Submissive Women

Since: Sep 07

United States

#199 Sep 13, 2007
LOL! Finally a positive aspect to my age!!! Just kidding. Thanks and good luck to you as well.
Pinky Tuscadero wrote:
Hey Cargy, good luck with this. The whole concept scares me, but I think you have some resources to check into. Keep researching until you feel comfy, K?
If there was ever a time your looking for mr. Right, this is it. I know it isnt for me, but thats just me, right?
"I know that one is going to confuse you!"
You know it girl! ROFL!
The one thing that comforts me is your age, women in their 40's are better at knowing who they are (ducking rotten tomatoes coming my way for making that generalization) Id be really worried if you were like 19 or something. You got experience!
Leather Tuscadero

Fox Lake, IL

#200 Sep 13, 2007
Im right there, actually, ahead of there and feel myself (as do my friends) 40's are better than 20's in lots of ways.

You seem solid, so Im not going to worry about you anymore. Whatever you do, give yourself some kind of an escape hatch, maybe a pre-sub-dom agreement or something? hee!

Since: Sep 07

United States

#201 Sep 13, 2007
Hey Pink/Leather, just curious, are you the Dom or the sub? or neither?
Leather Tuscadero wrote:
Im right there, actually, ahead of there and feel myself (as do my friends) 40's are better than 20's in lots of ways.
You seem solid, so Im not going to worry about you anymore. Whatever you do, give yourself some kind of an escape hatch, maybe a pre-sub-dom agreement or something? hee!
DaveTheKnave

Cypress, TX

#202 Sep 13, 2007
I'm not into subs. I like confidence, intelligence, and drive in a woman. I prefer an equal, not a toy.

“keepin it real”

Since: Aug 07

Billybobville, Kansas

#203 Sep 13, 2007
DaveTheKnave wrote:
I'm not into subs. I like confidence, intelligence, and drive in a woman. I prefer an equal, not a toy.
LOL...a submissive is the strongest type of woman there is. She isnt a doormat, she isnt someone who wants to be abused, she is a woman that needs a real man,a woman of intelligence, and strength and compassion, self confidence and assuredness. She *needs* a man of integrity, and wisdom, and intelligence, a man stronger than herself. Alot of men cant stand up to that high rank because they want a mommy. They want someone to tell them when to do it and how to do it.A real Dom knows what she needs, and knows what He is supposed to do. There are supposed to be 2 people in a relationship. The man and the woman. The man has his place and the woman has hers. Alot of relationships fail because one or both of the people arent doing thier part.
Pinky Tuscadero

Fox Lake, IL

#204 Sep 13, 2007
Hey Cargy!

Sometimes my husband would probably say Im the dom LOLOL! But reality we work for equality. Im good at some stuff and he's good at others so we have to balance each other out.

The truth is I really dont understand this dom/sub stuff, so Im reacting to your situation on my gut feeling more anything. The only example I have is my MIL. She got to the point if you said, "Mom do you want turkey or ham sandwich" She couldnt tell you, she look at FIL and he'd pick. She had no idea what she wanted. Id be like, hmmm, Damn I dont like either one, get me some Roast Beef! ROFL!
Pinky Tuscadero

Fox Lake, IL

#205 Sep 13, 2007
Ok heres the other thing. He was NOT a lifelong abusive kinda guy. He was normally pretty tender and loveing with her.

As he got older tho, he came down with severe OCD and he probably had a lot of anxiety and depression, sleep deprivation kind of stuff. He hospital told us he was probably mentally ill but they couldnt make him get treatment.

She was vulnerable to say the least. I talked to my DR about her and DR said if she wasnt complaining you couldnt do anything to help her. We all asked for opinions from people. The only option was to call the police and nobody wanted to do that.

If we had stuck a power of atty in front of her and said sign this so we can help you, she woulda smiled at you and said "im so lucky I have him he's wonderful" blah blah blah

She stil talks about how much she loves him. Its really confusing and I ended up on Zoloft trying to deal wit it.
HmmSpeak

Huntsville, AL

#206 Sep 14, 2007
I wonder if there are any guys out there that like this: I like a dominant man--but I like one that plays mind games with me, more psychological. I like a little bit of physical dominance too. But I don't like a guy that just beats up on a girl, cause that's lame and stupid. I like a guy who can balance psychological dominance with nurturing. Kind of like the guy in kiss the girls (except I don't want a killer). Do you see what I mean?
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jon

Mooresville, NC

#207 Sep 15, 2007
So HMMSPEAK why have you not found me yet YOU SOUND IF YOU NEED TO BE MANAGED
sail_alone

Malaysia

#208 Sep 18, 2007
the submissivewomen is a wise women, and that an understanding the most effective way of expressing them--will gain benefits for herself and give greater pleasure to those around her
Cofee_Black

India

#209 Sep 27, 2007
i dunno why there's so much debate on this topic - the whole women's lib vs submission thing.
the way i see it, i like strong, independent, intelligent women. but if i like to cal he ma bitch in the privacy of my bedroom and spank her her bottom and have her enjoy it, then i don't see how it harms anyone. especially our lives outside the bedroom.
i think the problem is people who take bdsm too far out the bedroom or those who can't see that its just kinky people having fun.
ownedgirl

