Brian

United States

#73 Jun 29, 2012
Encourage your wife to explore and have fun. Women enter their sexual prime much later in life than men do, so it is unfair to penalize them for experiencing the same growth of libido we enjoyed before they got it. Thank her for her honesty and praise her for her willingness to communicate with you about it; it wasn't easy for her to bring it up if she was unsure how you'd react. It means she wants YOU to still be the center of her life, and didn't want to hurt you with an unthinking betrayal.

If you can be okay with it, you'll find that she will feel immensely grateful for your understanding and unconditional love. Keep in mind that these feelings are normal human desires, and you did marry a human, after all. After she has been with them, hold her close and don't be afraid to tell her how much you love her. She still needs and wants your approval.
married man

Burwood, Australia

#74 Jun 29, 2012
My wife likes to play around every now an then, I let her because it makes her happy to try a different size dicks,it also makes me very horny knowing someone has touched her and enjoyed her like I do.
Devon

Fayetteville, GA

#75 Jun 30, 2012
My wife works for a large apartment complex, in the leasing office. She told me three years ago she was screwing one of the maintenance guys, and I gave her my blessing about it because I knew something had changed; she had started wanting sex a lot more often. Things had got very good in bed, so I didn't feel jealous.
She kept doing him, and started having some of the other maintenance guys at lunch. For the past year she's also been sleeping with several tenants, all on a regular basis. Her needs at home are more than I can keep up with, so I'm glad she is getting relief with other d!cks.

Since: Jun 12

Location hidden

#76 Jun 30, 2012
I wish my man was so accommodating, he would go mad if he found out.

Since: Jun 12

Melbourne, Australia

#77 Jun 30, 2012
married man wrote:
My wife likes to play around every now an then, I let her because it makes her happy to try a different size dicks,it also makes me very horny knowing someone has touched her and enjoyed her like I do.
I a from Melbourne and would love to play with your wife. You can watch me with her if you like
panTsniffer

Euless, TX

#78 Jul 1, 2012
waywood son wrote:
Well pantsniffer at least she has told u. Now just enjoy her cuckolding u..Its a great feeling knowing ur wife is taken a much bigger tool. Im still hopinh my wife will go blk.
yea i wanted my ex to do that too!

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#79 Jul 1, 2012
willing to try wrote:
My wife said she would love to have sex with other men, and asked my permission, I love her, and she loves me, but she wants to try other men, and she says that I am free to do the same with other women, and it sort off appeals to me, what do you think?
Ha Ha what a sad fecker you are my friend, She has just dumped you,but still wants you to pay her way, Think about it she she is saying she would rather hump any other person other than you, but done it in the nicest possible way, and like a fool you say it appeals to you, does it feck, you have just been manipulated into letting the slag feck anyone she wants to, and to top that off she is using your bed and no doubt your drink to satisfy them.

Since: Sep 11

United States

#80 Jul 1, 2012
Snudge Says wrote:
<quoted text>
Ha Ha what a sad fecker you are my friend, She has just dumped you,but still wants you to pay her way, Think about it she she is saying she would rather hump any other person other than you, but done it in the nicest possible way, and like a fool you say it appeals to you, does it feck, you have just been manipulated into letting the slag feck anyone she wants to, and to top that off she is using your bed and no doubt your drink to satisfy them.
I totally agree with you. It's like she's getting all the luxuries in life from him while still being a slut
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OnlyOnceSo far

UK

#82 Jul 1, 2012
My wife Julie and i had talked and fantasized about her being GB'd a few times without ever looking into taking the big step. Then last yr in tenerife we or she got the chance to do it. Julie is 45 now but still fit and i often see much younger lads eyeing her up. At our hotel there was 4 lads from manchester all good looking in their early 20's,we chatted alot with them and even went round the bars with them one night. They all had a dance with Julie in one club that night and as i sat and watched and was wanting them to touch her up under her short dress. When we got back to our room and got into bed i asked if she liked the 4 of them yes she said, would you fk any of them? She laughed and said any or all of them.. Next day as the 4 of them sat having a beer i sat beside them not quite knowing how to bring up the subject one of them said where is your hot wife today i replied she would love to hear that she really fancies you lads.
panTsniffer

Euless, TX

#83 Jul 1, 2012
i know its pathetic but i could tell when my ex had just cheated in our bed because i could feel damp spots & smell sex underneath the sheets....
Tangerine Man

