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#44
Jan 15, 2009
 
Crystal wrote:
<quoted text>My sister shares her 16 year old bf with me. He's massive 12 inches and wide. I have measured him a couple of times. I never thought that he would fit into me, but he has gone balls deep into me. I watched him take my sister's virginity recently, and it was exciting to see his huge c@ck stretch out my sister's p*ssy. She was sore for days after that.
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#45
Jan 15, 2009
 
Crystal wrote:
<quoted text>My sister shares her 16 year old bf with me. He's massive 12 inches and wide. I have measured him a couple of times. I never thought that he would fit into me, but he has gone balls deep into me. I watched him take my sister's virginity recently, and it was exciting to see his huge c@ck stretch out my sister's p*ssy. She was sore for days after that.
that is sweet of your sister, and nice to have
this close relationship with her.
12 inches is huge. My wife would love that.she loves big, and thick.
She lived with another couple in a pervious marriage, and they shared spouses.
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#46
Jan 15, 2009
 
gmg wrote:
i used to always about sharing or watching my girlfriend with other guys, so a few years ago i started discussing the idea with her. we would both get turned on after talking about it so we decided to try it. she met my friend steve and said he was acceptable. anyhow we ended up doing it and she loves it now. i must say, it is such a turnon to me also. are there any others who have had this experience??
I would love to share my wife with another guy, but I would want it to be someone we don't know nor would see again. Definitely not a friend. We would both want to keep it on the DL and be our little secret.

For anyone to come on here and say what is right and what is love - you can do that, but that is YOUR opinion. And just because it is YOUR opinion, does not make it right. What works for you does not always work for someone else. My opinion is that if you can't share you wife or your girlfriend and are too jealous to do so, then you love her less than someone that can. But you know what? I am not saying that is right (unlike those here that do), I'm just saying that is my opinion. Definitely to each their own.
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#47
Jan 15, 2009
 
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<quoted text>To be honest I was shocked but very very aroused. I really enjoyed watching my wife squirm as she was pleasured. She was in heaven. I was kissing her and feeling her as he licked her all over. She gave herself completely to him. The next day wife and I were so aroused by this past experience, that we made love twice within an 8 hour period. We have been married 28 years and she has only had me as a partner. For her it was a new experience. Thus her hesitance to continue. Part of me thinks that she is afraid she will like it too much to stop if she continues to sleep with him. I have tried to encourage her to take him on as a lover, this way they could have sex in private.
Hot story!! You've already gone this far, I would definitely continue if your not jealous and are not afraid of losing her to him. Also, do you want to have a bi experience with the guy while your wife watches? Or, both of you do her at the same time? The possibilities are endless, go for it!
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#48
Jan 18, 2009
 
my gf wants to do a black guy with a huge penis and it gets me hot

anybody wanna chat im on aim and yahoo screename benzoshare
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#49
Jan 19, 2009
 
If your woman wants to try something, she will if you want her to do it or not. Enjoy what she wants and the two of you will be happy. I sure like watching my wife get fondled by other men. They even have given her O's. Very exciting.
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#50
Jan 19, 2009
 
Buddy wrote:
If your woman wants to try something, she will if you want her to do it or not. Enjoy what she wants and the two of you will be happy. I sure like watching my wife get fondled by other men. They even have given her O's. Very exciting.
You're a smart man Buddy, you keep your woman, she's probably pretty hot, and you let her have her way, which she will anyway, but you get to enjoy the scene. Kudos to you, I left a very hot, gf for cheating, and I miss her still, I wish I had your advice back then.
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#51
Jan 30, 2009
 
Im going to make a guess and say 95% of you guys that have shared your girlfriend are white (i am). For some reason we feel insecure about our ability to hold on to and please our women. so much so that some of us think that the only way to fully please our woman is to let another guy fuck her.

