Anal virgin... Need advice

[Lillie]

Hi all. My boyfriend asked me did i wanna try anal sex and i agreed. Well today we tried for the first time and it was so uncomfortable for me. We were using KY. My question to you all is how can we turn the discomfort into mind blowing sex lol. Dont get me wrong, i definately want to do it because during the split second we were engaging in the act, I knew it had the potential to be satisfying and the fact that he likes it turns me on.

[Dude Look]

Well

make sure you....uhhh how do i say this...
have no gas cause that can take away pleasure

but all i can say is for u to be clean

go slow at first and maybe try teasing

[summy]

make sure you are not tense at all..use a lot of lube then start slow and speed up...you will find being tense will not work to good.

[kixers]

i posted ur same exact question a while ago.=)

the key really is just to start slow, and you cant be tense.
it really only hurts when he first goes in but after that the pain should ease.
my guy and i have actually never used a lubricant and its not like my favorite thing but it doesnt hurt at all anymore.

be safe!*

[Voice of Reason]

Lillie wrote:

Hi all. My boyfriend asked me did i wanna try anal sex and i agreed. Well today we tried for the first time and it was so uncomfortable for me. We were using KY. My question to you all is how can we turn the discomfort into mind blowing sex lol. Dont get me wrong, i definately want to do it because during the split second we were engaging in the act, I knew it had the potential to be satisfying and the fact that he likes it turns me on.

Don't do it, It's Nasty.

[John]

Lillie wrote:

Hi all. My boyfriend asked me did i wanna try anal sex and i agreed. Well today we tried for the first time and it was so uncomfortable for me. We were using KY. My question to you all is how can we turn the discomfort into mind blowing sex lol. Dont get me wrong, i definately want to do it because during the split second we were engaging in the act, I knew it had the potential to be satisfying and the fact that he likes it turns me on.

I started slowly with my wife, started off with an oil mssage, included her butt, then slowly lubed her A$$, just lightly getting her used to the feeling of gentle pressure on her A$$ hole, until I was abl to gently slide a finger in. Do this with great oral and finger penetration of your Pu&&y and you will love it and get used to it! SLOWLY work your way up to larger objects like his Co@k.

[Sarah]

My bf asked me the same thing. It started with a finger. We've tried it with his dick several times, but unless I have clitoral stimulation, it doesn't feel good.

Unfortunately, after the finger thing, I've had difficulty having and orgasm now without the finger. Before, I had no problems coming and now can't figure out how to get back there.

Even though he had always thought himself into anal sex, after we had anal sex this last time, he told me he regretted it and that he felt like he was using me.

Personally, if you're going to do it, it takes a lot of understanding yourselves. Make sure you don't screw yourself up, either by opening up a can of worms or causing yourself emotional or physical damage.

[John]

Sarah wrote:

My bf asked me the same thing. It started with a finger. We've tried it with his dick several times, but unless I have clitoral stimulation, it doesn't feel good.
Unfortunately, after the finger thing, I've had difficulty having and orgasm now without the finger. Before, I had no problems coming and now can't figure out how to get back there.
Even though he had always thought himself into anal sex, after we had anal sex this last time, he told me he regretted it and that he felt like he was using me.
Personally, if you're going to do it, it takes a lot of understanding yourselves. Make sure you don't screw yourself up, either by opening up a can of worms or causing yourself emotional or physical damage.

Thats a shame for you guys Sarah, at least you tried it, Not suggesting for a minute anyone, or everyone should, but, it does add an extra spice to sex!

[cash money]

Lillie wrote:

Hi all. My boyfriend asked me did i wanna try anal sex and i agreed. Well today we tried for the first time and it was so uncomfortable for me. We were using KY. My question to you all is how can we turn the discomfort into mind blowing sex lol. Dont get me wrong, i definately want to do it because during the split second we were engaging in the act, I knew it had the potential to be satisfying and the fact that he likes it turns me on.

well u can't, the way it feels is the way it feels. but at least if he's banging u from the back, it'll harder than than vaginal, cuz guys could bang so hard that the girl wouldn't b able to sit for 2 days lmao!