Do Straight Guys Like This?

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Since: Apr 08

United States

#1 Apr 16, 2008
My thanks to those of you who responded to the questions I asked after learning that my boyfriend and his buddies used to get together for circle jerks. Since some of you thought it was okay and others felt it wasn't I'm still not sure whether he's straight or gay -- and then something happened this afternoon that only added to my confusion.

We went out jogging and when we got back home we couldn't wait to shower so rather than take turns we decided to shower together. We behaved ourselves for a while but that didn't last very long. I admit -- I was one who got naughty first. Okay -- shame on me but I've never been able to pass up an opportunity to have fun. Girls reading this will understand when I say that you can't share a shower with a super buff guy and be expected to keep your hands to yourself. Let's just say I played rub-a-dub-dub with his privates and leave it at that. This resulted in him getting a stiffy like you wouldn't believe which I found hilarious and he found frustrating. He kidded me about it being my fault that he was in this predicament and asked that I quit giggling and do something about it,

I laughed and said I'd try so I got my hands good and soapy and started stroking him but it was sort of awkward with him facing me so I got behind him and reached around and found it much easier. I did my best to pump him the way I'd seen him do a few nights before and I must've done it right because I didn't hear any complaints.

Now then -- how to describe (without getting too graphic) what I did with my other hand. I ran it up and down the crack between his buttocks and I could tell he really enjoyed this. Then my middle finger located his tight little hole and I slipped it in. I didn't stick it in all the way but I could tell he wanted more of it because he reached back and spread his cheeks apart to provide easy access so I slid it in a little farther. You should've heard him ooh and aah.(To say he found the sensation incredibly pleasurable would be a major understatement.) After pulling my finger out and slipping it back in a few times I pushed it in as far as I could and wiggled it around and when I did this he started squirting like crazy. It was as if I'd pressed his LAUNCH button. When he finally finished coming he thanked me over and over again for doing him this way. You've never seen anyone so grateful.

Knowing this -- I trust you see why I can't help but wonder if maybe he's gay.
Yeah

Chino, CA

#2 Apr 16, 2008
I don't like it.
Yeah

Chino, CA

#3 Apr 16, 2008
The anal thing.
NFA

“Just a Honest Guy Killing Time”

Since: Mar 08

baltimore

#4 Apr 16, 2008
Heidi4fun wrote:
My thanks to those of you who responded to the questions I asked after learning that my boyfriend and his buddies used to get together for circle jerks. Since some of you thought it was okay and others felt it wasn't I'm still not sure whether he's straight or gay -- and then something happened this afternoon that only added to my confusion.
We went out jogging and when we got back home we couldn't wait to shower so rather than take turns we decided to shower together. We behaved ourselves for a while but that didn't last very long. I admit -- I was one who got naughty first. Okay -- shame on me but I've never been able to pass up an opportunity to have fun. Girls reading this will understand when I say that you can't share a shower with a super buff guy and be expected to keep your hands to yourself. Let's just say I played rub-a-dub-dub with his privates and leave it at that. This resulted in him getting a stiffy like you wouldn't believe which I found hilarious and he found frustrating. He kidded me about it being my fault that he was in this predicament and asked that I quit giggling and do something about it,
I laughed and said I'd try so I got my hands good and soapy and started stroking him but it was sort of awkward with him facing me so I got behind him and reached around and found it much easier. I did my best to pump him the way I'd seen him do a few nights before and I must've done it right because I didn't hear any complaints.
Now then -- how to describe (without getting too graphic) what I did with my other hand. I ran it up and down the crack between his buttocks and I could tell he really enjoyed this. Then my middle finger located his tight little hole and I slipped it in. I didn't stick it in all the way but I could tell he wanted more of it because he reached back and spread his cheeks apart to provide easy access so I slid it in a little farther. You should've heard him ooh and aah.(To say he found the sensation incredibly pleasurable would be a major understatement.) After pulling my finger out and slipping it back in a few times I pushed it in as far as I could and wiggled it around and when I did this he started squirting like crazy. It was as if I'd pressed his LAUNCH button. When he finally finished coming he thanked me over and over again for doing him this way. You've never seen anyone so grateful.
Knowing this -- I trust you see why I can't help but wonder if maybe he's gay.
Straight as an Arrow here; but my girl and I LOVE that :D Now I don't know your man or anything but speaking from my point of view; it is enjoyable to be fingered there are allot of nerves not to mention the prostrate down there ..
Veronica

