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Feb 7, 2012
 
No sure how rellevent my story is but is hard to find a forum for it and harder to ever find anyone to chat about it with. From the age of 3 until about the age of 10 my brother,who is 5yrs older than me,used to terrorise me by locking me in dark spaces,ducking me at baths,putting me under cushions on couch or mattress and lie on top smothering me. He used to get me alone and sit on my chest with his knees on my arms,rendering me helpless and smother me with his hands,and would stare into my eyes,I could see the excitement in his face.I used to be terrified and always looking over shoulder for him.
Anyway apart from that,from about the age of 5 I think I was gay because I used to think about the popstars of the day ie David Cassidy,Donny Osmond but when I would think about them it wasn't sexual because I was only 5yrs after all :-) but in my fantasies they would always be sitting on me somewhere,stomache,chest,neck or face pinning me down. I used to try and get other boys into wrestling playfights with me and sit on me as often possible through school yrs.Loved it :-)
After that had sexual relationships with women but wasn't for me so came out and enjoyed my sex life but I can really only get fully turned on when I am being pinned down physically but by a person,bondage gear,ropes,cuffs don't do anything for me. I don't mean to be pinned and fucked, I mean I just love the feeling of been pinned down,helpless and especially like to be lay on or sat on. I also do not like to be physically hit with hands,whips or any such things.
I am age 44 now and have noticed that in the past couple of yrs that I have enjoyed watching women wrestling on internet sites with me and women and have been aroused by it and think I would be turned on just as much if woman pinned me,But fat chance of finding one. I have searched high and low and paying for it would not do it for me. It has to be real and both want .
I consider myself to be level headed and only as crazy as the next guy. I read an article on net about a lot of people get aroused being,dominated because of a trauma during childhood.I don't ever remember been anything but afraid when my brother sat on me but can't help wondering if it is a factor.
Thanks for reading and be nice if someone knew the answer.
Graham
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Mar 25, 2012
 
no luck finding one? They are all too afraid.lol
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Mar 26, 2012
 
anyone there?
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Mar 26, 2012
 
When I was in my early teens, a family moved into the neighborhood just down the block, they had a son about 11 or 12 YO I was 14 (I think) and our parents would play cards togather, he and I would go to the basement (rec.Room) and watch TV.
He was thin about 80#, I bigger 110#'s but he always liked to wrestle around and of course I dominated him utterly, but not hurtfully,
Whenever I ended up on top "pinning" him by his wrists,I could feel he was erect, and one day kidded him about it,(Him getting a woodie) he blushed and said he couldn't help it cause me "pinning" him made his "thing" get "tingley"
and I asked him to show me it,, he did then asked me to show-- I did,
He wasn't yet pubertant (SP?) but admitted he liked us showing,, By the next spring I had taught him how to give head, but he always wanted me to "MAKE" him do it, there was no force involved at all but he wanted to be "MADE" to do it.

Thinking back, there must have been someting else involved, some other (forced encounter) but he would never admit to it.
Thats my story,, and I'm stickin' to it.
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Mar 27, 2012
 
thanks for your input.
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Mar 29, 2012
 
hm
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Jun 3, 2012
 
In our pre teen years my brother and I always used to wrestle when we were confined to the house through bad weather or waiting for a parent to come home from work. I was a year older so always had an advantage and used to enjoy pinning him down and getting him to submit.
As time went by the matches become more even and when I was on top of him I became aware of something hard in his lap. He used to blush furiously and look away when I mentioned the hard thing in his trousers and it wasn't long before I realised what it was. When he pinned me it was always with his knees forcing my shoulders down. He used to drum on my chest with his fists just to torture me in the bout. It didn't matter as there was nothing there anyhow.
Eventually, when loosing a match I just kneed him hard in the b@lls. I was surprised at the impact it had as he rolled over in agony and shamelessly held his genitals. I got a fit of the giggles as he rolled around and tried to apologise through my laughter.
I didn't think he would ever want to wrestle after that but to my surprise he seemed more eager than ever! I continued to crush his nuts but only with my knee. The thought of grabbing him with my hands didn't even enter my head
and in retrospect would have got me out of many a hold. As I got older I started to wear dresses and skirts so as we wrestled he took advantage of my feminine attire. He would pull my skirt up and then attack me as I tried to cover myself. One day when I thought he was attacking 'up skirt' too much I did grab his testicles and twisted him to defeat. The matches become more and more sexual and when he overpowered me and squeezed my blossoming boobs it was my turn to blush in embarrassment. After that bout both my brother and I never wrestled again. Nothing was discussed or reasons given I think we both knew it was naturally wrong and moved on in our lives.
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Jun 8, 2012
 
