Eddie

United States

#506 Oct 26, 2009
anonymous wrote:
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So where do you get the 8" average from? I know some black women that will say different.
I'm wondering the same damn thing. 8 inches isn't average size for any race. Some people use porn as their proof. Bad Idea. Thats why so many men lie about their sizes. 7 real inches equals 9.5 porn inches. Lol
anonymous

Liberty, NY

#507 Oct 26, 2009
babymatic wrote:
<quoted text>
are you serious!lol
well i happen to be a black woman and most of my friends happen to be black women not to mention that i have 12 aunts and uncles 6 sisters and 5 brothers and i have the biggest family in the USVI and they have black and some white friends also,so how many more black women do u need to say otherswise bitter person. so you go find 10 black women that would say different and ill give you $100/ea one you find!
Well my sister in laws all dated black, and their daughters date black. Not that I would pop the question to them, but their daughters are in their 20's and we've had this conversation before. They have absolutely had more than one "average" or less than average black guy. They've seen me through my long johns, and mentioned that I was endowed, and they're used to blackmen. My flaccid varies but starts at around 4 3/4 to 5. I'm around 7 1/4 erect. I guess that's big in the real world.
super sesual

Yuba City, CA

#509 Oct 27, 2009
I mean I can honestly say that I have a nice size pennis it does the job. and I'm a black male I'm not goin to say I got the largest pennis in the world or that all black men are well hung I guess it all depends on the partner what does the partner enjoy what feel good to them. Because that what matters in the end. a chic might not want a huge wanker in her it might hurt her then again she might not want a small one beacuse she cant feel it. That's why they come in different colors shapes and sizes for the other person pleasure not our own. cuz as males no matter what the size were still gonna bust one
eeva

Mexico, Mexico

#510 Oct 27, 2009
Tiger wrote:
Yeah blacks may have longer penises but they dont know how to use them, and most are so uneducated that women dont like to stay around them.
nope, they dont have it longer.. these blacks dont know anything about my white men lol
spark

Roswell, GA

#511 Oct 27, 2009
eeva wrote:
<quoted text>nope, they dont have it longer.. these blacks dont know anything about my white men lol
Douchia, you're not fooling anyone...you don't know anything about white men, either. You know about burros--that's it.
anonymous

Liberty, NY

#512 Oct 27, 2009
This is a discussion I picked up at a PE site. For those unfamiliar, BP stands for "Bone Pressed" There is a lot of debate on this thread about the "number of big dicks" out there. Here's my anecdotal 2 cents. I'm 32, black, attractive enough, good career etc and live in NYC. I do decently with women. As of last week, I have had sex with 33 so far.

I am approximately 7.75 BPEL x 5.7 EG, which is definitely above avg, but the real question I think many wonder about is - how big does a penis have to be before women generally agree that it's BIG.

While I do get penis envy at times (damm you, porn), I know to keep my mouth shut and play it cool because confidence is what attracts women (and keeps you in control of yourself). Thus, I never ask women "is the size OK" or "do you think my dick is big" or "how big was your ex". In fact, I don't make any penis related comments at all to women, that is until I hear their opinion first, which usually comes out the first time we have sex.

And you know what? I'm almost shocked if they don't make a comment about how big it is, sometimes even commenting that it's too big. And I date white, black, asian and latina women. And, being black, many of the women that I date are 'into' black guys, so they have seen a number of black penises (take that to mean what you will about the stereotype).

Are there bigger men out there? Sure. Are there bigger men in here, of course. But, I'm telling you honestly, about 90% of the women that I have slept with make unsolicited, very positive comments about a 7.75 BPEL. So, whatever size the average is, I can tell you that from my experience, many women seem to think that a 7.75" is quite big. So far this year it's been called "huge", "too long", "intimidating", "never seen anything like that" and my personal favorite "that thing is dangerous".

And these are the same typical NYC women that don't hesitate to demean my choice of restaurant or insult my apartment. So I'm taking their compliments as honesty, not flattery. And some of them definitely, absolutely get around, so they've seen their share of penis.

This would lead me to believe that there aren't too many 8 and 9" cocks lumbering around out there if most of the women I've been with are telling me how impressed they are with a 7.75", with no prompting on my end. Does that mean I am the biggest they have had? No. But it means that by their standard, 7.75" is apparently rather rare.
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Current 7.75" bpel (7.1" nbp) x 5.7" eg midshaft
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#513 Oct 27, 2009
anonymous,

