19year old f needs advice! please eve...

19year old f needs advice! please everyone

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Since: Apr 12

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#2 Feb 14, 2013
Just tell him to stop. If he doesnt then leave him. It seems like hes with you just for sex.
This master

Brisbane, Australia

#4 Feb 14, 2013
angel wrote:
Hi, im just on here to ask a question my bf comes on this website alot he doesnt post just reads threads this really upsets me tho and I act like im into it to when im not. How can I ask him to stop because I dont think he will hes into alot of porn and stories and I dont want him to hide it from me if I ask him to stop I love him I just cant understand why he isnt happy with me. Thankyou in advance for replying. Angel. 19/F/Florida
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Since: Feb 13

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#5 Feb 14, 2013
angel wrote:
Hi, im just on here to ask a question my bf comes on this website alot he doesnt post just reads threads this really upsets me tho and I act like im into it to when im not. How can I ask him to stop because I dont think he will hes into alot of porn and stories and I dont want him to hide it from me if I ask him to stop I love him I just cant understand why he isnt happy with me. Thankyou in advance for replying. Angel. 19/F/Florida
Good morning Angel in Florida. My wife and I went through kind of the same issue but with Twitter. I have lots of advice and insight to give. Do you have a kik account? I can give you the perspective of the guy and of how my wife and I dealt with it
White Monster c0ck

United States

#6 Feb 14, 2013
If he embaresses you looking at other women you could keep my pics of my 13 incher in store n show him how bad someone you love lookingat others hurts. Just a thought.

Ps I'm not kidding either. 13 inches. 3 fingers n half a pinky thick ; )
Texas Born

Whitesboro, TX

#10 Feb 14, 2013
Was he on here before you met him?

He seems really good if he just reads because it's so hard not to help people or make fun of them.
My GF knows I won't cheat (yeah. Sometimes girls push things too far on the phone tho)
byron

West End, Australia

#12 Feb 14, 2013
angel you should relax you are over reacting...

“Here to kill time & gossip.”

Since: Jan 13

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#13 Feb 14, 2013
angel wrote:
Hi, im just on here to ask a question my bf comes on this website alot he doesnt post just reads threads this really upsets me tho and I act like im into it to when im not. How can I ask him to stop because I dont think he will hes into alot of porn and stories and I dont want him to hide it from me if I ask him to stop I love him I just cant understand why he isnt happy with me. Thankyou in advance for replying. Angel. 19/F/Florida
Tell him how you really feel, telling the truth gets it all out and makes things clear from your point of view if he cant respect how you feel as his girlfriend then do what you got to do to be happy.

Since: Jan 13

Mesa, AZ

#16 Feb 14, 2013
angel

my wife and I actually went through the same thing also. I don't want to get into specifics here, in public, but feel free to PM me, or email me at Waffmula1 at Gmail and I'll be glad to help as much as I can
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British Guy

UK

#21 Feb 14, 2013
angel wrote:
Hi, im just on here to ask a question my bf comes on this website alot he doesnt post just reads threads this really upsets me tho and I act like im into it to when im not. How can I ask him to stop because I dont think he will hes into alot of porn and stories and I dont want him to hide it from me if I ask him to stop I love him I just cant understand why he isnt happy with me. Thankyou in advance for replying. Angel. 19/F/Florida
He sound's selfish. He doesn't care about your feeling's. I'm from England. Salut
fastdoo

Rogers, MN

#24 Feb 14, 2013
Watch the sites with him it might be a big turn on for you.Maybe afterwards tou might have the best sex ever.
British Guy

UK

#25 Feb 14, 2013
angel wrote:
<quoted text> he makes me feel sexy in many ways he constantly tells me I am and makes me feel sexy wen we have s,ex I just cant help but feel like im not enough for him when hes on websites
Dump him for christs sake. You stupid?. You want us to say its ok that he lusts after other women. Women ALWAY'S pick the jerks. There are men out there that will value your opinion and care about your feelings. You owe this guy NOTHING. Your not married to the guy your young you will find someone else. He uses you for sex and your giving him exactly what he wants.
fastdoo

Rogers, MN

#28 Feb 14, 2013
How old are you?
eddie

Bellevue, WA

#32 Feb 14, 2013
hes oldr than u, hes not gona stop,,ur not being appreciated enuf..if i were u, id leav him...since the sex is bettr when and aftr he watches it, he obviously is fantasising havn sex with the ppl on the video or stories from here...punch him the nuts and leave..*hugs*
fastdoo

Rogers, MN

#34 Feb 14, 2013
Whats you body like tell us.
Davey

UK

#35 Feb 14, 2013
Dump this jerk. What are you stupid?. You want us to say it's ok that he lust's after other women. You women ALWAY'S chose the jerks. This guy OBVIOUSLY doesn't care about your feelings. This guy is using you for sex. You owe this guy NOTHING. You will find someone who value's your feelings. You should move on. Your NOT married to this guy. He uses you for sex and you give him exactly what he want's
Tim

UK

#37 Feb 14, 2013
rudimental wrote:
<quoted text> I no this but he says hes not after other women but the things they can get up to intrests him iv been with him for 2 years
So why does he look at them?. Don't be stupid and naive. I am a man I know how men think. I wont look at a woman UNLESS I am interested in her. Doesn't matter how long you've been with him. Learn to value yourself. If you don't value yourself he won't. You have NO kids thank god. Tell him you dont like him looking at these women, put your foot down. You sound like a nice girl. Suppose he cheats and gives you an Sti. Listen I am 39 so I have many years of life experience.
hawk27

Huntington Station, NY

#39 Feb 14, 2013
in reality if he wont stop then you start coming here too see what he does if he dont like then tell him you stop i stop

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#41 Feb 14, 2013
angel wrote:
<quoted text>did you and your wife get throught it because its tearing me apart
Not only did we get through it but we are stronger and way more open with everything. We have both been extremely forthcoming about fantasies and desires ever since. She thought the same as you did that I was cheating and that was the furthest from the truth. I just really liked the exhibitionist lifestyle and I like to harmlessly flirt online with no threat and no intentions of RL interaction. We now embrace each others fantasies and roles and are much happier for it. In fact we went to our first Lifestyle party on Saturday to open our eyes to the more risqué world. We had a blast and are already signed up for the next one.

You need to both talk about this openly (that can be through text or email too as long as ur both 100% open and honest. Sometimes it's tough to open up face to face). Put it all on the table w no fear of judgement and see if you both can embrace each others fantasies. Let me know if you want to discuss it more on K1K if not I wish you lots of luck w your man!
eddie

Bellevue, WA

#42 Feb 14, 2013
angel wrote:
Iv told him my worries with him sleeping about but he swears to me he aint but its wat if he does?
hey angel, dont worry urself,dnt put urself thru that, i knw u may love hime, but u hav to love urself more..dnt b in an uncomfy relationship, yrs easier daid than done, but once u leav him, itl b easier on u, ur yunng, u wil find someone else, or someone wil find u..be appreciated,be valued, u deserve the best...hugs.
gonozopolust

Fremont, CA

#43 Feb 14, 2013
try jacking him while he reads

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