Are blueballs for real?
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Since: Dec 08

Bethesda MD

#1 Dec 21, 2008
I just wanted to know whether a guy NEEDS to climax every 3 days, or else he gets 'blueballs'? Do the balls actually become blue? Should a gf give her man instant relief, or should she take her time to first get herself off?
I prefer to first climax myself by having sex in woman-on-top position, and delaying his cliamx by pulling his sac down or 'jerk' him.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#2 Dec 21, 2008
Mandy Maryland wrote:
I just wanted to know whether a guy NEEDS to climax every 3 days, or else he gets 'blueballs'? Do the balls actually become blue? Should a gf give her man instant relief, or should she take her time to first get herself off?
I prefer to first climax myself by having sex in woman-on-top position, and delaying his cliamx by pulling his sac down or 'jerk' him.
it's a myth ... a man can go a long time without sex and it won't hurt him one bit .. physically.

On the other hand, emotionally it is hard for a man to go without ... that's one reason we jerk off so much, we are addicted to our orgasms.

If a man is with a woman and sexually involved, it is frustrating when a woman does not want the same sexual release as often as he does.

There are no "blue balls" but the frustration related to long droughts of sex with a partner is very real.

Partners should be always thinking of how they can satisfy what it is there partner wants from them. it does not even have to be sexual .. it has to be an act that shows "I love yuo, I won't take advantage of you, I want to give you what you want, I awant to make you happy, I hope yuo equally want to make me happy" ... if both partners in a couple can live up to that sort of thing then no guy would ever have to claim "blue balls" to convince his woman to give out sexually.

Since: Dec 07

Valley Springs, CA

#3 Dec 21, 2008
I don't need to climax every 3 days and if I do go without climax for 3 day there is no problem,especially no literal blue balls.

When I was 16 I had a g/f that would only let me french kiss her and let me rub on her tits and ass and that was it and sometimes durring our make out sessions, I would get really horny and when she would shoot me down for sex at times my balls would hurt really bad. They never turned blue but from all the pressure that built up with no release caused me pain.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#6 Dec 21, 2008
Alpha Omega Game wrote:
I don't need to climax every 3 days and if I do go without climax for 3 day there is no problem,especially no literal blue balls.
When I was 16 I had a g/f that would only let me french kiss her and let me rub on her tits and ass and that was it and sometimes durring our make out sessions, I would get really horny and when she would shoot me down for sex at times my balls would hurt really bad. They never turned blue but from all the pressure that built up with no release caused me pain.
my balls never ached ... yes, there was added pressure and I think they and my c*ck seemed to get more sensitive .. I think the buildup of hormones made everything more sensitive, so even the slightest sexual thought wuold start a hard-on.

For men, an orgasm releases some of those hormones like dropping the pressure in a balloon.

Hard to ignore one's need for sex when everything is so super-sensitive.

It's not nearly as prevelant as you get older though ... the tesosterone production reduces as you get into your mid-20's.

Since: Dec 08

United States

#7 Dec 21, 2008
Its not real but we're not making it up either
Mr Lucky

Seattle, WA

#8 Dec 21, 2008
That's not what blue balls means, going without sex. Blue balls is when a guy is gets highly aroused sexually, ie. anticipating, and then it doesn't happen. Yes it can be aching, depending on the level & duration of the arousal (esp. duration). Of course, he can take care of it himself, so no-one's to blame. No, don't give him instant relief, the guy has to learn to pace himself for you and that's not the way to do it.

Since: Dec 08

Bethesda MD

#9 Dec 22, 2008
Mr Lucky wrote:
That's not what blue balls means, going without sex. Blue balls is when a guy is gets highly aroused sexually, ie. anticipating, and then it doesn't happen. Yes it can be aching, depending on the level & duration of the arousal (esp. duration). Of course, he can take care of it himself, so no-one's to blame. No, don't give him instant relief, the guy has to learn to pace himself for you and that's not the way to do it.
His balls are always super-tight. I know because my earlier bfs weren't so. That's the problem, he doesn't wank! He says he wants to get off only with me!
Now whenever I have sex, I have for longer duration since I get satisfied only with multiple climaxes..up to 3 minimum. Plus I flex my PC muscles so tight on his penis head! But he's so 'full' that he is shot in like 8-10 minutes..leaving me in the middle. That's why I have to jerk his balls every 2-3 minutes, and stay in woman on top pose to pace him..