Women go by visual, they don't think about bpel like guys do on pe sites. They see the 7.1". Granted, during intercourse you should be able to press and get more than 7.1" in but it seems that you are describing what they express in visual terms when looking at it. You are for some reason only 'emphasizing' bpel in your post, but I think it's your visual volume, 7.1" x 5.7" that gets their attention, with extra emphasis on your girth. Without trying to recall how to calculate volume, I'm rather sure that your volume puts you into the big category of penises volumewise, and afterall, volume is what women really perceive. Girth adds to volume more quickly than length does. You say midshaft. Many guys are thicker at the base. If you are thicker than 5.7" at the base then that adds to your volume. You are aparently follwing some pe site's protocal of proper measurement, which is fine, but for a practical discussion of what women think you need to include your thickest girth measurement and leave out the bpel stat (at least not emphasize it in this discussion) and realise women see in volume. I think your volume qualifies you for the big category. How far up into that category range I'm not sure, possibly on the low end of big unless your base girth is thicker. I can't recall how to calculaate volume and even if I could I would then have to calulate volume of other sizes in order to compare it to. I know, this, your volume is up there.
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#514 Oct 27, 2009
anonymous,

I'm not sure now, were you posting your stats or quoting from that site?
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Reality

Montgomery, AL

#515 Oct 27, 2009
Pe sites use midshaft measurements because they are interested in comparing sizes to see where they stand. Since some guys are thicker at the base tapering inward towards the top, and some guys are thicker at the top tapering inward towards the base, measuring in the middle seems the practical fairest way to measure. Also, pe sites measure bone pressed becasue it's the most accurate way to guage gains. Measuring to the pubic skin is considered a bit less exact. Also, weight gain or loss may affect skin measurement (pubic fatpad increase or decrease) and make it more difficult to measure progress, so the preferred method for pe purposes is measuring to the pubic bone. That aside, in a discussion about what women perceive, it's the thickest girth part of the penis along with the length measurement from the pubic skin (together making volume) that actually applies.
borntolose

Suitland, MD

#516 Oct 28, 2009
anonymous wrote:
This is a discussion I picked up at a PE site. For those unfamiliar, BP stands for "Bone Pressed" There is a lot of debate on this thread about the "number of big dicks" out there. Here's my anecdotal 2 cents. I'm 32, black, attractive enough, good career etc and live in NYC. I do decently with women. As of last week, I have had sex with 33 so far.
I am approximately 7.75 BPEL x 5.7 EG, which is definitely above avg, but the real question I think many wonder about is - how big does a penis have to be before women generally agree that it's BIG.
While I do get penis envy at times (damm you, porn), I know to keep my mouth shut and play it cool because confidence is what attracts women (and keeps you in control of yourself). Thus, I never ask women "is the size OK" or "do you think my dick is big" or "how big was your ex". In fact, I don't make any penis related comments at all to women, that is until I hear their opinion first, which usually comes out the first time we have sex.
And you know what? I'm almost shocked if they don't make a comment about how big it is, sometimes even commenting that it's too big. And I date white, black, asian and latina women. And, being black, many of the women that I date are 'into' black guys, so they have seen a number of black penises (take that to mean what you will about the stereotype).
Are there bigger men out there? Sure. Are there bigger men in here, of course. But, I'm telling you honestly, about 90% of the women that I have slept with make unsolicited, very positive comments about a 7.75 BPEL. So, whatever size the average is, I can tell you that from my experience, many women seem to think that a 7.75" is quite big. So far this year it's been called "huge", "too long", "intimidating", "never seen anything like that" and my personal favorite "that thing is dangerous".
And these are the same typical NYC women that don't hesitate to demean my choice of restaurant or insult my apartment. So I'm taking their compliments as honesty, not flattery. And some of them definitely, absolutely get around, so they've seen their share of penis.
This would lead me to believe that there aren't too many 8 and 9" cocks lumbering around out there if most of the women I've been with are telling me how impressed they are with a 7.75", with no prompting on my end. Does that mean I am the biggest they have had? No. But it means that by their standard, 7.75" is apparently rather rare.
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Current 7.75" bpel (7.1" nbp) x 5.7" eg midshaft
I think you are big but it's more from your girth then your length. I'm 6.5" nbpel but 7.3" bpel. But my girth is only 4.75" which is a full inch less than yours. That inch is the difference between being considered small and being considered big. Surgery soon and that should fix the girth at a minimum. In fact, if I end up with your size I will die a happy man.
anonymous

Liberty, NY

#517 Oct 28, 2009
borntolose wrote:
<quoted text>
I think you are big but it's more from your girth then your length. I'm 6.5" nbpel but 7.3" bpel. But my girth is only 4.75" which is a full inch less than yours. That inch is the difference between being considered small and being considered big. Surgery soon and that should fix the girth at a minimum. In fact, if I end up with your size I will die a happy man.
That was a quote. I am similar in size, but that isn't me. I guess he's seen enough women to get an idea of what they think is big. I guess 7x5.5+ is big, contrary to all the women here. Every one of them has had a 9+ on Topix
borntolose

