My mther is trying to seduce me.

[GRADMAN]

I doubt that Will get any answer to my problem here but I don’t know where else to go.
I am a 22 year old graduate student and I live with my mother. I went to college in another city, but when I came home for gradschool, my mother wanted me to live with her. I was unsure why, as we are well off financially and I have a fellowship. But her house is luxurious and convenient.
Unfortunately I am afraid that I know why she wants me her. She was widowed about 10 years ago, and once she started to date, she proved to be as unlucky with men, as she was lucky with money. It was a string of Abusive Drunks, Fortune Hunters, and Philanderers, a few of which the Police or I had to throw out bodily.
About two years ago she gave up and apparently confines her sex life to a vibrator.
Since I moved in she has talked constantly about how the only decent men she ever knew were my father and I, and a few thinly veiled observations about her sexual frustrations.
She has always been open and affectionate, but lately she has crossed the mother-son line. She has a very extensive collection of lingerie, both elegant and slutty and doesn’t seem to mind my seeing and even staring at her in it. She has started leaving her bathroom door open and walking around with just a towel.
She kisses me frequently more like a lover than a mother, and seems to be aware of bulge in my pants.
I should mention that she is gorgeous and at 43 she looks much younger and people usually assume that she is an older sister or a young aunt, and lately people seem to think she is a “Cougar” and I am her “Boytoy”
I think that sooner or later she is going to invite me into her bed and I’m not sure that I won’t go.
Does anyone have any suggestions?

[Starilae]

GRADMAN wrote:

I doubt that Will get any answer to my problem here but I don’t know where else to go.
I am a 22 year old graduate student and I live with my mother. I went to college in another city, but when I came home for gradschool, my mother wanted me to live with her. I was unsure why, as we are well off financially and I have a fellowship. But her house is luxurious and convenient.
Unfortunately I am afraid that I know why she wants me her. She was widowed about 10 years ago, and once she started to date, she proved to be as unlucky with men, as she was lucky with money. It was a string of Abusive Drunks, Fortune Hunters, and Philanderers, a few of which the Police or I had to throw out bodily.
About two years ago she gave up and apparently confines her sex life to a vibrator.
Since I moved in she has talked constantly about how the only decent men she ever knew were my father and I, and a few thinly veiled observations about her sexual frustrations.
She has always been open and affectionate, but lately she has crossed the mother-son line. She has a very extensive collection of lingerie, both elegant and slutty and doesn’t seem to mind my seeing and even staring at her in it. She has started leaving her bathroom door open and walking around with just a towel.
She kisses me frequently more like a lover than a mother, and seems to be aware of bulge in my pants.
I should mention that she is gorgeous and at 43 she looks much younger and people usually assume that she is an older sister or a young aunt, and lately people seem to think she is a “Cougar” and I am her “Boytoy”
I think that sooner or later she is going to invite me into her bed and I’m not sure that I won’t go.
Does anyone have any suggestions?

Yeah.

I can't believe you got a bulge in you pants from your mom.

If your mom is turning you own, may I ask the last time you got laid by someone else besides your mother?

Are you married now, do you have kids? If you answered yes to either of those questions, then no, you shouldn't bang your mom.

Seriously though, you probably should never do your mom, at least for health reasons.

[GRADMAN]

Starilae wrote:

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Yeah.
I can't believe you got a bulge in you pants from your mom.
If your mom is turning you own, may I ask the last time you got laid by someone else besides your mother?
Are you married now, do you have kids? If you answered yes to either of those questions, then no, you shouldn't bang your mom.
Seriously though, you probably should never do your mom, at least for health reasons.

I am not married, I have no children, and I had sex this afternoon, and why do you think I am stupid enough to get her pregnant. I assume thats what you meant by "Health" She had her tubes tied years ago.

[bigee]

GRADMAN wrote:

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I am not married, I have no children, and I had sex this afternoon, and why do you think I am stupid enough to get her pregnant. I assume thats what you meant by "Health" She had her tubes tied years ago.

gradman, when you said, "you had sex this afternoon" I'm assuming it WAS NOT WITH YOUR MOM - is that a correct assumption?
So if you are getting some outside the home - your issues is what to do about mom, who seems to be seducing you to have sex with her.
If you don't want to have sex with mom, DO NOT! and tell her so and be strong.
If you are thinking about having sex with mom, KNOW THERE MOST LIKELY WILL BE COMPLICATIONS - legal from society and emotional if you two eventually want to have relationships with others.
Its a tough decision.
[personally I love a woman in lingerie and I probably would try your mom if you pass her up]

[Gary]

GRADMAN wrote:

