Help with seduction of my man

Help with seduction of my man

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Since: Oct 11

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#1 Oct 26, 2011
Hey I am needing help with my man. I have a very high sex drive and I am not getting what I need. I love my man but it is like he would rather look at pictures of other women naked than have sex with me. I wouldn't mind if he looks at the pics or watches porn, what gets me is the fact that he hides it or tries to. It is like if I don't give him head then he just doesn't want anything to do with me. I love giving head but would like something in return u know like an orgasim not just 5 mins of thrusts then done. HELP I am tired of pretending that I enjoy the sex.....tell me what I can do?

“Because you are... A puppet.”

Since: Sep 08

Long Island

#2 Oct 26, 2011
Find out what kind of porn he is watching. For example if he like schoolgirl porn then surprise him one night by playing the part of the Schoolgirl.

Find out what his fantasies are and then surprise him with them. He will be shocked and turned on. It might help. Good luck.

Since: Oct 11

Brooklyn, NY

#3 Oct 26, 2011
Have u tried bringing another woman into the mix? Are u bi... Or is that out of the question?
Jennifer

Jamaica, NY

#4 Oct 26, 2011
Seducing works for me

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#5 Oct 26, 2011
well give him alive show .open up & play with yourself & make him wait get your O first then if hes not ready your screwed.

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#6 Oct 26, 2011
MrsNassty wrote:
Have u tried bringing another woman into the mix? Are u bi... Or is that out of the question?
It is not out of the question, I am for anything that would help.

Since: Oct 11

Brooklyn, NY

#8 Oct 26, 2011
Thats Great! Then thats what u should try. It would drive him wild to see u with another woman...then u both have ur way with him! Hope it helps...let me know :)

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#9 Oct 26, 2011
MrsNassty wrote:
Thats Great! Then thats what u should try. It would drive him wild to see u with another woman...then u both have ur way with him! Hope it helps...let me know :)
Thanks for the advice! Now just to find someone willing to help me with this....

Since: Oct 11

Brooklyn, NY

#10 Oct 26, 2011
Ummm...i would love to help. Where r u located?

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#11 Oct 26, 2011
dreamsalone08 wrote:
Hey I am needing help with my man. I have a very high sex drive and I am not getting what I need. I love my man but it is like he would rather look at pictures of other women naked than have sex with me. I wouldn't mind if he looks at the pics or watches porn, what gets me is the fact that he hides it or tries to. It is like if I don't give him head then he just doesn't want anything to do with me. I love giving head but would like something in return u know like an orgasim not just 5 mins of thrusts then done. HELP I am tired of pretending that I enjoy the sex.....tell me what I can do?
First of all you need to talk to him a bout it..communication is the key..let him know how you feel and take it from there..he needs to know...maybe once you have told him he may change and be a bit more receptive in taking his time and pleasing you more..sometimes they just need to be told..try this first before any thing else..

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#12 Oct 26, 2011
I agree with Julz, have a serious talk with him about your needs. And if he doesn't respond within a reasonable time frame, show him the door.

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#13 Oct 26, 2011
Erick1231 wrote:
I agree with Julz, have a serious talk with him about your needs. And if he doesn't respond within a reasonable time frame, show him the door.
I have talked to him before about this. It's always excuses "I'm tired", "Its been awhile,sorry", etc. I just don't understand why he needs to look at other women when he has one at home that would do anything he wants. But will try again to talk to him thanks for the advice.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#14 Oct 26, 2011
dreamsalone08 wrote:
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I have talked to him before about this. It's always excuses "I'm tired", "Its been awhile,sorry", etc. I just don't understand why he needs to look at other women when he has one at home that would do anything he wants. But will try again to talk to him thanks for the advice.
was my post too long to read? Or not useful?
BoB

Minneapolis, MN

#15 Oct 26, 2011
franko wrote:
<quoted text>was my post too long to read? Or not useful?
franko What post bonehead? I bet it was long and useful just like all your posts.
BoB

Minneapolis, MN

#16 Oct 26, 2011
Julz- wrote:
<quoted text>First of all you need to talk to him a bout it..communication is the key..let him know how you feel and take it from there..he needs to know...maybe once you have told him he may change and be a bit more receptive in taking his time and pleasing you more..sometimes they just need to be told..try this first before any thing else..
I have found in my life that communication is the best that you can do. It makes the love you have so much better.

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#17 Oct 26, 2011
BoB wrote:
<quoted text>I have found in my life that communication is the best that you can do. It makes the love you have so much better.
Yes it does sweetie...communication is a MUST.

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#18 Oct 26, 2011
Julz is right. Communication is the key. There's something in the porn he looks at that is covering something he's missing and it could be a fear to tell you about his fantasies, boredom with the routine, or anxiety about his performance, or more. If you don't talk about it, nothing is going to work.

You could find some of the pictures he enjoys, tape them to the walls and ceiling around your bed, and then lead him upstairs. As you pleasure him, try to see which images he looks at most. It could offer a lot of insight into something he may want to try differently in the future.
BoB

Minneapolis, MN

#19 Oct 26, 2011
Julz- wrote:
<quoted text>Yes it does sweetie...communication is a MUST.
It is nice when you can tell your lover your wants and needs. and ask what do you want and need. The Love making just gets so freaking hot!

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#20 Oct 26, 2011
BoB wrote:
<quoted text>I have found in my life that communication is the best that you can do. It makes the love you have so much better.
you should live by your own words timboob. I tried to communicate with you but you are a bad listener.

You don't desrve Julz kindness after all the lies and stalking you have done
BoB

Minneapolis, MN

#21 Oct 26, 2011
franko wrote:
<quoted text>you should live by your own words timboob. I tried to communicate with you but you are a bad listener.
You don't desrve Julz kindness after all the lies and stalking you have done
Shall I bring about how you post to kids that have sex with 50yr old men? I will show the post oldman. And who is stalking who? You have alot to learn. You are still stuck on penis size you old freak.
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