The reason i bring up the "white" subject is because other races have such a sense of "Machismo" or basically "Manliness" that they would rather die than share their woman. What I want to know is Where did that go with us white people? What happened to our balls?? to our Pride??

i want to know because i sometimes fantasize about sharing my girlfriend of 3yrs and who i love very much, but i cant help it and i am ashamed of myself for getting aroused at the thought, but then i know i would never let another man touch her in real life, i would fight for her honor.

basically, i know its a self esteem thing and i want it to stop and i encourage others to have a little faith in their own ability to please their women, because after all she is YOUR girlfriend for a reason. if she didnt want to be with you, she wouldnt be.

please no women responses, this is entirely a guy subject and you wouldnt understand unless you were considering sharing your bg with another girl.(and even then women sharing their men is more widely accepted because this is -dare i say it- still more or less a man's world).
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#52
Mar 3, 2009
 
Hey guys!

Well, let me tell you my story. I have developed this urge to see my girlfriend with other guys but somehow all my girlfriends up to now were not too much in this thing. My present gf with whom I am already two years now, has a huge sexual drive and so I proposed her to have sex with her ex-boyfriend (who by the way is still nuts about her). Two weeks ago it happened and as she came home and told me all about and we had really great sex. Sure some of you would say, hey wait a sec, you´re nuts - how can you let your gf have sex with someone else. Few years ago indeed I could´t imagine this to happen, but hey it really improved our sex life, at least up to now. Honestly, there are a lot of gelous guys out there who just cannot imagine this.

The question is - are we (humans or animals you chose) really made to be with only one mate forever? Think why so many mariages go down the hill! I am not a shrink or something like that, but we must admit that mariage, the vows, the loyality and all that, come from the time where alpha-males went from village to village to bang the virgin girls and for the good guys (beta male) there were none left. So we introduced this loyality stuff, which is good, definitely it is good, I would be pissed off to be betrayed. However we have to decide for ourselves and for our sexual drive what is ok for us and what is not. I decided and by the way proposed that from time to time she has sex with someone else, just like me - what the heck is the problem? I don´t do this to prove myself an alpha-male, I did it because it turns me on and because I feel confident. Can it go wrong that your gf will break up with you for another guy? Possible, but this depends on your overall behaviour in the relationship. I suggest you all know "Doc Love" and his articles. My former gf cheated on me, but that was cheating, which means without my approval and without my knowing.

The sexual activity is an important one in every relationship and you must always keep it active. Let´s say you have a gf with low sexual drive, which means you make love or bang, you name it, once in a while. Does it make you happy? No! And you try to get it somewhere else. Since your gf in this case has a low sexual drive she will not be ok with you having sex with someone else. What are you doing - cheating? Well that´s shitty, it does not make you feel ok, you feel guilty and your relationship is doomed. Always look for a girl with a high sexual drive, not necessarily a bimbo. Well, this is my particular opinion. It is evident, that a girl must have also something else to offer than a sexual drive...

Like the good old "Doc Love" used to say - keep her on her toes, and keep her interest level high. When you let her have sex with others, you have the same rights. You feel confident, have as well other experiences which will improve your sexual life with your gf. Confidence is really the key, being a challange is the other key. Have you ever heard a girl leaving her boyfrind because he was a challenge? I cut off my balls and give you my credit cards if you did!

Back to the topic - it seems for me it works out, my girl is happy, I am alright with everything and we both are very confident in our relationship. A problem might be if she is the one proposing to have a sex partner, which could mean that you are not enough for her, well that might be indeed a problem. If you are a challenge and a confident guy and on top you initiate her into this thinking and she starts to grow interest in this, well what the heck, do it, but you must also enjoy it.

Cheers for now guys!

Jay
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Mar 18, 2009
 

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the psychological field, particularly the Marriage and Family studies, has done many studies on monogamy and polygamy. Feel free to look it up, so that everyone can stop throwing out opinions and look into some real research. What most of the studies/research boiled down to is; sexual preference is a personal choice. Some couples are incredibly loving, healthy, and happy being monogamous. Others are just as loving, healthy, happy being polygamous. In fact, while I at this point in my relationship with a girlfriend of 2 years would not want to share her, I still think that if others want to share their partners, then fine. In fact, more evidence shows support for the fact that a polygamous relationship, when done "properly," i.e. with completely open communication, trust, etc - it shows that these relationships tend to be healthier, happier, and longer lasting than most monogamous relationships.
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#55
Jul 16, 2009
 
Thank you, I am offended that my lover wants to see me with another guy.

