sharing my girlfriend
Inkaboutit homestead com

Denver, CO

#23 Jun 18, 2008
MarcoMarks wrote:
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I suspect that you two aren't in love though. True love usually includes a certain amount of possessiveness and jealousy in the partners and neither of you has it at all. It's more likely that you're just friendly f*ck buddies having a good time, living on the edge where sexual excitement runs very high.
Because your relationship is based on sexual experiences and excitment foremost, one of these days when you find a guy with a c*ck that knocks you for a loop 10X better than your boyfriend, you'll dump him and go for the higher high that you can get. Or when he finds a girl with moves that knock his eyeballs out of their sockets when he has orgasms that are so massive that they hurt, then he'll dump you too. If that's okay with you both, then have fun!
you say"True love usually includes a certain amount of possessiveness and jealousy in the partners "

If you ready love someone you would let them enjoy sex with others if they desire it.
To me being overly possessive and overly jealous are strong signs of insecurity and fear and lack of confidences or low self-esteem.

A person who let a spouse or girlfriend have the enjoyment of having sex with another is a very high quality to me. They are at a much higher level of friendship and love without knowing it.

Swingers encourage their partner to enjoy sex with others. But many marriages would divorce their spouse if they had a sex with another. I think that is major wrong and not love at all. It also is a major turn off to me.

I feel a spouse who tells their spouse they can have sex with another out of love and tell them they would not divorce them , to me that is a major turn on.

I admire anyone who let there partner have sex with others. To me that show a lot more love and security and divorcing your spouse because they had sex with another.
Big John

Missoula, MT

#24 Jul 4, 2008
MarcoMarks wrote:
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Well, more power to you then! Some people can be polygamous and have multiple sex partners and others can't. I guess if you can deal with doing what the majority of U.S. society deems sick, and it doesn't bother you but excites you, then you are two who enjoy polygamy and should ride that horse until it drops dead.
I suspect that you two aren't in love though. True love usually includes a certain amount of possessiveness and jealousy in the partners and neither of you has it at all. It's more likely that you're just friendly f*ck buddies having a good time, living on the edge where sexual excitement runs very high.
Because your relationship is based on sexual experiences and excitment foremost, one of these days when you find a guy with a c*ck that knocks you for a loop 10X better than your boyfriend, you'll dump him and go for the higher high that you can get. Or when he finds a girl with moves that knock his eyeballs out of their sockets when he has orgasms that are so massive that they hurt, then he'll dump you too. If that's okay with you both, then have fun!
And who died and made you the judge of other peoples feelings etc. MYOB.......John
meh

Cedar Hill, TX

#25 Jul 4, 2008
can i get in on that action?

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Since: Apr 07

Toledo OH

#26 Jul 10, 2008
Big John wrote:
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And who died and made you the judge of other peoples feelings etc. MYOB.......John
Obviously you just want to be a troublemaker and not discuss anything intelligently or you can't read what is written and would rather read what you THINK has been written.

It's very clear that I am not judging anybody's feelings. Judging is saying something is right or wrong. I said no such thing.

Being f*ck buddies and doing whatever you want with others whenever you feel like it is not the description of a love relationship by any socially acceptable standard in the U.S. Even polygamous relationships have specific partners that stick together and don't spread themselves around to whomever strikes their fancy at the moment.
dick100

Central Point, OR

#27 Jul 13, 2008
I have watched my wife get fondled and brought to many Os by our friends. No intercourse. I love watching our friends suck on her big beautiful boobs. They finger her, bring her to an "O", and then they watch my wife and I "F" our brains out. Know your limits and have fun.

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Since: Apr 07

Toledo OH

#28 Jul 15, 2008
dick100 wrote:
I have watched my wife get fondled and brought to many Os by our friends. No intercourse. I love watching our friends suck on her big beautiful boobs. They finger her, bring her to an "O", and then they watch my wife and I "F" our brains out. Know your limits and have fun.
Just curious... How is this fun for your friends? Don't they need to O as well? Who do they "F" to get physical release from the excitement built during fondling and sucking on your wife?

You say "know your limits"... How did you determine what your limits are? It would seem that you would have to test your limits to know what they are. Are her limits and your limits the same or are the limits set at what you personally will tolerate?

