If you tell your wife you want to try bi, what will she do

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Feb 22, 2011
 
Do you think she will be turned on about it, or leave you. Or do you suggest a MFM 3 some to break the ice.

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Feb 23, 2011
 
My wife got turned on by it ! And she went out and found a bi guy for us . Now she gets to watch us and then gets 2 hard rocks and loves it !!

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Feb 23, 2011
 
My wife thought it was awesome. She was really surprised but loves watching:) but I told her just after we got together.
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Feb 23, 2011
 
I told my wife i would suck a guy off just to see her french kiss another woman...she didnt believe me...when i told her i wasnt kidding she said thats gross..i have since told her i have bi fantasies...shes kinda ok with it...but i really want a mmf and share him with her...shes not down with that at all...any other takers?

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Feb 23, 2011
 

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I believe any new relationship should start out with "If we are to continue this relationship we need to sit down and talk about what sort of relationship we both want."
Sure you stand a chance of never dating again, but in the long run you won't end up with someone you have to keep secrets from.
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marco wrote:
Do you think she will be turned on about it, or leave you. Or do you suggest a MFM 3 some to break the ice.
The word on the street is that your little wifey loves lickin the kitty cat if ya know what I mean!!! I also herd she purposely misses sometimes so she can lick the stink!!! So she licks the pink and oh yes then she licks the stink!!

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marco wrote:
Do you think she will be turned on about it, or leave you. Or do you suggest a MFM 3 some to break the ice.
Why did you MARRY your wife and hide your secrets? Not meaning to be harsh here but HONESTY from the beginning of a relationship is necessary. You suggest threesomes now and she will be devestated.
If you truly love her don't suggest threesomes to "break the ice". It would only be degrading and insulting to your wife. In my book couples marry till death do us part with the understanding that it will forever be you two and no one else.
Hope you respect her more than that. Man up and tell her the truth of your bisexuality. Don't try to involve her in it.

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Feb 23, 2011
 
i told mine . she told me if she found out she leave me didnt care if i cheated with
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Feb 23, 2011
 
It was not a secret. It was just evolution over time, maybe just to try something new. Do you really think that all couples discuss everyting they ever might consider. Maybe she has things she would find fun, but might feel it would cause a riff in the relationship. Should people simply never discuss any new things they might be willing to try?

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Feb 24, 2011
 
marco wrote:
It was not a secret. It was just evolution over time, maybe just to try something new. Do you really think that all couples discuss everyting they ever might consider. Maybe she has things she would find fun, but might feel it would cause a riff in the relationship. Should people simply never discuss any new things they might be willing to try?
Obviously on your first date you can't just haul out your box of whips, chains and chaps and say “Wanna see my toys?” You have to weave little hints into the conversation, but I am saying that you can get a clearer view of someone before letting things get too serious. As a few questions about how she feels about certain sexual lifestyles before you bring out the iron maiden or the ladies underwear you might like to wear on occasions.
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Feb 24, 2011
 
my ex laughed at me when i confessed that i secret bi fantasies

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Depends on your wife's feeling on the matter! Everyone is differant
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Feb 25, 2011
 
My g/f told me she knew that I had BI urges. She asked me if I would ever give another guy a BJ. I said maybe. She went and got our friends who are both bi and He and I exchanged BJ's.
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Feb 25, 2011
 
LetNatureHpn wrote:
<quoted text>Obviously on your first date you can't just haul out your box of whips, chains and chaps and say “Wanna see my toys?” You have to weave little hints into the conversation, but I am saying that you can get a clearer view of someone before letting things get too serious. As a few questions about how she feels about certain sexual lifestyles before you bring out the iron maiden or the ladies underwear you might like to wear on occasions.
I disagree. The first date is the best time to open up about your deepest darkest kinks. If (s)he's blown off by them and doesn't want anything to do with you again, you haven't lost anything. However, if (s)he's turned on, then you have someone to be a true playmate.
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Feb 25, 2011
 
But did she stay your girlfriend (or wife) after that? That is the big question.

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Feb 25, 2011
 
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I disagree. The first date is the best time to open up about your deepest darkest kinks. If (s)he's blown off by them and doesn't want anything to do with you again, you haven't lost anything. However, if (s)he's turned on, then you have someone to be a true playmate.
I agree with you. May as well lay all your cars out. If he or she storms out all you are out is the cost of dinner. Better yet make it at McDonalds. That way you dont' have to tip.
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Mar 8, 2011
 
At first she seemed to take it in stride, but over the next few months, she seemed a bit unsettled whenever jokes or situations came up. Then one night at the bar, she said she had to see how she felt with another guy. She left with him, and that was the end for us as she took up with him full time.
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Mar 22, 2011
 
Sometimes you are not aware of it when you first go out. It was years later when on we were joking around and she asked if I thought most guys did it at one time or another. I said I did not know, for sure, but probably more then admit to it. Then she asked if I would try it, and without thinking about it I said probably if I was hot enough. Turns out one of her girl friends found out that her husband had an email from a guy he gave a bj to, and was wondering if that meant he was gay, or if there was such a thing as bi?

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Mar 23, 2011
 
DeanD wrote:
Sometimes you are not aware of it when you first go out. It was years later when on we were joking around and she asked if I thought most guys did it at one time or another. I said I did not know, for sure, but probably more then admit to it. Then she asked if I would try it, and without thinking about it I said probably if I was hot enough. Turns out one of her girl friends found out that her husband had an email from a guy he gave a bj to, and was wondering if that meant he was gay, or if there was such a thing as bi?
Well back in the 80's gay community had a real love/hate relationship with the word bi. You see it was hard for a people who were only like ten years past Stone Wall and gays were the target of the aids controversy as well as the conservative movement called the Moral Majority which really was neither moral or a majority.
Gays were fighting for equality and felt the word bi was a copout. Plus neither side of the sexuality war could understand how someone could like both sexes because all each side ever knew was what they themselves identified as. I guess it was a lot like the relationship between the Jews and Blacks back in the 60’s.
The concept of both sexualities was so far out there that I think bisexuals may have even had just as hard a struggle as full out gays did and then women started getting aids which meant that someone was out there doing both sexes. Finally gays welcomed the bisexuals into the fold triggering the GLBT (Gay, Lesbian, bisexual, transgender) community outreach.
Funny how the early Romans never had to deal with such issues because they didn’t label people sexually. You had sex with whomever you had sex with and that was the end of it. Oh for the good old days.
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Mar 23, 2011
 
When in Rome do what the romans do, wish it were so.

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