women, why do you always go for the "bad boys?"

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Since: Dec 08

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#1
Dec 14, 2008
 
so girls, why is it that most of the girls i know are only interested in b******ds?!
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Dec 14, 2008
 
Becasue good boys don't do it for me, they r too soft and sensual. bad boys know how to give it to me
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Dec 14, 2008
 
I dont, but Im a gay guy, so you probably dont care. But I like all hot guys, bad or not.

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Dec 14, 2008
 

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Never liked the typical "Bad boys". They seem juvenile - not mature or worthy of respect in some ways. I want a man who has his sht together, smart, educated, and interested in the world and not just himself.

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#6
Dec 14, 2008
 
hmm, would say that's because most of us are really confused. who wants to be around a person that confuses them. take charge, confident... guess that comes with guys who are jerks too... dunno...

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Dec 24, 2008
 
The amount of "badness" in the boy that a girl goes for is inversely proportional to the IQ of the girl going for him..........

Hence, the girl who usually goes for the bad boys usually says: "Why can't I find a guy who will love me for my intelligence more than my looks." (Usually said with an anoying high pitched whine).........
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Dec 24, 2008
 
The ladies like the bad boys until they get burned,
then, if they're smart enough, they'll have a opinion like yours, but until they are dumped, the
bad boys seem to give them an adrenaline kick.
la la la lola wrote:
Never liked the typical "Bad boys". They seem juvenile - not mature or worthy of respect in some ways. I want a man who has his sht together, smart, educated, and interested in the world and not just himself.
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Dec 24, 2008
 
I also think alot of girls link good guy=less of a man. Ignorant but I believe true.
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Dec 25, 2008
 

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see the fact is women who like those bad boys are childish

their age may say they're women but dont be fooled, for sure they are not

girls want bad boys

women want a listener, a protector, a friend, and confidence

ohh ya and some c*ck...unless u stroll the other way which i have no problem with
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Dec 25, 2008
 
Dude Look wrote:
see the fact is women who like those bad boys are childish
their age may say they're women but dont be fooled, for sure they are not
girls want bad boys
women want a listener, a protector, a friend, and confidence
ohh ya and some c*ck...unless u stroll the other way which i have no problem with
This entire post is so true. Hats off.

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Jun 12, 2009
 
Right off the bat the OP is a whiner. Both men and women are turned off by whiners. People men and women are subconsciously attracted to confident people. Very few people are attracted to spineless, wimpasses. Its really not as complicated as many make it to be. Remember this its easier to get a woman to love you if she hates you first than if she is just indifferent toward you. You see negativeness toward you is on her mind , indifference is not. In a sense , you have infiltrated her mind. By the way it works for women trying to get men as well. Hope that helps.

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Jun 12, 2009
 
Dude Look wrote:
see the fact is women who like those bad boys are childish
their age may say they're women but dont be fooled, for sure they are not
girls want bad boys
women want a listener, a protector, a friend, and confidence
ohh ya and some c*ck...unless u stroll the other way which i have no problem with
Its not a matter of being childish. I have had women say to me that they do not like when a man uses certain words for example. I still may use those words around them and they still fall for me. Emotions work differently than logic. Buy the book LOVE TACTICS & MORE LOVE TACTICS. It is a book either gender can learn from. It works wonders.
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Aug 17, 2009
 
Not all women do. Some do, for several reasons. Some women like a challenge, and good boys don't give a girl that. Some women like living on the edge and that is something bad boys do. Some women find men who have a "f*ck establishment" attitude sexy and real. Some women just like aggressive men, and don't like men who are goody goody, they think that shows immaturity. There are several reasons why some women like bad boys. There is always an element of "what if" with bad boys, always surprises, keep you on the edge of your seat. It is like addictive candy. Good boys get stale for some women. Bad boys are always exciting.
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Aug 17, 2009
 
flyboy wrote:
Not all women do. Some do, for several reasons. Some women like a challenge, and good boys don't give a girl that. Some women like living on the edge and that is something bad boys do. Some women find men who have a "f*ck establishment" attitude sexy and real. Some women just like aggressive men, and don't like men who are goody goody, they think that shows immaturity. There are several reasons why some women like bad boys. There is always an element of "what if" with bad boys, always surprises, keep you on the edge of your seat. It is like addictive candy. Good boys get stale for some women. Bad boys are always exciting.
You sure pointed out some real reasons. I have gone through a period in my teens where I was attracted to that type. I would end up getting hurt and falling for the same type over again. I used to think I could change those guys. I have to say they are popular too so its not only me. As I got around 20 I got myself out of that mold.
My latest BF is a good guy. I dont mind that hes pedictable LOL!

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Aug 17, 2009
 
I like a guy with an edge!

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Aug 18, 2009
 
flyboy wrote:
Not all women do. Some do, for several reasons. Some women like a challenge, and good boys don't give a girl that. Some women like living on the edge and that is something bad boys do. Some women find men who have a "f*ck establishment" attitude sexy and real. Some women just like aggressive men, and don't like men who are goody goody, they think that shows immaturity. There are several reasons why some women like bad boys. There is always an element of "what if" with bad boys, always surprises, keep you on the edge of your seat. It is like addictive candy. Good boys get stale for some women. Bad boys are always exciting.
Honestly it comes down to self confidence. Perception of what is bad or not can be argued from now until doomsday. The fact is both men and women are attracted to 'real' people not wishy washy. People may say one thing and yet fall for someone different. Women are always saying they want a nice guy but they tend to go for men that do have that edge. Personally, speaking for myself. I want a woman that exerts herself. I am turned off to passive, door mat women. If I want a puppy I will go to the pound.

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#18
Aug 26, 2009
 
Carolinagurl wrote:
I like a guy with an edge!
The IQ of the girl is inversely proportional to the amount of "edge" she looks for in a guy..........
SO TRUE SAYS

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May 16, 2012
 
just remember, garbage goes with garbage nowadays.
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May 16, 2012
 
JUST REMEMBER, GARBAGE WILL GO WITH GARBAGE.
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May 16, 2012
 
Baby doll wrote:
I want a guy who's nice (not too nice.. Not a p**sy) but a bad boy in bed,,
I am definately your type of guy Baby Doll!:) ClitKisses 2 "You" Beautiful!:p

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