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the psychological field, particularly the Marriage and Family studies, has done many studies on monogamy and polygamy. Feel free to look it up, so that everyone can stop throwing out opinions and look into some real research. What most of the studies/research boiled down to is; sexual preference is a personal choice...
Be careful that you don't confuse that guy and his GF shagging whomever they want with polygamy or even polyamory. It is not. They are simply having an "open relationship" where they can bang anybody they want with permission of their supposedly "significant" other. So the opinion you throw out here is not valid either.

Polygamy is one man having multiple wives and living together as a large family where all know each other well, work together for the "family's" welfare and that's very different than just banging freely around town.

Polyamory is primarily being IN LOVE with more than one person (whether legally married or living together or not) and everybody in the arrangement is aware of each other and their positions in the polyamorous relationship matrix. Some of the participants may not even have sex at all but it's likely that most will. The two primaries and all the secondaries of a polyamorous matrix know their places. Secondaries don't try to steal the primaries away, nor do the primaries change their primary partners when they find somebody to add. Betrayal is possible in a polyamorous relationship if anyone oversteps their secondary position to become primary.

Personally, I researched these extensively about 10 years ago because I was dissatisfied, bored, and depressed by my marriage at that time and thought polyamory might be a good option. My now-X boinked 6 different men behind my back so I was betrayed, I later learned. She was a nymphomaniac as it turned out.

I'm remarried now. Although I researched polygamy and polyamory previously, I am still solidly in favor of monogamy and so is my new wife. We keep ourselves to ourselves and build our excitement about each other sexually through refining our techniques and positions. This avoids STDs and HIV/AIDS, pregnancy from another male, and the natural human male instinct to consider their chosen female to be tainted goods when she shows up after humping another man.

Contrary to those who prefer open relationships, I just can't get into the idea of being sloppy seconds or thirds to other men with somebody I am supposed to be special to. I want her wet for me only and to become hard only for her. It's just a matter of selectivity and craving the one you love instead of craving everyone you meet.

Do men in open relationships really enjoy tongue kissing the mouth and vagina of a woman that has been plowed and sprayed down by another guy's organ - whether it was yesterday or a few minutes earlier? If that was a thrill, I could get eat and bang several of those at the local interstate truck stop every day, not loan my significant other out for it.
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#57
Aug 10, 2009
 
When you think about it in a logical way, coming into contact with another man's fluids on your girl friend does sound somewhat revolting, and kind of homosexual. However, the reality is different, for me at least. Honestly, there's nothing that turns me on quite like seeing my girlfriend really dirty after sex with some guy. Seeing that she still has sperm and sweat all over her body, that she's been used and abused; this has gotta be the strongest sexual motivator ever!

Sometimes, I send her out on dates. She goes home with another guy, fucks all night, does the dirtiest things, and then as soon as the guy leaves, she gives me a call and go to her place as fast as I can. Finding her ravaged like that... To add to the pleasure, I have her call me when she's doing somebody else so I can hear their sounds, hear her ass being pounded, hear her moans.

My only disappointment is that she isn't into threesomes or being watched by me. She has to have it 1-on-1 in private.

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When you think about it in a logical way, coming into contact with another man's fluids on your girl friend does sound somewhat revolting, and kind of homosexual. However, the reality is different, for me at least. Honestly, there's nothing that turns me on quite like seeing my girlfriend really dirty after sex with some guy. Seeing that she still has sperm and sweat all over her body, that she's been used and abused; this has gotta be the strongest sexual motivator ever!

