Since: Jul 11

Birmingham, UK

#1 Aug 22, 2011
When ever my children have been bad they are spanked, my wife spanks my son, and I spank my daughters. It's allways in the nude, but when my wifes finished with him she rubs some cream on his ass and inbetween the cheeks, I have no problems with this what so ever I just want to know what the rules are for spanking, on both sex'es.
thor

Peru

#2 Aug 22, 2011
when my son misbehaves I call him to my room, and then: 1) I trell him to fetch for me the lexan paddle with holes in it, and he knows what is that going to mean for him, he gets somewhat frightened; 2)I telll hi to drop his panta nd his underwear; 3) I make him bend over in a way that his hands are on the low seat of a chair, for maxmum buutocks exposure; 4) then I give hi m 5 to 6 swats with the paddle that leave his butts red and painful; 5) then I tell him to stand up, dress up, and put the lexapaddle in its place. It hurts, generally his eyes are fulll of tears. Then I tell hi m to leave the room: his behavior turns much better!!!
Mother Teresa

Portland, OR

#3 Aug 22, 2011
when I have to lay the paddle to my son, I had him go into his room and stripped nude and then report to me in the bathroom. In there, we have room for him to stand with his feet apart and bent at the waist so he can hang onto the countertop in front of the sink, and he is to watch his own face in the mirror as his discipline is applied. I delivery predetermined number of spanks with the paddle, I think it's actually a cricket bat or something, only cut down shorter than usual. After I'm done blistering his butt cheeks, and after he has become fully erect from the spanking, is allowed to stand up straight while I gently massage the bright red area and also his genitals underneath and up the front, with a generous handful of aloe. I make sure to give his foreskin several complete cycles up over the end and then pulled fully back down to ensure the cool soothing aloe gel gets everywhere it needs to be. Then he is to go back to his room and weight, not getting dressed until his erection is fully gone and he knows he better not touch it in the meantime!
thor

Peru

#4 Aug 22, 2011
"mother theresa": you are a terrible sadist and sex-addictrd lady. Not funny nor innteresting. Only sick.

Since: Aug 11

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#5 Aug 22, 2011
Fred2428 wrote:
When ever my children have been bad they are spanked, my wife spanks my son, and I spank my daughters. It's allways in the nude, but when my wifes finished with him she rubs some cream on his ass and inbetween the cheeks, I have no problems with this what so ever I just want to know what the rules are for spanking, on both sex'es.
it is good that men spank girls and women spank boys. Nude is very effective. i use brush and hand.
You rub cream to the girls too?
Jennifer7

UK

#6 Aug 23, 2011
We use spanking for our kids, but only as a last resort & for serious or repetitive bad behaviour. We have 2 girls, 13 & 10 & our son is 8. We never spank in temper, & always sit & discuss what they have done & why they are being punished. Its always done in the privacy of their own bedroom, unless they are being punished for something they have done to one another, in which case we allow the innocent one to be there. We dont differentiate when it comes to which of us does it. I will spank my son & my husband will spank the girls or visa versa. It really doesnt matter. When ever possible we try to ensure both of us are in the room when its done.
mamma bear

Estell Manor, NJ

#7 Aug 23, 2011
why does it have to be on the bare tush ? isnt over the pants good enough ?
davillian

El Paso, AR

#8 Aug 23, 2011
I have spanked/paddled by kids, bare butt, panties on, and fully dressed and they cry regardless (but they know that I don't want to spank them so if it gets to that point I am going to wear their bottoms out).
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Jennifer7

UK

#9 Aug 23, 2011
Its a personal decision, but we decided that any punishment is administered to them undressed. We dont spank really hard, so the embarrassment of having to undress in front of their parents is an important part of the punishment.

