I do engage in risky behavior and will also concede that the older man I mentioned earlier probably wouldn't have ever strayed had I not made the move. The others were either already doing what they were doing or were actively looking for someone to play with.<quoted text>
I'm just expressing concern for your health and your Karma. Helping a man lie to his wife about such a fundemental issue has consequences. Not Hell and Damnation but certainly it cheapens and coarsens the spirit and the heart.
This may sound selfish, but I restrict myself to married men who have no intention of leaving their wife for a few reasons. One, is that they are going to be far less likely to talk as they don't want to take the chance of causing problems with their spouse. They are also picky about who they meet for sex as they don't want their sex partner blabbing all over town either. These guys are not the type to hang around road side rest areas waiting to blow or be blown by any Tom, Dick or Jerry that stops by.
I have corresponded with others but rejected them because they lived too far away, they had sex with quite a few (both men and women), they bad mouthed their current GF or wife or I just got an overall bad vibe from them.