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#22
Sep 13, 2011
 
Mistress wrote:
My b/f and I often "play." Actually, we have regular sex maybe once out of every ten times. I'm female and I'm the master. I make him wear the butt plugs, dress him in frills and stockings, and beat him til it bores me.
I love it. There is such an extreme sense of power that overcomes me, and I'm immediately turned on. We have several toys that we use, some bought, some home-made. I have a strap on, paddles, and other "regular" toys. I love being resourceful and making toys. My best accomplishment is a human choke collar. But I often use seran wrap and ducttape for the CBT. I'm recently infatuated with pony play, so we're working on gettin the plugs with a tail and a saddle.:)
We have carried our play outside of the house also. He is a musician so ill make him wear his stockings, lacy panties, and a butt plug that I ducttape in, while on stage. He is sub to me when he gets off stage. No one knows it except us and it thrills me to watch him be oh so careful so his undergarments don't show while he's playing. And while he's on the road I have his c0ck under lock and key so he can't even touch it.
Our sex life has greatly influenced our relationship. I am closer to him than any other partner I've had. Plus I was his first Mistress and he was my first slave. We connect on so many levels. I think everyone has it in them, wanting to be either D or s. They're just afraid to let themselves experience it on an all out level. It takes the right person to open that door.
So, I guess I do it for the power and the pleasure it brings. It is now a part of me and I couldn't imagine being stuck with the norm the rest of my life. And LetNatureHpn, beautiful post. I couldn't have worded it better.
i know WE are closer than ever. Previously due to illness issues i became the dominant- but it was passionless and like an intellectual exercise to me- i explored who i REALLY was, what my actual fantasies were. i discovered that if i switched my fantasies that were submissive to dominant- they disappeared entirely. Evaporated in an instant. So outwardly i role played dominance and inside i was submissive. Master who HAD the illness issues-became passive and neither of us though we loved each other enough not to separate, were not being anything close to who we were. Once we changed that- started into 24/7 M/s,O/p TPE, it all started coming together. We have developed a much closer relationship, HOT, and both of us flourish in ways unimaginable before. We have sex 1-4 times a day. Engage in BDSM-every day. i go to bed naked and in chains and handcuffs nightly, and am the happy recipient from an indulgent Owner of some form of torture daily as well.

When people find the right dynamics- when all pretense is put aside and the dom/sub parts embraced rather than suppressed then all hell breaks loose and it couldn't be better.
Caleb

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#23
Sep 14, 2011
 
Mistress wrote:
I usually wear the leather/pleather and put him in pretty frills for my amusement and his humiliation.:)
I was picked up by some women when I was younger and stripped naked and tied up with my legs very wide apart indeed. They had rope, whips, rubber rings, dildoes, tubes and thin rods and needles. They did everything to me and it was very erotic and I loved it.
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#24
Sep 14, 2011
 
Mistress u should put him in a mini leather skirt when u strap on rape him nice easy access for u ;)

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#25
Sep 14, 2011
 
I have been severely restrained and masturbated..and I also love to tie my girls up real tight and tease them......bondage is definately for me...either way
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Sep 14, 2011
 
goodboy wrote:
Mistress u should put him in a mini leather skirt when u strap on rape him nice easy access for u ;)
:)
submissive husband

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#27
Sep 14, 2011
 
my wife likes me in as she calls it, girlie clothes, also
Sean

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Sep 15, 2011
 
Caleb wrote:
<quoted text> I was picked up by some women when I was younger and stripped naked and tied up with my legs very wide apart indeed. They had rope, whips, rubber rings, dildoes, tubes and thin rods and needles. They did everything to me and it was very erotic and I loved it.
Caleb, I had a similar experience hitch hiking overses. I was 18 and four womem in their 30's picked me up in the forest. They drove to a lake and all swam naked. I was shy but they encouraged me to take my clothes off. After our swim we lay naked having lunch with wine. They began to talk about sexual fantasiies including bondage. I became very swollen and erect and could not hide it and they noticed. They seemed interested in having a young guy tied up. They asked if i would like to help them saying I could stop at any time. Eventually i agreed. I was tied naked between two trees in a secluded area. My feet and hands were wide tied with rope very apart. I was very erect and swollen by now and my penis dribbled constantly. They all loved it and many photographs were taken with my consent. They enjoyed sliding dildoes up my rec... over and over. This made me want to ejaculate but they had the intuition of just stopping before I did. Thick strong tight rubber rings were put around my co.. an ba.. which excited me very much.-- cont.
Jessica

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#29
Sep 15, 2011
 
Im against it but thats just me. I find it to be demeaning and degrading and built to stroke his ego and him treat you like property. For those that do it thats fine. Just speaking for me not the world. I just prefer equality not less than
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#32
Sep 16, 2011
 