Since: Jul 11

Wembley, UK

#10 Aug 23, 2011
Thanks for telling what you do with your kids, but what I wanted to know, is it ok that I do the same with my daughter's that my wife does with our son?
Anonymous

Chicago, IL

#11 Aug 23, 2011
Fred2428 wrote:
Thanks for telling what you do with your kids, but what I wanted to know, is it ok that I do the same with my daughter's that my wife does with our son?
Yes! There should not be a double standard. If there is, then you son will loose respect for you and your wife and your daughter could use it to her advantage. They need to learn early that all is equal.
Jenniferer7

UK

#12 Aug 23, 2011
Fred2428 wrote:
Thanks for telling what you do with your kids, but what I wanted to know, is it ok that I do the same with my daughter's that my wife does with our son?
I agree with everyone else, that the punishment for your son or daughter must be exactly the same. Im not sure its a good idea that you rub any cream or ointment into her though. That is probably crossing the line. Its a difficult one, cos obviously some would say, well thats ok so his mum shouldnt rub cream into her sons bottom, & they would be right. Trouble is , a mum can soothe her daughter, but i dont think many dads would soothe their son. Its a man thing. LOL.
Anonymous

Chicago, IL

#13 Aug 23, 2011
Jenniferer7 wrote:
<quoted text> I agree with everyone else, that the punishment for your son or daughter must be exactly the same. Im not sure its a good idea that you rub any cream or ointment into her though. That is probably crossing the line. Its a difficult one, cos obviously some would say, well thats ok so his mum shouldnt rub cream into her sons bottom, & they would be right. Trouble is , a mum can soothe her daughter, but i dont think many dads would soothe their son. Its a man thing. LOL.
You're right. It's a man thing. Rubbing the cream on is okay. It doesn't have to be rubbed into anything just on the butt. Men do have hangups about that sort of thing though.

Since: Jul 11

Birmingham, UK

#14 Aug 24, 2011
And what do you know about erections, not mine but my sons, after my wife spanks him he always gets up with an erection. Is that normal?
Darren

London, UK

#15 Aug 24, 2011
Fred2428 wrote:
And what do you know about erections, not mine but my sons, after my wife spanks him he always gets up with an erection. Is that normal?
Try getting spanked yourself, then you'll find out if its normal or not.

Easy.
uk dad who spanks

Dublin, Ireland

#16 Aug 24, 2011
rule (1) of spanking is the humiliation both boys and girls should be made strip off all lower garments and to stand upright facing the parent while the parent detail why they are to be punnished

(2) the fear, the child should then be made bend over bum ready hands on a coffee table or chair seat staying that way untill you fetch the paddle,

(3) the pain there is no point spanking unless you inflict actual pain 6 should be sufficient for most kids

(4) sufferance the child should be made stay in the butt up position untill you leave the paddle back to its rightfull place

(5)the child should then be made stand in front of you so you can deliver your ( i hope this has been a lesson to you speech) regaurdless whether they are crying or in the case of boys errect as most usually are.

(6) reasurance you should then cuddle your child boy or girl to show them you still love them even tho you did spank them

(7) pain relief this can be in any form the child likes best whether its soda cream rubbed on the bum aloevra as mentioned ealier is good my daughter prefers this to cream

i personally see no need to rub creams or lotions on the childs genitalia but at the same time if it helps reasure the child and soothes them i have no problem with this

(8) the child should be allowed private time to rub their butts and in the case of boys to materbrate if they want too then to dress and get on with it...
Anonymous

Chicago, IL

#17 Aug 24, 2011
Fred2428 wrote:
And what do you know about erections, not mine but my sons, after my wife spanks him he always gets up with an erection. Is that normal?
Boys getting an erection while being spanked is a very normal response to stimuli. They are embarrassed by it but that's all part of it. What does your wife think about it? Does she leave him alone to dress afterward or does she stay there with him?
clover

El Paso, AR

#18 Aug 24, 2011
JC is right.....its normal for a few reasons. A lot of blood has been rushed to the spanked area and the excess in the area spreads throughout heightening other nearby glands. If nude.... then he knows that on some level (varies) and it can manifest itself in many ways, including an erection. If he is over someones knee then the added stimuli of rubbing it against a particular fabric or skin is possible, so just try not to embarrass him about it and its all good.
Marcus

Valley, AL

#19 Aug 24, 2011
You people are sick. You don't strip kids naked to embarrass them. Humiliation is mental abuse, not punishment.
Jennifer7 wrote:
Its a personal decision, but we decided that any punishment is administered to them undressed. We dont spank really hard, so the embarrassment of having to undress in front of their parents is an important part of the punishment.
The Head

UK

#20 Sep 28, 2011
I think you should certainly treat males and females exactly the same! Showing any favoritism will only cause resentments. You rub cream onto the boys sore parts so why not the girls. And if you have accidently mis aimed a few spanks then apply cream to sooth those areas too. I'm usually very thorough with my spankings and just as much so with my soothing cream rubs. Even on girls.

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