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#1 Dec 16, 2011
How did u enter this lifestyle? How extreme do u take it? What do u like about it? How can I convince a sexually inactive inexperienced woman it's fun?
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#3 Dec 16, 2011
Feed it to me wrote:
How did u enter this lifestyle? How extreme do u take it? What do u like about it? How can I convince a sexually inactive inexperienced woman it's fun?
for one women are all about being comfortable. It has to start from talking about who she's attracted to. Could be a friend, neighbor or even coworker. Then socialize with that person and slowly push the envelope in bits
Also share how much you like to watch. A fantasy but don't push it.
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#4 Dec 16, 2011
gsdtrainer757 wrote:
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for one women are all about being comfortable. It has to start from talking about who she's attracted to. Could be a friend, neighbor or even coworker. Then socialize with that person and slowly push the envelope in bits
Also share how much you like to watch. A fantasy but don't push it.
good advice thank u!

Since: Nov 11

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#5 Dec 16, 2011
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How did u enter this lifestyle? How extreme do u take it? What do u like about it? How can I convince a sexually inactive inexperienced woman it's fun?
Talk to her about in bed. It should get both of you really turned on.
After a few times with the fantasy idea, ask her if she would ever want to give it a shot.
Or try going to a swingers club or party just to see what it's like.
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#6 Dec 16, 2011
Andyh2008 wrote:
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Talk to her about in bed. It should get both of you really turned on.
After a few times with the fantasy idea, ask her if she would ever want to give it a shot.
Or try going to a swingers club or party just to see what it's like.
yeah we have talked about it. First she said she would never do it and it made her uncomfortable. She has mentioned it once or twice during dirty talk, but just to please me probably. I don't know how to bridge that gap and make her comfortable. I should have mentioned she is 26 and I'm the only person she has slept with. A swingers club may b the next step. Just to observe at first. Still with no experience with others it's hard to explain others could b fun. She isn't very explorative.

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#7 Dec 16, 2011
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<quoted text> yeah we have talked about it. First she said she would never do it and it made her uncomfortable. She has mentioned it once or twice during dirty talk, but just to please me probably. I don't know how to bridge that gap and make her comfortable. I should have mentioned she is 26 and I'm the only person she has slept with. A swingers club may b the next step. Just to observe at first. Still with no experience with others it's hard to explain others could b fun. She isn't very explorative.
When you meet some swingers, in person, they will be happy to give both of you all the ins and outs.
To me 26 is kind of young. It takes a very trusting relationship and a lot of self confidence on both sides.

