My wife wants sex with other men.
Hot Lisa

Barnesville, OH

#712 Sep 9, 2012
Tangerine Manl wrote:
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Reading your anecdote of your 'encounter' with young Jeremy made me wonder if you are a Taurean in the Zodiac as you do seem to 'barge in' like the proverbial bull in the china shop!(Your husband's comment about your tendency to 'clumsiness' might also bear this out!)LOL:) The poor lad must have wondered what had hit him! In a similar vein, your 'immediacy' of wanting to get into that spare room of yours with Mark obviously came as a bit of a surprise to your husband, but you 'just had to get on with it' didn't you? I can therefore understand why your best female friend may feel that you are 'degrading' yourself by your sexual promiscuity, as most women do not take on such an 'aggressive attitude'with a feeling that this is 'not quite ladylike'- but in fact it's just part of your general persnality,and in fact you 'admitted' this to yourself in your opening sentence of your post #673!Don't worry about it - it's your strength that makes you 'unique'- you don't wait to be 'taken' by a man - you go right in and 'take' him!This is what gives you your kicks, and very few women are capable of actually going through with this. Someone who immediately comes to mind is Elizabeth Taylor, and not for nothing her greatest role was Cleopatra - because she was another of the same ilk. The Greeks called her 'Mereknes'(She who opens wide'- which says it all!(Apparently she once fellated over a hundred Roman soldiers at one 'sitting'!As long as you can accept the fact that you can be somewhat 'overwhelming' to most men (who may react antagonistically towards you - because as a woman you're not supposed to be like that!- then you'll be o.k.)You will probably enjoy your next session with Jeremy because an inexperienced man will give you greater pleasure as you 'drain' him.Good luck, and try and keep a short rein on your galloping libido 'oss!
Wow, Thank you. Yes I am a Taurus under the Zodiac and it was amazing reading your reply. You know my personality exactly. If you don't mind me asking, what are your thoughts on a partner swapping scenario for a lady like me? The reason I ask is because some of the men I mentioned to my husband that I would really like to seduce are married. I thought this might be a fun thing2160 to explore.
Tangerine Man

Colchester, UK

#713 Sep 10, 2012
Hot Lisa wrote:
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Wow, Thank you. Yes I am a Taurus under the Zodiac and it was amazing reading your reply. You know my personality exactly. If you don't mind me asking, what are your thoughts on a partner swapping scenario for a lady like me? The reason I ask is because some of the men I mentioned to my husband that I would really like to seduce are married. I thought this might be a fun thing2160 to explore.
...Difficult one to answer, Lisa - but I'll try!If you're a true,'dyed-in-the-wool' Taurian - then you'll just go ahead and do it (or rather, them!)and think about the possible consequences later - if at all. This is the classic 'Femme Fatale' attitude, and if 'pressed', you'd respond by shrugging your shoulders and saying "Well, that's THEIR problem, not mine".I take it from your post that these married men you'd like to seduce are perhaps friends and/or relatives?(ie there's a 'come back'problem)If so, then perhaps you do have to think about the possible consequences, because one thing for sure (and you may have experienced this already)is that once a man has been with you a)he can't get enough of you - you're a challenge to his masculinity and b)he becomes madly possessive - he wants to be the ONLY one(which of course you despise - you are your own woman, nobody 'owns' you)- and this can lead to tragic consequences (if you know the story of the opera 'Carmen'you'll know what I mean)So if the man you desire is a family member or friend...? Only you know and can answer this.
From a 'general' point of view though I guess it depends on your whole view/attitude towards marriage. Just whose responsibility is it to say 'no'? and do you have the right to cast your roving eye over married men and if you fancey them, then have your way with them? Do you feel that particularly these days far too much emphasis is placed on sex as really being anything more than a recreational activity/sport? i.e. completely devoid of 'love'(whatever that very loose term may mean?
Hope I've given you something to chew over in your mind!

Since: Jun 12

UK

#714 Sep 10, 2012
Hi to ya all. Well i would like to tell u all briefly about my wife. We married very young and soon had our first child. I was my wifes first and only lover but this was soon to change. About 3yrs later she met a guy through a friend who i could tell she really liked. Anyway to cut it short i encouraged her to see him one night and yep it happened. She had her first service by a vwe guy and has been hookes ever since. She has has 4 lover in our marriage and all of them are vwe. At the moment she is seeing a guy that really wants my wife. She is a little unsure but i have told her that i cannot give her the feeling that a large cock can so go ahead and enjoy him. So far they have f.cked twice but she wants more. I have also secretly audio taped them having sex in the car and i can asure u all that hearing ur wife getting serviced by a hung guy is incredible
i have no problem with her cuckolding me. Any comments are welcome

