Are girls more attracted to looks or personality

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light skined sxc boi

UK

#1 Nov 6, 2007
i'm a light skinned black boi who has no problems with girls at all. i have a high standard in girls only going out with the hottest of the hottest.

i like all races of girls as long as they are decent but prefer mixed raced girls.

i've been out with manygirls and is sexually active (very)
But what i really want to kow is if personality really counts, why dnt u see good looking girls with ugly or below average guy's.
light skined sxc boi

UK

#2 Nov 6, 2007
i ask this because in my area im very popular and considered to be the best looking boi.
but when i started dating this really pretty nice girl with the best personality she stoped dating me and said even though she was really turned on by me she felt i only wanted her for her looks and body.

this really got me thinking.

(im 16 going 17 with a 8 incher)
stop hating

Paterson, NJ

#3 Nov 6, 2007
light skined sxc boi wrote:
i ask this because in my area im very popular and considered to be the best looking boi.
but when i started dating this really pretty nice girl with the best personality she stoped dating me and said even though she was really turned on by me she felt i only wanted her for her looks and body.
this really got me thinking.
(im 16 going 17 with a 8 incher)
you are so sickening. first of all, i dont care how hott u are, u could be daddy yankee and if youre going to start rambling how ur so hott and u get so many girls and u have a big penis then i would NEVER date you. there are plenty of woman who are hott and date ugly guys, like beyonce and jay z. and incase u didnt know, there are woman who are gold diggers and if that ugly guy has some dough, u best believe girly gon be all over that. me personally, ive encountered love at first sight 4 times, and it was intense but connection to me is VERY important, the most important thing. my bf is also very good looking and gets a lot of girls and as a result of this hes pretty conceited and that resulted in affairs, which are not good, so if u want to get with hott girls or want them to love u, do us all a favor and stop the cockiness, thanks.
light skined sxc boi

UK

#4 Nov 7, 2007
ok! lol
sorry
Poppy

Hereford, UK

#5 Nov 7, 2007
Well its a mix of both really, everyone has different tastes in others, so what is good looking to you might not be to someone else and vice versa. I dont like guys who brag how hot or big they are.
I would say im personality women. But im quite lucky and found a lovely and what i find sexy guy.
If your relationship is look based, what do u talk about? "oh i look hot today" etc etc.
A smart interesting convo is much more appealing than a six pac.
stop hating

Paterson, NJ

#6 Nov 7, 2007
Poppy wrote:
Well its a mix of both really, everyone has different tastes in others, so what is good looking to you might not be to someone else and vice versa. I dont like guys who brag how hot or big they are.
I would say im personality women. But im quite lucky and found a lovely and what i find sexy guy.
If your relationship is look based, what do u talk about? "oh i look hot today" etc etc.
A smart interesting convo is much more appealing than a six pac.
you go girl!
MAX PAYNE

UK

#7 Nov 7, 2007
Poppy wrote:
Well its a mix of both really, everyone has different tastes in others, so what is good looking to you might not be to someone else and vice versa. I dont like guys who brag how hot or big they are.
I would say im personality women. But im quite lucky and found a lovely and what i find sexy guy.
If your relationship is look based, what do u talk about? "oh i look hot today" etc etc.
A smart interesting convo is much more appealing than a six pac.
Yep!... you cant talk to a six pack!... and also looks dont last forever, so if you go through your life relying on your looks to get you what you want then life is going to go down hill once you start getting older......

“Beautiful conundrum”

Since: Sep 07

Portland, OR

#8 Nov 7, 2007
For me, intelligence and kindness are of utmost importance. Looks are completely irrelevant, as they never stay. I'd rather have a man that would read poetry to me when I'm ill than one who looked nice with his shirt off.
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Virgin Nerd

Columbus, OH

#9 Nov 8, 2007
Calluna, if you were my sick neighbor I'd bring you chicken soup and recite "Pied Beauty."

"Glory be to God for dappled things--
For skies as couple-color as a brinded cow..!"

Don't worry, all I'd expect from you would be to GET BETTER.:)

I'm afraid the soup would be from a can and I know more Miss Dickinson than Mr. Hopkins! Otherwise I'm quite competent.

Now where's LOLA?

(giggle, giggle)

Carl

“Beautiful conundrum”

Since: Sep 07

Portland, OR

#10 Nov 8, 2007
Virgin Nerd wrote:
Calluna, if you were my sick neighbor I'd bring you chicken soup and recite "Pied Beauty."
"Glory be to God for dappled things--
For skies as couple-color as a brinded cow..!"
Don't worry, all I'd expect from you would be to GET BETTER.:)
I'm afraid the soup would be from a can and I know more Miss Dickinson than Mr. Hopkins! Otherwise I'm quite competent.
Now where's LOLA?
(giggle, giggle)
Carl
Now THAT'S sexy.