Salt Lake City, UT

#210 Oct 18, 2007
If you want a submissive woman, someone who wants to submit to you totally the idea isn't to find her and brainwash her into thinking that the sun rises and sets in your fantasy laden eyes...it is to be WORTHY of having her submit to you. Are you? Do you have any concept of what it is to be a Dominant? Do you understand that the responsibility that puts on you isn't always fun or sexy or easy? You don't just get to say you like submissive women and expect a perfectly willing one will fall into your lap because believe it or not we (submissives') have needs, wants, and desires as well and unless we can find someone who is worthy of the submission that can only be given freely, we aren't really going to give it. Besides all that, do you really want a woman who will lick your boots because you've made her BELIEVE that she wants to, or because she loves and respects you and sincerly wants to please you? You can't train a girl to be submissive, you can only train a consenting submissive how to submit in a way that pleases you.
Jenn

London, Canada

#212 Oct 23, 2007
I have great pleasure into giving myself to a man who makes me feel safe and secure while in his arms, but I can see there are many different levels of submission, while sexually I am submissive and do what i can too please him, he also does the same for me, shall i use ratios here, its a 5:1 orgasm me on the high end while being sexually pleased.Also while it comes to other decisions they are made conjointly, its own sexual pleasure that renders me submissive, if he is happy then i am happy.
trina

Boynton Beach, FL

#213 Oct 23, 2007
i love being Submissive! i just need to find the right guy for me-what should i be looking for?

Since: Oct 07

AOL

#214 Oct 23, 2007
I am soooo a submissive woman. I am the perfect toy for my Master. You can check out my blog at www.MorganLogan1971.com or my Yahoo profile at http://profiles.yahoo.com/morgan_of_1971... .
Wendy

United States

#215 Oct 23, 2007
Jake wrote:
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Your missing the point my friends. Like I said before. There’s nothing like a women, who sole duty is to make sure your satisfaction is complete. that’s the kind of women out there I’m looking for.
I learned a long time ago to always make my man's satisfaction my top priority. I tend to be attracted to men who are the dominant ones in the relationship, and want nothing less than total satisfaction from their partner, and that is what I always give them. There really is not much that I won't do for someone I care about, meaning that I won't do this for just anyone. But when I really care about the guy a lot I'll let him own me if that is what he wants. For me, its all about him, and his pleasure. And that gives me pleasure of my own.
delight

Christmas, FL

#216 Nov 1, 2007
Wow! I don't know how I got here but I sure have enjoyed the posts I've been sitting here reading!

I am an intelligent submissive woman. I love giving up control to Master and I love the things He does to me from flogging me to punishing me!!!

I AM a sex slave and I certainly don't consider myself mindless, and neither does Master. He enjoys the things that I also enjoy doing to Him. Nothing gives me more pleasure than to service Him, to suck on His cock and to take His juice in my mouth and feel it slide down my throat.

Of course guys want slaves--isn't that what the lifestyle is all about? That's at least what I thought when I found my way to it! I wanted to be tied up for sex and I finally found somebody who was willing to do that for me--that and more. He ties my wrists to the bedpost and my ankles to the footboard. Sometimes He binds my breasts and suspends me from them. And while He has me suspended He sucks on my nipples and finger fucks me.

So, gals, if you'all aren't in it for the great sex why the hell ARE you here? I will never go back to vanilla sex--and I'm 58 years old. I only found the lifestyle 2 years ago and I regret not having found it long before I did.

If you aren't submissive, if you don't want to be a slave and serve a dominant or master, why are you here?

“PEACE !!!”

Since: Oct 07

why

#217 Nov 1, 2007
I love to be dominated by a hot sexy delicious man. "He can rule me!!"
It is also a big turn on. Besides I love experiencing new things sexually.
trina

Hollywood, FL

#218 Nov 1, 2007
I love being submissive, like being dominated-but not too far into bondage. I tend to find guys that are submissive to me. I just see them as weak and unattractive. What kind of guy should I be looking for to please me?

Since: Oct 07

AOL

#219 Nov 1, 2007
delight wrote:
Wow! I don't know how I got here but I sure have enjoyed the posts I've been sitting here reading!
I am an intelligent submissive woman. I love giving up control to Master and I love the things He does to me from flogging me to punishing me!!!
I AM a sex slave and I certainly don't consider myself mindless, and neither does Master. He enjoys the things that I also enjoy doing to Him. Nothing gives me more pleasure than to service Him, to suck on His cock and to take His juice in my mouth and feel it slide down my throat.
Of course guys want slaves--isn't that what the lifestyle is all about? That's at least what I thought when I found my way to it! I wanted to be tied up for sex and I finally found somebody who was willing to do that for me--that and more. He ties my wrists to the bedpost and my ankles to the footboard. Sometimes He binds my breasts and suspends me from them. And while He has me suspended He sucks on my nipples and finger fucks me.
So, gals, if you'all aren't in it for the great sex why the hell ARE you here? I will never go back to vanilla sex--and I'm 58 years old. I only found the lifestyle 2 years ago and I regret not having found it long before I did.
If you aren't submissive, if you don't want to be a slave and serve a dominant or master, why are you here?
WOW! 58!! Good for you. It is nice to know that the older you get the better you can get. I would love to be having sex till the day I die at a very old age. LOL

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