What penis size do women really prefer?

“Rudeness is the weak man's”

Since: Nov 08

imitation of strength.

#135 Jul 17, 2009
indian_guy wrote:
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I did my research. but the real problem is the lack of studies done on that. The studies done on Viagra tend to be funded by the Viagra trademark itself ( which is pro-viagra) or by competitors like Levitra (which is then anti-viagra, pro-Levitra). There are several missing heuristics in all those analyses.
It's hard to find detailed research done by medical institutions on that. I have found a few studies, but none have ever gone in detail about the long term effects... it still seems like an unknown thing.
If it is causing pain and abdominal discomfort it may be doing damage you can't see. I know prescription medications may be more expensive but at least they are FDA approved.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#137 Jul 17, 2009
indian_guy wrote:
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I did my research. but the real problem is the lack of studies done on that. The studies done on Viagra tend to be funded by the Viagra trademark itself ( which is pro-viagra) or by competitors like Levitra (which is then anti-viagra, pro-Levitra). There are several missing heuristics in all those analyses.
It's hard to find detailed research done by medical institutions on that. I have found a few studies, but none have ever gone in detail about the long term effects... it still seems like an unknown thing.
however, a registered name brand pharmaceutical has to pass tests by the FDA and equivalent orgnaizations in every country it is exported to ... so there has actually been quite a lot of research done third party to detemrine safety ...

Ever notice some commercials that have to list the side effets of various medicines?

This list on the Viagra's is relativley short.
noname

Staten Island, NY

#139 Jul 18, 2009
shortnthick wrote:
<quoted text>You know whats funny and hypocritical about these post. all these womenb keep saying that they are satisfied with a 6'inch dick and 'anything more than that is too big!" and then in the same sentence they say that if thir lover had a 9 inch dick they would work on it and find a way to have fun! Of course your gonna find a way too make it fun, because the guys got a 9'inch cock. Cut the bull sh*t! you've stated clearly that more than 6' is uncomfortable and average is more manageable, blah, blah. if thats the case, then why wouldnt you tell a 9'inch guy sorry aint gonna work? Because all you women that say 6'inches is the best, has never had a 9'inch cock!
Maybe so in a few cases. I'm a little over 7 and some positions are uncomfortable for the wife, and anal is a no go. A 9" would probably leave her in some pain at times. I don't think she would tell me 6" is perfect either when she's been getting more for 13 years though. Your telling of 11+ black guys etc. sounds like b.s. though. The only 11+ I've seen belong to John holmes and Mandingo

Since: Jul 09

Geelong, Australia

#140 Jul 18, 2009
shortnthick wrote:
<quoted text>You know whats funny and hypocritical about these post. all these womenb keep saying that they are satisfied with a 6'inch dick and 'anything more than that is too big!" and then in the same sentence they say that if thir lover had a 9 inch dick they would work on it and find a way to have fun! Of course your gonna find a way too make it fun, because the guys got a 9'inch cock. Cut the bull sh*t! you've stated clearly that more than 6' is uncomfortable and average is more manageable, blah, blah. if thats the case, then why wouldnt you tell a 9'inch guy sorry aint gonna work? Because all you women that say 6'inches is the best, has never had a 9'inch cock!
^^^^^ I think moondancer was saying is a guy with 6 inches is ideal.

However, if in truly in love with the guy.....size wouldn't matter, whether it was 6 or 9 inches...it's a win-win situation for her.

Guys seem to think, once a woman has had the experience of a larger penis, she will never go back to an average size guy.

Well, that's BS....some women of course maybe fixated and only get off with a large one and with some women, the size of the tool is irrelevant and is happy with a confident average one that knows how to pleasure her.

It seems to be average and small sized men insecurities having a mindset that all women want a huge phallus.

