Women and anal sex
not me

Glasgow, UK

#2 Sep 2, 2012
it turns me on. i like to be dominated and i know i cant get pregnant there
sophie

Hanwell, UK

#3 Sep 2, 2012
not me wrote:
it turns me on. i like to be dominated and i know i cant get pregnant there
Don't want to sound like a killjoy, but if semen with sperm leaks from your bottom it can enter your other place and it has been known to get pregant like that. Use a condom for bottom fun.
Lisa W

Brooklyn, NY

#7 Sep 3, 2012
Unusual desires wrote:
Hi, i confess i am a big anal sex lover. Nothing as appealing as a beautiful ass in front of me and her voice moaning with pleasure....
No i did not meet many women so far who are into it
My question to you beautiful lady's: is anal something that turns you on or off? And the reasons behind it please :)
I cant know for sure if I will like it becuz Im still a virgin.
I do have a very small toy I use for pleasure and Ive put it in my ass many times and like the way it feels. Its only like half the size & thickness of a penis tho. One thing I do know is I am going to try it and I cant get pregnant that way. I love when my BF ddoes oral on me in that area so my ass is sensative to sex. I dont like the stuff I read about the pill. I am looking for a natural family planning method which I hear exists. I just need to find it.
laura

Australia

#11 Sep 3, 2012
I have tried anal and didn't like it at all. My boyfriend isn't fussed as he prefers other activities but I just found it really painful and am in no hurry to try it again! Just me though, I have girlfriends that love it and ones that hate it too x
Lisa W

Brooklyn, NY

#12 Sep 3, 2012
Unusual desires wrote:
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Your bf is a lucky guy to have you :) how old are you?
I just became 18 one month ago. My BF is the first one I really love. Im sure we will be getting serious soon. So far its been feeling up and oral but no sex yet. I am feeling sooo ready to experience full sex. He is great. He said I am the most beautiful girl ever. I do love hearing that,LOL. He said he is lucky he met me. I feel the same.
Objective

Montgomery, AL

#15 Sep 3, 2012
Lap Girl wrote:
The only thing my husband loved about anal sex was how much it was getting me off. He said it never felt as good as intercource. But to make me so excited, out of my mind excited made him crazy/
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When you were having anal did it feel like there was an area the anal canal was putting pressure on that was triggering the orgasms? There's an area called the Pouch of Douglas (also known as the cul de sac)that is located inbetween the posterior wall of the vagina and the anal canal. During vaginal intercourse some women can orgasm from a guy's penis pushing the vagina's posterior wall to the point in which it makes contact with the cul de sac. During vaginal intercourse it requires the guy's penis be long enough, the position be right, and the tunnel part of her vagina that leads to the other side of her cervix/posterior fornix area not be too narrow to get through. A guy's penis can be long enough but the tunnel part directly leading to the posterior fornix is just too restricted and his penis can't get through with some women. In general doggy can be a position that can helps direct the penis in the best angle for this. It looks to me like it may also be possible to make contact with the cul de sac via the anal canal and may not requite as much penis length, in case the woman's vaginal canal at the posterior fornix wasn't too restricted and a guy just didn't have enough length to reach it via the viagia.
Bump

Benton, KY

#18 Sep 3, 2012
My wife enjoys anal sex, we usually have it when she is on her period. After she had our kid we did it that way until she could resume vaginal activity
Becky125

Bournemouth, UK

#19 Sep 4, 2012
Hey umm I'm really curious about anal play. The only problem is I have a form of OCD and a slight phobia of stupidity, which means I like to make sure my body is perfect for my partner. My boyfriend is away to another country for a while and I would like to fulfil his fantasy (anal play- he's curious about it too) is there any advice from those experienced that I could get so I can get rid of my anxiety and know that I'm ready for him and not feel dirty? He treats me amazingly (in the bedroom and out) so I would really appreciate any tips that would make the experience even better for him. Oh, and he has a rather big member :s
Bump

