Disturbed

Victoria, TX

#283 Jan 13, 2008
lindsay wrote:
this is f'in awful...woman are not your slaves and we have our own minds and thoughts......no woman should give up anything for a man!!! this is what i have to say to all the men who like submissive women....go f*ck yourselves!!!
WOW preach on.. couldnt agree more

“...............”

Since: Dec 07

Location hidden

#284 Jan 13, 2008
Oh i love to be dominated in the bedroom.. Yum,,a man should be a man to me in bed.
But it has to be fair in other aspects of the relationship i think.
Norastri

Yogyakarta, Indonesia

#286 Jan 17, 2008
Women without submissive prefernce won't understand so the discussion will going nowhere. Its only people with D/s tendencies would know how it feels.

Since: Dec 07

United States

#287 Jan 17, 2008
lindsay wrote:
this is f'in awful...woman are not your slaves and we have our own minds and thoughts......no woman should give up anything for a man!!! this is what i have to say to all the men who like submissive women....go f*ck yourselves!!!
Well sugar,It's like this just because a woman desires to be submissive in the bed room doesn't mean she has to be outside the bed room.

Just because a woman is a sub in the bed room doesn't mean she has no mind of her own outside the bedroom

Usually in D/S relations there is a period where everything is discussed before the sex so there are no surprises.

However there are contracts and women who do sign over there freedom to men. They willingly do it.( I personally don't want that kind of sub)

Since: Dec 07

United States

#288 Jan 17, 2008
Oh most of all, the sub desires a man to take controll and D her. She has her own list of sub desires to be fufilled.

They are disccussed FIRST before the sex to see if compatability is there you know?

Since: Jul 07

Columbus, OH

#289 Jan 18, 2008
I am an extremely submissive person in the bedroom but in all other aspects of life I am not. I have a very charismatic, bubbly, and semi-dominate personality in every day life. But when I get in the bedroom I want a man to completely dominate me.

I want him to make me beg him, I want him to choke me and call me a slut, bitch, whore...whatever. I LOVE receiving orders *forcefully* from my guy telling me exactly what he wants me to do and being punished if I don't listen.

Now I'm all hot and bothered at work thinking about it...
Masters slave

United States

#291 Jan 21, 2008
I am a REAL slave who is owned by her Master. I see a lot of game players here who are just rambling on. I also see a lot of people who like to play submissive games. That's not how it is in the "lifestyle". I am an intelligent business woman who is considered somewhat of a hard ass in the automotive industry. I am completely different after 5 when I get home and kneel before my Master. I serve him, obey him, live as he choses, and sex is always his choice as is the amount and frequency of any pain he chooses to give. Jake if you are interested in the lifestyle, I suggest you do a little research on the web. There are loads of sites with advice for training and insite into the life. Good Luck.
The Oracle

Dagenham, UK

#292 Jan 28, 2008
Having read the above, I feel that you have all missed a fundamental point here. If men are, loving (I,e Caring, respectful,), responsible, sensible, decent, Honest, trustworthy, reliable, and if the woman knows that they are genuinely loved & cared for,(I,e you put there needs before your own (hens (but by no means limited to) the extended foreplay mentioned in a previous post.) by a man who they can trust & rely on and who lives in a way that earns their respect, then they will naturally submit to him. That kind of respect (not fear) has to be earned over time, but If men are real men (See above) then women are more likely to feel they can submit to them. One other thing. If you want a woman to submit to you, you must be strong,(I don’t mean physically although that helps, I mean emotionally.) You must NEVER run after her or chase her. If she threatens to leave, you must be able to say “if you want to go, I’ll help you pack,” She must be emotionally dependent on you and not the other way around. I loath the concept of feminism, because I feel that it is responsible for the breakdown of the family unit, that our society is based upon, but to be fair to women, had I been a woman in the 1900’s and married to the kind of man who drank all his wages & staggered home before knocking his wife around the house in his drunken rage, then I’d almost certainly have been a feminist. Week & irresponsible men, made it impossible for women to be proper women, and forced them to look out for themselves. If you want to reverse that then you have to be the reverse of that kind of man. I can’t abide “modern liberated” women. Nothing is a bigger / faster turnoff for me, than a women who is “assertive”(however good looking she may be) but to be fair to women, you can’t expect them to be proper (submissive) women unless you are prepared to be proper men, and that means taking real responsibility, putting there needs before your own and living in a way that makes you worthy of their respect.
Join Free
taylors

Kingston, Canada

#293 Jan 28, 2008
Jake wrote:
I love submissive women, I love the way they give up control to a man. There’s nothing like a submissive women, to make you feel really good. Are you a submissive women? Tell me a little about yourself.
i think most women will be submissive to a guy they like. I surprise myself with how submissive and passive i can be at times. But it feels good to just give up control to a guy i like and trust.