Since: Jul 09

Geelong, Australia

#142 Jul 18, 2009
shortnthick wrote:
<quoted text>Thanks for the response no-name.Obviously you dont sleep with black men so i wouldnt expect you to know that 9,10 and 11 inch cocks among black men is far more common than you think. Im not saying that a huge dick is for everyone. And im not saying that awoman wouldnt have an average size lover after having a big one. I am saying that all the women i know who have had average sized guys and then get thoroughly pleasured by a well-hung man, never prefer average men again. Notice i said 'prefer'. They may take an average size lover but they 'prefer' a large cock. I took a black lover during a break-up out of pure curiosity. Turns out i loved it. Size, color etc.. I in turn told other women how pleasureable i found black men to be which peaked their curisioty and led them to take a well-hung lover as well. All of them have said the same thing repeatedly. And that is that the sex was great, and they never knew how much size matters and they now 'prefer' well hung men. If big dicks are not certain womens thing so be it. But for those of you who are curious i say gor for it.
^^^^^ Well ok then..

What about us poor average size white guys?

If women prefer this, what's the point in trying to get into a relationship, if realistically women get more sexual pleasure from a large penis....then end up taking a well hung lover when she is still with mr average....Iam sure that's fair on him.

If a woman wants her well hung black guy, so be it.

But, not at the expense on her average hubby/bf by cheating on him and keeping him on the back burner.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#143 Jul 18, 2009
noname wrote:
<quoted text> Maybe so in a few cases. I'm a little over 7 and some positions are uncomfortable for the wife, and anal is a no go. A 9" would probably leave her in some pain at times. I don't think she would tell me 6" is perfect either when she's been getting more for 13 years though. Your telling of 11+ black guys etc. sounds like b.s. though. The only 11+ I've seen belong to John holmes and Mandingo
statisticlaly more than 10 inches is about 1 man in 100 ... 11 inches more like 1 in 1000.

SO I agree .. too much fiction on here ... exagerations by at least 2 inches ....

The cervix is at most 8 inches deep in most women ... some only 6 inches ... most guys 8 inches can't push in all the way without hurting her ... an 11 inch guy would have to keep 4 inches outside the vaginal opening.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#144 Jul 18, 2009
shortnthick wrote:
<quoted text>Thanks for the response no-name.Obviously you dont sleep with black men so i wouldnt expect you to know that 9,10 and 11 inch cocks among black men is far more common than you think. Im not saying that a huge dick is for everyone. And im not saying that awoman wouldnt have an average size lover after having a big one. I am saying that all the women i know who have had average sized guys and then get thoroughly pleasured by a well-hung man, never prefer average men again. Notice i said 'prefer'. They may take an average size lover but they 'prefer' a large cock. I took a black lover during a break-up out of pure curiosity. Turns out i loved it. Size, color etc.. I in turn told other women how pleasureable i found black men to be which peaked their curisioty and led them to take a well-hung lover as well. All of them have said the same thing repeatedly. And that is that the sex was great, and they never knew how much size matters and they now 'prefer' well hung men. If big dicks are not certain womens thing so be it. But for those of you who are curious i say gor for it.
I suspect the well-hung guys have an advantage because some women seek them out ... those guys probably get laid by a different woman every other day ...

From your point of view it gives the illusion there are more huge men than you think ... but I suspect it it the same few guys getting around a lot more .... the "average guys" are just not in this circle ... even the black ones.

Not to say there aren't more well-hung black guys, it appears there are .... the statistical average is someonwhere between 1/2 to 1 inch mroe than whites ....

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#145 Jul 18, 2009
Marius66 wrote:
<quoted text>
^^^^^ Well ok then..
What about us poor average size white guys?
If women prefer this, what's the point in trying to get into a relationship, if realistically women get more sexual pleasure from a large penis....then end up taking a well hung lover when she is still with mr average....Iam sure that's fair on him.
If a woman wants her well hung black guy, so be it.
But, not at the expense on her average hubby/bf by cheating on him and keeping him on the back burner.
from my extensive readings in this forum, SHORTNTHIK falls into a category of woman called "size queen" ... generally it seems that some women cannot get enough sensation from an average sized guy. Some of them are so turned on by the thrill of haiving an exceptionally large penis in them. She also seems to have a black preference .. I doubt a white guy the same size would excite her as much ....

I think she also exagerates the size a bit .. maybe it is a dig against white men for some reason?

I have heard a rumour that some black people go around forums like this perpetuating the myth of the black sexual superiority (2 or 3 inches longer, stay hard after ejacualting, stay hard for 3 or 4 horus, women only get orgasms from thes big black guys, etc)... so "she" might not even be a woman ... it could be a black man ... how do we know?