Since: Nov 11

Sioux Falls, SD

#715 Sep 10, 2012
i guess that you dont like to fu ck anymore
HappyWifey

Edmond, OK

#716 Sep 10, 2012
Hot Lisa and Tangerine Man brought up the topic of responsibility. Let me first say that I prefer married lovers over single ones. The reason is that married lovers are less likely to want some sort of exclusive arrangement, and they generally have a vested interest in keeping quiet. On the other hand they are less flexible in being able to meet, so there are advantages either way. I never have seduced a married man, however. I never come on to anyone who has not expressed an interest. I know that many married people allow sex outside the marriage, so a hard and fast rule about not scre wing married men (or women) is unrealistic. I certainly respect those who say "no" either directly or indirectly.
HappyWifey

Edmond, OK

#717 Sep 10, 2012
waywood son wrote:
Hi to ya all. Well i would like to tell u all briefly about my wife. We married very young and soon had our first child. I was my wifes first and only lover but this was soon to change. About 3yrs later she met a guy through a friend who i could tell she really liked. Anyway to cut it short i encouraged her to see him one night and yep it happened. She had her first service by a vwe guy and has been hookes ever since. She has has 4 lover in our marriage and all of them are vwe. At the moment she is seeing a guy that really wants my wife. She is a little unsure but i have told her that i cannot give her the feeling that a large cock can so go ahead and enjoy him. So far they have f.cked twice but she wants more. I have also secretly audio taped them having sex in the car and i can asure u all that hearing ur wife getting serviced by a hung guy is incredible
i have no problem with her cuckolding me. Any comments are welcome
If it works for you, go for it! On taping, my Hubby really got hot watching my video with the 4 guys. I am not particularly turned on myself by big co cks, but I am glad you are understanding of your wife's needs.
Ged 2110

London, UK

#718 Sep 10, 2012
well get over there then wrote:
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hey ged
so have you heard from josh? wish you'd post more often.
Yes i heard from Josh sunday afternoon, he has told the guys who went on holiday with him and Julie, 2 are up for it the other looks like a no, but he has other options to fill the breach. Julie has no idea we are planning this either which makes it even better. Josh said he wants to watch her get gangbanged as well. Can't wait.
Husband

Sidney, MT

#719 Sep 10, 2012
waywood son wrote:
Hi to ya all. Well i would like to tell u all briefly about my wife. We married very young and soon had our first child. I was my wifes first and only lover but this was soon to change. About 3yrs later she met a guy through a friend who i could tell she really liked. Anyway to cut it short i encouraged her to see him one night and yep it happened. She had her first service by a vwe guy and has been hookes ever since. She has has 4 lover in our marriage and all of them are vwe. At the moment she is seeing a guy that really wants my wife. She is a little unsure but i have told her that i cannot give her the feeling that a large cock can so go ahead and enjoy him. So far they have f.cked twice but she wants more. I have also secretly audio taped them having sex in the car and i can asure u all that hearing ur wife getting serviced by a hung guy is incredible
i have no problem with her cuckolding me. Any comments are welcome
Im glad you two are enjoying this life style, we have enjoyed it for along time as well. My wife after about the fourth time having a threesome with my VWE freind. She said she felt guilty because she was enjoying it so much. I told her thats why we are doing it for your pleasure, she rewarded me manytime. She actually brought a girl she met thru friends who was open with sex. We are pretty lucky that I have a friend who is VWE and we trust. In viting strangers is something my wife said she would never do. My friend fits the bill filling her to hilt lol shes very happy. Our personal sex life is better than ever it allot of fun. We have video taped several times and love watching my wifes expressions.
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lovestospooge

Oakville, Canada

#720 Sep 10, 2012
willing to try wrote:
My wife said she would love to have sex with other men, and asked my permission, I love her, and she loves me, but she wants to try other men, and she says that I am free to do the same with other women, and it sort off appeals to me, what do you think?
Personally, I would have to know a few things: 1) I'm still always number one, and the other guys can be tied at second, or follow a third and fourth kind of thing; 2) she's not going to get me an STI; 3) she's safe; 4) she's never going to leave me because of it; and 5) she's not getting any more sex than me.

