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Wichita, KS

#1 May 19, 2009
I was wondering what girls think about guys getting a boner while grinding with you. I know that at school dances I have been grinding with a girl and I started to get a boner so I kind of walked away, and the girl looked at me like her feelings were hurt or something. Now she doesn't act nice to me at school.

I wish I knew if it was okay to keep grinding with a girl when you get a boner, so I don't have to leave a girl upset, just because I got too happy.

Wichita, KS

#2 May 19, 2009
I am wondering if anyone has any personal experiences while "grinding" at dances and boners.

Wichita, KS

#3 May 19, 2009
I really need to know, please respond.

Boulder, CO

#4 May 19, 2009
i have no clue probably depends on the lady. I would keep doing it and if it bothers her she will stop you.

Since: Nov 08

Williston, ND

#5 May 19, 2009
I asked this question many years ago on another forum and the females' answer was as follows: If they like the guy/think he is cute, they enjoy the fact that he is getting a boner. However, if they aren't feeling him like that, then they are kind've creeped out by it. Just keep doing it next time. If the girl doesn't like it, she'll just either stop dancing or just start dancing really corny without moving her ass. However, if she keeps dancing, you're in there like swimwear.

Marion, KS

#6 May 19, 2009
Awesome, this is what I heard elsewhere. I am going to a huge dance party this weekend with a lot of girls that I have never met. I always wondered this, now I know.

Now I have to go back and think of all the great grinds I stopped because of my boner, hahaha.

Richmond, VA

#7 May 29, 2009
It depends. If its like a close friend, or someone you dont know as well or someone who isnt into you, I could see it being really uncomfortable. However, someone who you have dated, or someone who is really into you, they would take it as a compliment.

Personally, I think there is no better compliment! Its hot.

Monroeville, AL

#8 Jun 12, 2009
Years ago, at a dance, I was dancing with this guy I had seen around. We were grinding to a fast pace song, and.....he got really hard. I've heard stories of people saying they laughed at the guy. I didn't, I thought it was awesome. ^_^ I think he knew that I knew.
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Oak Harbor, WA

#9 Jun 12, 2009
i like grinding on my boyfriend naked when im naked and he gets hard and then its like his c*ck is practically in my p*ssy

Hartford, CT

#10 Jun 22, 2009
Kissy260 wrote:
i like grinding on my boyfriend naked when im naked and he gets hard and then its like his c*ck is practically in my p*ssy
That's hot Kissy260!

Canyon Lake, TX

#11 Mar 21, 2011
I like it cuz then he'll secretly pull his penis out and bang me if I'm wearing a skirt

Santa Clara, CA

#12 Mar 22, 2011
Jojo wrote:
I like it cuz then he'll secretly pull his penis out and bang me if I'm wearing a skirt
I would do that at a party or a club but not at a school dance. Too risky. Getting expelled isnt wort it when u can just go the car after the dance.

Manchester, UK

#14 Oct 29, 2011
Rebecca wrote:
I like it. But sometimes it's a little awkward. Story time! I was at a club dancing with my friends & a random guy started grinding with me. I didn't mind at first because he was hot. Then I felt his boner. It was a little weird. I took it as a compliment and started grinding harder. Next thing I knew, I was at his place...
ha go rebecca!:P

thats pretty hot..

Since: Sep 11

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#15 Oct 29, 2011
I like that just means the guy likes the way you feel against him I think it's a complement if the girl doesnt like it she will walk away

Guelph, Canada

#16 Nov 5, 2011
I need help. I've been to a few parties and I need a GIRLS opinion. If I were to get a boner while grinding what would you think... Please consider the age. I really want to know.
I think I'm kinda flirty and I'm not bad looking. I think I'm a high(er) middle class looking person, and I only grind and slow dance with people I've met, firtted with, and joked with already to get them compfertable. I don't dance with people I know though. I find people to get to know them so we can have fun.
I just need to know if it's normally okay to get them
And in what circumstances it would be acceptable.
Could u through in a couple of points to get u guys(GIRLS) to dance.

Greensboro, NC

#17 Feb 3, 2012
Bonkers r normal

Meriden, CT

#18 Mar 29, 2012
Kissy260 wrote:
i like grinding on my boyfriend naked when im naked and he gets hard and then its like his c*ck is practically in my p*ssy
Did anyone ask about u being naked no they asked about getting a bonerr I think with clothes on u fu***n crack head bit*h

Hampton, NH

#19 May 23, 2012
i would take it as a compliment but then again it would be kinda awkward..depends on if u like the guy...but make just keep going next time and if she doesnt like it then shell walk away. you'll be fine. make sure its someone that if she did walk awaay it wouldnt be COMPLETLEY aawkward...

Muskegon, MI

#20 Jul 3, 2012
It depends on the girl and the you're still in school some girls are obviously still timid with their sexuality and of course will find it awkward when the guy gets wood while your dancing and even some girls as you grow up will find grinding gross but that doesn't mean all girls don't like it it depends on if shes into the guy if you have a boner and she isn't immediately walking away there's attraction there if the girl likes it you'll know it and it feels amazing to the girl when you pull her in tighter and grind harder just avoid jizzing a boner is fine but more than that is too much

Raleigh, NC

#21 Jul 26, 2012
Ive gotten a boner plenty of times from grinding. But most of the time (if I can) ill take them to the car afterwards and have sex with her. But I don't think it bothers her if she lets me do her later

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