My wife wants sex with other men.
HappyHubby

Edmond, OK

#734 Sep 11, 2012
propaganda 101 wrote:
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Hi HH,
Thanx, I'll give that a try, we have been talking about going to a swingers club, as we decided that would be the safest place to have sex in front of people (and the least jugemental).
I'm hoping that she will be up for it, I just don't want to push her into being with someone else if its not what she wants...
Absolutely! The right choice is not to push her too hard. Let things happen as they happen, but always let her know without being pushy that the next step whatever it is can happen. Good luck, and if you do it, please come back and share the experience.

Have you investigated swingers clubs locally? Most are what is called "off premises," which means that at the club itself the main activity is to put people together, and the real sex parties happen elsewhere. This is actually good because it allows newbies to experience the sexually charged atmosphere without being committed to anything. Even if you get invited to one of the sex parties, you still are not committed to having sex with anyone else. Most swingers know that people do not suddenly jump into that lifestyle.
propaganda 101

South Africa

#735 Sep 11, 2012
We Are from south africa, the swingers clubs here look a bit nasty, there is one that looks decent, and is also only select clientele because of the $.

Me and the missus have decided to try that one, it is an on premise club, but they have a voyer room that we can use and we have explained to the owners what we want and they are quite happy to accommidate us.

Its now just getting there, and having a go, so to speak.

Like I said she's up for fun infront of people, but I think I should maybe just go and have some fun and see where it leads....

Wish me luck, and I'll let you guys know what happened when its happened!!
HappyHubby

Edmond, OK

#736 Sep 11, 2012
propaganda 101 wrote:
We Are from south africa, the swingers clubs here look a bit nasty, there is one that looks decent, and is also only select clientele because of the $.
Me and the missus have decided to try that one, it is an on premise club, but they have a voyer room that we can use and we have explained to the owners what we want and they are quite happy to accommidate us.
Its now just getting there, and having a go, so to speak.
Like I said she's up for fun infront of people, but I think I should maybe just go and have some fun and see where it leads....
Wish me luck, and I'll let you guys know what happened when its happened!!
That sounds excellent. I think it must be more difficult to keep an on-premises club from falling into sleaze than an off-premises one. I hope it works out. Most operators of swinger clubs of any kind are almost always glad to accomodate beginners. I look forward to hearing about your experience, and good luck!

Since: Jul 12

Gatesville, TX

#737 Sep 11, 2012
propaganda 101 wrote:
Hi guys, I'm a happily married 29yo man, I want to see my wife with another man, and yes I want to join in the fun as well, she is open to the idea of us having sex infront of people, but says she doesn't want to be with another guy...

I know I satisfy my wife sexually, not trying to be vain just giving a full acount, the most orgasms I've given her in one go is 38 before I couldn't keep track any more.(She's a squirter so its pretty easy to keep track)

I would like to see her with another guy but do not know how to go about it, or if I should try??

Please any advice would be great??

(Ps: I'm not really interested to know if you would want to f*ck her, just some advice)
what worked for me in the past is see if she will let you bring a guy in to take pictures or video of you two in action. She may get turned on enough to 'pay' him for the service. With an old gf that worked with male and female photographers. Led to tons of fun
Tangerine Manl

