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“What's ur fav flavor pie?”

Since: Dec 07

Home is where the heart is.

#1 Dec 29, 2007
I live in India and I've had my boobs grabbed or poked by strangers about 10 times now, this being my 5th year here.(That makes it twice a year. LOL.) When I was in my early teens, it used to bug me for hours, but now it's traumatic for about 30 minutes. But what should I do?

I admit that my clothes are a little tight, not too tight for Bangalore since I'm generally as covered, if not more, than other girls, n I never show cleavage.

I doubt too many other girls have this prob here since they drive around in cars and usually hang out in groups. But I on the other hand, walk down for small errands (to the veggie store and the guy thumbs into me).

I'm trying to keep in mind that back in the US this would be sexual harassment, but that's something almost commonplace here.

“What's ur fav flavor pie?”

Since: Dec 07

Home is where the heart is.

#2 Dec 29, 2007
No one has anything to say?

“A T-Girl in Progress”

Since: Dec 07

St. Cloud, Florida

#3 Dec 29, 2007
It happened to me once when I fell asleep on a long bus trip. For me it was welcome and I just pretended to still be asleep and let it continue for awhile...

If it is unwelcome but "normal" and expected in your society, all I can suggest is that you avoid crowds and wear layers of clothing.

-Shay
Kenny

United States

#4 Dec 29, 2007
The some of my bros friends at school know i like guys and slap/grab my butt all time. course i like it and grab them back usually i go for their dick instead of their butts.

“What's ur fav flavor pie?”

Since: Dec 07

Home is where the heart is.

#5 Dec 29, 2007
Kenny wrote:
The some of my bros friends at school know i like guys and slap/grab my butt all time. course i like it and grab them back usually i go for their dick instead of their butts.
Ur serious? That's still different from a complete stranger. Plus you enjoy it - I dont't.
Kwashi

Canada

#6 Dec 29, 2007
Kwashi wrote:
I live in India and I've had my boobs grabbed or poked by strangers about 10 times now, this being my 5th year here.(That makes it twice a year. LOL.) When I was in my early teens, it used to bug me for hours, but now it's traumatic for about 30 minutes. But what should I do?
I admit that my clothes are a little tight, not too tight for Bangalore since I'm generally as covered, if not more, than other girls, n I never show cleavage.
I doubt too many other girls have this prob here since they drive around in cars and usually hang out in groups. But I on the other hand, walk down for small errands (to the veggie store and the guy thumbs into me).
I'm trying to keep in mind that back in the US this would be sexual harassment, but that's something almost commonplace here.
HI Kwashi,

just so you know, TOPIX is a different sort of place than a normal chat site because there is no direct interaction. SOmeone might respond in 5 minutes, other times your comments go unnoticed for hours or days, or some of your comments might never receive a response.

your comment intrigues me. I gather you lived somewhere else (England or USA?) before? HOw did that come to be that you are now in India?

I live in Canada in a city with a very high proportion of chinese and Indians .. combined they make up nearly 40% of the population here.

In regards to your question, this brings me back to my teenage days.

I have to be honest, when I was about 13 or 14 I was the typical curious teenager. My brother and I used to seek out ways in which we could get a peek down a girl's shirt, and when we were on a very crowded bus standing next to an attractive woman, we would position ourselves so that our bodies made contact whenver the bus bounced around. If we made contact with the butt or breasts, we'd give each other knowing looks. We though that the woman would think it was just an accident.

After doing this for a while we noticed that some women moved away or even got off the bus if it hapened for more than a few minutes, while other women seemed excited by this .. their nipples would get erect.

we never openly grabbed ... doinG it "secretly" was thE skill anD the thrill.

HOwever, by the time we were 16 we realized we coulD get into trouble if the woman suspected it was on purpose, and the thrill was pretty much gone anyhow because by then we had already had real sex wiTH a giRl by then.

NOw as an adult and with MY own daughters, I think back to how uncomfortable we might have made some women feel by doing this.
Franko

Canada

#7 Dec 29, 2007
ooops ... sorry about the mistake on the name above ... I had intened to type your name as the start of my comment but I did not relaize the cursor was in the name field when I typed it ...

