Wud u let ur Girl/wife sleep with another man?

Created by Jen on Nov 18, 2008

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Jen

UK

#1 Nov 18, 2008
Im curious to see how many guys would be okay with their girlfriends or wives sleeping with another man.

I would also like to know the circumstances which would influence your decision. For example, would you be okay with it, if say the sex was going to be part of a threesome or orgy, but would refuse to let her sleep with another man alone-without you there.

Basically, it would be great to find out the reasons for your decision.

Since: Nov 08

Fort Myers, FL

#2 Nov 18, 2008
my freind just did my wife saturday,, 1st time we ever did it,, it was amazing sex
Gary

Marion, IN

#3 Nov 18, 2008
I do all the time but we are a poly couple with our best friends. It is an exclusive relationship between the four of us and different then sharing for just the experience of sharing. My wife has no desire to be with any other men and therefor it is not something that we consider like that.
Big D

Sheffield, UK

#4 Nov 18, 2008
I would love to watch her with another guy have mentioned it but she dosent seem kean any ideas on how i can sell it to her??
Gary

Marion, IN

#5 Nov 18, 2008
Big D wrote:
I would love to watch her with another guy have mentioned it but she dosent seem kean any ideas on how i can sell it to her??
If you want to "sell it to her" then your relationship could not handle it. You need to be placing her feelings above your own otherwise your marriage/relationship is not ready for sharing.

Since: Nov 08

Fort Myers, FL

#6 Nov 18, 2008
my wife and i talked about it for a long time, i started renting pornos mfm she was getting turned on by it,, do that
Jennifer Jen

UK

#7 Nov 18, 2008
Big D wrote:
I would love to watch her with another guy have mentioned it but she dosent seem kean any ideas on how i can sell it to her??
I don't think you can, its something she has to come around to wanting to do herself. Some people just aren't comfortable with it.
luvit

Roswell, GA

#8 Nov 19, 2008
Jen wrote:
Im curious to see how many guys would be okay with their girlfriends or wives sleeping with another man.
I would also like to know the circumstances which would influence your decision. For example, would you be okay with it, if say the sex was going to be part of a threesome or orgy, but would refuse to let her sleep with another man alone-without you there.
Basically, it would be great to find out the reasons for your decision.
After 4 very good years of marriage, my wife admitted to me that she sometimes missed the sexual freedoms she had enjoyed prior to our marriage. When she began to tell me details of some of her sexual experiences, rather than being shocked, I was very aroused. The thought of my very attractive wife having sex with others became more and more arousing, and we began to talk openly about her having sex with others. It is now 14 years later, and she has had sex with quite a few other guys during thos years. The only rules we have had are that she tells me in advance who/when/where; that she tell me details afterward; and that she not do someone if I ask her not to (someond I know, etc.). she is usually alone, although I have been present/participated on a few occasions. I love the aftermath: She is so excited, horny, and vibrant for several days after, as am I. And our marriage is stronger than ever.
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Duke

Tecate, Mexico

#9 Nov 19, 2008
This is really kind of ironic. I live in Mexico, am 43 years old, and from what I have been told, attractive. My wife is 25 and a really sexy woman; 5'3, 110Lbs., green eyes and sany blond hair with a nice tit job and a perfect ass. Anyway, I met another girl 25 years old who is married. She started inferring she wanted to hook up, but needed to run it "by her husband." Turns out he lets her do other men. She told him she wants to try other things; so he screens oictures so he can imagine the act, and she goes after it! This girl by the way is absolutely gorgeous. I started looking because my wife is frigid; she is 25 but immediately after we married cut back to once every ten days or so. I need once every other day or I am walking around like a 14 year old with a bonet when a breeze touches me...so I'm probably going to start hammering this girl on off days at home. By the way; my wife saw this grils picture on my IM and has since been frigging me like a race horse too!
luvit wrote:
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After 4 very good years of marriage, my wife admitted to me that she sometimes missed the sexual freedoms she had enjoyed prior to our marriage. When she began to tell me details of some of her sexual experiences, rather than being shocked, I was very aroused. The thought of my very attractive wife having sex with others became more and more arousing, and we began to talk openly about her having sex with others. It is now 14 years later, and she has had sex with quite a few other guys during thos years. The only rules we have had are that she tells me in advance who/when/where; that she tell me details afterward; and that she not do someone if I ask her not to (someond I know, etc.). she is usually alone, although I have been present/participated on a few occasions. I love the aftermath: She is so excited, horny, and vibrant for several days after, as am I. And our marriage is stronger than ever.
Jen