Colchester, UK

#738 Sep 11, 2012
Hot Lisa wrote:
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Yes you have defiantly given me some things to think about and I am fascinated with your accuracy into my personality.The things you have said makes it seem like we have talked about this in depth for a long time and in a very personal way. You are amazing with your insight.
After my husband told me it was alright to see other men much of the discussion we have had has dealt with the possible consequences of what I wanted to do. He also believed I was not giving that much thought. Several men I mentioned to him as potential lovers were flat out rejected for various reason and his reasons are valid. He ended up giving me permission to have sex with eight different guys we know,( No not at the same time!! hehe) of the eight three are married. One of the married men and his wife are casual acquaintances of ours, We are friends but not close. One is a co-worker of mine, I have met his wife once but do not know much about her. The third married man is one of my closer friends husband and is the one out of the eight that I would most love to get in bed. I have always had a physical attraction to him and I believe he does for me as well. I know the mans wife well and my husband and I think she actually may not have any objections. This is when I thought about a partner swap, we could all be involved if my husband and her would like that. The guys that are not married are mostly friends of friends and the like, one is a co worker but is in a relationship and Jeremy is the son of one of my other girlfriends. No relatives, that's something I would not do because of the possible consequences, but get me drunk, the right guy and who knows. That was a joke! hehe... I wouldn't do a relative.
Something else my husband and I have been very clear on, this is casual recreational sex for physical pleasure. Right now only men we know are possible but when I start seeing men that do not know us I will be very clear about that. Yes I have experienced the possessive, wants him to be the only one. I was with my husband for twenty years exclusively and I'd only had sex with one boyfriend before I met him. When I meet a man I will never deceive him into thinking I am available for anything other than a sexual relationship, I will be clear I am married and am going to remain with my husband but we can still get each others juices flowing. I don't believe I have the right to seduce other women's men but if they believe as I do recreational sex is awesome, pleasing to each other, and don't mind their husband being with a different woman from time to time it's an OK thing to do. Finding out if the spouse would object is a hard part. I have started a profile on an adult dating site so i can find men who are searching for the same thing I am thinking that could avoid many of those possible problems.
Thanks for listening and your replies.
You are great!
For what it's worth I'd say be very wary of online dating sites - particularly during these early stages of your new venture. I'm sure you're aware that there are all manner of weird characters out there, and its a sad fact that many people in cyberspace are not what they appear to be and you could end up in some very tricky situations but as I say,'tis up to you -you're a big girl now! Your other ideas seem fine; you KNOW these people as friends and/or as partners of friends and have probably met them in all sorts of situations so you 'know how they tick'- and can therefore react accordingly in your plans for seduction of those you fancy.One tip I might give you is to not be too 'revealing' about your actual intentions - particularly with the married ones. You hinted at 'laying your cards on the table'and saying you were only interested in a sexual relationship. This casts you into the role of 'whore' to most men, and you'll not only lose their respect but you will also have lost your opportunity to be in control if you reveal too much about your 'terms'.O.K.?
Mature Student

Colchester, UK

#740 Sep 11, 2012
jim wrote:
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I realize you are anxious about this but just like a guy shouldn't push his wife too hard, a wife shouldn't push too hard either. Your husband might have to be brought along a little slower. I know you've talked about this and everything but by him saying you need to slow down he's really saying this is moving too fast for him. He needs a little more time to digest it. This has to be done mutually. He will come around to what you want but be patient. I would not do anything with Jeremy yet with your husband's state of mind right now. There will be other times when Jeremy is available in the future. Your husband's reaction makes me feel the best way to go right now is with the girlfriend's husband. That way your husband won't feel as threatened and if you have your girlfriend's consent that will make your husband feel even better because he can talk to your girlfriend about it and have something in common. I think your plan to talk to her and depending on how the conversation goes, joke with her about her husband is a good plan. If anything just plant the seed about you being with another man and read her reaction. Don't force the issue or you could loose a husband and girlfriend. BE PATIENT! It will work out.
From her previous posts I don't thonk this lady knows the meaning of patience! She reminds me of some young lads who come on to this thread giving 'advice'about how to seduce their Aunt/Mom/Neighbour etc....."Just grab her by her ass and give her a good pounding" etc!- Can you imagine the reaction of the said middle-aged lady doing a spot of weeding in her garden at this assault? I don't think she will be quite so aggressive (although she did use that word in one of her early posts!)I think she's 'getting the message' though, and your cogent comments will perhaps help her to 'shorten her rein' a bit!
Hot Lisa