WHen I posted the comment I saw my mistake ...

sorry again.

Since: Oct 07

Canada

#8 Dec 29, 2007
isn't this frotteurism? i have had it happen on buses and subways mainly, I agree that it is unwelcome most of the time but i think that is the reason people do it!
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HHC

Since: Dec 07

Location hidden

#9 Dec 29, 2007
Kwashi wrote:
I live in India and I've had my boobs grabbed or poked by strangers about 10 times now, this being my 5th year here.(That makes it twice a year. LOL.) When I was in my early teens, it used to bug me for hours, but now it's traumatic for about 30 minutes. But what should I do?
I admit that my clothes are a little tight, not too tight for Bangalore since I'm generally as covered, if not more, than other girls, n I never show cleavage.
I doubt too many other girls have this prob here since they drive around in cars and usually hang out in groups. But I on the other hand, walk down for small errands (to the veggie store and the guy thumbs into me).
I'm trying to keep in mind that back in the US this would be sexual harassment, but that's something almost commonplace here.
I guess it would depend where you live, but, I would never let anyone touch me that I didn't want to touch me. I have encountered this problem in Chicago on the transit and a few times I have pushed people off me, or just moved to a different location. One time I even smacked a guy for rubbing his penis on my ass. So, I guess it depends on how you want to handle it.

“What's ur fav flavor pie?”

Since: Dec 07

Home is where the heart is.

#10 Dec 29, 2007
Kwashi wrote:
<quoted text>I gather you lived somewhere else (England or USA?) before? HOw did that come to be that you are now in India?
Hey Franko. NP bout the mistake. I'm in India cuz I'm an Indian citizen and my dad couldn't get a green card for some reason or the other back when we were in the States. But after living here for nearly 5 years, I've been influenced from people all over the world - but esp Europe. That's from my school and my friends (not in school)

I'm pretty easy going in a way, and hearing your story makes me smile - but it's true that I find it pretty nasty.

Late one night when I wasn't accustomed to this place yet, I'd returned in an auto rickshaw and the driver openly grabbed at my tits. That was just nasty. I just swore and kicked at his vehicle as he rode off and I ran home. There wasn't much I could do - I was 13 then. I felt horrid for the whole night and next day. And it pissed me off to think about it for a month after.
He had dirty hands and I had fingerprints on my top.:( I had to wash it off myself so that my mom wouldn't find out. After all, I would've been punished cuz I was the one out late. Luckily enough I remember that night my parents didn't yell at me.
Franko

Canada

#11 Dec 29, 2007
genevieve wrote:
isn't this frotteurism? i have had it happen on buses and subways mainly, I agree that it is unwelcome most of the time but i think that is the reason people do it!
I did not know there was a technical name ... you learn something new every day .. LOL!!!

As I said, by 15 I had pretty much stopped doing this.

“What's ur fav flavor pie?”

Since: Dec 07

Home is where the heart is.

#12 Dec 29, 2007
HHC wrote:
<quoted text>
I guess it would depend where you live, but, I would never let anyone touch me that I didn't want to touch me. I have encountered this problem in Chicago on the transit and a few times I have pushed people off me, or just moved to a different location. One time I even smacked a guy for rubbing his penis on my ass. So, I guess it depends on how you want to handle it.
But what if it's someone who you might have to be around every now and then? And even if I don't go there - which I'll feel really ashamed about since it'll be out in the open that I knew what had happened - how do I explain to my friends that he did this to me? And should I?

I live at my friend's house with his mom and dad. They're Russian, but they've gone to Israel for a few days. This happened to me today - but I'll find it hard to let his mom know what happened to me. She usually goes there to buy the veggies too.
Wise Owl

Perpignan, France

#13 Dec 29, 2007
Kwashi, from your picture you are a gorgeous Women,
you said in your first post that you have been touched up since you were 13, just go with the flow and enjoy it, I am sure a lot of the plainer women wish they were as attractive as you and got touched up.
Franko