UK

#10 Nov 20, 2008
luvit wrote:
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After 4 very good years of marriage, my wife admitted to me that she sometimes missed the sexual freedoms she had enjoyed prior to our marriage. When she began to tell me details of some of her sexual experiences, rather than being shocked, I was very aroused. The thought of my very attractive wife having sex with others became more and more arousing, and we began to talk openly about her having sex with others. It is now 14 years later, and she has had sex with quite a few other guys during thos years. The only rules we have had are that she tells me in advance who/when/where; that she tell me details afterward; and that she not do someone if I ask her not to (someond I know, etc.). she is usually alone, although I have been present/participated on a few occasions. I love the aftermath: She is so excited, horny, and vibrant for several days after, as am I. And our marriage is stronger than ever.
Wow, its good its worked out well for you and your both loving it!do you have sex with others or is it mainly your wife does?
steve

AOL

#11 Nov 20, 2008
Jen wrote:
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Wow, its good its worked out well for you and your both loving it!do you have sex with others or is it mainly your wife does?
Do you think is okay.
Franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#12 Nov 20, 2008
Jen wrote:
Im curious to see how many guys would be okay with their girlfriends or wives sleeping with another man.
I would also like to know the circumstances which would influence your decision. For example, would you be okay with it, if say the sex was going to be part of a threesome or orgy, but would refuse to let her sleep with another man alone-without you there.
Basically, it would be great to find out the reasons for your decision.
SO, the real question is ... are you interested in doing this, and wondering how to approach yuor husband about it?
I could not imagine doing this except in very extremee circumstances.
I am divorced right now so this is all hypothetical, of course.
If I was hung like a racehorse and knew that no other guy could match me in any category sexualy I wuold feel less unsure about it, but that's not the case.
I think any time you open up the door a crack yuo risk opening it wide and that means giving permission to have sex with any other guy, any time. If my wife wanted that then it would be more a sign that she is not happy with me and that might as well mean time to get a divorce.
The circumstance as one guy listed, where the two couples trade off 4-ways, would seem to be the best solution because then everyone has the same risks. Also, then nobody is "left in the cold".
For example if I was to have MFM threesome with my wife then it woudl only be fair to have FFM threesomes too .... but what if we dont manage to fine the opprtunity for FFM? Then she has this extra guy and I don't have the extra woman ... that would feel unfair.
Franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#13 Nov 20, 2008
FRom my perspective (yes, this is selfish) It would be ideal to have a wife who is bisexual and who only wants a woman as a third ... it would be secure for her because I could never find another woman like that so I would never leave her for another woman. WHo would need to? YOU get the best of both worlds.

But I'm just dreaming ...

WOuld a woman feel the same way about a guy who was bisexual? Givign her only MMF pairings? WOuld that earn him undying loyalty as a husband?

Since: Nov 08

W Wisconsin

#14 Nov 20, 2008
Franko wrote:
FRom my perspective (yes, this is selfish) It would be ideal to have a wife who is bisexual and who only wants a woman as a third ... it would be secure for her because I could never find another woman like that so I would never leave her for another woman. WHo would need to? YOU get the best of both worlds.
But I'm just dreaming ...
WOuld a woman feel the same way about a guy who was bisexual? Givign her only MMF pairings? WOuld that earn him undying loyalty as a husband?
Here is what I have learned from being in an alternate lifestyle (swingers) for over twenty years and being on a site that strictly caters to real swingers.