This is why wife swapping with a best friend, or inviting a friend down on his luck and taking one of her friends are good ideas.
Will T

UK

#721 Sep 10, 2012
Ged 2110 wrote:
<quoted text> Yes i heard from Josh sunday afternoon, he has told the guys who went on holiday with him and Julie, 2 are up for it the other looks like a no, but he has other options to fill the breach. Julie has no idea we are planning this either which makes it even better. Josh said he wants to watch her get gangbanged as well. Can't wait.
Hi Ged. You and your wifes story is of interest to us. I like you was in the past against my wife having another man in her life, but we have discussed recently the advantages etc of her having extra marital affairs. Could i ask how it feels knowing she is with another and also what it feels like during sex after she has been with someone other than you. Please answer anybody.
blkdaddy11

El Monte, CA

#722 Sep 10, 2012
Hot Lisa wrote:
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Wow, I'm just in the planning stages of how I am going to go about this but it really sounds like we would fit together great. I'm thirty nine, fair skinned with dark red hair, shoulder length at the moment. 5'11" 150lbs 34C tits, my husband says my face and ass are my best features. I'm curious if you are married or unattached, if you don't mind me asking?
sorry i didnt reply sooner, had to catch a flight to lackland afb last night, tdy til friday. attatched but have regulars and couples im bull for, a few i will see this week. a young hotty ive seen last 3x ive been here, and a couple i met online few weeks ago
Hot Lisa

Barnesville, OH

#723 Sep 10, 2012
Tangerine Man wrote:
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...Difficult one to answer, Lisa - but I'll try!If you're a true,'dyed-in-the-wool' Taurian - then you'll just go ahead and do it (or rather, them!)and think about the possible consequences later - if at all. This is the classic 'Femme Fatale' attitude, and if 'pressed', you'd respond by shrugging your shoulders and saying "Well, that's THEIR problem, not mine".
Yes you have defiantly given me some things to think about and I am fascinated with your accuracy into my personality.The things you have said makes it seem like we have talked about this in depth for a long time and in a very personal way. You are amazing with your insight.
After my husband told me it was alright to see other men much of the discussion we have had has dealt with the possible consequences of what I wanted to do. He also believed I was not giving that much thought. Several men I mentioned to him as potential lovers were flat out rejected for various reason and his reasons are valid. He ended up giving me permission to have sex with eight different guys we know,( No not at the same time!! hehe) of the eight three are married. One of the married men and his wife are casual acquaintances of ours, We are friends but not close. One is a co-worker of mine, I have met his wife once but do not know much about her. The third married man is one of my closer friends husband and is the one out of the eight that I would most love to get in bed. I have always had a physical attraction to him and I believe he does for me as well. I know the mans wife well and my husband and I think she actually may not have any objections. This is when I thought about a partner swap, we could all be involved if my husband and her would like that. The guys that are not married are mostly friends of friends and the like, one is a co worker but is in a relationship and Jeremy is the son of one of my other girlfriends. No relatives, that's something I would not do because of the possible consequences, but get me drunk, the right guy and who knows. That was a joke! hehe... I wouldn't do a relative.
Something else my husband and I have been very clear on, this is casual recreational sex for physical pleasure. Right now only men we know are possible but when I start seeing men that do not know us I will be very clear about that. Yes I have experienced the possessive, wants him to be the only one. I was with my husband for twenty years exclusively and I'd only had sex with one boyfriend before I met him. When I meet a man I will never deceive him into thinking I am available for anything other than a sexual relationship, I will be clear I am married and am going to remain with my husband but we can still get each others juices flowing. I don't believe I have the right to seduce other women's men but if they believe as I do recreational sex is awesome, pleasing to each other, and don't mind their husband being with a different woman from time to time it's an OK thing to do. Finding out if the spouse would object is a hard part. I have started a profile on an adult dating site so i can find men who are searching for the same thing I am thinking that could avoid many of those possible problems.
Thanks for listening and your replies.
You are great!
Ged 2110

UK

#725 Sep 11, 2012
Will T wrote:
<quoted text> Hi Ged. You and your wifes story is of interest to us. I like you was in the past against my wife having another man in her life, but we have discussed recently the advantages etc of her having extra marital affairs. Could i ask how it feels knowing she is with another and also what it feels like during sex after she has been with someone other than you. Please answer anybody.
If you both have doubts then don't go ahead. Julie was seeing Josh for a while she says she told me before they had slept together but it was the lies that hurt me not the act of them having sex. When she was in ibiza i was beside myself with anger jealousy but the video Josh sent of her having intercourse with 3 of them kind of broke the ice at least later if not at first. When she is with Josh now i dont actually think about it for too long. As for sex with Julie after she has been with him ive got to say its great sex Julie says im trying harder than i did pre josh, maybe i am but its incredibly erotic when Julie is laying there legs apart with her and Josh's c.vm all over her pus.s.y and thighs i can't wait to get my own c.k up and in it all.but are you ready for that?
propaganda 101

South Africa

#726 Sep 11, 2012
Hi guys, I'm a happily married 29yo man, I want to see my wife with another man, and yes I want to join in the fun as well, she is open to the idea of us having sex infront of people, but says she doesn't want to be with another guy...