Big Jen wrote:
In our pre teen years my brother and I always used to wrestle when we were confined to the house through bad weather or waiting for a parent to come home from work. I was a year older so always had an advantage and used to enjoy pinning him down and getting him to submit.
As time went by the matches become more even and when I was on top of him I became aware of something hard in his lap. He used to blush furiously and look away when I mentioned the hard thing in his trousers and it wasn't long before I realised what it was. When he pinned me it was always with his knees forcing my shoulders down. He used to drum on my chest with his fists just to torture me in the bout. It didn't matter as there was nothing there anyhow.
Eventually, when loosing a match I just kneed him hard in the b@lls. I was surprised at the impact it had as he rolled over in agony and shamelessly held his genitals. I got a fit of the giggles as he rolled around and tried to apologise through my laughter.
I didn't think he would ever want to wrestle after that but to my surprise he seemed more eager than ever! I continued to crush his nuts but only with my knee. The thought of grabbing him with my hands didn't even enter my head
and in retrospect would have got me out of many a hold. As I got older I started to wear dresses and skirts so as we wrestled he took advantage of my feminine attire. He would pull my skirt up and then attack me as I tried to cover myself. One day when I thought he was attacking 'up skirt' too much I did grab his testicles and twisted him to defeat. The matches become more and more sexual and when he overpowered me and squeezed my blossoming boobs it was my turn to blush in embarrassment. After that bout both my brother and I never wrestled again. Nothing was discussed or reasons given I think we both knew it was naturally wrong and moved on in our lives.
Hi and thanks for your account. It sounds like you had lot if fun. Would have enjoyed been yourbrother having someone to pin him down.
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Jun 8, 2012
 
Graham wrote:
No sure how rellevent my story is but is hard to find a forum for it and harder to ever find anyone to chat about it with. From the age of 3 until about the age of 10 my brother,who is 5yrs older than me,used to terrorise me by locking me in dark spaces,ducking me at baths,putting me under cushions on couch or mattress and lie on top smothering me. He used to get me alone and sit on my chest with his knees on my arms,rendering me helpless and smother me with his hands,and would stare into my eyes,I could see the excitement in his face.I used to be terrified and always looking over shoulder for him.
Anyway apart from that,from about the age of 5 I think I was gay because I used to think about the popstars of the day ie David Cassidy,Donny Osmond but when I would think about them it wasn't sexual because I was only 5yrs after all :-) but in my fantasies they would always be sitting on me somewhere,stomache,chest,neck or face pinning me down. I used to try and get other boys into wrestling playfights with me and sit on me as often possible through school yrs.Loved it :-)
After that had sexual relationships with women but wasn't for me so came out and enjoyed my sex life but I can really only get fully turned on when I am being pinned down physically but by a person,bondage gear,ropes,cuffs don't do anything for me. I don't mean to be pinned and fucked, I mean I just love the feeling of been pinned down,helpless and especially like to be lay on or sat on. I also do not like to be physically hit with hands,whips or any such things.
I am age 44 now and have noticed that in the past couple of yrs that I have enjoyed watching women wrestling on internet sites with me and women and have been aroused by it and think I would be turned on just as much if woman pinned me,But fat chance of finding one. I have searched high and low and paying for it would not do it for me. It has to be real and both want .
I consider myself to be level headed and only as crazy as the next guy. I read an article on net about a lot of people get aroused being,dominated because of a trauma during childhood.I don't ever remember been anything but afraid when my brother sat on me but can't help wondering if it is a factor.
Thanks for reading and be nice if someone knew the answer.
Graham
Well in ancient Greece it was common for both genders to wrestle together (particularly in Sparta)when both parties would be naked.This of course was purely for sport (although human nature being what it is, no doubt sexual encounters would be inevitable)Also in Greek mythology Atalanta (she of the 'golden apples' race)wrestled with Peleus - and beat him! It's really only in 'modern' times (largely through Christian influence)that mixed gender wrestling has been banned - but does take place covertly, both in public and 'private' bouts. Again ostensibly this is purely as a sport, but I understand some 'athletic' ladies offer this as a private 'one-to-one' encounter for those who are seeking wresttling as an erotic experience - which is what you appear to be seeking.No doubt if you trawled some of the erotic websites you will find out more about this. Hope this helps, and incidentally there is no evidence that your initial encounter depicts you as gay, because both heterosexual and homosexual males as well as lesbians find wrestling an erotic experience.
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Jun 11, 2012
 