Why don't you let your friends "F" your wife? How do you know you wouldn't like watching that happen without trying it? It's OK for them to do virtually anything to her except that...but have you considered that maybe she wants them to "F" her?
ThePlayer

Machida, Japan

#29 Jul 15, 2008
Below is an excellent post. From what I've seen, here are things that I would like to add:

1. Confusing love with sex.

Forcing a person to have sex with only you does not mean nor ever will mean that is love or proof of love.

A swingers can demonstrate a higher level, because the bond in their relationship is not based on just sex and possessiveness. They are showing it can be based on true friendship.

Many traditional couple just pay "mouth service" to this concept; then go sneak and cheat, suffer in sexless marriages, or use marriage/the relationship as a means of getting sex.

2. Overly religious zealots pushing their beliefs and that sex is only for children.

Sex is more than just to have children. It is for pleasure, bonding between couples, and social bonding.

Often you get sexually dysfunctional religious zealots trying to push suffering on other people, instead of either keeping their beliefs to themselves or fixing their own massive sexual issues.

3. Honesty in relationships

The traditional method has been to lie about sex and sexuality in many relationships. Say one thing and then run of and cheat.

Lying, sneaking, and cheating in relationships has become an entire art form in itself. The prostitutes bank on it from hypocritical preacher to corrupt government officials. The mistresses, the wife doing neighbors when the husband is at work, the hotel encounters, etc...

However, swingers can truly be honest about sex and sexuality in their relationships.

It is quite funny to see lying, sneaking, cheating hypocrites point the finger or condemn sexually honest swingers.

4. Sexless marriages, sexual frustration, and suffering

Over, over, over again you see marriages die from sexual boredom and sexual frustration.

You get husbands so bored their penis begins to stop working. Women thinking their vagina has died. People that have not had sex in years or not with their spouse in years.

Basically, monogamy is a really bad lie and is NOT for MOST people.

Swingers don't suffer like this. They are able to explore their sexuality and maintain close relationships.

I'm not saying that swinging is for everybody. But in a supposedly religiously free and open society, people should and should be allowed to embrace alternatives. Swinging can work very well, more people are starting to understand this, and swinging is and can be a better way of life for many people.
Inkaboutit homestead com wrote:
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you say"True love usually includes a certain amount of possessiveness and jealousy in the partners "
If you ready love someone you would let them enjoy sex with others if they desire it.
To me being overly possessive and overly jealous are strong signs of insecurity and fear and lack of confidences or low self-esteem.
A person who let a spouse or girlfriend have the enjoyment of having sex with another is a very high quality to me. They are at a much higher level of friendship and love without knowing it.
Swingers encourage their partner to enjoy sex with others. But many marriages would divorce their spouse if they had a sex with another. I think that is major wrong and not love at all. It also is a major turn off to me.
I feel a spouse who tells their spouse they can have sex with another out of love and tell them they would not divorce them , to me that is a major turn on.
I admire anyone who let there partner have sex with others. To me that show a lot more love and security and divorcing your spouse because they had sex with another.
dick100

Central Point, OR

#30 Jul 17, 2008
MarcoMarks wrote:
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Just curious... How is this fun for your friends? Don't they need to O as well? Who do they "F" to get physical release from the excitement built during fondling and sucking on your wife?
You say "know your limits"... How did you determine what your limits are? It would seem that you would have to test your limits to know what they are. Are her limits and your limits the same or are the limits set at what you personally will tolerate?
Why don't you let your friends "F" your wife? How do you know you wouldn't like watching that happen without trying it? It's OK for them to do virtually anything to her except that...but have you considered that maybe she wants them to "F" her?
They have their own gfs and wives. They know going in that they will not be F...ing my wife. My wife and I decided that anything is OK except for intercourse. I think we decided petting and non-intercourse is not cheating as long as we both know about it. So far so good. More it the future, maybe. Right now this is where we are in our relationship with each other and with our male friends.
andrew

Washington, IL

#31 Jul 21, 2008
Ha you people are so fucked up and can't differentiate between lust and love. Plain and simple. You're sacrificing long term gain for short term pleasure. You're satisfying your own desires at the expense of a healthy, unified relationship. God will sort you people out. Another thing, religious people don't have sex just to make babies. A man and woman in marriage are supposed to enjoy each other's bodies, but each other's bodies alone. Have fun being miserable. Maybe you should start contemplating your existence more.
eager couple

Riverside, RI

#33 Jul 30, 2008
michele wrote:
<quoted text>im his gf and i'll have 2 say, there is nothing that compares to having 2 eager tongues ravage my entire body. i get chills thinking about it
couple in RI looking to get into the same deal. Can we chat? email us at lookin4fun78 at yahoo dot com
tulsaotk