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#8 Dec 16, 2011
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<quoted text>yeah we have talked about it. First she said she would never do it and it made her uncomfortable. She has mentioned it once or twice during dirty talk, but just to please me probably. I don't know how to bridge that gap and make her comfortable. I should have mentioned she is 26 and I'm the only person she has slept with. A swingers club may b the next step. Just to observe at first. Still with no experience with others it's hard to explain others could b fun. She isn't very explorative.
do no take her to the swingers club. What you don't want to do us plunge her into something that you already have too much knowledge of. Hell she might turn it off and never go back. Find another woman who can explain to her what it means
On a real note, read erotic stories with her. Kinda like teaching someone to ride a bike. You can't just go from her doing only you to all of a sudden her being with another guy infront of you. Most women think that's awkward let alone wanting to do it
Start with her comfort levels and push the envelope. Take her to regular parties where you can get her nice and sauced up. Go with a girl first, gradual and patiently, allow her to find ad explore her inner slut. Once you help her find that door. You'll need reins to hold her back. Def don't push hard. For now I'd back off the swingers club till you at least add another chic(familiar) into the mix
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#9 Dec 16, 2011
gsdtrainer757 wrote:
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do no take her to the swingers club. What you don't want to do us plunge her into something that you already have too much knowledge of. Hell she might turn it off and never go back. Find another woman who can explain to her what it means
On a real note, read erotic stories with her. Kinda like teaching someone to ride a bike. You can't just go from her doing only you to all of a sudden her being with another guy infront of you. Most women think that's awkward let alone wanting to do it
Start with her comfort levels and push the envelope. Take her to regular parties where you can get her nice and sauced up. Go with a girl first, gradual and patiently, allow her to find ad explore her inner slut. Once you help her find that door. You'll need reins to hold her back. Def don't push hard. For now I'd back off the swingers club till you at least add another chic(familiar) into the mix
Thats good too.
At the parties people are alot less pushy with lots of rules.
We started with the other girl thing. Not for me but for her.
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#10 Dec 16, 2011
gsdtrainer757 wrote:
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do no take her to the swingers club. What you don't want to do us plunge her into something that you already have too much knowledge of. Hell she might turn it off and never go back. Find another woman who can explain to her what it means
On a real note, read erotic stories with her. Kinda like teaching someone to ride a bike. You can't just go from her doing only you to all of a sudden her being with another guy infront of you. Most women think that's awkward let alone wanting to do it
Start with her comfort levels and push the envelope. Take her to regular parties where you can get her nice and sauced up. Go with a girl first, gradual and patiently, allow her to find ad explore her inner slut. Once you help her find that door. You'll need reins to hold her back. Def don't push hard. For now I'd back off the swingers club till you at least add another chic(familiar) into the mix
hmm i have spoken with a woman on the net in my area that cucks her hubby,but I have never met in person. Thing is I bet she wouldn't discuss it with her. I know there r a lot of girls with girlfriends and gay friends where they openly discuss there sexual selves, she unfortunately isn't one of them. She barely talks about with me and when she does she always makes it into a joke or takes it from an outsiders perspective (can u believe they like that or people r weird) I think it's a defense mechanism, but it still pisses me off. It shouldn't I know but it's frustrating. I think I will see if she will read some erotic stories with me. I've asked her to on her own and she says she will but hasn't. FYI we have been together 3 years and this has been over like the last year and a half. So it's not like I'm just a of a sudden pressuring and not being patient. I'm just getting frustrated and wondering if I'm wasting my time.

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#11 Dec 16, 2011
It took 7 years for my wife and I.

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#12 Dec 16, 2011
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<quoted text>hmm i have spoken with a woman on the net in my area that cucks her hubby,but I have never met in person. Thing is I bet she wouldn't discuss it with her. I know there r a lot of girls with girlfriends and gay friends where they openly discuss there sexual selves, she unfortunately isn't one of them. She barely talks about with me and when she does she always makes it into a joke or takes it from an outsiders perspective (can u believe they like that or people r weird) I think it's a defense mechanism, but it still pisses me off. It shouldn't I know but it's frustrating. I think I will see if she will read some erotic stories with me. I've asked her to on her own and she says she will but hasn't. FYI we have been together 3 years and this has been over like the last year and a half. So it's not like I'm just a of a sudden pressuring and not being patient. I'm just getting frustrated and wondering if I'm wasting my time.
honestly I've been there and my choices and lack I'd thought led me to cheat. Please dont do that def do not do that. It takes the patience of Jon to deal with all of it day in and day out. In talking to my ex, she kept repeating well had you been more dominant yet patient and taught me what and how you wanted me to be I would've done it
But in the end that switch is an individual thing and it's very mental. You're going to have to overpower her from time to time and push her thru certain things. Toy play etc, light bondage etc. you'll need to use everything you have to get her on the road.
Each woman has an inner part of her once opened is great. You need to be creative in bringing it out. You can't use the lazy methods of watching porn together etc etc. outsmart her defenses and maybe soon you'll understand how to push further
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#13 Dec 16, 2011
Andyh2008 wrote:
It took 7 years for my wife and I.
wow! That is dedication. My fear is I commit, take the plunge, marry and then she nevers opens up or explores sexually. She already passes gas in front of me often so I'm afraid kwhen she gets comfy she will become more lazy sexually then I will b in a cold dead marriage. Iove her and she is great, we all have flaws, but I wonder if our sexual incompatibility will become better or worse as the relationship progresses. So far it seems to b getting worse. Sexis important to me obviously but it's not everything. Ugh, I need to read some cuckolding stories quick to take my mind off this!