I wish I could find someone to pin me,but no luck
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Jun 11, 2012
 
GRAHAM wrote:
I wish I could find someone to pin me,but no luck
Shame you're not located in the U.S.- where these 'private'encounters appear to flourish!(Maybe a holiday trip?)- or of course, you may be lucky here now you have come oput of your 'shell'! Good luck anyway.
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Jun 12, 2012
 
I am gay man(bi curious) living in Bristol UK. 44yo.5"9.160lb.42ch,32w. Looking for man or woman to wrestle me down and put me into long held pins and holds with no chance for escape as iI struggle helplessly,feeling humiliated. I have never wrestled with a female so not sure what to expect. I am likely to be turned on at times and am open to different aspects of participation and eroticism,real time meet or chat.Please email me for genuine meet or leave message here me for wrestle chat.
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Jun 17, 2012
 
This long no escape holding I did with my brother when we were teenagers.
He is 3 years older then me but he was pretty thin this time while I had a chubby phase.
I could hold his neck between my legs with no escape for him. And also some other holds tightening him under my arms.
Andof course as the little younger sister it was a turn on how he tried to get out helplessly finally begging me and I didnt release him even he wanted to go somewhere with some friends.
Yes I was pretty mean sometimes but when a little girl finds out that she could hold an older boy unescapeable in some positions every girl would use that.
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Jun 17, 2012
 
Johanna wrote:
This long no escape holding I did with my brother when we were teenagers.
He is 3 years older then me but he was pretty thin this time while I had a chubby phase.
I could hold his neck between my legs with no escape for him. And also some other holds tightening him under my arms.
Andof course as the little younger sister it was a turn on how he tried to get out helplessly finally begging me and I didnt release him even he wanted to go somewhere with some friends.
Yes I was pretty mean sometimes but when a little girl finds out that she could hold an older boy unescapeable in some positions every girl would use that.
...Ah yes - but then you're a Viking girl, and it's in your genes!lol:)We hold an annual Viking Festival here in the Northern Isles of Scotland, and last year a Norwegian woman (in full Viking gear)in one of the pubs claimed she could lift and carry out any man there into the car park and deposit him on the ground. If she succeeded then the gent would pay 10 (for a local charity.)She earned quite a lot that night!(She was quite slender also like yourself - but very muscular, and apparently was a weight trainer when she wasn't being a Viking)Gave a whole new meaning to 'being carried off by the Vikings'!lol:)
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Jun 17, 2012
 
If you think so....i guess I was just a little chubby girl this time like thousands of girls. It was just random that I found out that I can use my legs to hold my brother unescapepeable.
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Jun 17, 2012
 
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...Ah yes - but then you're a Viking girl, and it's in your genes!lol:)We hold an annual Viking Festival here in the Northern Isles of Scotland, and last year a Norwegian woman (in full Viking gear)in one of the pubs claimed she could lift and carry out any man there into the car park and deposit him on the ground. If she succeeded then the gent would pay 10 (for a local charity.)She earned quite a lot that night!(She was quite slender also like yourself - but very muscular, and apparently was a weight trainer when she wasn't being a Viking)Gave a whole new meaning to 'being carried off by the Vikings'!lol:)
sorry my yahoo id is
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Jun 18, 2012
 
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sorry my yahoo id is
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Think you've sent this to the wrong poster - I never asked for your yahoo id (and would suggest you change it now the whole cyberworld knows it!)Warning to everyone - NEVER disclose your id numbers of anything, anywhere.
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Aug 3, 2012
 
GRAHAM wrote:
I am gay man(bi curious) living in Bristol UK. 44yo.5"9.160lb.42ch,32w. Looking for man or woman to wrestle me down and put me into long held pins and holds with no chance for escape as iI struggle helplessly,feeling humiliated. I have never wrestled with a female so not sure what to expect. I am likely to be turned on at times and am open to different aspects of participation and eroticism,real time meet or chat.Please email me for genuine meet or leave message here me for wrestle chat.
Thanks.
I will come and wrestle with you.
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Aug 3, 2012
 
I enjoy mounting and being mounted during fighting competitions.
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Aug 3, 2012
 
Can you telll me your stats etc? male female. Anymore info?
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I enjoy mounting and being mounted during fighting competitions.

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