Sometimes, I send her out on dates. She goes home with another guy, fucks all night, does the dirtiest things, and then as soon as the guy leaves, she gives me a call and go to her place as fast as I can. Finding her ravaged like that... To add to the pleasure, I have her call me when she's doing somebody else so I can hear their sounds, hear her ass being pounded, hear her moans.
My only disappointment is that she isn't into threesomes or being watched by me. She has to have it 1-on-1 in private.
Well... if that's your thing, you're welcome to it. I would think that you are only one step away from a threesome though, if she is liberal enough to do this with other guys for you. If she's willing to do other guys, and knows that she has your permission and that you are promoting her doing so, I would think that a bit of alcohol to lower inhibitions while you, her, and your selected 3rd participant are sitting around could take her over the edge into 3some world pretty easily. I think it's just her standard westernized sexual training from childhood keeping her from doing a 3some because whether she does one guy and then you later, or does both of you at the same time, she's still doing two or more guys in a short period of time - so it's essentially the same thing.

I've never done a threesome, although it was offered to me a couple times, years back. I've often wondered how two guys react to each other during one. Are they in competition? Are they working as a team effort? Are they repulsed by each other? Do they have homosexual thoughts about each other? I've always wondered about that. I'm not homosexual at all, but I will admit that I admire the large organs I see in porn movies as they're doing what they're doing to the female star(s). Let's face it, the male organ is essentially the action movie star of a porn movie. The female may jump all over it, but you're still focused on watching the action star doing it's thing. Yet I would be disgusted by a homosexual movie doing the same actions. So would I enjoy watching the other guy doing the female we are with in a 3-way or would I have homophobic thoughts that would send me packing? I guess I'll never know the answers to those questions.
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Feb 5, 2010
 
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Ignorance is bliss buddy!!! but the reality is your friends would f*ck your gf in a second. Given the opportunity consent or no consent
What u say may be right for some people mate, but I think I know better. My best mate’s gf wanted to have sex with me when he was not around, but I as a honorable man and a friend told her "NO”, for she was my best mates girlfriend...and because I respected our friendship and my friend trust in me. U see mate,“To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved.”...."He who loves 50 people has 50 woes; he who loves no one has no woes" ... several years after this incident I lost my job and was kicked out of where I was living (because I could not pay the rent), and at that time my best friend is the one who aided me by giving me money and a place to live, if I had cheated on him with his gf I would not have had a place to live for years with no money...being trustworthy all ways pays off mateys:)
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Feb 5, 2010
 
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Ignorance is bliss buddy!!! but the reality is your friends would f*ck your gf in a second. Given the opportunity consent or no consent
What u say may be right for some people mate, but I think I know better. My best mate’s gf wanted to have sex with me when he was not around, but I as a honorable man and a friend told her "NO”, for she was my best mates girlfriend...and because I respected our friendship and my friend trust in me. U see mate,“To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved.”...."He who loves 50 people has 50 woes; he who loves no one has no woes" ... several years after this incident I lost my job and was kicked out of where I was living because I could not pay the rent, and at that time my best friend is the one who aided me by giving me a place to live, if I had cheated on him with his gf I would not have had a place to live for years...being trustworthy all ways pays off bro
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#61
Feb 14, 2010
 
I am slowly trying to coax my gf into doing stuff with my friend. They've done some kissing but who knows WHERE it's going to stop lol
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#62
May 24, 2010
 
I've shared my girlfriend several times now - it's been electric every time, and we've loved re-living the experiences afterwards time and time again. We're very much in love, and I'm certain our adventurousness has only strengthened our relationship. And it's certainly given us (and a few other people!) a huge amount of pleasure.
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#63
May 25, 2010
 
My gf and I both have sex with other men its the most amazing turn on for us we also have 3somes. We will rent a hotel room then we go to bars and I will watch her pick up a guy for sex then they go back to the room do their thing then she sends. Them on their way then I get my turn tasting another hot guy is awesome I will also pick up gay men for sex and then she gets me we love it...
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#64
May 26, 2010
 
I can't do it! Maybe I'm too traditional. I think of myself as pretty liberal when it comes to sex, since I did some crazy shit with my girlfriends like doing it in semi-public places: at the beach, in the swimming pool while others are around, at the boy's bathroom, in the elevator, but when it comes to sharing, that is something I just can't do. Couple years ago, a girl friend's boyfriend told me she had the hots on me and encouraged me to lick her from head to toe and everything in between. At that time I was single and available, but even so, I still couldn't do it. Don't know why though. Is it something wrong with me?

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