Ever spy on significant other masturb...

Ever spy on significant other masturbating?

Created by nigel gore on Oct 28, 2008

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nigel gore

New Milford, CT

#1 Oct 28, 2008
Have you ever spied on a significant other as they masturbated? Have you suspected they were masterbating and tried to catch them in the act? If you were spying - did they catch you spying on them? If so - what was their reaction? Have you ever caught someone watching you masturbate?

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Since: Feb 08

Westminster, MD

#2 Oct 28, 2008
well yes and no

and i fit into many categories

now-a-day its a sexual turn on to watch my fiancee masturbate

but when i was younger i spied w/o her knowing until i told her
nigel gore

New Milford, CT

#3 Oct 29, 2008
Dude Look wrote:
well yes and no
and i fit into many categories
now-a-day its a sexual turn on to watch my fiancee masturbate
but when i was younger i spied w/o her knowing until i told her
Did you ask her to masturbate for you, or did she start showing off because she wanted to? Or perhaps you caught her in the act and she was cool to start showing you... Just curious as I have never been able to catch the wife in the act on her own - nor will she do it for me when I have asked...(sigh..)
Guest 2

United States

#4 Oct 29, 2008
no i m at work when my wife does it
nigel gore

New Milford, CT

#6 Oct 29, 2008
Guest 2 wrote:
no i m at work when my wife does it
Same here..I'm sure that is the case!
Guest 2

United States

#7 Oct 29, 2008
i know it is with me she sends me pics of what she is doing

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Since: Feb 08

Westminster, MD

#8 Oct 30, 2008
nigel gore wrote:
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Did you ask her to masturbate for you, or did she start showing off because she wanted to? Or perhaps you caught her in the act and she was cool to start showing you... Just curious as I have never been able to catch the wife in the act on her own - nor will she do it for me when I have asked...(sigh..)
well be4 we ever dated is when i caught her
saw her couple times
even saw her with a pic of me while masturbating

Then once we started dating i asked her and she thought it was a good idea and then it become her just doing it for me or me asking to watch

and yea I've caught her w/o me knowing and don't disrupt
brian

Jefferson City, MO

#9 Oct 30, 2008
Dude Look wrote:
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well be4 we ever dated is when i caught her
saw her couple times
even saw her with a pic of me while masturbating
Then once we started dating i asked her and she thought it was a good idea and then it become her just doing it for me or me asking to watch
and yea I've caught her w/o me knowing and don't disrupt
I have experienced they very same pleasures with my g/f. She also spied on me she later told me. So now we make a game out of it.
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Louie-Louie

United States

#10 Oct 30, 2008
Nope, never did that.

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Since: Jul 08

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#11 Oct 30, 2008
Hell, I find him masturbating, I strip off my top and bra and ask him to finish on my breasts.
nigel gore

New Milford, CT

#12 Oct 30, 2008
patricialynn wrote:
Hell, I find him masturbating, I strip off my top and bra and ask him to finish on my breasts.
That's the spirit!!

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Since: Feb 08

Westminster, MD

#13 Oct 30, 2008
brian wrote:
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I have experienced they very same pleasures with my g/f. She also spied on me she later told me. So now we make a game out of it.
ohh yea same here

right around we starting having sex as friends with benefits she spied on me

and turned it into sex...... long story
hramful

Syria

#14 Oct 30, 2008
patricialynn wrote:
Hell, I find him masturbating, I strip off my top and bra and ask him to finish on my breasts.
come one let me do it now

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#15 Oct 31, 2008
nigel gore wrote:
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That's the spirit!!
(modestly) I try.
TJay

Northbrook, IL

#16 Oct 31, 2008
I set my wife up, so I can spy on her. Maybe she knows, maybe she doesn't. It doesn't matter to me. I still get the same result. Here is how I do it.

We call it her "time to unwind." About once a week,after the kids are in bed, I set up a nice warm bath or shower with candlelight. I set up our master bedroom with candlelight and soft music. I also set out a couple of toys for her to choose from along with some lube and a towel. I turn back the bed and then lock the door on my way out. I sit back and wait for her to finish her bath/shower. She then will come into the bedroom and lay on the bed and get started. How do I know...

Our bedroom adjoins an outdoor living area with a french door between. The french door has blinds which if turned the right way, you can see straight in, but from the inside you can't tell since it is dark outside. So I take my position and enjoy the show. From her comments and details she shares, I don't believe she is on to my voyuerism.

This is such a thrilling experience watching her pleasure herself. I remember the first time I saw her plunge that big vibe into her pu**y, I almost lost it without even touching myself.

When she finishes, I race back to the living room and perch myself in front of the TV. Then she will clean up and come sit by me on the sofa. She always thanks me for giving her this time alone and sometimes will share some of the details with me. She always asks if it turns me on knowing she is in the next room getting off while I sit out here and watch TV. If she only knew...or maybe she does. Either way it works for us.
nigel gore

New Milford, CT

#17 Nov 1, 2008
TJay wrote:
I set my wife up, so I can spy on her. Maybe she knows, maybe she doesn't. It doesn't matter to me. I still get the same result. Here is how I do it.
We call it her "time to unwind." About once a week,after the kids are in bed, I set up a nice warm bath or shower with candlelight. I set up our master bedroom with candlelight and soft music. I also set out a couple of toys for her to choose from along with some lube and a towel. I turn back the bed and then lock the door on my way out. I sit back and wait for her to finish her bath/shower. She then will come into the bedroom and lay on the bed and get started. How do I know...
Our bedroom adjoins an outdoor living area with a french door between. The french door has blinds which if turned the right way, you can see straight in, but from the inside you can't tell since it is dark outside. So I take my position and enjoy the show. From her comments and details she shares, I don't believe she is on to my voyuerism.
This is such a thrilling experience watching her pleasure herself. I remember the first time I saw her plunge that big vibe into her pu**y, I almost lost it without even touching myself.
When she finishes, I race back to the living room and perch myself in front of the TV. Then she will clean up and come sit by me on the sofa. She always thanks me for giving her this time alone and sometimes will share some of the details with me. She always asks if it turns me on knowing she is in the next room getting off while I sit out here and watch TV. If she only knew...or maybe she does. Either way it works for us.
That's really interesting. Out of curiosity - if she is getting this time to unwind about once a week - are you "together" as frequently? Or are you together more or less?
tony 2

AOL

#18 Nov 1, 2008
My wife says she hasn't since we've gotten married, haven't caught her yet. She said when she was single, she use the shower jets, but would not touch herself. She's always been very turthful, even about personal issues.
T Jay

Claremore, OK

#19 Nov 1, 2008
nigel gore wrote:
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That's really interesting. Out of curiosity - if she is getting this time to unwind about once a week - are you "together" as frequently? Or are you together more or less?
I would say we average twice a week. We both have busy schedules along with kid activities, so that sometimes varies. Right now I am very happy with the frequency along with her "alone time." Keep in mind she does not always masturbate during this time. I would say about 2/3 of the time she does. it keeps it interesting.
nigel gore

Waterbury, CT

#20 Nov 2, 2008
T Jay wrote:
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I would say we average twice a week. We both have busy schedules along with kid activities, so that sometimes varies. Right now I am very happy with the frequency along with her "alone time." Keep in mind she does not always masturbate during this time. I would say about 2/3 of the time she does. it keeps it interesting.
Despite having kids - it sounds to me like you have great balance for adult activities! Good for you!
guest 2

United States

#21 Nov 2, 2008
i just want to watch her.i dont care if she knows or not.

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