Benton, KY

#20 Sep 4, 2012
Becky125 wrote:
Hey umm I'm really curious about anal play. The only problem is I have a form of OCD and a slight phobia of stupidity, which means I like to make sure my body is perfect for my partner. My boyfriend is away to another country for a while and I would like to fulfil his fantasy (anal play- he's curious about it too) is there any advice from those experienced that I could get so I can get rid of my anxiety and know that I'm ready for him and not feel dirty? He treats me amazingly (in the bedroom and out) so I would really appreciate any tips that would make the experience even better for him. Oh, and he has a rather big member :s
try to learn to relax, try to make sure you have had a bowel movement, use lots of lube, and go slow. you might try being on top for the first time that way you can control the insertion. try playing alone with a toy

Since: Aug 11

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#21 Sep 4, 2012
Becky125 wrote:
Hey umm I'm really curious about anal play. The only problem is I have a form of OCD and a slight phobia of stupidity, which means I like to make sure my body is perfect for my partner. My boyfriend is away to another country for a while and I would like to fulfil his fantasy (anal play- he's curious about it too) is there any advice from those experienced that I could get so I can get rid of my anxiety and know that I'm ready for him and not feel dirty? He treats me amazingly (in the bedroom and out) so I would really appreciate any tips that would make the experience even better for him. Oh, and he has a rather big member :s
Relax yourself, a lot of lubrication and start out with him fingering you. Take it slow and it can be a very pleasurable experience. Good luck!!:)
Becky125

Bournemouth, UK

#22 Sep 4, 2012
Bump wrote:
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try to learn to relax, try to make sure you have had a bowel movement, use lots of lube, and go slow. you might try being on top for the first time that way you can control the insertion. try playing alone with a toy
Thanks. I have attempted anal before but because of my anxiety I couldn't relax. However I'm determined to try this with my partner. Unfortunately I live in a small house with lots of people, so hiding a toy and finding privacy to use it is a problem :(
James

Austin, TX

#23 Sep 4, 2012
Lisa W wrote:
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I cant know for sure if I will like it becuz Im still a virgin.
I do have a very small toy I use for pleasure and Ive put it in my ass many times and like the way it feels. Its only like half the size & thickness of a penis tho. One thing I do know is I am going to try it and I cant get pregnant that way. I love when my BF ddoes oral on me in that area so my ass is sensative to sex. I dont like the stuff I read about the pill. I am looking for a natural family planning method which I hear exists. I just need to find it.
Lisa, just to clarify, but when your boyfriend does oral on your ass, is he just kissing and licking your ass cheeks, or is he actually giving you a rimjob? Just couldn't tell from your description. Also, I'd heard that giving a rimjob can make the person who's giving it sick because of the bacteria that can be back there, so I didn't know if that was safe or not.
Lisa W

Brooklyn, NY

#25 Sep 4, 2012
James wrote:
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Lisa, just to clarify, but when your boyfriend does oral on your ass, is he just kissing and licking your ass cheeks, or is he actually giving you a rimjob? Just couldn't tell from your description. Also, I'd heard that giving a rimjob can make the person who's giving it sick because of the bacteria that can be back there, so I didn't know if that was safe or not.
He likes me to be on my knees and hands so Im all open to see. It turns him on a lot. I am very careful to be clean about myself and even more if we R seing each other. I still feel its not a good thing to do. I try to close my butt cheeks when he tries to lick me right in the a hole. He is more into my other area. I can feel his nose at my ass as he does. I wonder if I have any oder there? I cant ask but he never said anything except I smell good all over. Thats totally great.
Tell The Truth

Japan

#26 Sep 7, 2012
laura wrote:
I have tried anal and didn't like it at all. My boyfriend isn't fussed as he prefers other activities but I just found it really painful and am in no hurry to try it again! Just me though, I have girlfriends that love it and ones that hate it too x
A lot of times, when women say they don't like anal, they tried it once and completely didn't know what they are doing.

If you are going to try anal, like try it properly and do it for a while. Like give it a serious try for 1 or 2 weeks.

It's like vaginal sex. Imagine if a woman didn't have a good experience the first time and completely gave up on vaginal sex. Everyone would call her a fool to give up so quickly.
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