Suitland, MD

#518 Oct 28, 2009
I think a lot of girls have had sex with a 9" c0ck. A lot more than surveys or discussion would lead you to believe. I also believe that if you have more than 7" and are thick, that women will think you are big. 9" will get you OMG you're huge@!@!!!! But 7+ and thick will get you "wow, you're big". Anything less than that will get a range of derogatory comments depending on the amount that you are less and the sensitivity of the woman. It will also equate to not a whole lot of moaning going on in the sack and good luck and a return visit. If she happens to be in love with you and the sensitive type, she will tell you you are all she ever needs and will also say I do. 10 years later as she hits her cougar years, she may still love you but she'll be hitting the big boy down the street on the side and then come home and make you your favorite dinner and ask about your day. Boy I hate to sound like such a pessimist! I'm just a product of it for you see, as my wife changed, so have I...... Maybe the whore will die.
anonymous

Liberty, NY

#519 Oct 28, 2009
borntolose wrote:
I think a lot of girls have had sex with a 9" c0ck. A lot more than surveys or discussion would lead you to believe. I also believe that if you have more than 7" and are thick, that women will think you are big. 9" will get you OMG you're huge@!@!!!! But 7+ and thick will get you "wow, you're big". Anything less than that will get a range of derogatory comments depending on the amount that you are less and the sensitivity of the woman. It will also equate to not a whole lot of moaning going on in the sack and good luck and a return visit. If she happens to be in love with you and the sensitive type, she will tell you you are all she ever needs and will also say I do. 10 years later as she hits her cougar years, she may still love you but she'll be hitting the big boy down the street on the side and then come home and make you your favorite dinner and ask about your day. Boy I hate to sound like such a pessimist! I'm just a product of it for you see, as my wife changed, so have I...... Maybe the whore will die.
So anything less than 7" x 5.5" is small to all women? What if you were 6 3/4 x 5.4? Do you think most women would bust out the ruler and say "1/4 too short for my standards, get lost"? I mean there has to be a large average, or medium big etc. Not just small med and large.
borntolose

Suitland, MD

#520 Oct 28, 2009
anonymous wrote:
<quoted text>
So anything less than 7" x 5.5" is small to all women? What if you were 6 3/4 x 5.4? Do you think most women would bust out the ruler and say "1/4 too short for my standards, get lost"? I mean there has to be a large age, or medium big etc. Not just small med and large.
I agree but if you have to draw the line somewhere...... The other thing you need to keep in mind is that when it comes to dick measurements, small differences in size really mean quite a bit. The difference between .5" of girth is huge.
babymatic

Christiansted, Virgin Islands, U.S.

#521 Oct 30, 2009
7"+ to women is considered "thank god", 6" + is "okay i expected more but i can work with that", anything below that, "im sorry but i gotta go"(as she puts her clothes back on and runs thru the front door)
borntolose

Churchton, MD

#522 Oct 31, 2009
babymatic wrote:
7"+ to women is considered "thank god", 6" + is "okay i expected more but i can work with that", anything below that, "im sorry but i gotta go"(as she puts her clothes back on and runs thru the front door)
I agree. She may not leave him hanging but she won't be back again. If he's stupid he will think it's something he said or his aftershave. lol
babymatic

Christiansted, Virgin Islands, U.S.

#523 Nov 1, 2009
borntolose wrote:
<quoted text>
I agree. She may not leave him hanging but she won't be back again. If he's stupid he will think it's something he said or his aftershave. lol
well atleast we agree on something lol, im not that shallow just try to keep it 100%
Tanay

Pensacola, FL

#524 Nov 24, 2009
robiam wrote:
YES PLEASE ... all you trashy white women who ho around with Black guys go ahead and tell us all about it.
Tell us how you pay for everything. Tell us how you cant find him once hes had you one time. Tell us how he has 7 children with 5 different women. Tell us how you support him so he can run around all day with his pants hanging down to his knees trying to look cool on the street while youre working. Tell us how when he knocks you up you never see him again. Tell us how good he looks in prison blues...
yeh tell us about those big c@cks ...
white hos
That came out racist... not cool
U R Rite

United States

#525 Nov 24, 2009
robiam wrote:
YES PLEASE ... all you trashy white women who ho around with Black guys go ahead and tell us all about it.
Tell us how you pay for everything. Tell us how you cant find him once hes had you one time. Tell us how he has 7 children with 5 different women. Tell us how you support him so he can run around all day with his pants hanging down to his knees trying to look cool on the street while youre working. Tell us how when he knocks you up you never see him again. Tell us how good he looks in prison blues...
yeh tell us about those big c@cks ...
white hos
So very very true, but you left one thing out. Do you ever notice when it comes to driving it is usually the woman driving them in HER car lol?? Dumb hos getting used for sure!!
small man

Norwich, UK

#526 Nov 25, 2009
My wife went black cock years ago she went with 1 guy and never look back since,she told me oh i am 5in and thin after she went with the first black man she said she was no more good to me he was 9in long and thick it did hurt but she got used to it. The only white guys she have sex with must be 7in or over.
She said the black cock's are thicker longer and cum is thicker and lots of it, so thats from 1 white woman who loves the black man

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