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#14 Dec 16, 2011
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<quoted text>wow! That is dedication. My fear is I commit, take the plunge, marry and then she nevers opens up or explores sexually. She already passes gas in front of me often so I'm afraid kwhen she gets comfy she will become more lazy sexually then I will b in a cold dead marriage. Iove her and she is great, we all have flaws, but I wonder if our sexual incompatibility will become better or worse as the relationship progresses. So far it seems to b getting worse. Sexis important to me obviously but it's not everything. Ugh, I need to read some cuckolding stories quick to take my mind off this!
on a serious note yea I wasnt able to wait that long nor is that really a good expectation. But on the flip side you also have to understand what it is you're asking of her
This isn't one of those chip thrill things that just happens and you go back to regular life after that. It's gonna take time and work from you. I hope you both come to an understanding and then get everything
You'll have to push her but in bits

Since: Nov 11

Mid West

#15 Dec 16, 2011
gsdtrainer757 wrote:
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on a serious note yea I wasnt able to wait that long nor is that really a good expectation. But on the flip side you also have to understand what it is you're asking of her
This isn't one of those chip thrill things that just happens and you go back to regular life after that. It's gonna take time and work from you. I hope you both come to an understanding and then get everything
You'll have to push her but in bits
Nice. You're good at this.

Since: Nov 11

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#16 Dec 16, 2011
gsdtrainer757 wrote:
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honestly I've been there and my choices and lack I'd thought led me to cheat. Please dont do that def do not do that. It takes the patience of Jon to deal with all of it day in and day out. In talking to my ex, she kept repeating well had you been more dominant yet patient and taught me what and how you wanted me to be I would've done it
But in the end that switch is an individual thing and it's very mental. You're going to have to overpower her from time to time and push her thru certain things. Toy play etc, light bondage etc. you'll need to use everything you have to get her on the road.
Each woman has an inner part of her once opened is great. You need to be creative in bringing it out. You can't use the lazy methods of watching porn together etc etc. outsmart her defenses and maybe soon you'll understand how to push further
We were married for 7 years before we started soft swap. We've been full swap for 3 years now and it's only been one year since I sat in a chair and watched her do another guy. For me it's not that I let her have sex with others so I get to do other girls. It's about the passion she gets. Even when we do a FMF or FFM, it's still all about her. She's always in the middle. MFM or FMF.

BTW, we've been married 17+.

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#17 Dec 16, 2011
Andyh2008 wrote:
<quoted text>We were married for 7 years before we started soft swap. We've been full swap for 3 years now and it's only been one year since I sat in a chair and watched her do another guy. For me it's not that I let her have sex with others so I get to do other girls. It's about the passion she gets. Even when we do a FMF or FFM, it's still all about her. She's always in the middle. MFM or FMF.

BTW, we've been married 17+.
I'm a lifestyle learner, living it and appreciate those who are in it as wish to join in one form or another. Some ppl get into things in life with just a heading and I don't support that. In the end it's about dual enjoyment and appreciation, whether it be cucolding or D/s or M/s or anything else
I'm willing to help teach anyone who's willing to learn but in the end. Time is the best teacher and how we all get our experiences. I'm happy you and your wife now get to enjoy the pleasure of yourself and others

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#18 Dec 16, 2011
I have to say I'm in this position now. I'm wanting to push the envelope. To have her have another woman, another man. I want to share her, like I want to share myself. Yes, in bits. Time. Patience. Understanding.

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#19 Dec 16, 2011
My bf is wanting me to give other guys hjs and bjs, I'm thinking about doing for him. :)

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#20 Dec 16, 2011
Mike From Mt Gambier wrote:
I have to say I'm in this position now. I'm wanting to push the envelope. To have her have another woman, another man. I want to share her, like I want to share myself. Yes, in bits. Time. Patience. Understanding.
if you're there what I would say now is that lay presents out for her. Being her gifts, once you pick, she picks or you both pick out. Play more and more, explore each other thru play in every chance you get
The best part of that is afterwards. Once it's over, ask detailed questions and make sure you understand what she needs/gets from it. Push her to share that information. Most women will readily share that.
Take her to the edge, but give her the chance to jump. Don't push her into the abyss.

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