Is he scared of getting you pregnant? What kind of birth control are yuo on and does he trust that YOU are also intent on avoiding pregnancy?My bf likes me to suck him and to massage him down there and he wants that more than real sex.
He licks me down there on my body too, and I like that, but it's like he wants all that more than real sex.
I need the feel of penetration and the feeling of being full of a man. We don't actually do that very often.
And my bf says he gets tired of huffing and puffing with moving the dick in and out, in and ou. He gets out of breath and has to stop and rest.
I really like it when he "finishes" in me. But we don't do that very often.
He's a bit over weight but not too much. Is he just not in physical condition to administer intercourse to a girl????
If I get on top and slide up and down the hard dick, he goes softer after a while and then we have to get back to the other stuff. He likes to do the 69 thing a lot too.
I enjoy all the sex stuff, but I really want more penetration. How can I get him to realize I want this and that I'm willing to help him be hard and stay hard to "complete the act"??????
Assuming this is not the concern, sex can be a way for him to get into shape.
Tell him that, for every 1 hour workout he does he gets a handhjob for at least 30 minutes. ANd for every 1 hour intercourse session he gets a BJ for at least 30 minutes.
See if the reward system works?