Your experience of prostate massage?

[OpenHands]

The Aneros is a great toy, and now they've developed their line to include all sorts of shapes and sizes so you can choose one that matches your body and desire.

Another great toy is the Crystal Wand- a nice curve allows easy pressure on the prostate and it goes nicely with receiving penis stimulation or oral sex.

The easiest way I can explain "what all the fuss is about" is this- by stimulating the prostate while also touching the penis, you are literally stimulating your entire sexual system all at once. Through anal penetration, you can reach the prostate, the root of the penis, and meanwhile be stimulating all of the many nerve endings around the external anal sphincters. This whole combination is incredible, many men report it to be a sexual high.

For the men who have experienced this- how would you describe this feeling? Do you feel the whole system being stimulated all at once?

[someone else]

I have had numerous prostate massages by both men and women and have enjoyed them very much.

[someone else]

It is an extreme sexual high. No matter which device you are using it is very important that the item (finger, etc) be in almost constant comtact with the prostate.

[neal]

i blew a much larger load than normal. it was like an out of body experience.

[OpenHands]

someone else wrote:

It is an extreme sexual high. No matter which device you are using it is very important that the item (finger, etc) be in almost constant comtact with the prostate.

Nice point. Most men prefer prostate massage strokes that maintain a constant pressure on the gland. This can include pulsing pressure or sweeping from side to center (the pronounced ridge in the middle of the prostate is where the urethra runs through, where prostatic fluid becomes part of the ejaculate). Some men like an in-and-out penetration, but many prefer a constant pressure while receiving simultaneous penis stimulation.

Other guys- do you prefer in-and-out or pulsing pressure?

[doc]

On stimelating the Prostate, where would the ejaculation come from?

I mean from the penis or the ass?

hope you got my Q.

[doc]

^^^^
*stimulating

[stickman9436]

OpenHands wrote:

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Nice point. Most men prefer prostate massage strokes that maintain a constant pressure on the gland. This can include pulsing pressure or sweeping from side to center (the pronounced ridge in the middle of the prostate is where the urethra runs through, where prostatic fluid becomes part of the ejaculate). Some men like an in-and-out penetration, but many prefer a constant pressure while receiving simultaneous penis stimulation.
Other guys- do you prefer in-and-out or pulsing pressure?

I prefer the pulsing and sweeping also the use of sounds in the penis when down slowly, the sound can actually stimulate the prostate while down inside the penis, a most awsome feeling, to bad there weren't more videos of men having sounds used are the penis to orgasm.

[Brad]

After being intrigued by hearing about the pleasures of prostate massage, and after having a hunch about the need to maintain my healthy prostate, I purchased a Nexus Nero, which I think is an older model. I knew doing it manually wasn't going to happen, so I bought a device. It was a bit pricey, and I'm not happy with the parting line from the molding process that can feel a little sharp and uncomfortable up there. Aside from that, I love this thing, and what it does. I prefer to be relaxing when using it, like in bed. Having the prostate massaged makes me relax like I never have before...incredible. They say it's like having a female orgasm...well if that's true, all I can say is, THIS is definetely the way I want to make my lady feel!...So, it aids in the health of my prostate, gives me an awesome, different kind of orgasm, and for me is very educational on how to treat a lady. I just finished a two hour session, and I feel totally relaxed, and released. I want to try different models to see if I can get a more intense prostate orgasm.

[Walt]

jeffrey wrote:

<quoted text>I had my prostate massaged by a guy who had been giving me colonics,and recommended it after a colonic which I became erect,and also had clear fluid drip from my erect penis,I was very scared and soon became very aroused and ejaculated forcefully.I was 22 when I had my first one done,and glad I did.I since have had it done (by the same guy)many more times,and even was used by him as a volunteer subject to teach prostate massage to others interested in learning the art of prostate massage.I was also taught to have multi-orgasisms.It was thrilling.

That's just hot!

[Beemerman]

Hi open hands,I hope you can answer this for me,I love prostate and anal play, however if I play for a couple of consecutive days with butt plugs and dildo, I experience a bladder infection type pain at the top of the bubic bone which takes weeks to go away, the pain respondes somewhat to anti inflammatories
Please help

[OpenHands]

Please first visit a doctor, which of course is my first and primary advice to you. Rule out any possible medical issues before exploring other remedies.

From the massage perspective, I would simply encourage you to go more slowly, and explore the pleasures of more gentle and subtle touch. Many times, we get so excited and into the sensation that we can override pain or discomfort in our quest for more pleasure. This is never a good idea, especially when it comes to the sensitive anal tissues and the prostate gland. I also don't know how you are playing. Fingers, a toy? Less is often more in this area, so explore smaller penetration and try to feel it more fully. Also, breathe! The breath is so important and will help you feel more sensation and relax the pelvic muscles. It could be that an area of chronic tension is being triggered by so much vigorous play.

Are you a member of our video site? If not, please consider joining. You will find a series of videos that guide you and your partner through a healthy and gentle approach to prostate play. These skills may be valuable in continuing to explore this part of your sexuality without triggering the same kind of pain you have been experiencing.

I hope this was helpful. Again, please remember that I am not a doctor and can not advise you on medical issues. As a massage therapist and sex educator, we strive to teach erotic touch skills that create maximum pleasure while honoring the body and preventing pain.

All my best,

Christine

[A Healthy Prostate]

I have to say that prostate massage isn't for every guy because some just can't cope with the idea of something inside their rectum.They either think its gay or to painful.I guess thats what this place is for so we can educate guys on this so they can understand what it can actually do for their sex life and overall health.If men are curious or having prostate issues they should consult with their doctor before experimenting with prostate massage.Get all the information you can so you don't hurt yourself and cause even more problems.Always remember that prostate massage doesn't mean sticking a finger in your butt and moving it back and forth.There's a technique that must be followed to get all the benefits and pleasure from it so again,educate yourself and know your body.Another great place to find great information on prostate massage and health is www.prostate-massage-info.org
Cheers to a healthy prostate.

[bob]

Where do you find a colonics/prostate massage therapist that is a woman in pa?

[flyboy]

The best prostate massage for a guy is a big c**k in your a*s.

[distancehealing]

I have had it several times and it is very erotic and for me drove me wild as she controlled my orgasm in the end

[mark982]

my wifes way to much of a prude to consider anything like that,sometimes i feel like bitch slapping her mom and dad.

[trudi]

what is a prostate ?

[Mike]

Christine: Do you take appointents? I live in Alameda and would love to try a draining. Can you write back and let me know? [e-mail]. Thanks

OpenHands wrote:

Hey guys-
I am curious about your experiences with prostate massage. How did you hear about it? How did you learn? Did you enjoy it? What did you experience? How often do you get your prostate massaged?
Prostate massage is a healthy and pleasurable activity that can be highly orgasmic for men and great fun for their partners. So why don't we hear more about it? Speak up!
My website, www.TheHealthyProstate.com offers flash video lessons on solo and partnered prostate massage. We are ready to add more great videos to the site, and want to know more about what men are experiencing. Thanks for sharing!
Christine

[Pamela in red]

It's not as intense but you can massage it without putting your finger in his rectum. You massage the area just under his testicles. If you do this while giving a bj he will love it. Just lightly rub and stroke with your finger.