I doubt that Will get any answer to my problem here but I don’t know where else to go.
I am a 22 year old graduate student and I live with my mother. I went to college in another city, but when I came home for gradschool, my mother wanted me to live with her. I was unsure why, as we are well off financially and I have a fellowship. But her house is luxurious and convenient.
Unfortunately I am afraid that I know why she wants me her. She was widowed about 10 years ago, and once she started to date, she proved to be as unlucky with men, as she was lucky with money. It was a string of Abusive Drunks, Fortune Hunters, and Philanderers, a few of which the Police or I had to throw out bodily.
About two years ago she gave up and apparently confines her sex life to a vibrator.
Since I moved in she has talked constantly about how the only decent men she ever knew were my father and I, and a few thinly veiled observations about her sexual frustrations.
She has always been open and affectionate, but lately she has crossed the mother-son line. She has a very extensive collection of lingerie, both elegant and slutty and doesn’t seem to mind my seeing and even staring at her in it. She has started leaving her bathroom door open and walking around with just a towel.
She kisses me frequently more like a lover than a mother, and seems to be aware of bulge in my pants.
I should mention that she is gorgeous and at 43 she looks much younger and people usually assume that she is an older sister or a young aunt, and lately people seem to think she is a “Cougar” and I am her “Boytoy”
I think that sooner or later she is going to invite me into her bed and I’m not sure that I won’t go.
Does anyone have any suggestions?

How about leaving your e-mail address ? Is she hinting to you anything or showing you alot more skin ? Any touching ?

[Heywood Jablowme]

Whats a mther ???

Dumbass !!!

[Its Tim]

GRADMAN, do you want this to happen? To have a sexual relationship with your mother? It sounds as if you're pretty open minded to the possibility.
If this is something you do not want to happen, then I advise sitting your mother down and having a talk with her about the affection and exhibition she displays BEFORE she make any further moves that put you in a position to reject her.
If this is something you DO want to happen, then I can only say that you're both adults and whatever the two of you choose to share together is your choice and your business. I see nothing wrong with it whatsoever. You've admitted to becoming aroused by her and the fact that you may not say turn her down if she invites you to bed. Seems like you desire her too. So why not? I'm sure it would be a beautiful experience for you both, so let yourself be more receptive to her overtures and see where she takes it!
Good luck.

[zack]

bigee wrote:

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gradman, when you said, "you had sex this afternoon" I'm assuming it WAS NOT WITH YOUR MOM - is that a correct assumption?
So if you are getting some outside the home - your issues is what to do about mom, who seems to be seducing you to have sex with her.
If you don't want to have sex with mom, DO NOT! and tell her so and be strong.
If you are thinking about having sex with mom, KNOW THERE MOST LIKELY WILL BE COMPLICATIONS - legal from society and emotional if you two eventually want to have relationships with others.
Its a tough decision.
[personally I love a woman in lingerie and I probably would try your mom if you pass her up]

The sex was with an older lady (age39) how likes ucomplicated sex with younger guys. I have always been attracted to older women, in in ingerie when I can get them to take me seriously.(My mother is aware of this).

[GRADMAN]

Oops! Zack is GRADMAN

[GRADMAN]

Gary wrote:

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How about leaving your e-mail address ? Is she hinting to you anything or showing you alot more skin ? Any touching ?

My e-mail is [e-mail]

[GRADMAN]

Its Tim wrote:

GRADMAN, do you want this to happen? To have a sexual relationship with your mother? It sounds as if you're pretty open minded to the possibility.
If this is something you do not want to happen, then I advise sitting your mother down and having a talk with her about the affection and exhibition she displays BEFORE she make any further moves that put you in a position to reject her.
If this is something you DO want to happen, then I can only say that you're both adults and whatever the two of you choose to share together is your choice and your business. I see nothing wrong with it whatsoever. You've admitted to becoming aroused by her and the fact that you may not say turn her down if she invites you to bed. Seems like you desire her too. So why not? I'm sure it would be a beautiful experience for you both, so let yourself be more receptive to her overtures and see where she takes it!
Good luck.

I do find her incredible desirable, but you can appreciate the conflict in my mind. The taboo is very deeepseated, even though the supposed reason for it doesn't apply, as she won't get pregnant. I also worry about the consequences for her, if i'm simply taking advantage of her. Also I have to admit that I'm curious how far she will go before she does anythng overt.

[bigee]

GRADMAN wrote:

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I do find her incredible desirable, but you can appreciate the conflict in my mind. The taboo is very deeepseated, even though the supposed reason for it doesn't apply, as she won't get pregnant. I also worry about the consequences for her, if i'm simply taking advantage of her. Also I have to admit that I'm curious how far she will go before she does anythng overt.

GRADMAN,
I understand your 2 issues:
You find her incredibly desirable and
You have the deep seated taboo in your mind.

One piece of good advice you got in a previous message was to sit down and talk with her. COMMUNICATE! You can tell her how you feel. You can tell her about your conflicts. You can tell her how much you are concerned for her and not wanting to take advantage of her. All that may make her appreciate you all the more.

Or you can bring home the DVD of The Graduate where the college grad is seduced by his girlfriend’s mother into an affair of a few times. Then you can ask her what she thinks about that situation. Not mother and son, but close. Maybe the movie can bring you to the point of open discussion?