Barnesville, OH

#742 Sep 11, 2012
Tangerine Manl wrote:
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For what it's worth I'd say be very wary of online dating sites - particularly during these early stages of your new venture. I'm sure you're aware that there are all manner of weird characters out there, and its a sad fact that many people in cyberspace are not what they appear to be and you could end up in some very tricky situations but as I say,'tis up to you -you're a big girl now! Your other ideas seem fine; you KNOW these people as friends and/or as partners of friends and have probably met them in all sorts of situations so you 'know how they tick'- and can therefore react accordingly in your plans for seduction of those you fancy.One tip I might give you is to not be too 'revealing' about your actual intentions - particularly with the married ones. You hinted at 'laying your cards on the table'and saying you were only interested in a sexual relationship. This casts you into the role of 'whore' to most men, and you'll not only lose their respect but you will also have lost your opportunity to be in control if you reveal too much about your 'terms'.O.K.?
You are right about the adult dating, actually adult sex site I joined. After the talk my husband and I had last night I deleted it. I started it with the intent of being able to talk, for possibly months with men I'd meet there, get to know about them then decide on an in person meeting or not. I don't really need that, I mean I can go to any heterosexual bar or club in my city and will be hit on by men literally within minutes but with the rules my husband and I set up I have to get to know them fairly well and comfortable enough with them that they can eventually come to my home. Those rules are huge obstacles for me but I don't want to have sex with guys I just met and don't know anyway. I want to pick the men, not them pick me, but you know that about me already! I guess I could meet men at these places and take it from there, at least get their number. As my husband said these rules can be bent.
After my husband allowed me to have several nights of great sex with our friend Mark then gave his permission for me to have sex with other guys it has been consuming all my thoughts and a lot of things I've been doing. My husband and I have always had a great active sex life together and it has increased tremendously. I think that's good but he's been kind of freaked out because even with our increased activity I've been masturbating so much and with a lot of intensity. When I do it and he's watching I simulate a man really going at it with me. Maybe that's my desire for him to see me with another man and I'm hoping it will increase his curiosity. Don't know.
It seems your opinions ideas and comments related to this are always spot on. i don't know how you do it but thank you and I appreciate it more than you can know. Oh by the way, I got rear ended on my way home tonight. No Not That Way!!! An elderly lady slammed into the back of my car. No injuries.

Hot Lisa

Barnesville, OH

#743 Sep 11, 2012
jim wrote:
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I realize you are anxious about this but just like a guy shouldn't push his wife too hard, a wife shouldn't push too hard either. Your husband might have to be brought along a little slower. I know you've talked about this and everything but by him saying you need to slow down he's really saying this is moving too fast for him. He needs a little more time to digest it. This has to be done mutually. He will come around to what you want but be patient. I would not do anything with Jeremy yet with your husband's state of mind right now. There will be other times when Jeremy is available in the future. Your husband's reaction makes me feel the best way to go right now is with the girlfriend's husband. That way your husband won't feel as threatened and if you have your girlfriend's consent that will make your husband feel even better because he can talk to your girlfriend about it and have something in common. I think your plan to talk to her and depending on how the conversation goes, joke with her about her husband is a good plan. If anything just plant the seed about you being with another man and read her reaction. Don't force the issue or you could loose a husband and girlfriend. BE PATIENT! It will work out.
Thank you Jim, I appreciate your thoughts and ideas. It's too late for me to not do anything with Jeremy and my husband knows what we did. Last Saturday night I gave Jeremy a blow job, well actually two and he fingered me bringing both of us to orgasm. We didn't have a lot of time together so I'm really looking forward to actually having full and complete sex with him this coming weekend and with hubby's permission. I can't wait but believe me I am trying to be patient!

I will be seeing my friend who's husband i am interested in tomorrow evening and depending on the situation and how shes acting I'll decide on how much and what to tell her. I've only told a different girlfriend, my closest friend and I've told her everything. I will probably tell her that my husband is letting me see other men and if she says something like COOL, I might go ahead and ask her how she'd feel about her husband being with me. I'll just have to wait and see. Shes really not the type of gal to get angry over me asking something like that. We always tease around with each other and I've said some very suggestive things about her husband to her before. My husband is OK with me seeing Jeremy this weekend and pursuing my friends husband. I was going to fast but just tonight he said this is OK. I'm a happy girl. Thanks Again Jim!
INDIAN

UK

#744 Sep 11, 2012
Lonely women can contact m on my blackberry pin 277588AC for some good time.....;)
Hot Lisa