Canada

#14 Dec 29, 2007
Kwashi wrote:
<quoted text>
Hey Franko. NP bout the mistake. I'm in India cuz I'm an Indian citizen and my dad couldn't get a green card for some reason or the other back when we were in the States. But after living here for nearly 5 years, I've been influenced from people all over the world - but esp Europe. That's from my school and my friends (not in school)
I'm pretty easy going in a way, and hearing your story makes me smile - but it's true that I find it pretty nasty.
Late one night when I wasn't accustomed to this place yet, I'd returned in an auto rickshaw and the driver openly grabbed at my tits. That was just nasty. I just swore and kicked at his vehicle as he rode off and I ran home. There wasn't much I could do - I was 13 then. I felt horrid for the whole night and next day. And it pissed me off to think about it for a month after.
He had dirty hands and I had fingerprints on my top.:( I had to wash it off myself so that my mom wouldn't find out. After all, I would've been punished cuz I was the one out late. Luckily enough I remember that night my parents didn't yell at me.
OK, glad it's OK with you. THese sort of mishaps tend to happen in TOPIX if you don't use a registered name. I have one but I am sometimes lazy to log in.

I gather from what you have said you are stil under 20 years old right now?

COming from an Indian fmaily, and you saying you have had some sexual experience, do you keep this secret from your parents?
Franko

Canada

#15 Dec 29, 2007
Wise Owl wrote:
Kwashi, from your picture you are a gorgeous Women,
you said in your first post that you have been touched up since you were 13, just go with the flow and enjoy it, I am sure a lot of the plainer women wish they were as attractive as you and got touched up.
This is a stupid point of view. YOu are certainly not as wise as you think.

Even an unattractive woman should not be so desparate for a bit of attention that she will accept or even welcome a touch in a private spot from a total stranger...

I learned this when I was only 15 ... how old are you?
HHC

Since: Dec 07

Location hidden

#16 Dec 29, 2007
Kwashi wrote:
<quoted text>
But what if it's someone who you might have to be around every now and then? And even if I don't go there - which I'll feel really ashamed about since it'll be out in the open that I knew what had happened - how do I explain to my friends that he did this to me? And should I?
I live at my friend's house with his mom and dad. They're Russian, but they've gone to Israel for a few days. This happened to me today - but I'll find it hard to let his mom know what happened to me. She usually goes there to buy the veggies too.
If you don't want him to touch you, you tell him not to touch you. Also tell him you will have to tell his mom if he does it again. If a woman says no, it means, no. He needs to know that you are uncomfortable about being touched in such a manner. If you feel you need to talk to your friends about it, then do it. If you feel this bad about it. Not only that, if something more serious happens, you will need the support of your friends. I hope this helped.
HHC

Since: Dec 07

Location hidden

#17 Dec 29, 2007
Wise Owl wrote:
Kwashi, from your picture you are a gorgeous Women,
you said in your first post that you have been touched up since you were 13, just go with the flow and enjoy it, I am sure a lot of the plainer women wish they were as attractive as you and got touched up.
This woman evidently feels uncomfortable being fondled by strangers. What gives you the right or any other male the right to touch a woman because she is attractive? Just because she is attractive does not mean she wants slimy hands placed upon her. She should not go with the flow and ignore it. What horrible advice you gave.
Wise Owl

Perpignan, France

#18 Dec 29, 2007
HHC wrote:
<quoted text>
This woman evidently feels uncomfortable being fondled by strangers. What gives you the right or any other male the right to touch a woman because she is attractive? Just because she is attractive does not mean she wants slimy hands placed upon her. She should not go with the flow and ignore it. What horrible advice you gave.
Be real! read her other posts before you criticise me.

“God Is Love”

Since: Dec 07

Washington DC

#19 Dec 29, 2007
omg, I feel horrible if a guy just looks as though he's undressing me with his eye's. Are there any rules regarding this in India? are you originally from there? and has it always been that way?

If guys did that in USA they would get hit with a purse by the women they are trying to feel on! lol.

Awww, Well I say next time they try and do that to you. Speak up and ask them how they would feel if a women just grabbed their package. They would feel ashamed then; at least I hope.

God Bless,
Destiny
HHC

Since: Dec 07

Location hidden

#20 Dec 29, 2007
Wise Owl wrote:
<quoted text>
Be real! read her other posts before you criticise me.
I think you need to re-read her posts.

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