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Since: Oct 12

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#1201 Jul 22, 2013
susan72 wrote:
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And you are not invited? Talk about manners...
Yes, and all bad! How rude!
Butch 11

Pittsburgh, PA

#1205 Aug 5, 2014
My told me recently that she she would like to be spanked by other men. Yes, she enjoys it when I spank her, but she said that it would be exciting to be stripped down and spanked by other men.
I've had this conversation with a couple friends of mine that I do trust, They told me that they think my wife has a great bottom and that they would be more than willing to do the honors.
When I told her, she was very excited and wants me to set things up. Before I do this, I would like to get the opinion of a few others.

Since: Oct 12

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#1207 Aug 6, 2014
Butch 11 wrote:
My told me recently that she she would like to be spanked by other men. Yes, she enjoys it when I spank her, but she said that it would be exciting to be stripped down and spanked by other men.
I've had this conversation with a couple friends of mine that I do trust, They told me that they think my wife has a great bottom and that they would be more than willing to do the honors.
When I told her, she was very excited and wants me to set things up. Before I do this, I would like to get the opinion of a few others.
You should go for it, of course! If people are willing to reveal such wishes rather than sneaking off on their own, it shows great trust in the relationship and in you. Under those circumstances of openness and honesty you have little to lose, and if it turns out to be a mistake, then the two of you just move on. If it turns out to be fun, you will end up really enriching your sex life. BTW, another thing to consider is a bdsm club. I am sure there is one in your town. Take her there as a sub for spanking, and you can I am sure find a stranger to do the spanking if you feel at all uncomfortable with having one or more friends do it. If you like the idea of friends, see if she is willing to meet them at the door naked and then be passed from knee to knee.
Butch 11

Pittsburgh, PA

#1208 Aug 7, 2014
That's great advise. I'm sure she will be willing to try what you suggested.
Chris

Bakersfield, CA

#1209 Aug 7, 2014
Yes Susan great advise. As long as I can watch and or join in when I get super horny and I know I will. If I cannot be there then no deal

Since: Oct 12

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#1210 Aug 7, 2014
Chris wrote:
Yes Susan great advise. As long as I can watch and or join in when I get super horny and I know I will. If I cannot be there then no deal
We will just have to rely on him to share with us what happens so we can satisfy our kinky interests. ;-)
Butch 11

Logan, OH

#1211 Aug 11, 2014
Just to update you, I gave my wife the option of friends or strangers. She said she felt better having me invite my friends over. I think she felt that if she wanted to back out, it would be easier.
Well, I arranged it over the weekend. I suggested greeting them at the door naked, but instead she worn something extremely sexy.
My friends had a couple drinks before they came over and my wife a couple beforehand as well.
I guess, I'm giving the shortened version of the story, but after we were all sitting in our living room for a while I thought I needed to make the first move. So I told my friends that my wife as very bad today, She clean the house as she said she would knowing we had guests coming. One of my friends said, "Is that so?" and I said yes and asked them what should be done about it. They both said a good bare bottom spanking.
I told my wife that I was getting no where with disciplining her and that I thought she needed some new hands smacking her bottom.
I said no more, she went over my friends. They removed what little bit of clothing she had and then took turns giving her a very sound OTK spanking.
They didn't hold back and she loved every swat. And I was never so aroused in my life. They made her bend over in front of them afterwards so they could admire their work.
Later that night, after they left, I asked her what she thought about it. She said that she thought she would be needing more. I talked to one of my friends the next day and he said that he really enjoyed it and would be game for another round any time.
This all happened pretty quick. That all happened Saturday night. This morning she told me that she enjoyed Saturday night and ask if we can talk tonight about going a step further. Not sure what she is going to ask or want to do, but I'll try keeping you posted.

Since: Oct 12

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#1212 Aug 12, 2014
Butch 11 wrote:
Just to update you, I gave my wife the option of friends or strangers. <snip> That all happened Saturday night. This morning she told me that she enjoyed Saturday night and ask if we can talk tonight about going a step further. Not sure what she is going to ask or want to do, but I'll try keeping you posted.
Oh excellent! Butch is not one of these hit and run posters who starts something fun and then disappears! I suppose what both of you need to discover is whether she is into the pain aspect or the humiliation aspect more or whether she enjoys both. What you did certainly has aspects of both. Being on display with her "girly parts" available for all to see is certainly humiliating. BTW shaving will increase that aspect since nothing will be hidden at all, and if she becomes aroused, it will be evident. She may be thinking of having her "girly parts" punished. That can be intensely erotic, whether done by hand or a flogger. I recommend getting a flogger. This looks like a cat-o'nine tails, only with more tails. Get a small one first. They produce a nice sting but no more. Larger ones become progressively more painful. They are good for flogging all parts, especially, shall we say, very sensitive ones. One way to increase the humiliation factor would be to check her for arousal. If she is aroused, having everyone check and comment and then punish her offending parts could really move things along. Whether you want to try to go that far the next time or take smaller steps, you and she will have to decide. This will be an interesting journey as she (and you) obviously are embarking on a voyage of exploration that may be very rewarding.
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Since: May 14

Brisbane, Australia

#1213 Aug 12, 2014
Let her do it as long as its in front of u the first few times so u can build the trust up
Youngandhung