Barnesville, OH

#745 Sep 11, 2012
HappyHubby wrote:
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Don't get too far ahead of your husband. If he turns against this, it could get messy. The more he is involved himself, the better.
I agree and thank you so much! I hope he does not but if he turns against this i will not pursue any other men and go back to only being with him. Thats not what i want, I would love to have sex with several different men but I love my husband dearly and will put his wishes first. Hes a softy so usually what Lisa wants Lisa gets. hehe
Richard

Del Rio, TX

#746 Sep 11, 2012
Ged 2110 wrote:
<quoted text> Yes i heard from Josh sunday afternoon, he has told the guys who went on holiday with him and Julie, 2 are up for it the other looks like a no, but he has other options to fill the breach. Julie has no idea we are planning this either which makes it even better. Josh said he wants to watch her get gangbanged as well. Can't wait.
oh man. sounds like fun. maybe more than that. wow, you conspiring with josh. how cool is that. that's great. and that's cool that 2 are up for another go round. wow. whew. when? how soon? tell us all about it. i wish i could see this. it would be great if you recorded it and then downloaded it in bukakke or something like that. it would be great to see you and josh take on julie. cool.
Hot Lisa

Barnesville, OH

#748 Sep 12, 2012
jim wrote:
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I'm glad you told your husband about Jeremy. I was afraid you were going to do him behind your husband's back and that would not be good. What did the girlfriend that you told everything to say? How did she react? Is she supportive? It sounds like you're moving forward with building your stable. Do you think your husband may decide to try someone different? Does he ever want to watch or do you tell him details when you get home and then have s3x. Many couples do that. It's a turn on to men that other men want their wives so, they want to hear what the other guys did. They also learn from it.
I think if you could read some of my previous posts many of your questions might be answered. I just looked and my first one is #640 on page 28. If you have other questions or comments I would love hearing them. Its been a huge help to me hearing others opinions, advice and questions.
Rimmes

UK

#749 Sep 12, 2012
My wife and I are into swinging around the uk, we are both late 30s and have a lot of pics an vids we can swap txt or call me on. 07710600002 if its girl an guy or just a horny guy who wants to see sexy pics of my wife an me msg me or call
blkdaddy11

United States

#750 Sep 12, 2012
Hot Lisa wrote:
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I think if you could read some of my previous posts many of your questions might be answered. I just looked and my first one is #640 on page 28. If you have other questions or comments I would love hearing them. Its been a huge help to me hearing others opinions, advice and questions.
hey lisa, ive tried not to be so eager, and u forgot about me. wud u like to somehow get better aquaintted, then decide if u wud like to meet?
Hot Lisa

Barnesville, OH

#751 Sep 13, 2012
I had some great fun and conversation with my friend Diane, the wife of Brad the man I'm really wanting to have sex with. We had a blast, laughed a lot. The things we talked about that relate to what I have been posting here were interwoven in girl talk about many things but the answers she gave, questions she asked and so on makes me sure sex with her husband is something I'm going to do. I was very cautious about what I told her but an opportunity came when she brought up the wedding reception we all attended. I told her I had sex with Mark after that reception while he was staying at our house and her reaction was Are you serious! What will you do if David (my husband) finds out? When I told her he knew and was home at the time her reaction was Are you serious! I didn't tell her Mark and I had several nights of sex, that my husband heard us or any of that. We talked off and on about how it happened and later on I told her that I had asked David if I could see other men, again Are you serious! but with a shocked look. She told me about a brief fling she had and wished she had the nerve to ask brad things like that so that comment made me think shes pretty open to this. She asked if I was going to do it and I said absolutely, she was under the impression I was going to go out and meet someone so i told her about some of the rules that were set up. I didn't tell her i was planning on sex with several guys. She asked if I had anyone in mind and I had to bite my tongue from saying Your Husband! I told her about Jeremy but didn't tell her what we had already done.
We walked around the mall looking at stuff, talking off and on about this so at one point i asked her, I wonder what brad would do if I tried to seduce him. She looked at me and said he would be very flattered, she told me about some comments he made about the way I walk, how sexy he thinks it is.( my mom taught me my walk, how to carry myself, shoulders, elbows back and all when i was a teenager, it’s like a models strut and it stuck with me, its how I walk and I cant help it or change it!) Anyway i didn't come right out and say I want to fuck your husband but I think she realizes where i was going with this. We both said several other things that makes me believe shes really open to this and possibly swapping partners. That would make this sooo much easier. I am going to talk with David about this and get his opinion but i don't think it could have gone any better. Well if she would have said go for it with Brad :)
jessy james