ANyhow, she is a minority ... most women say that 8 inches is the upper end of what they like ...

A study I read indicated that the most preferred size is 7 to 7.5 long and 6 girth ... which is only minimaly more than the average (6 x 4.8)... this means that women are NOT dissapointed to have an average guy.
Jack

Lehigh Acres, FL

#146 Jul 18, 2009
franko wrote:
<quoted text>I suspect the well-hung guys have an advantage because some women seek them out ... those guys probably get laid by a different woman every other day ...
From your point of view it gives the illusion there are more huge men than you think ... but I suspect it it the same few guys getting around a lot more .... the "average guys" are just not in this circle ... even the black ones.
Not to say there aren't more well-hung black guys, it appears there are .... the statistical average is someonwhere between 1/2 to 1 inch mroe than whites ....
Right. Blacks are bigger flaccid, that's why the reputation. Erect not much different.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#147 Jul 18, 2009
Jack wrote:
<quoted text>Right. Blacks are bigger flaccid, that's why the reputation. Erect not much different.
YEs, I read somewhere that when the white men saw all these black guys with 4 to 5 inch flacid they presumed that the erection gained the same proportionatly as whites. Most whites grow from 3.5 flacid to 6 erect .. almost double...

The presumption would be that a 5 inch grows to 8 or more. Yet most blacks might grow to 6.5 or 7.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#153 Jul 18, 2009
shortnthick wrote:
<quoted text>Im not saying a woman cant be pleased by an average sized guy. im saying that women who have always had average sized guy and then have a well-hung lover are usualyy over whelmed. ive had 6'inch men who got the job done bit it took alot of work and took much more time to make me cum. where as a hung man, makes me cum much quicker and more often simply because of his size. Im not saying that every woman should run out and fuck a black guy, im saying every woman should experience a big cock. The reason i use black men as an example is because you are more lokely to find a big cock on a black guy than you are a white guy. I know there are hung white guys, but they are honestly hard to find.Me personally, its to my advantage, becaause i prefer a black dick, and im sexually attracted to black dick even though im married to a white man.(once again sex is not love). But there is no doubt you will rock some honeys world when you both have the chemistry. I get more responses from men to my posts than women. I love cocks of all coclors but i prefer black. My posts are not to say average sized dicks are not good, cause they are. But bigger cocks are better in my opinion.(IN MY OPIONION).I post to encourage women who are completely unsatisfied to seek a big cock and im confident they will love it.(not all but most).Whether your married or not, take a big cock girls and truly be pleased and satisfied like a woman should be!!!
THere are two ways to look at this ...

if every woman "should experience a big c*ck", and most of them turn out to love it and agree with yuo that it is a better experience, then what happens?

MOre than 75% of the men they meet will not be quite as satisfying .. the experience will always be just a little less than enough for them ...(if they think like you)

so what then? HOw does mankind allow ALL men and women to marry and live together adn raise a family, but underneath the women keep wishing for some big guy .. what then? DO they all go out and cheat with that 20 or 25% of the male population that satisfies them fully? DO the other 75% of men become cuckolds to the well endowed men?

SO, maybe it is best that some women can't handle bigger than average and that some more women truly dont feel any advantage, and yet another group of women who have never met a well endowed guy adn therefore they simply won't know if they are missing anything or not so they can be satisfied via their lack of something to compare to ... there is a saying that applies "ignorance is bliss" ...

YOU see, I know what that feels like .. I've had some mind-blowing BJ's given to me and when I am with a woman who does not give good ones, or won't give them at all .. I do wish for a partner who knows that she is doing ...

If I had never known there was more to be had, I probably would not feel the dissapointment ...