I know I satisfy my wife sexually, not trying to be vain just giving a full acount, the most orgasms I've given her in one go is 38 before I couldn't keep track any more.(She's a squirter so its pretty easy to keep track)

I would like to see her with another guy but do not know how to go about it, or if I should try??

Please any advice would be great??

(Ps: I'm not really interested to know if you would want to f*ck her, just some advice)
Tony-B

Leeds, UK

#727 Sep 11, 2012
Am available for a visit. tell me about her
HappyHubby

Edmond, OK

#728 Sep 11, 2012
Will T wrote:
<quoted text> Hi Ged. You and your wifes story is of interest to us. I like you was in the past against my wife having another man in her life, but we have discussed recently the advantages etc of her having extra marital affairs. Could i ask how it feels knowing she is with another and also what it feels like during sex after she has been with someone other than you. Please answer anybody.
My wife and I have been doing this for a long time. I long ago lost any feelings of jealousy. Labor Day weekend she spent at the lake with 4 younger guys. I spent the weekend in Dallas with a couple of women friends of hers. My time was enriched when I would think of her and what she was doing, because it would make me hot. Now you will absolutely NOT know what your reaction is until it happens. Ged is right; it is the lies that hurt, so if you do what you do in the open, if the experience turns out be be really poor, the relationship can always recover. "Gosh, that didn't work. Let's not do it again." Or it could be, "I felt a little jealous, but all in all, it was a very positive experience." You won't know ahead of time. Most of the time when she is off with a lover, and she does this far more than I do, I am either glad for the time to myself or looking forward to sharing her experience when she returns home.
HappyHubby

Edmond, OK

#729 Sep 11, 2012
propaganda 101 wrote:
Hi guys, I'm a happily married 29yo man, I want to see my wife with another man, and yes I want to join in the fun as well, she is open to the idea of us having sex infront of people, but says she doesn't want to be with another guy...
I know I satisfy my wife sexually, not trying to be vain just giving a full acount, the most orgasms I've given her in one go is 38 before I couldn't keep track any more.(She's a squirter so its pretty easy to keep track)
I would like to see her with another guy but do not know how to go about it, or if I should try??
Please any advice would be great??
(Ps: I'm not really interested to know if you would want to f*ck her, just some advice)
My advice is to go to a swingers club. If she is willing to do it in front of other people, start there. My guess is that in the sexually charged arena of a sex party, she will try it, if not the first time then on subsequent visits.
Hot Lisa

Barnesville, OH

#730 Sep 11, 2012
jim wrote:
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It sounds to me that your best bet is your girlfriend's husband. You might have a swap situation that can work. You said she might go for it. Some day when you're talking to her just tell her your husband has given you permission to be with another man. Don't mention her husband, just let her think about your situation. Feel her out to see her reactions. Tell her you're nervous about it and you don't know who you want to be with but you want it to be someone you know so you can be safe. Ask her advise on who. She probably won't bring her husband up but she may after a week or 2 of thinking about it.
I've actually been considering what you suggest, talking to my friend and finding out her reaction. If it seems right I might even bring up her husband in a playful, girlfriend talk manner. I asked my husband last night if it would be OK with me asking my coworker out for a drink after work. He sat me down and was telling me he thinks I am moving way too fast with all of this, that I'm obsessed with it and wants me to take it slower. I have some fun started with Jeremy and he's going to be available after Thursday. If I can get something going with my friends husband that will be two guys I can have sex with that I didn't have only a couple weeks ago. I'm still going to try to make things happen with the other men just at a slower pace.
HappyHubby

Edmond, OK

#732 Sep 11, 2012
Hot Lisa wrote:
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I've actually been considering what you suggest, talking to my friend and finding out her reaction. If it seems right I might even bring up her husband in a playful, girlfriend talk manner. I asked my husband last night if it would be OK with me asking my coworker out for a drink after work. He sat me down and was telling me he thinks I am moving way too fast with all of this, that I'm obsessed with it and wants me to take it slower. I have some fun started with Jeremy and he's going to be available after Thursday. If I can get something going with my friends husband that will be two guys I can have sex with that I didn't have only a couple weeks ago. I'm still going to try to make things happen with the other men just at a slower pace.
Don't get too far ahead of your husband. If he turns against this, it could get messy. The more he is involved himself, the better.
propaganda 101

South Africa

#733 Sep 11, 2012
HappyHubby wrote:
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My advice is to go to a swingers club. If she is willing to do it in front of other people, start there. My guess is that in the sexually charged arena of a sex party, she will try it, if not the first time then on subsequent visits.
Hi HH,

Thanx, I'll give that a try, we have been talking about going to a swingers club, as we decided that would be the safest place to have sex in front of people (and the least jugemental).

I'm hoping that she will be up for it, I just don't want to push her into being with someone else if its not what she wants...

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