Since: Jul 07

Columbus, OH

#294 Jan 28, 2008
The Oracle wrote:
Having read the above, I feel that you have all missed a fundamental point here. If men are, loving (I,e Caring, respectful,), responsible, sensible, decent, Honest, trustworthy, reliable, and if the woman knows that they are genuinely loved & cared for,(I,e you put there needs before your own (hens (but by no means limited to) the extended foreplay mentioned in a previous post.) by a man who they can trust & rely on and who lives in a way that earns their respect, then they will naturally submit to him. That kind of respect (not fear) has to be earned over time, but If men are real men (See above) then women are more likely to feel they can submit to them. One other thing. If you want a woman to submit to you, you must be strong,(I don’t mean physically although that helps, I mean emotionally.) You must NEVER run after her or chase her. If she threatens to leave, you must be able to say “if you want to go, I’ll help you pack,” She must be emotionally dependent on you and not the other way around. I loath the concept of feminism, because I feel that it is responsible for the breakdown of the family unit, that our society is based upon, but to be fair to women, had I been a woman in the 1900’s and married to the kind of man who drank all his wages & staggered home before knocking his wife around the house in his drunken rage, then I’d almost certainly have been a feminist. Week & irresponsible men, made it impossible for women to be proper women, and forced them to look out for themselves. If you want to reverse that then you have to be the reverse of that kind of man. I can’t abide “modern liberated” women. Nothing is a bigger / faster turnoff for me, than a women who is “assertive”(however good looking she may be) but to be fair to women, you can’t expect them to be proper (submissive) women unless you are prepared to be proper men, and that means taking real responsibility, putting there needs before your own and living in a way that makes you worthy of their respect.
What a load of freaking hogwash!!!

Since: Dec 07

United States

#295 Jan 28, 2008
Emily1081 wrote:
I am an extremely submissive person in the bedroom but in all other aspects of life I am not. I have a very charismatic, bubbly, and semi-dominate personality in every day life. But when I get in the bedroom I want a man to completely dominate me.
I want him to make me beg him, I want him to choke me and call me a slut, bitch, whore...whatever. I LOVE receiving orders *forcefully* from my guy telling me exactly what he wants me to do and being punished if I don't listen.
Now I'm all hot and bothered at work thinking about it...
I'm all hot and bothred just thinking about TOO.

You are a jewel!

Since: Jul 07

Columbus, OH

#296 Jan 28, 2008
Alpha Omega Game wrote:
<quoted text>
I'm all hot and bothred just thinking about TOO.
You are a jewel!
:-) Awww...thanks! I'm glad we could be hot and bothered together! ;-)
Tha_Duchessxx

Orillia, Canada

#297 Feb 1, 2008
Jake - you would probably be interested in persuing a BDSM relationship with a submissive female. As opposed to the 'normal' relationship, this kind of relationship involves respect and love on both parties while you each take your 'natural' role.
The sub woman GIVES her submission to the one she wants to dominate her, and so it is a well thought out intelligent decision based on two people wanting the same thing. It would be your responsibility not only to make sure she was taken care of, but satisfied AND challenged.
It is possible to find what you need in this lifestyle.
Dont matter

AOL

#298 Feb 4, 2008
I want to date a guy who will dominate over me? I have a thing for a guy who will take complete control over me , and I dream of dating a man who will tell me what to do and is actually man enough to make me listen to him. Do you think that is stupid or crazy?
Ace Harley

Wynnewood, PA

#299 Feb 4, 2008
I have been walked on by women for as long as I can remember.

I cannot find a submissive female!
It is time for me to be in control.

I live in Pennsylvania, I have a great job, but no car.
Is there any woman out there young or old that will do as I say?
I can tell you my whole life story and you can understand where I am coming from.

I kind of stumbled on to this site and love what I am reading.

I need to find a woman that will serve me... but also enjoys the finer things in life.

I am a conservative.
Republican (but not real political)
I do have some morals.

Get in contact with me- please.

Bubsy40@yahoo.com
Raney

Jeffersonville, IN

#300 Feb 7, 2008
I find your statement to be absolutely in line with my thoughts and feelings. Being submissive is not only about sex. It's about trust, and comunication, passion. The man I have learned to call Master fills my needs while I inturn fill his. It's so natural,filling deep desires, trusting the other with your darkest secrets, it's untimately about giving and trust
Jake 20 wrote:
There’s just something about an dominate/submissive relationship, that I can‘t describe. It’s like two pieces of an puzzle, fitting perfectly together. There is no force, no real violence. Just a women giving you total control, and trusting you to treat her the way she wants, and needs to be treated. Some people just can’t understand this. All I can say is, if this lifestyle truly offends you, than just don’t come into the thread.

Since: Feb 08

Waterford Works, NJ

#301 Feb 9, 2008
It turns out that women who get turned on by being sexually submissive are ultimately more secure with themselves than other women. In fact, they are superior in a lot of ways, and are certainly more womanly.