Maybe in another decade or two there will be a true male enhancement possible ... that would solve everything I suppose ...
Will

Fredericksburg, VA

#154 Jul 18, 2009
If you need a giant penis (9+) just to orgasm, then you have a problem. I feel sorry for shortnthicks husband. Her giant vagina must feel terrible haha.
Cindy O

United States

#157 Jul 27, 2009
I personally think that a man with a bigger pennis is less fun, cause based on personal experience they focus more on pleasuring themselves .... While an average size man will use every weapon at his disposal to get the job done (tongue) etc..
Kiwi

Forest, Australia

#160 Jan 27, 2010
Big is bad, it can really hurt. Small like the size of your pinkie (Ive had one) not so great! Couldnt feel it enough to enjoy it. Average guys perfect!! But then if they dont know how to use it, it can be a disaster!!!!!!
JRL

Pottstown, PA

#161 Jan 28, 2010
In my experience using penis extensions, and experimenting in general, it seems like many women are very surprised how good a really big dick feels. I don't think that most of them would choose a thick 9 inch+ cock for a husband, but when they are really exited and fucked carefully and skillfully many have been surprised how deep and intense their orgasms are. I've seen numerous women who expected it to hurt- or just not be enjoyable - have orgasms so strong they really just lost it completely - shaking, screaming, jerking and a few even pulled on my ass to get all they could inside. When you get that kind of reaction it is easy to see that there is definitely something special about being fucked well by a big cock and most of them admitted it afterward, probably because it was so obvious. A few even admitted that they had never cum so hard in their life - that it was the best orgasm they ever had. Maybe not best for everyday use, but there is definitely something about big cocks. I can see how some women might get addicted.
Chris

San Clemente, CA

#163 Jun 8, 2010
Is 5 1/2 inches really that small ?
Robert

Providence, UT

#164 Jul 1, 2010
I want to try VPXL penis enlargement pills from http://newmaletreatment.info nature meds. i'm going to buy that pills very soon. my manhood is just 4.5" in length and it's also 4.5" in width. does is too small for girls? Sometimes i feel really depressed about my size and couldn't help thinking that i'm too small for my lady :(
Umm

Canada

#165 Aug 3, 2010
JRL wrote:
In my experience using penis extensions, and experimenting in general, it seems like many women are very surprised how good a really big dick feels. I don't think that most of them would choose a thick 9 inch+ cock for a husband, but when they are really exited and fucked carefully and skillfully many have been surprised how deep and intense their orgasms are. I've seen numerous women who expected it to hurt- or just not be enjoyable - have orgasms so strong they really just lost it completely - shaking, screaming, jerking and a few even pulled on my ass to get all they could inside. When you get that kind of reaction it is easy to see that there is definitely something special about being fucked well by a big cock and most of them admitted it afterward, probably because it was so obvious. A few even admitted that they had never cum so hard in their life - that it was the best orgasm they ever had. Maybe not best for everyday use, but there is definitely something about big cocks. I can see how some women might get addicted.
Ladies...is there truth to this? Once your first time with a well hung guy was over did your opinion on size change?
Roger

AOL

#166 Aug 3, 2010
"Ladies...is there truth to this? Once your first time with a well hung guy was over did your opinion on size change?"

In my wifes case it sure did. She went nuts when we found a guy with thick 8.5 inches who knew how to use it. It's the first time I ever saw her with her legs pulled all the way back and over a mans shoulders and him pile driving that tight little pussy into submission. No complaining about pain then! She LOVES his cock!
Luxury Edition

Marietta, GA

#167 Aug 3, 2010
Roger wrote:
"Ladies...is there truth to this? Once your first time with a well hung guy was over did your opinion on size change?"
In my wifes case it sure did. She went nuts when we found a guy with thick 8.5 inches who knew how to use it. It's the first time I ever saw her with her legs pulled all the way back and over a mans shoulders and him pile driving that tight little pussy into submission. No complaining about pain then! She LOVES his cock!
I am not embarrassed to say that my vagina is probably a good bit larger than average, so ever since i lost my virginity many years ago I have always really liked having sex with guys who have larger than average penises. I'm lucky that I can have orgasms with all sized penises, but the very large ones give me a much more intense mind-blowing orgasm. my hubby's penis is pretty small, but he can bring me to a decent orgasm if i dont' move around so much that his penis slips out...LOL But when i am with a guy with a very large penis, it is so awesome to feel myself stretched by him and to be able to squirm around while i'm feeling so good without having to worry about him slipping out. So yeah, my opinion on size certainly changed the first time i was with someone who was really big,'cause my orgasm was really BIG. LOL
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