United States

#34 Aug 1, 2008
dick100 wrote:
I have watched my wife get fondled and brought to many Os by our friends. No intercourse. I love watching our friends suck on her big beautiful boobs. They finger her, bring her to an "O", and then they watch my wife and I "F" our brains out. Know your limits and have fun.
k

Do you ever let them perform oral on her vagina or as*,
tulsaotk

United States

#35 Aug 1, 2008
andrew wrote:
Ha you people are so fucked up and can't differentiate between lust and love. Plain and simple. You're sacrificing long term gain for short term pleasure. You're satisfying your own desires at the expense of a healthy, unified relationship. God will sort you people out. Another thing, religious people don't have sex just to make babies. A man and woman in marriage are supposed to enjoy each other's bodies, but each other's bodies alone. Have fun being miserable. Maybe you should start contemplating your existence more.
OMG the moral majority has landed... Give it a break... these people know what they are doing and are enjoying it... Hell if a guy or gal wants to let their other half do 4 or 5 people at one time then that is their choice. Butt out asshole
asdcs

Prospect, KY

#36 Aug 8, 2008
I believe there is nothing wrong with sharing, but I am a ferm believer that there is balance for everything. For every action there is an opposite and equal reaction. For every good thing there is an equal bad thing. Nothing last forever just be ready for the change
hey

Ridgewood, NY

#37 Sep 13, 2008
i have shared my girl and its hot i reccomend blindfolding her so she never sees anything
AsianKennyG

Dallas, TX

#38 Oct 8, 2008
DUDEE I never thought people could feel this way about the one they love. I read this whole thread because I had a bad dream about a brunch of guys fondling my gf and that she let them because she seems to enjoy it so much. This is not at all a turn on and even if it was, it's not "a higher level" of love. Wtf guys...how can you let your one and only be with other guys.
The point is. You're just in it for physical pleasure. Go find out what love is.

“Might as well join...”

Since: Sep 08

Boston

#39 Oct 8, 2008
AsianKennyG wrote:
DUDEE I never thought people could feel this way about the one they love. I read this whole thread because I had a bad dream about a brunch of guys fondling my gf and that she let them because she seems to enjoy it so much. This is not at all a turn on and even if it was, it's not "a higher level" of love. Wtf guys...how can you let your one and only be with other guys.
The point is. You're just in it for physical pleasure. Go find out what love is.
You can be 'in it' for both physical pleasure and love. Some guys like sucking on toes, eating ass, wearing women's underwear, having sex w/ other guys, etc; these guys get off on seeing another guy pleasure their wives/gf's. It's not like they're jacking off while she's marrying another guy; it's purely sexual and when it's over, life goes on.

To most, it's just a fantasy anyway.
Steele

North Salt Lake, UT

#40 Oct 8, 2008
To be quite honest, I'm far too much the jealous type. Thinking about my girl with another guy, no matter how serious we are, makes me just want to crush the other guy's skull. I could never let it happen.

“Might as well join...”

Since: Sep 08

Boston

#41 Oct 8, 2008
Steele wrote:
To be quite honest, I'm far too much the jealous type. Thinking about my girl with another guy, no matter how serious we are, makes me just want to crush the other guy's skull. I could never let it happen.
To each his own. That's the way it is and always has been.

But I totally hear you. I used to feel the same way. And if I were to actually share my wife, I may feel the same way. Glad it's just a fantasy and I don't have to worry about it.
james73

Levelland, TX

#42 Jan 15, 2009
I shared my girlfriend with another man,and this dude was hung like A horse it was A wonderful experance watching my 100 pound girlfriend taking on such A massive unit,I couldnt beleive she could take it,but now we have great sex it fired up A wonderful passion in our relationship.
Crystal

New City, NY

#43 Jan 15, 2009
james73 wrote:
I shared my girlfriend with another man,and this dude was hung like A horse it was A wonderful experance watching my 100 pound girlfriend taking on such A massive unit,I couldnt beleive she could take it,but now we have great sex it fired up A wonderful passion in our relationship.
My sister shares her 16 year old bf with me. He's massive 12 inches and wide. I have measured him a couple of times. I never thought that he would fit into me, but he has gone balls deep into me. I watched him take my sister's virginity recently, and it was exciting to see his huge [email protected] stretch out my sister's p*ssy. She was sore for days after that.
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