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meandyou

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Dec 27, 2007
 
my wife just informed me of a threesome she had before we knew each other. she says that she was naked and kissing the two guys and they were playing with her breasts but she stoped it before it went any further. one guy tried to go down on her but that is when she said no and stoped. my question is this should i let it go or insist she do a threesome with me and another woman so we can be even? i would like to hear from guys and girls please

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Since: Dec 07

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Dec 27, 2007
 
dude... you cant force her in to a 3sum... lol at best you could ask her if she wanted too... and if she did then go for it up... but trust me do not force on her... you will ruin your relationship
meandyou

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Dec 27, 2007
 
thanks for the advice. any girls want to share?

Since: Dec 07

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Dec 27, 2007
 
lol

What she did before she married you shouldn't matter. You should had talked about all that stuff before you got married.
meandyou

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Dec 27, 2007
 
thanks ronnie. have you any similar situations that could help explain your reasoning?

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Dec 27, 2007
 
ok want to know ur best shot at getting her in to a 3 some with u?
tell her how that story turns you on so much, and tell her it rather constantly over a week or so then ask... make sure to ask not force lol... if she may be interested in trying one with you and how much you would love it
RUBEN

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Dec 27, 2007
 
Ask her if she would like a 3some with you and another woman, but not as a way of 'getting even' but as a way of experimenting and enjoying sex with eachother. What she did before you were together shouldnt bother you, the fact that she told you shows that she trusts you and if you freak out about it you may damage this trust she has in you. Also be prepared that if she agrees to a 3some with another woman she might then want another 3some with another man, how would you feel about that?. You need to both lay down your ground rules and what you both want and dont want if youre going to get into threesomes together, otherwise it will mess up your relationship...

Since: Dec 07

Flushing, NY

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#8
Dec 27, 2007
 
The others said it all.
I had fantasies of being in a threesome when I was younger. When the opportunity arose, it wasn't quite what I imagined. I was the other guy with an older married couple. I did get to have sex with this beautiful older German woman, but her husband wanted fun too. He didn't just want to share his wife, he wanted to share me with her. It was an adventure that I will never forget or regret.
As Ruben noted. What would you say if your wife suggested a MMF threesome?
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Since: Dec 07

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Dec 27, 2007
 
Okay Meandyou...

I agree you cant force her into wanting a threesome..

Even... Your joking right. That happened with her before you two were together.. I'm sure that you did stuff with other people before you got with her. Right??

But, you should just ask her if she wants to experiment with a threesome. You can't go wrong asking her. Why does it have to be FFM- what if it were MMF?? Would you be glad to do it either way?
RUBEN

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Dec 27, 2007
 
Personally I would never want to do a MMF... the thought of being with another man just grosses me out... so you need to be careful when getting into threesomes, after all if you agree to FFM then you cant really refuse her MMF unless you percifically agree before hand that its a no-no... horses for courses as they say!...

Since: Dec 07

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Dec 27, 2007
 
RUBEN wrote:
Personally I would never want to do a MMF... the thought of being with another man just grosses me out... so you need to be careful when getting into threesomes, after all if you agree to FFM then you cant really refuse her MMF unless you percifically agree before hand that its a no-no... horses for courses as they say!...
I felt the same way, but I also wanted to experience what life had to offer. Note, this was back in the 70's. Call me stupid, but I really didn't give a thought to things being a MMF until it happened. It was either have fun or run. What might have been 2 guys doing a hot woman, turned out to be a married couple sharing a young guy. Everything was cool. He was eating her, she was giving me oral, while I sat back and watched. Then she invited him to have a taste. Before I knew what was happening, he was licking one side and her ,the other.
Never did anything after that, or had the chance to.
Whould you have stayed it out for the experience, or split?
RUBEN

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Dec 27, 2007
 
I probably would have hid behind the woman!... lol!!... seriously though I would probably have said beforehand that I was only interested in physical contact with the woman.... but I can understand how you could get caught up in it during the heat of the moment...
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Jun 7, 2008
 
meandyou wrote:
thanks for the advice. any girls want to share?
Your place, or mine?

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Since: Aug 07

MARIETTA, GA

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#14
Jun 7, 2008
 
Five months and a few days and the subject of three way sex draws 14 posts.

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Phil

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Jun 7, 2008
 
"my wife just informed me of a threesome she had before we knew each other....should i let it go or insist she do a threesome with me and another woman so we can be even?"

First, what happened before you met is really none of your business. She shared this with you and now you want to turn it around on her so that you can "be even"?????

If she shot herself in the foot would you want to do the same "to be even"?

What a ridiculous thought process.

If you would like to try one now, you talk to her about your interests. Her past should play no part in the talk nor the final decision.

Guilt her into something she doesn't want to do and I am sure we'll be seeing the follow up question:

"I tried to guilt my wife into a 3-some, how do I avoid a divorce?"

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