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#5 Apr 16, 2008
It depends on the guy, and no it doesn't make a man gay to like having his anus penetrated. Why? Because men have what is the equivalent to the female g-spot in their anus. If he was fingering you while rubbing your clit you'd love it right? Well, that is the equivalent to what you were doing to him. Makes since why he "squirted" now eh? So, I can say with all honesty here, that liking this definitely does NOT make him gay in any way shape or form.

The only thing I can't answer for you is the circle jerk thing. I don't personally know any straight guys who have participated in this, however I'm sure it's not unheard of. How old was he? A lot of people do "weird" things when they are young and their hormones are raging. For example, over half of my friends (that were girls and considered themselves straight) in high school did sexual things with other girls just to "try it"...

He also could be bisexual. If you are that concerned, just bring it up. If you aren't able to talk to him about sexuality you shouldn't be having sex with him yet...I know it's hard to bring stuff like this up, but I'm sure it'd set your mind at ease to know for sure.
Beasty

Jackson, OH

#6 Apr 16, 2008
1st off try to let him think it would turn you on if he was with another guy.
If he is 1000% straight this wont convince him to do anything like that.

If he's Bi then you might find out.

The circle jerk thing.
How many guys were in this circle?
& what were they looking at to get turn on & jack off too?
Each other?

That sounds sorta GAY to me.

& The fact that he acted like he knew he'd like it up his ass seems gay to me also?
How many times has he been figer or other wise penetrated there???

Butt ( Punn intended ) Men do have a prostrate that suppose to work as a launch button as you called it.

No I have never tried this.
I have been checked twice by attractive female doctors for an enlarged Prostrate & I felt nothing exciting down there?
( By the way my Prostrate was fine :))

I personally dont like anything near my asshole except for toilet paper.

But hey, thats me.

“Son of Abraham”

Since: Aug 07

Natural Deviant

#7 Apr 16, 2008
The circle jerk is def kinda queer.
Semper Fi

AOL

#8 Apr 16, 2008
Most guys don't like anything in their butts, but a few do.

I just find it disturbing that YOU stuck your finger up his ass and now YOU'RE questioning his sexual orientation for it.

I loved the old comedian Lenny Bruce (who probably died before you were born), but you remind me of the one time I thought he was a real dirt bag.

He pestered his wife to do a three-way with him and make out with another girl. She was reluctant, but she finally gave in. And THEN he started making jokes on stage about how his wife was a dyke.

That was way uncool and abusive of him, and I thought his wife should have left him for that.

Read what you will from that into your own situation.
Join Free

“And tell me he's not comfy...”

Since: Feb 08

Rehoboth Beach, DE

#9 Apr 17, 2008
Heidi4fun wrote:
My thanks to those of you who responded to the questions I asked after learning that my boyfriend and his buddies used to get together for circle jerks. Since some of you thought it was okay and others felt it wasn't I'm still not sure whether he's straight or gay -- and then something happened this afternoon that only added to my confusion.
We went out jogging and when we got back home we couldn't wait to shower so rather than take turns we decided to shower together. We behaved ourselves for a while but that didn't last very long. I admit -- I was one who got naughty first. Okay -- shame on me but I've never been able to pass up an opportunity to have fun. Girls reading this will understand when I say that you can't share a shower with a super buff guy and be expected to keep your hands to yourself. Let's just say I played rub-a-dub-dub with his privates and leave it at that. This resulted in him getting a stiffy like you wouldn't believe which I found hilarious and he found frustrating. He kidded me about it being my fault that he was in this predicament and asked that I quit giggling and do something about it,
I laughed and said I'd try so I got my hands good and soapy and started stroking him but it was sort of awkward with him facing me so I got behind him and reached around and found it much easier. I did my best to pump him the way I'd seen him do a few nights before and I must've done it right because I didn't hear any complaints.
Now then -- how to describe (without getting too graphic) what I did with my other hand. I ran it up and down the crack between his buttocks and I could tell he really enjoyed this. Then my middle finger located his tight little hole and I slipped it in. I didn't stick it in all the way but I could tell he wanted more of it because he reached back and spread his cheeks apart to provide easy access so I slid it in a little farther. You should've heard him ooh and aah.(To say he found the sensation incredibly pleasurable would be a major understatement.) After pulling my finger out and slipping it back in a few times I pushed it in as far as I could and wiggled it around and when I did this he started squirting like crazy. It was as if I'd pressed his LAUNCH button. When he finally finished coming he thanked me over and over again for doing him this way. You've never seen anyone so grateful.
Knowing this -- I trust you see why I can't help but wonder if maybe he's gay.
either ur a homo phobe or really scared ur bf's gay all ur threads are about it