Perth, Australia

#752 Sep 13, 2012
Hot Lisa wrote:
I had some great fun and conversation with my friend Diane, the wife of Brad the man I'm really wanting to have sex with. We had a blast, laughed a lot. The things we talked about that relate to what I have been posting here were interwoven in girl talk about many things but the answers she gave, questions she asked and so on makes me sure sex with her husband is something I'm going to do. I was very cautious about what I told her but an opportunity came when she brought up the wedding reception we all attended. I told her I had sex with Mark after that reception while he was staying at our house and her reaction was Are you serious! What will you do if David (my husband) finds out? When I told her he knew and was home at the time her reaction was Are you serious! I didn't tell her Mark and I had several nights of sex, that my husband heard us or any of that. We talked off and on about how it happened and later on I told her that I had asked David if I could see other men, again Are you serious! but with a shocked look. She told me about a brief fling she had and wished she had the nerve to ask brad things like that so that comment made me think shes pretty open to this. She asked if I was going to do it and I said absolutely, she was under the impression I was going to go out and meet someone so i told her about some of the rules that were set up. I didn't tell her i was planning on sex with several guys. She asked if I had anyone in mind and I had to bite my tongue from saying Your Husband! I told her about Jeremy but didn't tell her what we had already do
We walked around the mall looking at stuff, talking off and on about this so at one point i asked her, I wonder what brad would do if I tried to seduce him. She looked at me and said he would be very flattered, she told me about some comments he made about the way I walk, how sexy he thinks it is.( my mom taught me my walk, how to carry myself, shoulders, elbows back and all when i was a teenager, it’s like a models strut and it stuck with me, its how I walk and I cant help it or change it!) Anyway i didn't come right out and say I want to fuck your husband but I think she realizes where i was going with this. We both said several other things that makes me believe shes really open to this and possibly swapping partners. That would make this sooo much easier. I am going to talk with David about this and get his opinion but i don't think it could have gone any better. Well if she would have said go for it with Brad :)
Your doing well Hot Lisa, & doing everything to let your husband know, There is nothing we men 2 men dont know about my wife, even though she is looking for another fulltime partner, she always tells us if she met somebody to date or wants to get to know. Patience is a very good thing, even though its sex, with the right guy, it could turn into something more which happened to my wife & i. just a thought for you & your husband. We have rules for her & for
us men, & there is also a leader role as well so to speak an ( ALFA MALE ) which Paul is being the physical stronger man, even though i married the lady, but it works for order in the house. We always shower my wife with hugs & kisses when were with her & especially after she has been with another man, just to let her know that we love, cherish & respect her. Enjoy yourself & realy make sure the rules are set & your husband knows everthing, doesnt need to know details, just needs to know you have had sex, & you LOVE HIM.
Tangerine Manl