Dickinson is lovely, as is soup in a can.
Virgin Nerd

Columbus, OH

#13 Nov 8, 2007
Wild Nights!

Wild Nights!

He he...

Emily

“Beautiful conundrum”

Since: Sep 07

Portland, OR

#14 Nov 8, 2007
Virgin Nerd wrote:
Wild Nights!
Wild Nights!
He he...
Emily
Futile the winds
To a heart in port,
Done with the compass,
Done with the chart.

Oh my, you're much more passionate than I thought. That's saying something...

“Beautiful conundrum”

Since: Sep 07

Portland, OR

#15 Nov 8, 2007
light skinned black boi wrote:
yh but if a boy met a gyal in a club or vice versa, the first thing you notice is lokks right.
and most popular girls would not go out with below average or even average looking boys because it would ruin thier rep.
But on the other hand ive met really nice gitls who would choose personality over looks any day.
i already no that sum girls prefer personality and others prefer looks but what i want to no is why.
because i know i wouldnt be able to go out with below average girls with great personality for too long beacause i wouldnt be really attracted to her ..... and i think attraction is key even doe i hate pretty girls with bad personality.
(Why cant there be more hot girls with great personality)LOL!
Firstly, I never meet people in clubs. All you're going to find is other club rats.

Attraction to what? There are many types of attraction. If you are attracted to her breasts, what happens when they start to sag? Then what? If you are attracted to something on the inside, it usually stays that way.
Virgin Nerd

Columbus, OH

#18 Nov 8, 2007
Rowing in Eden--ah, the sea--
Might I but moor tonight
In Thee!

Emily

(Please note I know I dont have her punctuation right!)

**********
Hey, lsbb...

I consider looks to be "the first thing," but not the biggest thing, let alone the only thing.

It's a hurdle that, once jumped, shouldn't matter too much thereafter. It still gets me down sometimes because I wish I could up and love any good woman no matter her looks. Unfortunately, I'm all too human.

Maybe you'll become a bit more flexible with looks as you get older. I think I have.

Here's a thought: If I fell in love with a woman and wanted her for the rest of my life, then if something drastic happened to her looks I still think I would never fall out of love with her.

Carl
Virgin Nerd

Columbus, OH

#19 Nov 8, 2007
Lsbb, at least you are thinking about this matter and questioning yourself and others.

That is a very good thing.

Keep thinking about it!

Carl

“Beautiful conundrum”

Since: Sep 07

Portland, OR

#20 Nov 8, 2007
Carl,

I may disappear off of topix for a bit.

wiltedcalluna@hotmail.com
misfortune

Los Angeles, CA

#21 Nov 8, 2007
wow! I can not believe that is a serious question. You are 16 and going on 17 and it sound like a 15 year old talking. I can't believe you Think you are good looking to all women. God your vain, and that is called a personality flaw. Pretty women have standers as well. You might be well off in looks and well endowed that is not the only thing's that turn a women on. Personality is a big thing too woman. So is intelligence.

“Fox News Rocks--#1 ”

Since: Oct 07

Maple Grove, MN

#23 Nov 9, 2007
I say looks, they just deny it more often.
aRandomDude

Scottsdale, AZ

#24 Aug 4, 2008
Whoa man, you sure have a big mouth and a self centered mind. Bragging is definitely something that any girl I know would hate. But anyways, in my opinion, I think that the girls that matter are the ones who can see you for who you are. A girl who gives you a godamn minimum requirements list should be avoided. We weren't designed to meet a standard, everyone is different. Be yourself, and if others can't deal with who you are.....they don't deserve your attention.
Oli

Central District, Hong Kong

#25 Aug 4, 2008
when ur so into someone, even his unattractiveness turns to attractiveness. everyone's always special to someone. I used to dig this guy who's short and thin but his personality and intelligence outdoes everything. sometimes i still go around sayin that looks are real important to me, but at the end of the day, i always fall for the not-so-good-looking guys because personality makes a person unique... not looks (i mean cmon, there's loads of hot ppl out there but what's really beneath that shell). so yea, to me, im not stereotyping, but a majority of hot guys are eye candies. so u should stop ur cockiness and go on about ur looks.. girls are not big on looks.. it's either the gold diggers for the dough or the other decent women for the personality. and u should stop bein so shallow too. one day u will realise tat merely looks wont make a relationship last.

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