Is a 5 inch penis small?
sharon

UK

#168 Dec 15, 2008
it don't effin matter, if a guy can use his tool properly then its good enough and the first three inchess of a vagina are most sensitive anyway, so basically a guy who has a three inch penis but can use it would be able to satisfy a woman easily,

stop all the complaining and compering and be happy with what you got
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#171 Dec 15, 2008
See the percentages below from the Psychology Today study. I was off some on the percentages in my previous post above. I've included a paragraph from the study concerning looks and size preference that I had mentioned. I've provided the link but you will need to connect the first parts to the link together. If I try linking it directly my post is auto removed. It's not porn or anything like that so I don't mind bending the rules on this. It's a reputable magazine ran by doctors. There's four pages. It's a good read.

HOW WOMEN FEEL ABOUT PENIS:

LENGTH WIDTH

Care a great deal 8% 13%

Care moderately 34% 38%

Care a little 31% 28%

Care not at all 27% 21%

"Women who rated themselves as more attractive were particularly concerned with larger size. Of women describing themselves as "much more attractive than average," 64 percent cared strongly or moderately about penis width, and 54 percent cared about penis length. Women who rated their own looks as average were about 20 percentage points lower."

http:// www. psychologytoday.com/articles/index.php...
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#172 Dec 15, 2008
I don't how but it linked anyway even though broke it up. If that post disapppears I'll repost it tomorrow when I have more time.
Nevermind, here, let me try again.

See the percentages below from the Psychology Today study. I was off some on the percentages in my previous post above. I've included a paragraph from the study concerning looks and size preference that I had mentioned. I've provided the link but you will need to connect the first parts to the link together. If I try linking it directly my post is auto removed. It's not porn or anything like that so I don't mind bending the rules on this. It's a reputable magazine ran by doctors. There's four pages. It's a good read.

HOW WOMEN FEEL ABOUT PENIS:

LENGTH WIDTH

Care a great deal 8% 13%

Care moderately 34% 38%

Care a little 31% 28%

Care not at all 27% 21%

"Women who rated themselves as more attractive were particularly concerned with larger size. Of women describing themselves as "much more attractive than average," 64 percent cared strongly or moderately about penis width, and 54 percent cared about penis length. Women who rated their own looks as average were about 20 percentage points lower."

http:// www. psychologytoday. com/ articles/index.php...
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#173 Dec 15, 2008
Many guys Ive talked too say good looking girls are more sexually concieted about things like c**k size and are overall less good in bed.

“Protestant, Gay, Libertarian”

Since: Apr 08

Long Island, NY

#174 Dec 15, 2008
Do you people here, males and females, have any preference as to whether a guy is cut or not ?

I do. I'm cut and prefer cut.

Anyone else care to share ?
Doc

Rocky River, OH

#175 Dec 15, 2008
How thick. That's what the women like. How about it girls?
penis

Las Vegas, NV

#176 Dec 15, 2008
im 15 to and im 6 3/4 how big will i get

“To push the boundaries....”

Since: Oct 07

Nazereth, Israel

#177 Dec 15, 2008
Daniel P from Long Island wrote:
Do you people here, males and females, have any preference as to whether a guy is cut or not ?
I do. I'm cut and prefer cut.
Anyone else care to share ?
I'm cut, but it doesn't matter to me if the other guy is cut or not.
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“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#178 Dec 16, 2008
FauxOlivia wrote:
<quoted text>
Aw. you're such a flatterer.
I'm pretty sure he appreciates me. hahaha. He shows it enough. ;)
I was referring to your GF in the photo as well as you ... she is hot ... from what I can see of her.

Since: Dec 08

New York

#179 Dec 16, 2008
FauxOlivia wrote:
<quoted text>
My bf has had a considerable amount of uneasiness about the "other guys." To be frank, they've all been around that size.(there's just one other person) I think in reality the majority of guys are around that size, give or take a half inch or so.
He has talked about size and not being able to "please me," but you have to understand that girls don't get "turned on" by penis size. I definately consider the size to be a big factor--as long as it's more than 3 inches (G-spot stimulation, heh?)
I think you read this, on what "turns a woman on":
http://www.smutandsteff.com/2005/10/decoding-...
It's true. Sex is emotional for girls. That means, everything behind the sex is what turns the majority (not all) of girls on--the passion, the fact that he wants you, the heady intimacy, the antcipation, the vulnerability. It's a mind game, not a physical game. You don't just "push buttons" to get us off. It's more complicated than that.
Also, anything more than 5in (for me) can get painful because it hits the cervix. Deep penetration can be painful!!! So 5in, to me, is more than enough.
Hear the overall emotional experience stuff a lot...hope its true :D

forget about the GF in the photo franko, I'm still thinking about how lucky Olivia's bf is!