Colchester, UK

#753 Sep 13, 2012
Hot Lisa wrote:
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You are right about the adult dating, actually adult sex site I joined. After the talk my husband and I had last night I deleted it. I started it with the intent of being able to talk, for possibly months with men I'd meet there, get to know about them then decide on an in person meeting or not. I don't really need that, I mean I can go to any heterosexual bar or club in my city and will be hit on by men literally within minutes but with the rules my husband and I set up I have to get to know them fairly well and comfortable enough with them that they can eventually come to my home. Those rules are huge obstacles for me but I don't want to have sex with guys I just met and don't know anyway. I want to pick the men, not them pick me, but you know that about me already! I guess I could meet men at these places and take it from there, at least get their number. As my husband said these rules can be bent.
After my husband allowed me to have several nights of great sex with our friend Mark then gave his permission for me to have sex with other guys it has been consuming all my thoughts and a lot of things I've been doing. My husband and I have always had a great active sex life together and it has increased tremendously. I think that's good but he's been kind of freaked out because even with our increased activity I've been masturbating so much and with a lot of intensity. When I do it and he's watching I simulate a man really going at it with me. Maybe that's my desire for him to see me with another man and I'm hoping it will increase his curiosity. Don't know.
It seems your opinions ideas and comments related to this are always spot on. i don't know how you do it but thank you and I appreciate it more than you can know. Oh by the way, I got rear ended on my way home tonight. No Not That Way!!! An elderly lady slammed into the back of my car. No injuries.
Firstly, glad to hear it was only your car's rear end that was damaged, not yours - which might have caused a hitch to your potential new 'social life'!:)
On a more (slightly)serious tone, your decision to forego the adult online dating path - either via a 'club' or on sites such as this and 'Craigs List' etc I think is wise - if only for the reason that you simply don't need them!As you say, if you felt that 'urge' then your nearest bar/night club could easily fit the bill; but from your previous posts I also detect that both you and your husband already lead a healthy social life, so all you really need to do is to 'develop' that a bit more (bearing in mind the 'cautions' I suggested in a previous posting). To this extent you've told us you've already 'eyed up' a few possible 'candidates'you might engage in the future - so just ignore the various 'requests' that inevitably will appear here, which is the simplest way to avoid engaging in any unwanted 'attention'.
Yes, I would have assumed you already have a very happy and active sex life and also that having already begun your development your body's biochemistry will be gearing itself up aided by such 'mundane' things as writing and responding to posts here, so masturbation is the obvious way to release this 'extra libido' so-'keep up the good work'- on both your body and your mind!
Tangerine Manl

Colchester, UK

#754 Sep 13, 2012
Hot Lisa wrote:
I had some great fun and conversation with my friend Diane, the wife of Brad the man I'm really wanting to have sex with. We had a blast, laughed a lot. The things we talked about that relate to what I have been posting here were interwoven in girl talk about many things but the answers she gave, questions she asked and so on makes me sure sex with her husband is something I'm going to do. I was very cautious about what I told her but an opportunity came when she brought up the wedding reception we all attended. I told her I had sex with Mark after that reception while he was staying at our house and her reaction was Are you serious! What will you do if David (my husband) finds out? When I told her he knew and was home at the time her reaction was Are you serious! I didn't tell her Mark and I had several nights of sex, that my husband heard us or any of that. We talked off and on about how it happened and later on I told her that I had asked David if I could see other men, again Are you serious! but with a shocked look. She told me about a brief fling she had and wished she had the nerve to ask brad things like that so that comment made me think shes pretty open to this. She asked if I was going to do it and I said absolutely, she was under the impression I was going to go out and meet someone so i told her about some of the rules that were set up. I didn't tell her i was planning on sex with several guys. She asked if I had anyone in mind and I had to bite my tongue from saying Your Husband! I told her about Jeremy but didn't tell her what we had already done.
We walked around the mall looking at stuff, talking off and on about this so at one point i asked her, I wonder what brad would do if I tried to seduce him. She looked at me and said he would be very flattered, she told me about some comments he made about the way I walk, how sexy he thinks it is.( my mom taught me my walk, how to carry myself, shoulders, elbows back and all when i was a teenager, it’s like a models strut and it stuck with me, its how I walk and I cant help it or change it!) Anyway i didn't come right out and say I want to fuck your husband but I think she realizes where i was going with this. We both said several other things that makes me believe shes really open to this and possibly swapping partners. That would make this sooo much easier. I am going to talk with David about this and get his opinion but i don't think it could have gone any better. Well if she would have said go for it with Brad :)
Sounds like you've got a good friend and ally in Diane.I'm sure you know that the 'shocked' look and the repeated "You're not serious" is just her way of offering her tacit 'approval'-possibly with a bit of envy?- but you know her! You're very fortunate in having a woman friend with whom you can discuss these things - and get some female 'feedback'. It's all very well for us guys to give you our opinion(s)but it's far better if you can openly chat with a non-judgemental female also. Partner-swopping is of course quite another thing than what you were originally proposing (and have 'dipped your toe')and by its very nature implies yet another 'set of rules' as obviously there's got to be complicity on all sides.Is this what YOU want? It strikes me that part of you wants to follow the 'wifely' code of 'keeping your husband happy' whilst your 'wild' side is wanting to become an adventurous 'free spirit', and you need to be aware of this because at the end of the day this is really all about YOU and YOUR sexual desire of conquest and has absolutely NOTHING to do with 'love''fidelity' i.e. all the other trappings of marriage, so 'tis a question of striking the right balance 'twixt the two that YOU are happy with. You've (rightly) involved David in this, but he has to realize what it is you are seeking;which he may not be too happy with, but I have no need to tell you that the essence of any marriage is a partnership of INDIVIDUALS
Tangerine Man