[GRADMAN]

bigee wrote:

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GRADMAN,
I understand your 2 issues:
You find her incredibly desirable and
You have the deep seated taboo in your mind.
One piece of good advice you got in a previous message was to sit down and talk with her. COMMUNICATE! You can tell her how you feel. You can tell her about your conflicts. You can tell her how much you are concerned for her and not wanting to take advantage of her. All that may make her appreciate you all the more.
Or you can bring home the DVD of The Graduate where the college grad is seduced by his girlfriend’s mother into an affair of a few times. Then you can ask her what she thinks about that situation. Not mother and son, but close. Maybe the movie can bring you to the point of open discussion?

We have both seen "The Graduate" and it doesn't address our situation. She thought that the young man older woman thing was fine. it was the adultery thing that bothered her, and more importantly it doesn't address the big problem. I'm convinced that I wouldnt have any problem personally, I'm just not sure she has thought the whole thing out.
We went to dinner and a concert tonght, and she had mentioned buying a new red satin dress. She was getting ready to go out when she called me to her bedrom to "help" her. She was wearing a White Old fashoned Corset, complete with garters, and matching bra. She showed me how to lace her up, I'm not sure how I managed it with tht bar of "toolsteel" in my pants. I noticed the label on the corset and discovered that it was expensive and custom made in England. She had to have ordered it some time ago. neeedless to say we attracted a lot of attention at the restaurant andd theatre.

[bigee]

GRADMAN wrote:

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We have both seen "The Graduate" and it doesn't address our situation. She thought that the young man older woman thing was fine. it was the adultery thing that bothered her, and more importantly it doesn't address the big problem. I'm convinced that I wouldnt have any problem personally, I'm just not sure she has thought the whole thing out.
We went to dinner and a concert tonght, and she had mentioned buying a new red satin dress. She was getting ready to go out when she called me to her bedrom to "help" her. She was wearing a White Old fashoned Corset, complete with garters, and matching bra. She showed me how to lace her up, I'm not sure how I managed it with tht bar of "toolsteel" in my pants. I noticed the label on the corset and discovered that it was expensive and custom made in England. She had to have ordered it some time ago. neeedless to say we attracted a lot of attention at the restaurant andd theatre.

Without a doubt - you have self control my man.
I would not have been able to resist some caresses along the way of lacing her up and feeling those bare thighs above the stocking tops - you know getting my hand in under the garter straps.
But if I were able to resist the lace up part sufficiently to make it to concert and dinner, I would certainly know what she was wearing under her clothes and I would have to mention the custom nature of the corset and ask more about her lingerie collection and how it makes her feel. There would be no chat upon arriving home for me - I would go help her unlace (but not all the way) and have her in her undies and stockings prancing around the bedroom before our love making.
Good for you to be so restrained.

[Its Tim]

GRADMAN wrote:

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I do find her incredible desirable, but you can appreciate the conflict in my mind. The taboo is very deeepseated, even though the supposed reason for it doesn't apply, as she won't get pregnant. I also worry about the consequences for her, if i'm simply taking advantage of her. Also I have to admit that I'm curious how far she will go before she does anythng overt.

I do understand your situation and your feelings. It can be a difficult process to decondition yourself of societal standards and taboos. Overcoming them to establish yourself as a free-thinking individual takes effort.

You can either let things continue as they are and deal with them if/when they come to a head, or you can act proactively and sit down with her to discuss both your feelings. The choice is yours.

[GRADMAN]

bigee wrote:

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Without a doubt - you have self control my man.
I would not have been able to resist some caresses along the way of lacing her up and feeling those bare thighs above the stocking tops - you know getting my hand in under the garter straps.
But if I were able to resist the lace up part sufficiently to make it to concert and dinner, I would certainly know what she was wearing under her clothes and I would have to mention the custom nature of the corset and ask more about her lingerie collection and how it makes her feel. There would be no chat upon arriving home for me - I would go help her unlace (but not all the way) and have her in her undies and stockings prancing around the bedroom before our love making.
Good for you to be so restrained.

This is the third time i've tred to post this

My mother is gone for the day, but I am going to resolve this tonight one way or another.
if anyone has any ideas I would be happy to hear them.
I loved you idea about her prancing around in the corsetand stockings

[ghn]

It's obvious you're attracted to her, so why not just go with it? You'd be two consenting adults, and she can't get pregnant, so there's no problem. The taboo is just a cultural thing, but you're not bound by that. You have the freedom to do what consenting adults wish to do.

[Mark]

ghn wrote:

It's obvious you're attracted to her, so why not just go with it? You'd be two consenting adults, and she can't get pregnant, so there's no problem. The taboo is just a cultural thing, but you're not bound by that. You have the freedom to do what consenting adults wish to do.

Would you or have you tried hitting on her or tried anythign yet ?

[Mark]

Mark wrote:

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Would you or have you tried hitting on her or tried anythign yet ?

Hi incest GARY how have you been

[Mark]

Mark wrote:

<quoted text>Hi incest GARY how have you been

I see what Gary means about you . You go after anybody with AOL . But then the COWARD as he puts it fits you . Why are you in all the incest threads yourself and he put it changing your names so many times , COWARD !