1st off, while it has happened, in the majority of cases it is leave who you came with. Communication and security within your own relationship is the key to successful swinging. It doesn't matter if your partner has sex with someone that is much bigger then you and enjoys it more then your size. It is not that it is better. It is that it is different then what she normally has. Everyone is different in some whay. If everyone was the same and did the same things, what fun would that be. Swingers are in it for the sex and the friendships that are made through it.
I have seen surveys taken with replys strickly from swingers about what guys and girls like to see. Guys of course love to see two women together. It's hot. What may surprise you is that the women overwhelmingly stated that they would find two men together with her very sexy if the men were to have some physical sexual contact. Now, the majority of the men that replied to those results stated no way but the funny thing is, it happens more often then not.

Still, the main thing is security within your relationship and the best communications you can have. If it isn't something that is easy to talk about then it isn't for you.

Oh, by the way. You say you are divorced now but that is one reason many men decide to try the swingers circles as a single male. It's a tough road but many have entered it very successfully. Many couples only look for single males to join them. In other surveys the women don't really have a preference for size as long as they can feel it and you know how to use it.
luvit

Roswell, GA

#15 Nov 20, 2008
Jen wrote:
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Wow, its good its worked out well for you and your both loving it!do you have sex with others or is it mainly your wife does?
It is almost exclusively her that does it. Frankly, when she has had sex with someone else and enjoyed it, she is so sexed up and so sexual for several days afterward that I really am not that interested in having anyone else.
Jen

UK

#16 Nov 20, 2008
Franko wrote:
<quoted text>SO, the real question is ... are you interested in doing this, and wondering how to approach yuor husband about it?
I could not imagine doing this except in very extremee circumstances.
I am divorced right now so this is all hypothetical, of course.
If I was hung like a racehorse and knew that no other guy could match me in any category sexualy I wuold feel less unsure about it, but that's not the case.
I think any time you open up the door a crack yuo risk opening it wide and that means giving permission to have sex with any other guy, any time. If my wife wanted that then it would be more a sign that she is not happy with me and that might as well mean time to get a divorce.
The circumstance as one guy listed, where the two couples trade off 4-ways, would seem to be the best solution because then everyone has the same risks. Also, then nobody is "left in the cold".
For example if I was to have MFM threesome with my wife then it woudl only be fair to have FFM threesomes too .... but what if we dont manage to fine the opprtunity for FFM? Then she has this extra guy and I don't have the extra woman ... that would feel unfair.
I think your being a bit unfair, just because a woman sleeps with another man doesn't mean she thinks that he is better than you. I can understand why you might feel threatened, but this isn't always the case, she may for example want to fulfil certain fantasies that cant be fulfilled with a partner e.g if you old, a younger man fantasy and vice versa. Its not only about trying to find a larger cock, well for me personally it isn't, its more about the feeling of excitement which comes from having sex with someone new. I like to be lusted after by men, including men who aren't my partner, it gives me a feeling in control, power-its difficult to describe, I get a rush from it. It doesn't have anything to do with replacing my partner or wanting a larger cock.

I think it depends on where you are in your relationship,how much trust you have and how open you are with each other. Ultimately I know that noone else could ever replace my partner, and im not looking to replace him.
Jen

UK

#17 Nov 20, 2008
steve wrote:
<quoted text>Do you think is okay.
Yes I do.

“And tell me he's not comfy...”

Since: Feb 08

Westminster, MD

#18 Nov 21, 2008
I at first didn't want threesomes

but after my fiancee had me in a coupel of the mand one something-some with lots of girls i said if she wanted to she could do it with another guy but she said no its fine
steve

AOL

#19 Nov 21, 2008
Jen wrote:
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Yes I do.
Why do you really! Are you bored with the same old thang? Wait I can understand why you would. feel like that some times! Just thing a hot young guy with a hot body an all comming over with your hubby and strip dancing for yo, before he shows you that hot dick!
funcpl124

Dodgeville, WI

#21 Dec 9, 2008
I watched a friend take my wife to his bed and eat her till she had an orgasm then to his bed after she begged him to do her with his cock. She had many orgasm's that night as he did her two times cumming in her each time. She really got off on his cock as he was much larger than I am. For me the hottest thing is watching my wife getting pleasured from another cock.

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