why do i like masturbating so much

why do i like masturbating so much

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Since: Apr 11

London, UK

#1 Apr 18, 2011
i'm a happily married man in uk but sexually frustrated. since the last 5 years my wife has been too ill for sex. i don't wish to be nasty towards her but i don't fancy her sexually now either. i would much rather masturbate in private. but what i really fantasize about is having intercourse with a real woman again. i am somehow drawn to loyalty towards my wife so haven't ever done it with another woman. am i doing the right thing by easing my sexual frustrations alone or do i need to get some outside help. please note that i haven't and can't discuss this with my wife.
Just Me

Scottsdale, AZ

#2 Apr 18, 2011
I'm happily married also. I also take care of myself almost every day. Feels good and takes away the urg to stray. My advice is to keep it up.

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#3 Apr 18, 2011
Just Me wrote:
I'm happily married also. I also take care of myself almost every day. Feels good and takes away the urg to stray. My advice is to keep it up.
sure and how old are you ?)
Just Me

Scottsdale, AZ

#4 Apr 18, 2011
43 Why?

Since: Dec 10

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#5 Apr 18, 2011
just curious then ask you ,,,,,,and Im 40 yrs old also like to masturbate too sometimes,,,,,

and woudl you like to communicate ?,,,

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Since: Apr 11

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#6 Apr 18, 2011
woodchip40 wrote:
i'm a happily married man in uk but sexually frustrated. since the last 5 years my wife has been too ill for sex. i don't wish to be nasty towards her but i don't fancy her sexually now either. i would much rather masturbate in private. but what i really fantasize about is having intercourse with a real woman again. i am somehow drawn to loyalty towards my wife so haven't ever done it with another woman. am i doing the right thing by easing my sexual frustrations alone or do i need to get some outside help. please note that i haven't and can't discuss this with my wife.
I think you are doing the right thing here by not cheating on your wife, but doing this instead!
And its pretty normal, anyone who says he/she is not masturbating when have a partner..thats a lie :P
pickleears

United States

#7 Apr 18, 2011
I love to masterbate i can't get enough of it i do it every day sometimes twice a day i'm happily married an we have sex

Since: Apr 11

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#8 Apr 18, 2011
whiskeytango wrote:
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I think you are doing the right thing here by not cheating on your wife, but doing this instead!
And its pretty normal, anyone who says he/she is not masturbating when have a partner..thats a lie :P
I agree,and well done for not cheeting
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milli

Europe

#9 Apr 18, 2011
excilent,evry gal must has fiance like u
last known

West Chester, PA

#10 Apr 18, 2011
Nothing wrong with it. Just about everyone does it, married or not. And don't think your wife doesn't take care of herself. Probably as many married women masturbate as married men.
fred

Gettysburg, PA

#11 Apr 19, 2011
cumming is great. either thru masturbation, with your wife (I guess), or any other partner.
kranky

Cleveland, OH

#12 Apr 19, 2011
because you can
Steve

Sydney, Australia

#13 Feb 14, 2012
I am 43, got married at 18 and had the best sex life until about four years ago. with teenage kids they know what's going on and the wife is paranoid about it. So no sex. After a while of arguing and frustration I gave up. now I have lost interest to. On the accation when we could do it it seems like to much trouble. Now I still love the thought of sex but can't be bother'd. having a wank came back, but wanking has turned me into a watcher instead of the doer. Do I support gay marrage,sh-t yeah. If I have to go through this crap, so should they.
Chuchu

United States

#14 Feb 14, 2012
I am married my wife ill in sex so i come late to come because i do sex with my secretary i tell her i have lot work in office i chance my secretary when ever i am bore

Since: Feb 12

Churchville, NY

#16 Feb 14, 2012
I've been j/o it seems like all of my life. I started when I was about 10, I am now 57. I did it in HS when I had a steady girl and got laid all the time. I did it in college when there was plenty of trim, during my marriage of 20 years when sex was more than adequate and since i've beem divorced, with my present lady who is very accomodating. I have to do it. I'm a guy.
Omg

Selden, NY

#17 Dec 1, 2012
You are sick and need help.
oldtool wrote:
Steve, I am 30 years older, my wife is in assisted living. I haven' had actual sex in 8 years but I started s**king c**k and fingering the 12yo neighbor girl and I jo several times a week. I'm trying to find a way to get my 17yo granddaughter to have sex with me. She liked to mess around when she was 9-10 yo but moved to california. she is back in this area now but doesn't seem as friskie as she did before. Sucking is ok and I like the taste of c*m but pu**y is better.
kinky in waggaman

Westwego, LA

#18 Jul 9, 2014
Steve wrote:
I am 43, got married at 18 and had the best sex life until about four years ago. with teenage kids they know what's going on and the wife is paranoid about it. So no sex. After a while of arguing and frustration I gave up. now I have lost interest to. On the accation when we could do it it seems like to much trouble. Now I still love the thought of sex but can't be bother'd. having a wank came back, but wanking has turned me into a watcher instead of the doer. Do I support gay marrage,sh-t yeah. If I have to go through this crap, so should they.
Actually most gay couples will never have to worry about what the teenage kids hear.

Since: Apr 11

Crawley, UK

#19 Sep 9, 2014
update . well thanks for all the praise about staying with my wife. unfortuately i am now separated because i felt the need to stray. i got a young girl who was a great lay. i took her out to town. my friend saw and my family found out. i got kicked out. everyone hates me and i'm on my own because the girl gad to move away. the thing is i'm sad i miss my family but i'm happy i'm free of my ex wife. i can now do what i want when i want. i guess i will suffer as time goes on because i do not have contact with my loving kids. i hope it gets better but i broke the family and we're all paying the price for my selfishness. last question here is : did i have to be unhappy when all around me were happy thinking i was happy ?

Since: Jun 14

UK

#21 Sep 9, 2014
woodchip40 wrote:
i'm a happily married man in uk but sexually frustrated. since the last 5 years my wife has been too ill for sex. i don't wish to be nasty towards her but i don't fancy her sexually now either. i would much rather masturbate in private. but what i really fantasize about is having intercourse with a real woman again. i am somehow drawn to loyalty towards my wife so haven't ever done it with another woman. am i doing the right thing by easing my sexual frustrations alone or do i need to get some outside help. please note that i haven't and can't discuss this with my wife.
I'm the same
I'm married love my wife but out sexlife is non exist ant, she's not open to having sex let alone try new things
She won't talk to me about it or explain why, just shoots me down all the time
I'd rather have a play alone
SpclMchn

United States

#22 Nov 2, 2014
woodchip40 wrote:
i'm a happily married man in uk but sexually frustrated. since the last 5 years my wife has been too ill for sex. i don't wish to be nasty towards her but i don't fancy her sexually now either. i would much rather masturbate in private. but what i really fantasize about is having intercourse with a real woman again. i am somehow drawn to loyalty towards my wife so haven't ever done it with another woman. am i doing the right thing by easing my sexual frustrations alone or do i need to get some outside help. please note that i haven't and can't discuss this with my wife.
are there massage parlors nearby? Check out one of those.

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