Sean wrote:
<quoted text> --- Cont.. "I agree Sweetgirl93". How old are you? Being helpless and dominated by sexy older more experienced women, with pain/pleasure as a male youth of 18, was intensely erotic and sexually arousing indeed. I squeezed down on the thick dildo up my rect.. and it made my penis awell and erect more and more. Each dildo had added thickness and protusions on the shaft to intensify the erotic feeling up inside my rect.. Being completely naked in a secluded beautiful forest with four beautiful naked full figured women added to the romantic atmosphere. A new dimension to my helplessnes and pain was needles being slowly inserted, at my agreement, into my penis shaft, scrotum and around my an.. This was extremeely sensitive but exciting indeed. Needles in my armpits and nipples were deliciously sexy. A jelled slippery metal tube going slowly down inside my penis was the ultimate experience however and it took my breath away!!!!--- cont.
Hi Sean. My friends are about the age of your ladies in the story, and we once picked up a very good looking young male hitch hiker, about your age, in my country of origin. We have a lot of secluded forests and lakes and swim nude every summer. He was surprised but slowly we seduced him into taking all his clothes off. Of course with big breasted naked women he immediately got a huge erect penis and swollen testicles. In my country it is no big deal to see young men like this and we re-assured him. His penis stayed erect all the time however. Jkingly we hid his and our clothes so he and we had to stay naked. We seduced him into bondage with us as we love to to that to young men as it is so sexy for us. We lay him on his back on the grass and tied his wrists to two trees hehind him. We then bent his legs up and over behind him and tied his ankles to the same tree. His open buttocks, penis and testicles were easily accessible to us in this sweetly vunerable position. We were naked and very aroused by such a sight of a naked, captive, erect young man. We felt our clitoris', nipples and vaginas running juices down the inside of our thighs. He let us put strap on male penises on ourselves and, with a lot of jel, have intercourse up in between his very cute open fresh youthful buttocks and deep up inside of his body. We could see his erect penis and swollen testicles in that position which was very erotic for us ladies. We could orgasm as the dildoes were double headed with a second penis up our vaginas which also had a clitoral stimulating nob on the shaft. We all had a turn up inside this lovely young man and all orgasmed powerfully. The forest beauty and erotic atmosphere were super charged. Beside this, yes, we also love to slide smooth metal rods down young men's penises. It is high erotic bondage for us and very stimulating for men as is anal intercourse for all of us.
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#33
Sep 16, 2011
 
Mistress wrote:
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:)
if not id always be avaliable for it ;p
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#34
Sep 16, 2011
 
ready4itanytime wrote:
I have found that there are alot of guys who say they are into extreme BDSM then find out that what they think is extreme is really nothing more than aggressive normal sex. It is actually hard to find a guy really into extremely rough and abusive things
That is because sadism is different than bdsm. I personally live the lifestlye 24/7. She never knows what she will get when I come home at night. Sometimes its just a raw ass, othertimes I treat the furniture better. The only thing she is sure about is that she will have multiple orgasms and be left drained by bedtime.

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#35
Sep 16, 2011
 
ready4itanytime wrote:
I have found that there are alot of guys who say they are into extreme BDSM then find out that what they think is extreme is really nothing more than aggressive normal sex. It is actually hard to find a guy really into extremely rough and abusive things
hello,, are you into giving or reseaving?????
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#36
Sep 16, 2011
 
To inflict the type of pain which creates pleasure takes practice, and total trust. I look forward to teaching my students. I have found women who have no ability to stop it have the biggest O's of their lives. Many squirt which is a new experience fcor them. For them they are embarressed at first until it is explained that them squirting makes me know they enjoyed themselves. Which is the real pleasurable part.

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#38
Sep 17, 2011
 
Jessica wrote:
Im against it but thats just me. I find it to be demeaning and degrading and built to stroke his ego and him treat you like property. For those that do it thats fine. Just speaking for me not the world. I just prefer equality not less than
Well it DOES depend. There is a saying- Equal value, not status in the relationship. i will always vote as does Master for equality for everyone POLITICALLY.