Colchester, UK

#757 Sep 13, 2012
jim wrote:
Tangerineman makes good sense in what he says. I am pushing the swap because then your husband and your friend are getting something out of it also. It becomes an agreement between all parties involved. I feel that may help the other 2 with what happens with their significant others
All I'm really 'saying' to her is to think about what she really wants about this completely new phase of her life before she gets 'entangled' in a 'wife-swapping' scenario reminiscent of the 'Seventies. To fully understand this you need to scroll back to the begining of her posts i.e. say #666 and #673 where clearly it's a powerful latent aggressive sexual libido seeking release. There's absolutely nothing 'wron' with a 'wife-swapping' thing - any more than a 'sandwich threesome'involving hubby as someone else suggested way back - if this is what SHE wants or for that matter, if she's now changed her mind. At the end of the day it's HER decision, but her initial quest was for a personal sexual seduction of a number of men, which she has already started and got a perticularly intense release from attempting to seduce an inexperienced young man - the 'Mrs Robinson' syndrome. If these are her kicks, then she has the right to indulge in them, regardless of any 'third parties' and/or existing friendship/marital 'ties'.Hope this clarifies what I was implying in my post, and I can understand your concern regarding her husband and her two friends - but that is n entirely different topic.
Hot Lisa

Barnesville, OH

#758 Sep 14, 2012
Thank you Mr.Jessy James, Mr Tangerine Manl and Mr Jim. I think all of you make interesting points have great ideas and advice. I appreciate your opinions very much as I try to go about this the best way I can, my desire continues to be sex with several men. I want to experience different skill techniques, sizes, experienced, inexperienced and everything that goes with that. The excitement of being with another guy was a lot of it but the pleasure I had when Mark would tease me with his penis while he was entering me was something I cannot describe. Being with a different man and guiding his hand as I did with Jeremy was also very exciting to me.The partner swapping idea was something I thought about while I have been trying to decide the easiest and best way to have sex with my friends husband and Brad and Diane are the only ones I considered this as an option with. I thought if my husband and Diane were involved it would just make it much easier but partner swapping is not my goal. I spoke on the phone with Diane at length about relationships, couples that cheat behind each others back and things like that. At one point she said well if brad ever wants to see someone else I hope he has sense enough to do it with someone like you. She also said it might actually do him some good. I said thank you but was thinking WOW, she just came very close to telling me it was OK .I know now brad having sex with me has crossed her mind.
Something I thought was funny, Jeremy called late thursday afternoon and ask if we were going to be home, I said I would be but David would be a little late gettin home but it was cool if he wanted to stop by. He showed up, had one of the same friends with him that had been here last weekend, We drank a couple beers, went to the basement and was watching a movie called Thursday. pretty funny movie. Anyway when David got home he came down and I could tell he thought we'd been having sex. It was funny because we hadn't done anything sexual. After Jeremy and his friend left David ask me how long they had been here and what we'd been doing. I could tell he still suspected something so i said we had a threesome. David said Oh really, then I admitted I was teasing with him but asked what if we would have and he said i thought that was something you wanted to do. WOW again, i would like to try that so if David doesn't want to be involved I may see if i can get it to happen. Jeremy is coming back tonight and I'm going to get him in bed this time so if his friend comes it could be possible. One of my strong desires is for David to watch me having sex with someone else, he so far wants no part of that but I tease the hell out of him every night while i play with my dildo and say things like wouldn't you like to see jeremy doing this. I'm gave my dildo a big workout last night and said things like that to him. He watches and it does get him really excited so maybe soon he will change his mind. Thank you guys, you're great!
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