just because he likes anal play doesn't mean anything having anal sex because he loves a man is classified as gay or its gay because he finds men sexually attractive

but stop posting about ur worries of ur boyfriend he with u isn't he
mature man

United States

#10 Sep 7, 2008
grow up
equalityboy81

United States

#11 Sep 7, 2008
he's bi or bi-curious, but there are straight men who like anal play. the circle jerks though makes me wonder about him. a lot of body builders are gay or bi.
Sir Shaves a Lot

Omaha, NE

#12 Sep 7, 2008
I'm not gay, and I love when a woman puts a finger in my anus. It's best when I'm getting a bj and she has her fingering in there wriggling away. TONS of pre-come comes out, and when I do go...wow, it is like someone hit the launch button.
The circle jerk thing. Guess I don't know. You said he used to, so my take is that straight people can do gay things.
So have fun with the anal thing. Just remember when it comes to that stuff...give him the finger but not a high five.:)
Alpha Omega Game

Stockton, CA

#13 Sep 7, 2008
No. I'm not interested in that sort of thing.

Just reading your story made me clinch my butthole to that of a dolphin's. Water tight.
WD_WD

Indianola, WA

#14 Mar 5, 2009
LOTS of straight guys like to have their anuses licked and penetrated by WOMEN. Anything a man and a woman do together is STRAIGHT. You enjoyed fingering your guy's hole, he really enjoyed it, and that's great. Stop this nonsense of associating anal play with homosexuality. If it feels good, enjoy it and don't question it.
average joe

Norman, OK

#15 Apr 17, 2009
WD_WD has great advice, anything a female and male do together is straight so dont question it. A lot of guys in college will jerk together, something about it intensifying their orgasm or something, all of them well most of them go on to lead great marriages and live happy straight lives. I havent been in a circle jerk before and I dont really like anything in my anus but some tongue work would turn me on and I am straight as a whistle. enjoy your new found spark to your relationship :)
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#16 Apr 17, 2009
Liking anal play is not a gay thing. Anal play is enjoyable for straight and gay men, we do after all have the same bodies. If it feels good and your having fun, dont pressure the situation, just have fun in exploring each others boundaries and what you guys like.

The circle jerk situation not necessarily makes him gay either, its a bonding with a buddy type thing more than sexual.
Odninton

Raynes Park, UK

#17 Apr 17, 2009
I would worry more about something that should be completely private and sacred, shared with a bunch of pervs and strangers on the net.
Perv

Sedalia, MO

#18 Apr 17, 2009
Okay, let's get this clear - To be Homosexual, one has to be attracted to people of their own sex. Bisexual is someone that like both sexes.

Just because someone likes anal stimulation, does not make them gay. It doesn't even make them Bi. It means that they like anal stimulation, and that's all.

Also keep in mind that if you think that women should like anal sex, then why wouldn't a man? Don't ask her for something you wouldn't be willing to do yourself.
Sex freak

Oceanside, NY

#20 Apr 17, 2009
I have done that one or two times watching porn with my friends. We never got sexual with each other. It's just one of those things that you do a few times.
DaltonIndiana

Goodyear, AZ

#21 Apr 18, 2009
I hate labels. I'm about as much a man as you can be. My strongest desire is and always has been women yet I've had sex with a lot of men. HeII I've got hard running a floor buffer before so I guess I'm mechanical also. Why worry? If he's doing you well enjoy.

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