fingering my girlfriend...help!!!

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blueeyeguy

Harlow, UK

#1 Oct 5, 2008
just got a new girlfriend after 4 years with the last one (im 21). first girlfriend didnt like anything up in her apart from the old chap so i learnt to make her orgasm through clitoral stimulation and penile penetration.

new girlfriend doesnt like her clit touched at all but likes being fingered,(all my learning with gf no.1 wasted!!!)trouble is im shit out of luck on what to do. she's a bit of a prude so doesnt like to talk about what she wants done and doesnt touch herself!!!

have tried the 'come hither' motion on her upper wall deep to the second knuckle, have applied varied amounts of pressure in different places and have tried slowly and furiously finger pounding but to no avail.

anyone give me some other tips??? by the way she's as wet as anything during actual sex but the fingering is just not doing anything.

any help is greatly appreciated
blueeyeguy

Harlow, UK

#3 Oct 5, 2008
doesnt like cunning linguists either!!!
nick5469

Constantia, NY

#4 Oct 5, 2008
Cutie wrote:
Slide your tongue in first instead! She'll probably like that a lot more.
do u like tounge first?n

Since: Aug 08

Chicago, IL

#5 Oct 5, 2008
Get her drunk first. She will feel more uninhibited
london boy

Buda, Hungary

#6 Oct 6, 2008
blueeyeguy wrote:
just got a new girlfriend after 4 years with the last one (im 21). first girlfriend didnt like anything up in her apart from the old chap so i learnt to make her orgasm through clitoral stimulation and penile penetration.
new girlfriend doesnt like her clit touched at all but likes being fingered,(all my learning with gf no.1 wasted!!!)trouble is im shit out of luck on what to do. she's a bit of a prude so doesnt like to talk about what she wants done and doesnt touch herself!!!
have tried the 'come hither' motion on her upper wall deep to the second knuckle, have applied varied amounts of pressure in different places and have tried slowly and furiously finger pounding but to no avail.
anyone give me some other tips??? by the way she's as wet as anything during actual sex but the fingering is just not doing anything.
any help is greatly appreciated
youre from harlow!!! lol. i used to swim at a swim club there and my gf used to live there. i live in shenfield am at shenfield high 6th form now lol.

i reallly dont know. it seems like u tried most things. try different lubes and different pace perhaps. hmmm. or maybe oral would have better effect.
mike

Weimar, Germany

#7 Oct 22, 2008
if shes all wet and having great sex why do you wana finger her, lol
sry couldnt resist.
seven and a half

Austria

#8 Oct 22, 2008
Trymore finger ......... perhapes dont tell while you slip them in.
Take your watch off incase she really opens up and goes full throttle.
MiME

Grand Blanc, MI

#9 Oct 22, 2008
try first cupping her through her pants. that way your not directly touch her but in a round about way you will be stimulating her clit.then move to just her panties still gently rubbing her pressing a little harder in places. next supprise her and lightly and quickly rub the side of her 'v' with you bare finger and stay with the panties one but keep working around them touching her with you bare finger. and if you touch 'all' of her from her pubic hair to the lips of her 'v' to that very sensitive spot between the vagina and the anus I think you might get somewhere. if she's not wet lick your fingers its more sexy than the KY

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