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#180 Dec 16, 2008
Michael Christensen wrote:
<quoted text>
Hear the overall emotional experience stuff a lot...hope its true :D
forget about the GF in the photo franko, I'm still thinking about how lucky Olivia's bf is!
I agree wit you about the lucky guy but she responded to that alreday.

I've had quite a few convos with women over the years, and I would have to agree with Olivia .... most women would rather the guy knew how to romance her, make her feel desirable, make sure he gets her hotter than hell through forplay and oral sex before he even tries to enter her ... and most women don't need to be stretched to the limit with thickness or hit near the cervix with length ... the vaginal opening, the g-spot, and clitoral stimulation all can make her come. The minimal difference that additinal size might make is not as importnat as a man's many other quelaiteis, or by contrast, a jerk's lack of qualities.
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#181 Dec 16, 2008
Daniel P from Long Island wrote:
Do you people here, males and females, have any preference as to whether a guy is cut or not ?
I do. I'm cut and prefer cut.
Anyone else care to share ?
I just like good d**k dude. Cut or uncut. Good d**k is good d**k regardless to me.
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#184 Dec 16, 2008
franko wrote:
<quoted text>
The minimal difference that additinal size might make is not as importnat as a man's many other quelaiteis, or by contrast, a jerk's lack of qualities.
Minimal difference is true with some women, but it's not true with some other women. There are women who talk about a strong deep area sensation and some even say that their most powerful orgasms have occurred from that. I've written in detail what those areas are - the posterior fornix, and the cul de sac. It's true though that the deeper wall nerves can only add some physical sensation since the nerves aren't as numerous, but psychologically even those can still make a big difference to some women when they love a very full feeling. You continue to downplay all this. If you are aware of what some women say then surely you must know that I'm not making this up about the deep sensation and it being powerful to some women. It's true that some women don't speak of it or don't like it. On the other hand I think a few of those women never actually get to experience it, as when they do meet a guy long enough to do so he doesn't allow enough arousal time for her and then the cervix is in the way as somewhat of a barrier since it hasn't had time to tilt mostly out of the way. It can take 20 or more minutes of arousal for some women before their cervixes have tilted as much as possible. Also, a small percentage of women have cervixes that aren't set quite in the best position and are prone to being nailed even when it's completely tilted. I acknowledge the clitoris and g spot. They are important players, and sex can be good with just those alone. The deeper areas are indeed minimal to some women, plus there are some women who don't like deep area sensations (I suspect a cervix not set quite right in a few cases, or in some other cases a bad experience with a big dick in which he only wanted to immediately plunge away trying to see if he could knock her bottom out and attempt to dominate her with penis power). However there are women who love the deep area sensation, especially when it's done right, and you constantly seek to downplay those as if they don't exist. It's important to about 1 out of every 10 women and it matters moderately to about 1 out of every 3 women. So it's not minimal to just about all women like you seem to believe, or want to believe.
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#185 Dec 16, 2008
Reality wrote:
<quoted text>
Minimal difference is true with some women, but it's not true with some other women. There are women who talk about a strong deep area sensation and some even say that their most powerful orgasms have occurred from that. I've written in detail what those areas are - the posterior fornix, and the cul de sac. It's true though that the deeper wall nerves can only add some physical sensation since the nerves aren't as numerous, but psychologically even those can still make a big difference to some women when they love a very full feeling. You continue to downplay all this. If you are aware of what some women say then surely you must know that I'm not making this up about the deep sensation and it being powerful to some women. It's true that some women don't speak of it or don't like it. On the other hand I think a few of those women never actually get to experience it, as when they do meet a guy long enough to do so he doesn't allow enough arousal time for her and then the cervix is in the way as somewhat of a barrier since it hasn't had time to tilt mostly out of the way. It can take 20 or more minutes of arousal for some women before their cervixes have tilted as much as possible. Also, a small percentage of women have cervixes that aren't set quite in the best position and are prone to being nailed even when it's completely tilted. I acknowledge the clitoris and g spot. They are important players, and sex can be good with just those alone. The deeper areas are indeed minimal to some women, plus there are some women who don't like deep area sensations (I suspect a cervix not set quite right in a few cases, or in some other cases a bad experience with a big dick in which he only wanted to immediately plunge away trying to see if he could knock her bottom out and attempt to dominate her with penis power). However there are women who love the deep area sensation, especially when it's done right, and you constantly seek to downplay those as if they don't exist. It's important to about 1 out of every 10 women and it matters moderately to about 1 out of every 3 women. So it's not minimal to just about all women like you seem to believe, or want to believe.
How long did that take to write?
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#186 Dec 16, 2008
flyboy wrote:
<quoted text>
How long did that take to write?
At least it's not your usual one liner comback that size doesn't matter to chicks (with no analysis provided in your posts). If you had said that this time I was going to ask you how do you know it doesn't matter to chicks, being that you're gay.
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#187 Dec 16, 2008
I suppose that being gay provides you with an inside opportunity to speak to many chicks about this. However, chicks say something doesn't matter but then act another way, so one can hardly go by that.
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#188 Dec 16, 2008
Reality wrote:
I suppose that being gay provides you with an inside opportunity to speak to many chicks about this. However, chicks say something doesn't matter but then act another way, so one can hardly go by that.
You are right about that. Actually thinking about it, size does matter, I mean, if I saw a 5 in. guy and a 10 in. guy, I know who Id take in a heartbeat. But, the way you use your tool is more important to good sex. Ill take a good 5incher over a bad 10incher any day.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#189 Dec 16, 2008
Reality wrote:
<quoted text>
Minimal difference is true with some women, but it's not true with some other women. There are women who talk about a strong deep area sensation and some even say that their most powerful orgasms have occurred from that. I've written in detail what those areas are - the posterior fornix, and the cul de sac. It's true though that the deeper wall nerves can only add some physical sensation since the nerves aren't as numerous, but psychologically even those can still make a big difference to some women when they love a very full feeling. You continue to downplay all this. If you are aware of what some women say then surely you must know that I'm not making this up about the deep sensation and it being powerful to some women. It's true that some women don't speak of it or don't like it. On the other hand I think a few of those women never actually get to experience it, as when they do meet a guy long enough to do so he doesn't allow enough arousal time for her and then the cervix is in the way as somewhat of a barrier since it hasn't had time to tilt mostly out of the way. It can take 20 or more minutes of arousal for some women before their cervixes have tilted as much as possible. Also, a small percentage of women have cervixes that aren't set quite in the best position and are prone to being nailed even when it's completely tilted. I acknowledge the clitoris and g spot. They are important players, and sex can be good with just those alone. The deeper areas are indeed minimal to some women, plus there are some women who don't like deep area sensations (I suspect a cervix not set quite right in a few cases, or in some other cases a bad experience with a big dick in which he only wanted to immediately plunge away trying to see if he could knock her bottom out and attempt to dominate her with penis power). However there are women who love the deep area sensation, especially when it's done right, and you constantly seek to downplay those as if they don't exist. It's important to about 1 out of every 10 women and it matters moderately to about 1 out of every 3 women. So it's not minimal to just about all women like you seem to believe, or want to believe.
ultimatley there is nothing an average sized man can do about it ... so it;s better to focuss on oneself and what one can do to make themsleves better.

