“For a better day”

Since: Dec 08

Hollis, NY

#1 Dec 28, 2008
I'm an Asian Guy, and I'm having trouble choosing between a White Girl and an Asian Girl. I found both to be attractive. However, my parents would want me to marry an Asian women, but i don't have to obey. Just having hard time choosing.

Recently, i came across a few websites containing footage of Asians being stereotyped in public, particularly for Asian males. We were portrayed as nerdy, less masculine, or knows Kung-Fu fighting. Personally, I don't fit in any of these categories, nor the myth that's been going around for decades. I really need help possibly from a white girl: "does the white girls think about the stereotypes when they see a Asian guy on the street??? If i do go out with a her, Would she able to handle the pressure from her friends judging her?? Even if she and I both knows the myth of Asian males is merely a lie.

Considering Asian Women is more understanding of my background, except the Blond hair and blue eyes???
RShen

San Francisco, CA

#2 Jun 7, 2010
This is my advice to you: go for whoever you like!!! My parents also wanted me to marry an asian women, and what did I do? I married a blond. Do I care what my parents says? NOOO. This is America, and there is such thing as freedom. And besides, I'm more educated, hold a better job and make more money than my parents. Revolt dude!!! Oh one more thing, go for the smart ones. I dated engineers, bio/chem majors and married a Medical Doctor. Yes, the smart ones, and don't be intimated by them. They are much more open to Asian guys. Hope this help.
Beth

Saint Paul, MN

#3 Jun 7, 2010
RShen wrote:
This is my advice to you: go for whoever you like!!! My parents also wanted me to marry an asian women, and what did I do? I married a blond. Do I care what my parents says? NOOO. This is America, and there is such thing as freedom. And besides, I'm more educated, hold a better job and make more money than my parents. Revolt dude!!! Oh one more thing, go for the smart ones. I dated engineers, bio/chem majors and married a Medical Doctor. Yes, the smart ones, and don't be intimated by them. They are much more open to Asian guys. Hope this help.
You rebel!
bvhjnkl

Rafah, Egypt

#4 Jun 7, 2010
asian are self haters and racist
RShen

San Francisco, CA

#5 Jun 8, 2010
bvhjnkl wrote:
asian are self haters and racist
I thought Muslims are the racist ones!
Bill Smith

Saint Paul, MN

#6 Jun 8, 2010
RShen wrote:
This is my advice to you: go for whoever you like!!! My parents also wanted me to marry an asian women, and what did I do? I married a blond. Do I care what my parents says? NOOO. This is America, and there is such thing as freedom. And besides, I'm more educated, hold a better job and make more money than my parents. Revolt dude!!! Oh one more thing, go for the smart ones. I dated engineers, bio/chem majors and married a Medical Doctor. Yes, the smart ones, and don't be intimated by them. They are much more open to Asian guys. Hope this help.
You wnet all the way back to dec 2008 to find this, again where is your fake white wife? You little babysitter.
RSen

Saint Paul, MN

#7 Jun 8, 2010
RShen wrote:
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I thought Asian are the racist ones!
Yea we Asains are racist.
RShen

San Francisco, CA

#8 Jun 8, 2010
RSen wrote:
<quoted text>Yea we Whites are descendants of the devil and racist. Call us white devils.
If you quote me, at least quote me correctly
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RShen

San Francisco, CA

#9 Jun 8, 2010
Bill Smith wrote:
<quoted text>You wnet all the way back to dec 2008 to find this, again where is your fake white wife? You little babysitter.
Its you White trash, you found me. Should I call you white devil or white Satan like the Indian American does instead of white trash?

Lesson to you: equality is everything, as the world continue to get smaller, people will be forced to either accept others as equals or crow into a corner and eventually be wiped out.
R Shen Wife

Saint Paul, MN

#10 Jun 8, 2010
RShen wrote:
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Its you White trash, you found me. Should I call you white devil or white Satan like the Indian American does instead of white trash?
Lesson to you: equality is everything, as the world continue to get smaller, people will be forced to either accept others as equals or crow into a corner and eventually be wiped out.
You talk equality and call your own white wife white trash and white devil?
RShen

San Francisco, CA

#11 Jun 8, 2010
R Shen Wife wrote:
<quoted text>You talk equality and call your own white wife white trash and white devil?
The white trashy devil is pissed again. Good for you. Keep having children with your dog.
Bill Smith

Saint Paul, MN

#12 Jun 8, 2010
RShen wrote:
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The white trashy devil is pissed again. Good for you. Keep having children with your dog.
Little man I don't get pissed. Just kicking back drinking my beer looking at you calling the white race white trash and you claim to have a white wife? No little man you should not talk trash about her if she is real. And your a babbysitter? at your age ok nanny boy
Eric

San Francisco, CA

#13 Jul 7, 2011
I think you should follow your heart. Culturally your parents may prefer Asian women over any other race. But that is not their decision; it is yours.

As for me, my preference is in whites. I'm also Asian, but I find white women more attractive than Asians. But that is just my preference.

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