Women who get angry at the idea of being submissive are kind of hollow, and will never feel really fulfilled or even understand what they've missed in life. Or maybe they just never met the right man, so they don't know any better. Too bad for them.

Unfortunately, the sexually elemental women are in the minority. Most people are just ordinary anyway and go along with whatever the current social trends are. If anyone goes against the current social dogma, then the average type of person gets angry.

Ordinary women just aren't interesting to me anymore.

But what is best of all is a woman who hasn't really experienced being submissive before. I like taking charge and it suits me. I want her to be in new territory with me, mixing her shyness with her desire. It is natural to me to want to teach her to be actively submissive, to enjoy being a "bad" girl (but only in my hands)- and ultimately to be herself in a way that deep down she always wanted. Give it to me, girl.

I don't much care for the labels or categories or any of that. It's just a natural male/female thing. And it's not really for public conversation, either. It's a private thing.

So write to me. You know who you are. I know how to handle you. My email address is listed in my profile. Take a chance. Maybe there's not much likelihood that we would meet, because of distance. Still, you never know. For now, we can at least talk. The talk at the beginning might just be about ordinary things. That's as it should be.

Being submissive isn't wimpy, it's actually daring. You know that. So be daring, be extraordinary. Life won't last forever.
tina england

UK

#302 Feb 10, 2008
i would just like to say, your on about being a sex slave, or just doing as your told. i get beaten during sex and spat at, thats what my bloke likes, and i dont get gifts

“Back in the saddle.”

Since: Feb 08

Location hidden

#304 Feb 10, 2008
I've just recently met a submissive woman who introduced me the 'conscious' aspect of this dynamic. There are quite a few different levels of this from what I understand and it has alot to do with what level both want to go at.
For us, we are on the same footing so to speak when not engaged in sex play, but when I take her to her sub space, then we naturally slip into our roles.
She tells me what she really loves is that I'm able to sense what she needs, and have the balls (or be strong enough) to go through with it. There are no beatings or humiliation involved, she trusts me not to when she gives her body to me.
And she really likes the tlc afterwards, sometimes I just lick her till she cums to let her know her Master appreciates his sweet slut.

“Let's Go Surfin'”

Since: Jan 08

Sunny Florida

#305 Feb 10, 2008
KB732pn wrote:
It turns out that women who get turned on by being sexually submissive are ultimately more secure with themselves than other women. In fact, they are superior in a lot of ways, and are certainly more womanly.
Women who get angry at the idea of being submissive are kind of hollow, and will never feel really fulfilled or even understand what they've missed in life. Or maybe they just never met the right man, so they don't know any better. Too bad for them.
Unfortunately, the sexually elemental women are in the minority. Most people are just ordinary anyway and go along with whatever the current social trends are. If anyone goes against the current social dogma, then the average type of person gets angry.
Ordinary women just aren't interesting to me anymore.
But what is best of all is a woman who hasn't really experienced being submissive before. I like taking charge and it suits me. I want her to be in new territory with me, mixing her shyness with her desire. It is natural to me to want to teach her to be actively submissive, to enjoy being a "bad" girl (but only in my hands)- and ultimately to be herself in a way that deep down she always wanted. Give it to me, girl.
I don't much care for the labels or categories or any of that. It's just a natural male/female thing. And it's not really for public conversation, either. It's a private thing.
So write to me. You know who you are. I know how to handle you. My email address is listed in my profile. Take a chance. Maybe there's not much likelihood that we would meet, because of distance. Still, you never know. For now, we can at least talk. The talk at the beginning might just be about ordinary things. That's as it should be.
Being submissive isn't wimpy, it's actually daring. You know that. So be daring, be extraordinary. Life won't last forever.
I think that giving up control is daring, and it really can make things even more more fun.

Tell me when this thread is updated:

Subscribe Now Add to my Tracker

Add your comments below

Characters left: 4000

Please note by submitting this form you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

Human Sexuality Discussions

Title Updated Last By Comments
Gay Snapchat Ireland (Dec '13) 2 min Dsazxcvb 2,482
Snapchat names (Jan '14) 2 min Tommy37 19,511
Bi/Gay Skype sex (Sep '11) 2 min trinigay 675,398
first time u had sex with a animal and what was... (Sep '11) 2 min Paully___D 464
gay whatsapp numbers (Jul '13) 2 min romance kavali 1,327
what are you listening to RIGHT NOW? (Jul '11) 2 min avon5735 29,041
fakt marathi zavazavi 3 min sameer 205
Girls nude snapchat usernames (Apr '14) 3 min Parkeddd 86,721
gay snapchat!!! (Dec '12) 3 min Lolitwink 655,204
Gay/bi K....k (Nov '13) 3 min Jamieeee 308,130
Dirty ki...k 6 min red95 12,444
More from around the web