously, lol why would you want to have sex with a person the FIRST time that you go out?!?! That's just random ridiculousness right there. If I were a guy and a chick gave it up to me on the first night I would called her sleazy, easy, and a ho ;O)

People should have better respect for themselves and that goes for both the men and the women. Just keep on, you'll catch something you won't be able to get rid of :) No wonder the STD rates are on the rise. Hm, yes...yes I think that might be it.

Ah, let the debates begin because I KNOW someone is probably going to get upset with my post :D
I love it but its the TRUTH LOL!!!

Since: Apr 08

Inwood, WV

#12 Nov 4, 2008
lilnita wrote:
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Ugh! Women like that have NO respect for themselves. Seriously, lol why would you want to have sex with a person the FIRST time that you go out?!?! That's just random ridiculousness right there. If I were a guy and a chick gave it up to me on the first night I would called her sleazy, easy, and a ho ;O)
People should have better respect for themselves and that goes for both the men and the women. Just keep on, you'll catch something you won't be able to get rid of :) No wonder the STD rates are on the rise. Hm, yes...yes I think that might be it.
Ah, let the debates begin because I KNOW someone is probably going to get upset with my post :D
I love it but its the TRUTH LOL!!!
I was gonna hold off but now that you said it first I'll say it. Girls that have sex on the first date are for the most part wh*res.
I would be a hypocrit to lie and say I've never slept with a girl on the first date but at that time in my young life I was as big a wh*re as she was and I've since hit manhood and morals came about in my life. If a girl gives it up the first date, then that should clue you in on the fact that it should be the last date. Just sayin'.

“Yeah, I'm A Guy”

Since: Sep 08

So What?

#13 Nov 4, 2008
Josh Helmick wrote:
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I was gonna hold off but now that you said it first I'll say it. Girls that have sex on the first date are for the most part wh*res.
I would be a hypocrit to lie and say I've never slept with a girl on the first date but at that time in my young life I was as big a wh*re as she was and I've since hit manhood and morals came about in my life. If a girl gives it up the first date, then that should clue you in on the fact that it should be the last date. Just sayin'.
Appreciate your honesty Mr. Helmick :)
And I concur with the rest of your post.
I can't tell you how many times my friends have screwed chicks and NEVER called them back because they were SO EASY on the FIRST date LAUGH THE FREAKIN' OUT LOUD!!! Just pathetic I tell you and I laugh hysterically ever time because people should know better. Both sides should, but WOMEN especially. Who has to carry the child?

Since: Apr 08

Inwood, WV

#14 Nov 4, 2008
lilnita wrote:
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Appreciate your honesty Mr. Helmick :)
And I concur with the rest of your post.
I can't tell you how many times my friends have screwed chicks and NEVER called them back because they were SO EASY on the FIRST date LAUGH THE FREAKIN' OUT LOUD!!! Just pathetic I tell you and I laugh hysterically ever time because people should know better. Both sides should, but WOMEN especially. Who has to carry the child?
I know we've had a recent "opposing sides of the fence" type of discussion, but that is the beauty of life, we can disagree and yet still keep things cordial. I don't know how old you are but your moral stance and maturity level is highly commendable. I respect that and I respect your ability to convey intelligent thought. So rare on here these days ya know. Pleasure to make your acquaintence, Hi I'm Josh.LOL

“And tell me he's not comfy...”

Since: Feb 08

Westminster, MD

#15 Nov 4, 2008
Josh Helmick wrote:
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I know we've had a recent "opposing sides of the fence" type of discussion, but that is the beauty of life, we can disagree and yet still keep things cordial. I don't know how old you are but your moral stance and maturity level is highly commendable. I respect that and I respect your ability to convey intelligent thought. So rare on here these days ya know. Pleasure to make your acquaintence, Hi I'm Josh.LOL
well ur a poopy face

Since: Apr 08

Inwood, WV

#16 Nov 4, 2008
Dude Look wrote:
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well ur a poopy face
Why ya gotta make me cry you big meany...MEANY!!!!

“Yeah, I'm A Guy”

Since: Sep 08

So What?

#17 Nov 4, 2008
Josh Helmick wrote:
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I know we've had a recent "opposing sides of the fence" type of discussion, but that is the beauty of life, we can disagree and yet still keep things cordial. I don't know how old you are but your moral stance and maturity level is highly commendable. I respect that and I respect your ability to convey intelligent thought. So rare on here these days ya know. Pleasure to make your acquaintence, Hi I'm Josh.LOL
My name is Anita and I'm 23 LOL. It's nice to meet you as well. I love conversations and debates and sometimes people will get upset with me. You've seen my posts and peoples responses to my posts in the other thread lol. I have the tendency to get under people's skin quick. Not on purpose, well sometimes :D

And you are right, the beauty of it is that we can agree and disagree. No sense in holding grudges and I admit that I can be blunt sometimes. I can't help it, I have very strong opinions. I'm not a bad person or a racist, just a person with strong opinions and views.

I love everybody. EXCEPT Racists, Pedophiles, Rapists...you get the point ;-P

Since: Apr 08

Inwood, WV

#18 Nov 4, 2008
lilnita wrote:
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My name is Anita and I'm 23 LOL. It's nice to meet you as well. I love conversations and debates and sometimes people will get upset with me. You've seen my posts and peoples responses to my posts in the other thread lol. I have the tendency to get under people's skin quick. Not on purpose, well sometimes :D
And you are right, the beauty of it is that we can agree and disagree. No sense in holding grudges and I admit that I can be blunt sometimes. I can't help it, I have very strong opinions. I'm not a bad person or a racist, just a person with strong opinions and views.
I love everybody. EXCEPT Racists, Pedophiles, Rapists...you get the point ;-P
As you have obviously seen, I have strong opinions and am by no means afraid to speak upon them. I would rather debate or discuss with another of a blunt nature then someone who quickly resorts to immature insults and ignorant remarks do to their own insecurities and weakmindedness. I am a 27 year old white hillbilly from WV so I have definately had an upbringing most couldn't possibly fathom and therefore I have a direct and straightshooting personality. I look forward to future debates and discussions with you Anita, it will be a pleasure to piss you off and vice versa LOL. Good day to you lady.

“Yeah, I'm A Guy”

Since: Sep 08

So What?

#19 Nov 4, 2008
Josh Helmick wrote:
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As you have obviously seen, I have strong opinions and am by no means afraid to speak upon them. I would rather debate or discuss with another of a blunt nature then someone who quickly resorts to immature insults and ignorant remarks do to their own insecurities and weakmindedness. I am a 27 year old white hillbilly from WV so I have definately had an upbringing most couldn't possibly fathom and therefore I have a direct and straightshooting personality. I look forward to future debates and discussions with you Anita, it will be a pleasure to piss you off and vice versa LOL. Good day to you lady.
Speak on it! I love a good debate. It would be nice to have a debate with someone who can come with it rather than result to insults. You sound like a person I would get a kick out of debating with! You seem like a funny guy too
LOL @ Hillbilly Josh :D

ROFL @:
"I look forward to future debates and discussions with you Anita, it will be a pleasure to piss you off".

Good day to you sir.
newanarchy

Dallas, TX

#20 Nov 4, 2008
Queue wrote:
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I know what you mean. I used to be this way. Now I'm just old, jaded, and cynical with a bad attitude.
Marriage did that to me. Looking back I wish I had taken advantage when I had the chances.
Been Around The Block

United States

#21 Nov 4, 2008
I've had sex on the first date more than once. And most of the time I was glad I did.

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