West Warwick, RI

#1214 Aug 12, 2014
Butch 11 wrote:
My told me recently that she she would like to be spanked by other men. Yes, she enjoys it when I spank her, but she said that it would be exciting to be stripped down and spanked by other men.
I've had this conversation with a couple friends of mine that I do trust, They told me that they think my wife has a great bottom and that they would be more than willing to do the honors.
When I told her, she was very excited and wants me to set things up. Before I do this, I would like to get the opinion of a few others.
You would probably be better off with someone who is not a friend because if it ends up bothering you to see her with another man it would be better if it was someone who wasn't usually around. Tell me do you expect it to stop at spanking or continue beyond that because if your wife gets excited by it more will happen in the heat of the moment believe mr I know I have been with numerous couples
Youngandhung

West Warwick, RI

#1215 Aug 12, 2014
Butch 11 wrote:
Just to update you, I gave my wife the option of friends or strangers. She said she felt better having me invite my friends over. I think she felt that if she wanted to back out, it would be easier.
Well, I arranged it over the weekend. I suggested greeting them at the door naked, but instead she worn something extremely sexy.
My friends had a couple drinks before they came over and my wife a couple beforehand as well.
I guess, I'm giving the shortened version of the story, but after we were all sitting in our living room for a while I thought I needed to make the first move. So I told my friends that my wife as very bad today, She clean the house as she said she would knowing we had guests coming. One of my friends said, "Is that so?" and I said yes and asked them what should be done about it. They both said a good bare bottom spanking.
I told my wife that I was getting no where with disciplining her and that I thought she needed some new hands smacking her bottom.
I said no more, she went over my friends. They removed what little bit of clothing she had and then took turns giving her a very sound OTK spanking.
They didn't hold back and she loved every swat. And I was never so aroused in my life. They made her bend over in front of them afterwards so they could admire their work.
Later that night, after they left, I asked her what she thought about it. She said that she thought she would be needing more. I talked to one of my friends the next day and he said that he really enjoyed it and would be game for another round any time.
This all happened pretty quick. That all happened Saturday night. This morning she told me that she enjoyed Saturday night and ask if we can talk tonight about going a step further. Not sure what she is going to ask or want to do, but I'll try keeping you posted.
If she is hot I would be willing to help out with the spanking and going a step further I'm 19 cute firm atletic body nine cut thick huge cockhead and big balls have quite a bit of experience with couples and I can get it up multiply times
Butch 11

Logan, OH

#1216 Aug 14, 2014
I hate to disappoint, but the discussion I mentioned in the last post wasn't as in depth as I thought, but she said that she wants to talk more about it over the weekend. She told me again that she really enjoyed the whole episode and wants more, much more as she said it. The conversation didn't go beyond that, but I know the topic will come up this weekend. We are going out of town and will be staying at a motel. That might be where the conversation is headed.I'm not sure if this is moving too fast, but we've both been ok with everything to this point.

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Since: Jun 13

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#1217 Aug 14, 2014
Well, her getting spanked naked by a group of friends at the first instance would sound a bit fast and a tad risky in my opinion, but seems to have worked for you. Therefore, no point in losing sleep over it now. Lucky there.

And you have some civil friends. With booze involved and your wife bending over naked, things could have easily gotten out of hand. I am assuming that you knew them pretty well calculating the odds. Yet, still a risk I wouldn't advise you to take.

By saying more, much more, again I am assuming that your wife wants to take it beyond mere spanking, not more spanking. The motel getaway could prove useful. Both in terms of talking and maybe taking action if the opportunity knocks on the door.

You have to bear in mind that although Saturday night is a huge step, her having sex with another man and you watching and/or getting involved is a whole new ball game. Spanking would look like kid play compared to actual intercourse.

I strongly would suggest that you guys talk it over in depth and definitely try the next level with a stranger. But, looks as if her mind is already made up and you are willling.
Best of luck.
Butch 11 wrote:
I hate to disappoint, but the discussion I mentioned in the last post wasn't as in depth as I thought, but she said that she wants to talk more about it over the weekend. She told me again that she really enjoyed the whole episode and wants more, much more as she said it. The conversation didn't go beyond that, but I know the topic will come up this weekend. We are going out of town and will be staying at a motel. That might be where the conversation is headed.I'm not sure if this is moving too fast, but we've both been ok with everything to this point.

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#1218 Aug 15, 2014
susan72 wrote:
<snip>I strongly would suggest that you guys talk it over in depth and definitely try the next level with a stranger. But, looks as if her mind is already made up and you are willling.
Best of luck.
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The talking over in depth is very, very important! Trust is the key to keeping this from turning into a disaster, and trust comes when you both understand and accept each other. It is very critical to be honest about what you feel. People often say what they think, and that turns out to be very different from what they feel. As for stranger vs friends, each has advantages. A stranger is not part of your circle and can easily become in the past and out of the picture. However, it is not so easy to find a suitable stranger, which is why earlier I suggested a bdsm club. Friends have the advantage of being a little more comfortable, but the disadvantage of not being so easily gotten rid of if necessary

Also, finding out what she means by more or further is important. Does she mean deeper into punishment/humiliation (and which is more important to her) or the addition of sex to the spanking.

To make it clear, we are two different Susans.

Best of luck!

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