What penis size do women really prefer?

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Hey_YA1

Petaluma, CA

#1 Jun 6, 2009
I am interested in hearing what size penis women really prefer? I am 7.5 inches long and of the girls I have been with some say it was to big, some say it was just right and one said it was too small (now I am not asking weather I am big enough but in general what sizes are preferred). A lot of my platonic girl friends have said pretty much the same thing. Also when it big too big and small to small? I had a friend who told me that her ex was 10 inches long and she hated having sex with him because he was just to long and would "hammer away at the end of the tunnel" as she put it. While my sister told me that her ex was 4 inches and she felt nearly nothing. So I would like to hear what women think. Are there different preferences among women or is there a ideal size?

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Emilia_89

Hungary

#2 Jun 6, 2009
I would say for me personally the best size is between 6-8.5. Anything smaller than that is doable of course, but not as pleasurable. Anything bigger is just too big because you cant feel the guys body against urs when he puts it all the way in...its just too big!

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Since: Jun 09

Princeton, MA

#3 Jun 6, 2009
I think everyone has their own perference... however... i think there is sort of a common denomanator. i agree with around 6-8 being just about perfect : ) Anything smaller, its not worth my time and anything bigger usually means i cant walk right for a couple days... no fun.

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Ami

Sarasota, FL

#5 Jun 7, 2009
My preferred range is 5-7 inches.

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Since: Jun 09

Sale, Australia

#6 Jun 7, 2009
Personally, I love them 7 to 8 inches long and fairly thick. It depends on the woman though sweetie.
I think for woman in general it would range from 6 to about 9 inches. With exceptions either side of that spectrum. I would guess most women would pick a number between 6 and 9 though :)

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Reality

Montgomery, AL

#7 Jun 7, 2009
Lollen wrote:
Personally, I love them 7 to 8 inches long and fairly thick. It depends on the woman though sweetie.
I think for woman in general it would range from 6 to about 9 inches. With exceptions either side of that spectrum. I would guess most women would pick a number between 6 and 9 though :)
25% of white women say size doesn't matter at all. Amongst the other 75% of women only 10% say it's important and the other 65% believe it's evenly split between mildly and moderately important (aprox 33% say mildly, aprox 33% say moderately). Amongst the 75% the number 1 favorite size for white women is 7" length x 2" thickness. The favorite range for white women is 6" to 8" length x 2" thickness. A small percentage of ww prefer less than that range and a small percentage of ww prefer more.
Amongst black women the favorite size is 8" length x 2.25" thickness. The favorite range for bw is 7" to 9" length x 2.25" thickness. A small percentage of bw prefer less and a small percentage of bw orefer more.

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Since: Jun 09

Sale, Australia

#9 Jun 8, 2009
Reality wrote:
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25% of white women say size doesn't matter at all. Amongst the other 75% of women only 10% say it's important and the other 65% believe it's evenly split between mildly and moderately important (aprox 33% say mildly, aprox 33% say moderately). Amongst the 75% the number 1 favorite size for white women is 7" length x 2" thickness. The favorite range for white women is 6" to 8" length x 2" thickness. A small percentage of ww prefer less than that range and a small percentage of ww prefer more.
Amongst black women the favorite size is 8" length x 2.25" thickness. The favorite range for bw is 7" to 9" length x 2.25" thickness. A small percentage of bw prefer less and a small percentage of bw orefer more.
So essentially my guess hit the nail on the head. Yay.
Jack

Melbourne, Australia

#10 Jun 8, 2009
Be nice to see a source for that information? I don't doubt it but verification is nice.
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Louisa Cavalri

Hawthorne, NJ

#11 Jun 8, 2009
Hey_YA1 wrote:
I am interested in hearing what size penis women really prefer? I am 7.5 inches long and of the girls I have been with some say it was to big, some say it was just right and one said it was too small (now I am not asking weather I am big enough but in general what sizes are preferred). A lot of my platonic girl friends have said pretty much the same thing. Also when it big too big and small to small? I had a friend who told me that her ex was 10 inches long and she hated having sex with him because he was just to long and would "hammer away at the end of the tunnel" as she put it. While my sister told me that her ex was 4 inches and she felt nearly nothing. So I would like to hear what women think. Are there different preferences among women or is there a ideal size?
I never experienced a guy your size. To me 7.5" looks big for me. 4" would not excite me at all. My BF has 5.5 to 6". He has not asked me to measure it so I am guessing but Im close enough. Im very happy with his size. So my preference is about 6".

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Moondancer

Northeast Harbor, ME

#12 Jun 8, 2009
It truly is not about the size, itis about the person behind it. Now I will admit that 2 or 3 might be very difficult but I have gotten by very nicely with a 4. Generally 5 to 7 would be my preference. The real big ones are fun toplay with and for variety but would not be the best for long term for me. On the other hand if my husband was 9 then we would work out something but I would probably not turn him loose to do whatever he wanted. And it is fun to do that when you are both very aroused to just encourage him to really give it to you.

