Anyone visit Swinger's Clubs?

[FrigidGirl]

I always had a curiosity about local swinger's clubs in my area. I have a wild side and sometimes I want to explore it. I have a fantasy to be with two men at the same time, and what better place to experience that then at a swinger's club? and being that i can do this without worrying about it getting out...the idea seems even more appealing.

but i'm so scared to go to one. and what if the ppl are not my type...really unattractive?

has anyone ever been to a swinger's club what was your experience there?

[ziggyetc]

Well...most of the swingers I've met over the years have been couples and for looks more on the average to below average side.

If you are looking for "hot" guys for this encounter and a comfortable environment, you might have better luck setting something up with a group of folks you know and trust first.

In my opinion it never hurts to check out the scene, just see if they have any in public get togethers (most likely at a bar) you can check out. That way if you end up going by yourself and you don't like the scene, you can just leave.

[FrigidGirl]

I can work with average. Just not 'below average' lol.

i want to keep this private from the group of folks i know. i just want it to be a one time experience. i don't have very much experience at all, and thought this would be a great sexual adventure for me. hopefully, things will work out for me in the end

[ziggyetc]

If you are really looking to be very discreet about it, there are some chat sites (mostly pay sites) that can be good for such things.

I'd still recommend at least a casual public meeting with the potential participants first.

[FrigidGirl]

I don't know any guys personally I would want to do this with.

my fantasy is for something like this to happen but it to just be totally unplanned and unexpected.

[ziggyetc]

FrigidGirl wrote:

my fantasy is for something like this to happen but it to just be totally unplanned and unexpected.

That sounds fun.

Since you don't know of anyone currently that you'd want to bring this up with and assuming you are thinking of this as being a one night encounter, it'll probably take some careful planning to keep it from being a potentially dangerous situation. Yes...I know the risk is part of the thrill.

Most likely the only way this would occur randomly would be at a back room of a party, a festival, or something similar. More people = better odds of an interesting random encounter.

[Ronnnie]

I don't even understand these type of places. Those kind of places scare me. I don't know why but I don't like those places, brothels or strip clubs. I wouldn't go to any. Too scary.

[Donna17]

My parents do that, well they're not really clubs they're like private parties at houses of their friends who swing. I guess it's an old-fashioned "key party" where everybody pares off out of drawing somebody else's car keys out of a bowl, and then whoever you get is who you could disappear into a bedroom with to screw. Or sometimes they don't go away, they do it like in the middle of the room with everybody around watching them they say. I guess when it's like that their sex is a spectator sport, they said next year when I turn 18 I can go with them but I'm not sure I want to like to screw up bunch of guys or anything, but I might go just watch and see what it's like.

[larry]

I want to brinb my g/f to one of these clubs and watch a stranger f ck her. She's cheated on me in the past so I wont get jealous. May as well get to see her doing it this time.

[larry]

I have no respect for her and I now know she's a sl#t. I'm just using her for s#x until I find another g/f. Oh well, I should have known better, any girl you b ng on the first date has got to be a sl#t. You know?