If the guy's wife or GF is gonna cheat or run off with some big dicked guy, even if he makes his best effort to be the complete package for her, then she was never worth having in the first place because obviously she was just a shallow biotch.

“To push the boundaries....”

Since: Oct 07

Nazereth, Israel

#192 Dec 16, 2008
flyboy wrote:
<quoted text>
You are right about that. Actually thinking about it, size does matter, I mean, if I saw a 5 in. guy and a 10 in. guy, I know who Id take in a heartbeat. But, the way you use your tool is more important to good sex. Ill take a good 5incher over a bad 10incher any day.
Some people actually prefer a smaller size to an overly huge monster... Not necesarily too small, but certainly more-or-less average.. in which category 5 inches fits quite well...

Since: Dec 08

New York

#193 Dec 16, 2008
franko wrote:
<quoted text>ultimatley there is nothing an average sized man can do about it ... so it;s better to focuss on oneself and what one can do to make themsleves better.
If the guy's wife or GF is gonna cheat or run off with some big dicked guy, even if he makes his best effort to be the complete package for her, then she was never worth having in the first place because obviously she was just a shallow biotch.
You're right, franko - guess this is the way those of us who inhabit the mortal realm should look at this issue, as opposed to those who inhabit this forum - many guys here seem to be born with basebats instead of penises!

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