Absolutely! The right choice is not to push her too hard. Let things happen as they happen, but always let her know without being pushy that the next step whatever it is can happen. Good luck, and if you do it, please come back and share the experience.<quoted text>
Thanx, I'll give that a try, we have been talking about going to a swingers club, as we decided that would be the safest place to have sex in front of people (and the least jugemental).
I'm hoping that she will be up for it, I just don't want to push her into being with someone else if its not what she wants...
Have you investigated swingers clubs locally? Most are what is called "off premises," which means that at the club itself the main activity is to put people together, and the real sex parties happen elsewhere. This is actually good because it allows newbies to experience the sexually charged atmosphere without being committed to anything. Even if you get invited to one of the sex parties, you still are not committed to having sex with anyone else. Most swingers know that people do not suddenly jump into that lifestyle.