IN our lives however,i am His property. i find the more He dominates the hotter i get. 24/7-hot all the time. Awesome. Love it. i am not into ego stroking, i am into being His property and slave. Works for me. Never been happier.
Jessica

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Sep 17, 2011
 
subspace wrote:
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Well it DOES depend. There is a saying- Equal value, not status in the relationship. i will always vote as does Master for equality for everyone POLITICALLY.
IN our lives however,i am His property. i find the more He dominates the hotter i get. 24/7-hot all the time. Awesome. Love it. i am not into ego stroking, i am into being His property and slave. Works for me. Never been happier.
Thats fine for you I guess. I just see it differently. I see it a woman being degraded humilated and no where near equal. I choose to be treated as a human not a piece of chattle much along the lines of his pet dog or horse. I see it as nothing more than his way of getting his ego stroked and making him think he is some how a womans superior. It works for you but not for most and thats fine. I just want a man that sees me as his equal not his as you call yourself " his property".
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#40
Sep 17, 2011
 
Jessica....I'm just curious....what if the rolls were reversed and your man asked you to tie him up, bend him over your knee and give him a good spanking or paddling and then allow him to suck your toes and whatever.....It seems like you don't want to be subservient and submissive..... but how would you feel if your partner wanted to be that way when you two were in private. I guess I'm wondering if it is the whole thing you aren't into or just being on the receiving end?
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#41
Sep 17, 2011
 
No. Equal is equal I would not enjoy treating him like crap or degrading his exsistance anymore than I would want to be treated in such a way. I do not get how you could say you love someone and in the next breath degrade their exsistance and or cause them humilation.
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#42
Sep 17, 2011
 
Jessica, I understand where you're coming f/m. I at once thought that. I let my slave call the shots the first time we ever played w/ bondage and D/s. I HATED it. But the whole time in my head I thought, I can do this better than him. Plus, he wanted to be my slave. He worshipped the ground I walked on before we brought that into the bedroom. Then, after the first time I was D, I knew I could never go back. Imagine, we as women are in a man's world, so they think. All day they expect us to be prim and proper, clean the house, dress sexy 24-7, and bend over whenever they wish. Now picture this, I'm at home waiting for slave. He walks in, I kiss him, push him away, tell him how making me wait for him makes me angry. I flash a smile, drop my robe, and full Dom suit complete w/ thigh highs. His eyes widen and he smiles. I COMMAND him to drop his pants and turn his ass toward me. I flog him til I'M satisfied. Then I shove a plug up his butt, put him in his maid outfit, and make him do a woman's work. Then he fixes me a drink, lights my cig, and continue our play.

You don't have to humiliate a man to be his Master, but I highly suggest it. MAKE even a guy who isn't into BDSM do what YOU want. No whips, chains or toys, but be fully vocal w/ your next sexual encounter. Command a foot rub, make him go down on you til You Want him to stop. Try to control EVERYTHING on your next rodeo. If ya like it, there may be a lil Master in you. Granted, you may not be into in the level we are, but it becomes easy to progress. You just gotta find the right person to explore this with. Keep an open mind.:) best wishes
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#43
Sep 17, 2011
 

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I'm really into being spanked, and love nipple clamps and bondage. I tried bein dom to my partner but didn't enjoy it, so I'm a sub at heart
Jessica

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#44
Sep 17, 2011
 
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Jessica, I understand where you're coming f/m. I at once thought that. I let my slave call the shots the first time we ever played w/ bondage and D/s. I HATED it. But the whole time in my head I thought, I can do this better than him. Plus, he wanted to be my slave. He worshipped the ground I walked on before we brought that into the bedroom. Then, after the first time I was D, I knew I could never go back. Imagine, we as women are in a man's world, so they think. All day they expect us to be prim and proper, clean the house, dress sexy 24-7, and bend over whenever they wish. Now picture this, I'm at home waiting for slave. He walks in, I kiss him, push him away, tell him how making me wait for him makes me angry. I flash a smile, drop my robe, and full Dom suit complete w/ thigh highs. His eyes widen and he smiles. I COMMAND him to drop his pants and turn his ass toward me. I flog him til I'M satisfied. Then I shove a plug up his butt, put him in his maid outfit, and make him do a woman's work. Then he fixes me a drink, lights my cig, and continue our play.
You don't have to humiliate a man to be his Master, but I highly suggest it. MAKE even a guy who isn't into BDSM do what YOU want. No whips, chains or toys, but be fully vocal w/ your next sexual encounter. Command a foot rub, make him go down on you til You Want him to stop. Try to control EVERYTHING on your next rodeo. If ya like it, there may be a lil Master in you. Granted, you may not be into in the level we are, but it becomes easy to progress. You just gotta find the right person to explore this with. Keep an open mind.:) best wishes
I am not judging you or anyone here. If thats what you think lifes about then thats fine for you I guess. Im simply saying that my bf's in the past and present know what I like because they made the effort to find out as I did with them. I didnt have to order them around or treat them as something less or beneath me to get it nor did they do that with me. We have had open lines of communications that allowed an give and take with eachother. Equal seems to work better. I dont quiet understand something though. Maybe you can answer this and I mean it in a non judgemental way. Why would you treat someone in ways that if done to you you would resent and maybe even anger you that they thought so little of you as that? Again its what i see in that lifestyle not trying to anger the masses here.

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