Attleborough, UK

#86 Jul 1, 2012
Brian wrote:
Encourage your wife to explore and have fun. Women enter their sexual prime much later in life than men do, so it is unfair to penalize them for experiencing the same growth of libido we enjoyed before they got it. Thank her for her honesty and praise her for her willingness to communicate with you about it; it wasn't easy for her to bring it up if she was unsure how you'd react. It means she wants YOU to still be the center of her life, and didn't want to hurt you with an unthinking betrayal.
If you can be okay with it, you'll find that she will feel immensely grateful for your understanding and unconditional love. Keep in mind that these feelings are normal human desires, and you did marry a human, after all. After she has been with them, hold her close and don't be afraid to tell her how much you love her. She still needs and wants your approval.
I endorse everything you've written here.Once married couples can 'get over' the huge bugbear of 'possession'(with it's ever-present partner - jealousy they'll find that their relationship will actually improve when it becomes 'open'.They have to learn (or in some cases, re-learn) the difference 'twixt love and lust. Obviously,(as in ALL casual sex encounters)extreme caution needs to be applied against sexually transmitted diseases; and particularly in 'open' marriages, which sometimes only involves one partner with the other's consent, as a 'slip up' here with consequent infection of the other partner would in fact be more of a moral betrayal than a 'conventional' affair without the knowledge/consent of the other partner. At the end of the day, it's all about trust - by both parties, and in EVERY aspect.

Since: Mar 12

Merchantville, NJ

#87 Jul 1, 2012
panTsniffer wrote:
i know its pathetic but i could tell when my ex had just cheated in our bed because i could feel damp spots & smell sex underneath the sheets....
how hot was that?

Since: Jun 12

UK

#88 Jul 1, 2012
Heu guys letting ur woman try differant men is showing her how much u love and trust her. Its a gift i gave my wife after just 2years of marriage. She loves it
Love2Share

Marietta, GA

#89 Jul 2, 2012
The reality is that most wives from time to time would like sex with other men. Not many married couples can handle the issues of jealousy and trust so that the wife and husband feel comfortable enough with each other to allow the wife to act on her desire for sex ouside of the marriage. But for those couples who are able to separate the wife occasionally enjoying merely a physical act of sex with someone other than the husband, a whole new world of sexual excitement and arousal opens up for both wife and husband. We've been doing this for 13 years and the pleasure she gets from a good, hard, outside pounding now and then from someone else guarantees me a fabulous time with her when she comes home well used and then tells me all about her adventure with another guy while I am inside her!

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#90 Jul 2, 2012
willing to try wrote:
<quoted text>Believe me she is excellent! and delightfully noisy!
there I fixed that for you! No better way to know if you have a job well done than the orgasmic wails of your wife!

Try taking videos of your encounters and sharing them w/ each other! Very Hot! I want a whole porn library of my wife and other men! Soo Hot!

“Girls just like to have fun!”

Since: Mar 12

Hartwell, GA

#91 Jul 2, 2012
My husband lets me have sex with other guys, sometimes he watches, or joins in. It has mede our relationship stronger and the sex is better,
Tangerine Man

Stirling, UK

#92 Jul 2, 2012
At last - a real 21st Century fully liberated wife - how refreshing!(Let's not forget the equally realistic and non-possessive hubby either!)

Since: Jun 12

UK

#93 Jul 2, 2012
Hey youngwife its good to know that young couples are doing this aswell. I guess the next step would be for u to become inpregnated by a lover. Believe me its amazing, seeung ur wife grow and know its another mans seed. Kik me sometime. Saxongod
OnlyOnceSo far

UK

#94 Jul 3, 2012
After i posted our story- Julie and myself have went through the whole thread and can't get over how popular wife sharing etc is, tbh we thought we were both a bit weird or pervy but now we don't feel so depraved.. We even looking at booking up a hol again to a lively young resort and see if we can repeat last years fun. Julie is well up for it again.
Wild Willie

Stirling, UK

#95 Jul 3, 2012
OnlyOnceSo far wrote:
After i posted our story- Julie and myself have went through the whole thread and can't get over how popular wife sharing etc is, tbh we thought we were both a bit weird or pervy but now we don't feel so depraved.. We even looking at booking up a hol again to a lively young resort and see if we can repeat last years fun. Julie is well up for it again.
Yeah, seems to be getting more popular (again)now.Some folk think all this 'wife-sharing'/'open'marriages /relationships etc is a 'new'thing, but in fact it was all happening here and in Paris in the 'Thirties (The 'Bloomsbury Set' etc)- and then of course here in the 'Swinging Sixties', so really 'nothing new under the sun' etc!Hope you two find a good resort and have another 'fling'(Is Club Med still going?- I had a few hols with them in the '80s and it was really a great 'free for all'- in every respect, but haven't heard anything of 'em for ages.Have fun!

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