Do you guys know of any climax-control techniques?
donald brown

Durham, NC

#10 Dec 22, 2008
well there a lot of guys that lie about things like blue balls, there is not no blue ball when it when you do not have sex, well i was a virgin for almost 21 years i did not have blue balls, than i stop having sex for 2 years i did not have no blue balls, than again for almost 2 years again i did not get no damn blues balls, hey the only thing going happen you going to shoot off early, that if you do not jack off early before having sex,
donald brown

Durham, NC

#11 Dec 22, 2008
hey my ball got tight when i do have sex, well there no real thing as blues balls, hey blue ball is thing when a man lies to tell his woman if do not have sex his balls turn blue, so the woman will let him have sex with her, a lot women beleive this bullshit,
Heidi

Silver Spring, MD

#12 Dec 22, 2008
Whenever my brother and I go a few days without sex he says that he gets so horny he can't think about anything but sex and he feels like he's going to go crazy if he doesn't get any. I believe him. It shows...
Sex Adviser

Butler, PA

#13 Dec 22, 2008
Heidi wrote:
Whenever my brother and I go a few days without sex he says that he gets so horny he can't think about anything but sex and he feels like he's going to go crazy if he doesn't get any. I believe him. It shows...
You have sex with your brother? Trust me, him going crazy isn't the problem. You too both need help, esp. you. No man, not even your brother has the right to tell someone when or when they can't have sex

Now, on the other topic. There is no such thing as blue balls when without sex for a long period of time but guys do experience some type of intense pain if he is well into his errection and then just quits. It's best if you started to keep going or else he may get the term I'd like to call "reject balls"
Dingbat

AOL

#14 Dec 22, 2008
Blueballs? Hmmm let me check, nope mine arent blue, more like light brown colored --- a tan ?
Dingbat

AOL

#16 Dec 22, 2008
Mandy Maryland wrote:
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His balls are always super-tight. I know because my earlier bfs weren't so. That's the problem, he doesn't wank! He says he wants to get off only with me!
Now whenever I have sex, I have for longer duration since I get satisfied only with multiple climaxes..up to 3 minimum. Plus I flex my PC muscles so tight on his penis head! But he's so 'full' that he is shot in like 8-10 minutes..leaving me in the middle. That's why I have to jerk his balls every 2-3 minutes, and stay in woman on top pose to pace him..
Do you guys know of any climax-control techniques?
Why control it, let it all go,why not, especially when you can get a few more.
Dingbat

AOL

#17 Dec 22, 2008
Mandy Maryland wrote:
I just wanted to know whether a guy NEEDS to climax every 3 days, or else he gets 'blueballs'? Do the balls actually become blue? Should a gf give her man instant relief, or should she take her time to first get herself off?
I prefer to first climax myself by having sex in woman-on-top position, and delaying his cliamx by pulling his sac down or 'jerk' him.
Mandy youre doing it well, take care of your own "O" first and pulling his man sac isa great way. I know I like that when my GF does it. PS I love girl superior, I get to see the girl, added stimulation. Seeing a woman having their bliss is big turn on for men like me. Not to mention seeing their whole body in action, some breasts become realy wild.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#18 Dec 22, 2008
Mandy Maryland wrote:
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His balls are always super-tight. I know because my earlier bfs weren't so. That's the problem, he doesn't wank! He says he wants to get off only with me!
Now whenever I have sex, I have for longer duration since I get satisfied only with multiple climaxes..up to 3 minimum. Plus I flex my PC muscles so tight on his penis head! But he's so 'full' that he is shot in like 8-10 minutes..leaving me in the middle. That's why I have to jerk his balls every 2-3 minutes, and stay in woman on top pose to pace him..
Do you guys know of any climax-control techniques?
unles you guy is in his 40's or older he should not have to "Save himslef" for you by not wanking ... he should be able to orgasm 2 or 3 times a day.

IN fact, if he comes an hour before you two have sex, he will probably last longer then 10 minutes when he is with you.

“Alejandro.”

Since: Nov 08

London, silly

#19 Dec 22, 2008
no blue balls. lol. sexual frustration yes though. when i havent had sex for about a week i actually get a stronger orgasm though. but no more sperm will be produced and stored than are needed. if a dude isnt getting any and doesnt masturbate, production will slow down.
Crystal

Tuckahoe, NY

#20 Dec 22, 2008
London_Boy_91 wrote:
no blue balls. lol. sexual frustration yes though. when i havent had sex for about a week i actually get a stronger orgasm though. but no more sperm will be produced and stored than are needed. if a dude isnt getting any and doesnt masturbate, production will slow down.
You do know the male human physiology.

“Alejandro.”

Since: Nov 08

London, silly

#21 Dec 22, 2008
Crystal wrote:
<quoted text>You do know the male human physiology.
lol im doing biology a-level atm =] interesting the things you learn in class. lol
John

Harwich, MA

#22 Dec 22, 2008
Your balls don't actually turn blue, but if you get aroused and then don't climax and ejaculate, it hurts from the balls up to the pelvis, hence the term blue balls. What it is, is built up semen that isn't being released. So, if you're not getting laid, take things into your own hands, good thing we have masturbation!!

“Alejandro.”

Since: Nov 08

London, silly

#23 Dec 22, 2008
i have never had that pain. lol
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