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Louisa Cavalri

Hawthorne, NJ

#13 Jun 8, 2009
Moondancer wrote:
It truly is not about the size, itis about the person behind it. Now I will admit that 2 or 3 might be very difficult but I have gotten by very nicely with a 4. Generally 5 to 7 would be my preference. The real big ones are fun toplay with and for variety but would not be the best for long term for me. On the other hand if my husband was 9 then we would work out something but I would probably not turn him loose to do whatever he wanted. And it is fun to do that when you are both very aroused to just encourage him to really give it to you.
if my BF had 9 inches it would be too much for me. I have a large can of butane lighter fuel which is about 9" and 3" in diameter. When I read some of these guys on here claiming 9" c--cks I measured the can to get an idea what that really looks like. Im sorrry guys but way too big for this little girl.LOL.
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#14 Jun 8, 2009
Half of white women can only take 7.5". Almost all ww can take less that that length. The maximum white women can take is 10.5". Only about 5% of ww can take that much. The other approx 45% of ww can take somewhere inbetween. Generally speaking black women can handle more but half of black women can't even quite take 9". Almost all black women can take less than 9. The other half of bw can take 9 and more. Almost 12" is the max for bw and only approx 5% of bw can take that much.
Moondancer

Northeast Harbor, ME

#15 Jun 8, 2009
Louisa Cavalri wrote:
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if my BF had 9 inches it would be too much for me. I have a large can of butane lighter fuel which is about 9" and 3" in diameter. When I read some of these guys on here claiming 9" c--cks I measured the can to get an idea what that really looks like. Im sorrry guys but way too big for this little girl.LOL.
I agree that 9 is too much but if I loved my partner and he happen to have 9, than I would work with him to figure out some way to have fun. My husband is about 6 and that works very well for me.
Louisa Cavalri

Hawthorne, NJ

#16 Jun 8, 2009
Moondancer wrote:
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I agree that 9 is too much but if I loved my partner and he happen to have 9, than I would work with him to figure out some way to have fun. My husband is about 6 and that works very well for me.
I guess if your inlove size is not top issue. My BF is close to 6" and I love it. If he had 9" I would ask him not to give me all of it as i know I could not take it. I kinda like the feeling of having my BF go in all the way with no pain or discomfort at all. I would miss that I think?
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#17 Jun 8, 2009
Doctor charts show a rather strong correlation between length and girth. The longer penises 'tend' to have more girth. In having a preference for 5 or 6 inchers a woman is actually reducing her chances her having extra girth during intercourse, and almost all women admit extra girth is a plus whether it's an important issue to them or not. Hardly seems fair to me that mother nature would make it so that guys with extra length tend to also the extra girth.
Ami

Sarasota, FL

#18 Jun 8, 2009
Reality wrote:
Doctor charts show a rather strong correlation between length and girth. The longer penises 'tend' to have more girth. In having a preference for 5 or 6 inchers a woman is actually reducing her chances her having extra girth during intercourse, and almost all women admit extra girth is a plus whether it's an important issue to them or not. Hardly seems fair to me that mother nature would make it so that guys with extra length tend to also the extra girth.
Well if you have extra length, extra girth is needed to support the shaft. Just like how taller trees have bigger, sturdier trunks. Personally, I prefer average girth as well as average length.
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#22 Jun 8, 2009
Are you chicks in this thread bi? I've wondered before if chicks who don't prefer extra size may be that way as a result of liking women also. In other words, women don't have dicks, guys do, so if a woman likes both chicks and guys she might perfer a sort of toned down result on penis size.
Louisa Cavalri

Hawthorne, NJ

#23 Jun 8, 2009
Reality wrote:
Are you chicks in this thread bi? I've wondered before if chicks who don't prefer extra size may be that way as a result of liking women also. In other words, women don't have dicks, guys do, so if a woman likes both chicks and guys she might perfer a sort of toned down result on penis size.
Speaking for myself, Im not. It would not even be a consideration in my mind.
Moondancer

Northeast Harbor, ME

#24 Jun 8, 2009
Louisa Cavalri wrote:
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I guess if your inlove size is not top issue. My BF is close to 6" and I love it. If he had 9" I would ask him not to give me all of it as i know I could not take it. I kinda like the feeling of having my BF go in all the way with no pain or discomfort at all. I would miss that I think?
I agree with you completely. My husband is about 6 and that is fine with me. I have beeen saying that size is not a key issue in a reqaltionship so I thought I should say that if I were in love I would try to make do with 9. Too bigt would definitly hamper certain activities.
Moondancer

Northeast Harbor, ME

#25 Jun 8, 2009
I am bi but I do not think that would make any difference for me. My O's are clitoral so huge is not needed to take car of that.

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